Gusura umwana wawe w'amezi 9 ku barwayi barwaye: Reka tubimenyeshe!

None se wowe n'umwana wawe w'amezi 9 mumeze mute? Abana bakura vuba muri iki gihe, kandi biga ibintu bishya, sibyo? Rero, gusura umwana mwiza dukora ku mezi 9 ni ingenzi kugira ngo tumenye niba umwana wawe arimo gukura neza kandi afite ubuzima bwiza. Nta kintu na kimwe cyo guhangayikishwa nacyo, iki ni isuzuma risanzwe. Reka turebe uko bigenda muri iki gihe, n'icyo ukeneye kumenya.

Ni iki kibaho muri iki kizamini cy'ubuvuzi?

Iyo ugiye guterura umwana wawe, ushobora kwitega ko muganga cyangwa umuforomo azakora ibi bikurikira:

1. Pima uburemere bw'umwana, uburebure bwe, n'umuzenguruko w'umutwe we

Ikintu cya mbere ugomba gukora ni ugupima ibiro by'umwana, uburebure (uburebure), n'umuzenguruko w'umutwe we hanyuma ukabyandika ku mbonerahamwe y'imikurire . Ibi bituma muganga areba niba umwana arimo gukura neza hakurikijwe imyaka ye. Anagereranya ibipimo n'ibyo mu mezi ashize.

2. Gusuzuma iterambere ry'iterambere

Hanyuma, hazakorwa ikizamini cyihariye kugira ngo kifashe kumenya ubutinda bw'imikurire y'umwana wawe. Muri iki gihe, muganga ashobora kukubaza ibibazo no kumureba. Ntugahangayike, ibi bikorwa kugira ngo niba hari ikibazo, kibashe kumenyekana no gufashwa vuba.

3. Kubaza ibibazo, kuganira ku bibazo byawe, no gutanga inama

Muganga azakubwira ibyerekeye umwana wawe mu buryo burambuye. Iki ni igihe cyiza cyo kubaza ikibazo icyo ari cyo cyose ufite cyangwa ikindi kintu cyose kiri mu mutwe wawe. Muganga azabaza uko umwana wawe ameze muri iyi minsi, cyane cyane kuri ibi bintu:

Kurya

Kugeza ubu, umwana wawe yatangiye kurya ubwoko butandukanye bw'ibiryo by'abana , hamwe n'amata y'ibere cyangwa amata y'ifu . Ashobora kuba agerageza kunywa amazi make mu gikombe no gufata uduce duto tw'ibiryo n'amaboko ye. Muganga azamubaza ibi. Azanavuga ku biribwa bishya byo kumuha n'uko yabimuha.

Kunyara no gusohora imyenge

Iyo ugejeje ku mwana wawe ibiryo bishya, ushobora kubona ko ibara, imiterere, n'inshuro amase y'umwana wawe ahinduka ku munsi . Ibi ni ibisanzwe. Ariko, niba umwana wawe afite impiswi, cyangwa amase ye akomeye cyane, yumye, cyangwa agoranye kuyata, ugomba kubimenyesha muganga wawe.

Gusinzira

Ugereranyije, umwana uri muri iki kigero aryama amasaha agera kuri 12-16 ku munsi. Ashobora gusinzira rimwe mu gitondo, undi nyuma ya saa sita, cyangwa kabiri ku munsi. Ariko, si abana bose bameze kimwe. Ni ibisanzwe kandi ko hari abana bamwe babyuka nijoro muri iki kigero.

Iterambere - Intambwe z'ingenzi

Iki ni igice cy'ingenzi cyane. Ku mezi 9, abana benshi bazaba bakora ibi bikurikira:

• Akora amajwi atandukanye nka "ma-ma-ma", "ba-ba-ba".
• Bahindukiza imitwe iyo bahamagawe.
• Nk'ibyishimo, agahinda, umujinya, gutungurwaIsura igaragaza amarangamutima atandukanye.
• Iyo ubonye abantu utazi , wumva ufite isoni, isoni cyangwa ubwoba .
• Araseka mu gihe akina "peek-a-boo".
• Bakurura ibintu nk'ibiryo babireba bakoresheje intoki zabo .
• Ibintu byimurwa biva mu kuboko kumwe bijya mu kundi .
• Iyo ikintu kimeze nk'igikinisho kiguye mu kuboko kwawe, ugishakisha hasi .
• Ashobora kwicara wenyine (urugero, kwicara wenyine yicaye ku ntebe ye).
• Kwicara wenyine nta gishyigikiro .

Tekereza, umukobwa wawe muto cyangwa umuhungu wawe arimo gukinira mu cyumba cyo kubamo. Iyo uhamagaye uri mu gikoni uti "Umwana muto ," areba mu cyerekezo cy'ijwi. Iryo naryo ni iterambere rikwiriye iki gihe.

Niba umwana wawe adakora kimwe cyangwa byinshi muri ibi, cyangwa niba wumva ko adakora ikintu nk'uko yabikoraga mbere , menya neza ko uganira na muganga wawe kuri ibyo. Ntugahangayike, si abana bose bakura ku rugero rumwe. Ariko iyo ubibwiye muganga wawe, ashobora kubisuzuma.

4. Gusuzuma umwana burundu

Imbere yawe, umuganga azakuramo imyenda yose y'umwana wawe maze amusuzume neza. Ibi bizaba birimo gupimwa amaso , kumva umutima w'umwana wawe, kugenzura uko umutima we uhagaze, no kugenzura amagufwa ye yo mu kibuno . Umuganga azita kandi ku ngendo z'umwana wawe .

5. Amakuru agezweho ku nkingo

Inkingo ni ingenzi cyane mu kurinda umwana wawe indwara zikomeye. Rero, ni ngombwa ko umwana wawe ahabwa inkingo ku gihe. Gahunda yo gukingira ishobora gutandukana gato bitewe na muganga. Bityo rero vugana na muganga wawe kugira ngo umenye icyo ategereje.

6. Gutegeka ko umuntu apimwa amaraso

Iyo bibaye ngombwa, muganga ashobora gufata amaraso y'umwana akayapima kugira ngo arebe niba afite icyuma cy'ubutare cyangwa niba afite amaraso make ( kubura amaraso ).

Ibintu ugomba kwibuka kugeza igihe uzasuzumisha amezi 12 ataha

Noneho reka turebe icyo ugomba kuzirikana by’umwihariko kugeza igihe umwana wawe azasuzumirwa ku mezi 12.

Ku bijyanye n'ibiribwa n'ibinyobwa

• Niba wonsa , komeza konsa kugeza ku mezi 12, cyangwa mu gihe cyose wowe n'umwana wawe mubikeneye. Niba uhagaritse konsa mbere y'amezi 12, ugomba guha umwana wawe ubwoko bwihariye bw'ifu y'amata irimo icyuma (formula ikungahaye ku butare) .
• Niba ugiye guha umwana wawe amata y'ifu, tegereza kugeza agize amezi 12 mbere yo guhindura amata y'inka .
• Kugeza ku mezi 12Ntugatange umutobe w'imbuto . Ibinyobwa birimo isukari na soda ntabwo ari byiza na gato.
• Komeza umenyeshe umwana wawe ibiryo bishya . Umwana wawe ashobora kutakira ibiryo ako kanya. Bishobora gufata igeragezwa rigera ku icumi. Ihangane.
• Witondere cyane ibimenyetso by'uko umwana wawe ashonje kandi arya ibiryo bihagije . Ntukamuhe umugati.
• Mu gihe ugaburira umwana , shyira intebe ye y'umwana hafi y'ameza yo kuriramo . Ibi bizamufasha gushishikazwa n'ibiryo byo ku meza.
• Ha umwana wawe ibiryo bifite uburyohe n'imiterere bitandukanye . Muhe ibiryo bisukuye neza, byaseye, kandi bifite uduce tworoshye.
• Ha umwana wawe ibiryo byoroshye byo mu ntoki ashobora kurya n'amaboko ye.
• Irinde gutanga ibiryo bishobora kurohama . Urugero: imizabibu yose, imizabibu y'inzabibu, popcorn, pretzels, imbuto nk'amakashe, hot dog, sosiso , ibice binini by'inyama, foromaje ikomeye, imboga mbisi, imbuto zikomeye. Nubitanga, bikate mo uduce duto cyane, uteke neza, hanyuma ubitange mu buryo butazimira.

Ubuvuzi rusange n'umutekano

Muri iki gihe abana bato baba bakora cyane kandi bakunda kuvumbura ibintu bishya. Bityo rero tugomba kwitondera umutekano wabo.

• Niba umwana wawe abyutse nijoro , gerageza kumureka asubire gusinzira iminota mike aho kumuterura ako kanya. Niba akomeje kurira, mumenyeshe ko uriho. Ariko ntukamuterure, ntukamukine cyangwa ngo umuhe ifunguro.
• Guhangayika mu gihe cyo gutandukana bishobora gutangira mu mezi icyenda. Ibi bivuze ko umwana wawe azarira igihe umusize. Nugenda, musezere mu rukundo, ariko ubyihutire. Azatuza nyuma yo kugenda.
• Mu gihe ugenda n'umwana wawe mu modoka, komeza intebe y'imodoka yereke inyuma kugeza igihe igeze ku buremere ntarengwa cyangwa uburebure bwagenwe n'uruganda rukora intebe y'imodoka.
• Rinda umwana wawe ku zuba uko bishoboka kose. Mupfuke imyenda kandi umugumize mu gicucu. Niba igicucu n'imyenda bidahagije, ushobora gukoresha amavuta akingira izuba (SPF 30) .
• Koza amenyo y'umwana wawe kabiri ku munsi ukoresheje uburoso bworoshye n'umuti wo koza amenyo muto cyane (ungana n'agace gato k'umuceri). Fata gahunda yo kubonana na muganga w'amenyo nyuma y'uko iryinyo rya mbere rivutse cyangwa hafi y'umwaka umwe . Kugira ngo wirinde kwangirika kw'amenyo, muganga wawe cyangwa muganga w'amenyo ashobora gushyira vernis ifite fluoride ku menyo y'umwana wawe inshuro ebyiri cyangwa enye mu mwaka.
• Buri gihe zirikana kurinda abana mu rugo rwawe :
• Shyiramo amarembo y'umutekano . Fata ibintu nk'amadirishya, amashuka n'imigozi kandi ubishyire kure y'umwana wawe.
• Ibi bintu bigomba guhora bifunze kandi bikabikwa ahantu umwana atagera : ibintu bito bishobora kurohama; imiti; ibintu by'uburozi; ibintu bishyushye, bityaye, cyangwa bishobora kuvunika.
• Shyira inomero zihutirwa hafi. Andika kandi inomero yo kugenzura uburozi (urugero: 1-800-222-1222, Ikigo cy'Igihugu gishinzwe Amakuru ku Burozi 0112686143 muri Sri Lanka) .
• Irinde impanuka ziterwa n'amazi : Ugomba gufunga umuryango w'ubwiherero, gufunga umupfundikizo w'intebe y'ubwiherero, kandi ntugasige umwana wawe wenyine hafi y'amazi (ndetse no mu gihe woga), kandi umukurikirane witonze.
• Muririmbire indirimbo, muganire, mukine, musome ibitabo hamwe n'umwana wanyu. Uku ni ko abana biga neza.
• Kureba televiziyo (cyangwa kureba ecran nka terefone na mudasobwa - igihe cyo kureba ecran) ntibikwiye ku bana b'iki gihe. Ariko, nta kibazo kuvugana n'umuntu uri kure ukoresheje videwo.
• Rinda umwana wawe itabi ry'umwotsi ritamwa n'abandi . Byongera ibyago byo kurwara indwara z'umutima n'iz'ibihaha. Umwotsi uva mu itabi ry'ikoranabuhanga nawo ni mubi.
• Ntukagire imbunda mu rugo . Niba ubikoze, zibike ubusa, zifunze, kandi kure y'umwana wawe. Ugomba gufungirana amasasu ukwayo. Ntukareke umwana wawe afata imfunguzo.
• Niba ufite ibibazo bijyanye n'imibereho yawe, vugana na muganga wawe. Ese ufite ibyo ukeneye kugira ngo wite ku mwana wawe? Ese ufite ibiryo bihagije, ahantu heza ho kuba, n'ubwishingizi bw'ubuzima? Muganga wawe ashobora kukubwira ibijyanye n'umutungo rusange cyangwa akakohereza ku mukozi ushinzwe imibereho myiza y'abaturage .

Wibuke ko utari wenyine. Ntutinye gusaba ubufasha. Muganga arahari kugira ngo agufashe wowe n'umwana wawe.

Amaherezo, ibuka ibi (Ubutumwa bwo kujyana mu rugo)

Rero, iki gikorwa cyo gusuzumwa kwa muganga cy'amezi 9 ni umwanya mwiza wo kwemeza ubuzima bw'umwana n'iterambere rye, gukemura ibibazo byose ushobora kuba ufite, no kubona inama z'uburyo wakwita ku mwana mu gihe kiri imbere.

Igikuru ni uko, niba ufite gushidikanya cyangwa ikibazo, vugana na muganga wawe. Bishobora kuba ibijyanye n'imikurire y'umwana wawe, imyitwarire ye, ibyo arya, ibyo aryamaho, cyangwa ikindi kintu icyo ari cyo cyose. Ntutinye kubaza. Buri mwana aratandukanye, bityo ntukigereranye n'abandi bana ngo ugire impungenge. Muganga wawe ni we muntu mwiza wo kukugira inama.

Ndifuriza umwana wawe ejo hazaza hazima kandi hashimishije!

Umwana w'amezi 9 , Isuzuma ry'ubuzima bw'umwana, Gusura umwana neza, Imikurire y'umwana, Intambwe z'iterambere mu mikurire ye, Ibiryo by'umwana, Umutekano w'umwana