Pa nthawi ya tchuthi monga Chaka Chatsopano ndi Khirisimasi, aliyense amakhala wosangalala kwambiri, eti? Pali nyimbo kulikonse, fungo la chakudya, kuseka... Koma pakati pa zonsezi, kodi pali nthawi zina zomwe mumamva katundu wolemera, chisoni, kapena kusungulumwa? Kodi munayamba mwadzifunsapo chifukwa chake ine ndekha ndimamva chonchi pamene wina aliyense ali wosangalala? Kunena zoona, izi sizili za inu nokha. Anthu ambiri amamva kupsinjika kotereku pa nthawi ya tchuthi.
Makamaka ngati muli munthu amene akuvutika ndi kuvutika maganizo , kapena amene anavutikapo kale, muyenera kusamala kwambiri ndi kupsinjika maganizo komwe kumachitika panthawiyi. Koma musachite mantha. Mukachita khama pang'ono, mutha kuchepetsa kupsinjika maganizo kumeneku ndikupeza chisangalalo panthawi ya chikondwerero. Tiyeni tiwone njira zosavuta zomwe zingathandize.
Kodi mumayendetsa bwanji malingaliro anu?
1. Osayembekezera zambiri.
Musaganize za nyengo ya chikondwerero ngati nthawi yomwe chilichonse chiyenera kukhala changwiro , monga khadi la moni kapena kanema. Ngati mumadzikakamiza kuganiza kuti, "Ndiyenera kungosangalala," mudzangowonjezera kupsinjika. Choncho, musayembekezere zambiri, ndipo yang'anani tsikulo pamene likubwera.
2. Yesani china chake chosiyana.
Kodi mwatopa ndi kuchita zinthu zomwezo tsiku lililonse? Ndiye pangani kusintha nthawi ino. Mwina m'malo mophika Chaka Chatsopano kunyumba, idyani ku lesitilanti yabwino. Pitani mukaonere kanema ndi banja lanu pa Tsiku la Khirisimasi. M'malo mopereka mphatso, sonkhanitsani ndalamazo ndikupereka kwa munthu wosowa, monga malo osungira ana amasiye.
3. Lumikizanani ndi 'dongosolo lanu lothandizira'
Ndi mphamvu yaikulu kukhala ndi munthu woti mulankhule naye ndikumvetsetsani mukakhala ndi chisoni. Mofananamo, ngati muli ndi anzanu apamtima kapena achibale, lankhulani nawo nthawi zonse masiku ano. Osachepera imbani foni ndikukhalabe olumikizana.
4. Musaganize kuti chilichonse chidzalakwika.
Anthu ena amadandaula ngakhale nyengo ya chikondwerero isanayambe, poganiza kuti, "O, padzakhala mavuto ambiri nthawi inonso." Kuganiza choncho kungokupangitsani kukhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri. Choncho yesetsani kukhala chete, osayembekezera zambiri, zabwino kapena zoyipa.
5. Iwalani zinthu zosafunikira
Musamadzivutitse maganizo poganiza kuti muyenera kusunga miyambo. Palibe vuto ngati simungathe kuyika magetsi m'nyumba nthawi ino. Palibe vuto ngati simungathe kupeza mphatso zapadera kwa aliyense. Dzipatseni mpumulo. Kuda nkhawa ndi zinthu zazing'ono ngati izi kungokuchotserani chimwemwe.
6. Thandizani mwaufulu
Mwina mukumva kale kuti mwatopa kwambiri. Koma yesani kupeza nthawi yoti muthandize anthu osowa kwambiri kuposa inu. Pitani ku nyumba yosungira okalamba ndi kukathandiza, kapena gulani chakudya cha banja losowa. Mudzamvanso mpumulo waukulu mukaganiza kuti , "Osachepera ndabweretsa kumwetulira pankhope pa munthu wina."
Kodi mumatani mukakumana ndi mavuto ndi achibale anu?
Ndi zachilendo kukhala ndi mikangano yaying'ono m'banja mukakhala pamodzi. Koma ngati izi zikukhudza thanzi lanu la maganizo, yesani izi.
| Malangizo | Kodi chingachitike n’chiyani? |
|---|---|
| Pewani mafunso | Ngati simukuyenera kupita ku phwando komwe kuli munthu (monga wachibale) musapite. Kapena pitani mukadikire kwakanthawi musanabwererenso. Ganizirani zinthu zomwe mungathe kuzilamulira. |
| Pemphani thandizo | Musayese kuchita chilichonse nokha. Pemphani ena kuti akuthandizeni ndi ntchito zapakhomo, kuphika, ndi kugula zinthu. Funsani momveka bwino kuti, "Kodi mungandithandize ndi izi?" |
| Siyani zomwe simungathe kuzilamulira. | Simungathe kulamulira zinthu monga ndewu pakati pa achibale. Chinthu chabwino chomwe mungachite panthawiyo ndikuchokapo kwakanthawi. M'malo moyesa kusintha, lamulirani zomwe mukuchita. |
| Yambani miyambo yatsopano. | Palibe chifukwa chokakamiza kupitiriza miyambo yakale yomwe palibe amene akusangalala nayo. Yambani chinthu chatsopano chomwe chikukuyenererani inu ndi banja lanu komanso chomwe chimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala. |
Ndi zachilendo kumva chisoni panthawi ya tchuthi mukaganizira za okondedwa anu omwe mwataya. M'malo mongolira, chitani chinthu chomwe chingakukumbutseni mwachikondi. Mwachitsanzo, phikani chakudya chomwe mumakonda kwambiri kwa munthuyo ndikugawana zomwe mwakumbukirazo.
Kodi mumatani mukamachita zinthu ndi maphwando ndi zikondwerero?
Zikondwerero ndi maphwando otanganidwa zimatha kukhala zovuta kwambiri kwa anthu ena.
- Musanene "inde" pa chilichonse:Nyengo ya tchuthi imakhala kwa milungu ingapo. Ngati mupita kumalo aliwonse omwe aliyense akukuitanani, mutha kutopa komanso kupsinjika maganizo. Sankhani malo omwe mukufunadi kupitako.
- Bwererani nthawi iliyonse mukachoka: Simuyenera kudikira mpaka phwando litatha chifukwa choti mwapita. Muli ndi ufulu wobwerera pakapita kanthawi ndikunena kuti, "Ndili ndi ntchito yambiri yoti ndichite." Ngati mukuganiza kuti, "Ndibweranso pakatha ola limodzi," musanachoke, simudzadandaula kwambiri.
- Pitani ndi mnzanu: Ngati mukuopa kupita kumalo ngati phwando la ofesi nokha, pitani ndi mnzanu, kapena mulankhule naye za kukumana. Zidzakhala bwino kwambiri kukhala ndi munthu woti mulankhule naye.
Chofunika kwambiri: Dzisamalireni (Kudzisamalira)
Mu nthawi zotanganidwa izi, n'zosavuta kuiwala za iwe mwini, koma kudzisamalira ndiye chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pa thanzi lako la maganizo.
- Kugona: Yesetsani kupewa kusokoneza chizolowezi chanu cha kugona. Kugona mochedwa kwambiri pa maphwando kapena kukulunga mphatso mpaka mbandakucha kungakulepheretseni kukhala ndi maganizo abwino.
- Kuchita Masewera Olimbitsa Thupi: Mwina mukudzifunsa kuti, "Nthawi yochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi ili kuti?" Koma kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kwatsimikiziridwa kuti kumakhudza kwambiri kupsinjika maganizo ndi kuvutika maganizo. Yendani pang'ono mukapita kusitolo. Yendani kupita ku positi ofesi m'malo moyendetsa galimoto kuti mukatenge makalata anu.
- Chakudya ndi Zakumwa: N'zovuta kulamulira kudya kwanu nthawi ya chikondwerero. Koma yesani kudya zakudya zopatsa thanzi momwe mungathere. Koma musadandaule ndi kudya keke yambiri tsiku lina. Si nkhani yaikulu, ingolamuliraninso tsiku lotsatira.
- Pewani kumwa mowa: Kumwa mowa kwambiri nthawi ya chikondwerero. Anthu ena amamwa mowa kuti athetse mantha awo ocheza ndi anthu ena. Koma kumbukirani kuti mowa umafooketsa. Ungakupangitseni kumva chisoni komanso kupsinjika maganizo kwambiri. Ngati mukumwa mankhwala ochepetsa kuvutika maganizo, kumwa mowa kungakhale koopsa. Onetsetsani kuti mwafunsa dokotala wanu za vutoli.
- Imwani mankhwala anu moyenera: Ngati mukumwa mankhwala a vuto lililonse, makamaka kuvutika maganizo, musasiye kumwa mankhwala anu masiku otanganidwa awa. Pezani atsopano asanafike nthawi yoti atha.
- Funani thandizo la akatswiri: Ngati mukuonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo kapena mlangizi, konzani nthawi yowonjezera tchuthi chisanafike. Izi zikupatsani mphamvu zambiri kuti mupirire panthawiyi.
"Iyi ndi nthawi yovuta kwa anthu ambiri. Choncho khalani okoma mtima kwa inu nokha. Dzikhululukireni nokha." Iyi ndi nthawi ya kukoma mtima ndi kukhululukira. Ikani zina mwa izo pambali.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Ndi zachilendo kumva chisoni ndi kupsinjika maganizo panthawi ya tchuthi. Musachite manyazi nazo kapena kuganiza kuti ndinu nokha.
- Musayembekezere kuti chilichonse chidzakhala changwiro. Yesetsani kukhala omasuka komanso osakhala ndi ziyembekezo zazikulu.
- Dzisamalireni. Kugona mokwanira, kudya bwino, komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi n'kofunika kwambiri panthawiyi.
- Lankhulani ndi anthu omwe angakuthandizeni ndikumvetsetsani. Musavutike nokha.
- Ngati malingaliro amenewa ndi aakulu kwambiri moti simungathe kuwaletsa, musadandaule nawo ndipo pitani kwa dokotala kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo nthawi yomweyo. Kufunafuna thandizo la akatswiri si kufooka, koma ndi mphamvu.
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