Tangoganizani muli pamsonkhano wofunika ku ofesi. Chifukwa muli aang'ono, palibe amene amaona malingaliro anu abwino kukhala ofunika. Kapena, chifukwa chakuti mwakula pang'ono, mukukankhidwira pambali, nati, "O, mwakula kwambiri kuti muchite ukadaulo watsopanowu, tiyeni tiupereke kwa wina." Mwina ngakhale kunyumba, mumaletsedwa kuchita zomwe mukufuna kuchita, nati, "O, mwakula kwambiri tsopano, simungathe kuchita zimenezo." Kusankhana uku ndi kuponderezedwa chifukwa cha msinkhu ndi zomwe timangotcha 'kukalamba.' Ichi ndi chinthu chomwe anthu ambiri m'dera lathu amachita osazindikira, koma chimapweteka kwambiri.
Njira zingapo zomwe timakumana nazo ndi 'Ageism'
Izi, monga tsankho lililonse, zimalowa m'miyoyo yathu m'malo omwe sitikuyembekezera kwenikweni. Tiyeni tiwone momwe izi zingawonekere.
1. Kudzipangira Ukalamba Wodzipangira Wekha
Izi n'zodabwitsa pang'ono. Nthawi zina kusintha kumeneku sikumayamba ndi munthu wakunja, koma ndi ife. Mwina mwamvapo anzanu ndi achibale anu akulankhula za msinkhu wawo akamakula. "O, ndakalamba tsopano, sindingathe kuchita zimenezo," "Ndidzaoneka woipa ndikadzavala diresi ili," amatero. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, amaletsa zinthu zomwe angachite komanso momwe amafunira kukhala ndi moyo chifukwa cha msinkhu wawo.
Kuti tipereke zitsanzo zina:
- Ukaiwala chinachake, umadziimba mlandu ponena kuti, "O, ndakalamba tsopano, ndi nthawi ya 'mayi wamkulu'."
- Kuganiza kuti, "Ndakalamba tsopano, kotero sindingathe kuvala zovala zolakwika, kupita kumalo olakwika, kuchita zinthu zolakwika."
- Kuganiza kuti ukalamba ndiye chifukwa cha matenda onse omwe muli nawo. Ngakhale kuti matenda ena kwenikweni amagwirizana ndi ukalamba, si zonse zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha ukalamba. Ndi bwino kulankhula ndi dokotala wanu kuti mudziwe bwino.
2. Kusakhazikika kwa Zaka Kuntchito
Izi ndi zomwe zimakhudza achinyamata ndi akuluakulu omwe. Nthawi zambiri, kuntchito, anthu amakhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana.
- Kwa okalamba: Sangathe kuchita ntchito yofulumira yomwe imagwiritsa ntchito ukadaulo, sakonda zinthu zatsopano, ndipo amaganiziridwa kuti sangathe kuchita ntchito yofunikira kugwira ntchito zolimbitsa thupi.
- Kwa achinyamata: Chifukwa chakuti ndi achichepere, alibe chidziwitso, sadziwa zambiri, ndipo amaganiza kuti sangapatsidwe maudindo akuluakulu.
Nthawi zina izi zimakhudza kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, msinkhu wa munthu ungamulepheretse kukwezedwa pantchito, ntchito yapadera, kapena ntchito.
Chofunika kwambiri n’chakuti luso la munthu siliyenera kuyesedwa ndi zaka zake, koma ndi chidziwitso, luso, ndi zomwe wakumana nazo.
3. Kusakonda Ukalamba mu Zofalitsa Nkhani
Pali zochitika zambiri pa TV, mafilimu, mabuku, komanso malo ochezera a pa Intaneti pomwe okalamba amasekedwa, kuonetsedwa ngati opanda thandizo, oiwala, komanso osatha kuchita chilichonse. Tikamaona izi, malingaliro amenewo amakhazikikanso m'maganizo mwa anthu m'gulu.
Malingaliro ena ofala a anthu okonda zaka omwe amapangidwa ndi atolankhani:
- Anthu okalamba amaiwala chilichonse.
- Nyumba zosungira okalamba ndi malo omwe anthu "osaloledwa" amakhala.
- Okalamba ali okha, alibe thandizo, ndipo amafunikira wina wowathandiza.
Kodi timachita bwanji moyenera ndi chinthu chonga ichi?
Chinthu chachikulu chokhacho ndikutha kuzindikira mtundu uwu wa tsankho. Kudziwa izi kungakuthandizeni kusintha tsankho lanu. Koma kulankhula za mtundu uwu wa khalidwe mwa munthu wina kungakhale kovuta pang'ono.
1. Lankhulani ndi munthu woyenera, m'njira yoyenera.
Ngati uyu ndi wachibale amene akulankhula za msinkhu, mwina ndi bwino kulankhula naye payekha . Koma ngati zikuchitika ku ofesi, mungafunike kulankhula ndi dipatimenti yapamwamba kapena dipatimenti yanu ya anthu (HR).
2. Khalani chete.
Tikamalankhula za chinthu chonga ichi, tikhoza kukwiya mosavuta. Munthu winayo angayese kudziteteza ponena kuti, "O, ndimangoseka chabe." Koma kumbukirani, mkwiyo suthetsa mavutowa. Ngati utero, palibe aliyense wa inu amene adzatha kuganiza bwino ndikulankhula za khalidweli. Pumirani mpweya wambiri ndikufotokozera modekha momwe zinthu zilili.
3. M'malo moimba mlandu, kambiranani.
Ngati muwadzudzula molunjika kuti, "Mukundisankha chifukwa ndine wokalamba!", munthu winayo adzakukwiyirani kapena sadzakumverani konse. Choncho, m'malo momudzudzula mwachindunji, yambani kukambirana ndi funso. Mwachitsanzo, mungafunse kuti, "Kodi mungandifotokozere zambiri za zomwe mumatanthauza ndi zimenezo?"
Kodi kwenikweni tikufuna kunena chiyani?
Chabwino, tsopano mukudziwa tanthauzo la kukalamba ndi momwe mungalankhulire. Koma kodi mawu oti munene ndi ati kwenikweni? Nazi njira zothandiza zomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito.
| Mkhalidwewo | Zimene Munganene |
|---|---|
| Munthu akamaseka za msinkhu wake. | "Mwina mwanena izi moseketsa, koma mawu ngati amenewo angapweteke mtima wa wina. Tisaseke za msinkhu wa munthu, eti?" |
| Munthu akanena kuti "ndiwe wamkulu kwambiri" kapena "wachinyamata kwambiri" kuti sungathe kugwira ntchito. | "Tiyeni tiike pambali zaka zanga kwakanthawi. Tiyeni tikambirane za luso langa ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo pantchitoyi? Ndikuganiza kuti ndingathe kuchita izi bwino." |
| Munthu akamadzilungamitsa ponena kuti, "Ndinkangoseka." | "Ndikudziwa kuti simukufuna kukhumudwitsa. Koma nkhani ngati izi zimalimbitsa malingaliro olakwika okhudza ukalamba m'gulu. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndatchula izi." |
| Pakakhala kusiyana pakati pa achinyamata ndi akatswiri mu timu. | "Chidziwitso chomwe chapezedwa kuchokera ku zomwe takumana nazo komanso malingaliro atsopano a achinyamata ndi ofunika kwambiri pa chipambano cha gulu lathu. Tiyeni timvere malingaliro a aliyense ndikugwira ntchito limodzi." |
Kumbukirani, ngati mukhala chete wina akanena maganizo ake osakhulupirira Mulungu, zingamupangitse munthuyo kuganiza kuti zomwe wanena ndi zoona. Kungokhala chete kwanu si umboni woti mukugwirizana nazo. Choncho musaope kulankhula.
Komanso, chinthu chimodzi choyenera kukumbukira nthawi zonse ndichakuti palibe lamulo lomwe limati anthu odziwa zambiri sangaganize zinthu zatsopano, kapena kuti achinyamata alibe chidziwitso. Tikamaona anthu, tonse tiyenera kuphunzira kuchotsa chizindikiro cha msinkhu wawo ndikuyang'ana luso lawo ndi maluso awo .
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Kusauka ndi tsankho lochokera ku msinkhu. Lingakhudze aliyense, wachinyamata kapena wamkulu.
- Izi zitha kuchitika osati kuntchito kokha, m'gulu la anthu, m'banja, komanso mkati mwathu popanda ife kuzindikira.
- Kuzindikira kusagwirizana ndi malamulo ndi gawo loyamba. Mu mkhalidwe wotere, musakhale chete, koma lankhulani za izo modekha komanso mwaulemu.
- Ulemu wa munthu suyenera kuyesedwa ndi zaka, koma ndi luso lake, chidziwitso chake, ndi luso lake.
- Ngati mukumva kupsinjika maganizo, chisoni, kapena nkhawa ndi zinthu ngati izi, musaope kulankhula ndi mnzanu wodalirika, wachibale wanu, kapena dokotala wanu . Thanzi lanu la maganizo ndilofunika.
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