Reka duteke mu gikoni hamwe n'umwana wawe muto? (Guteka n'abana bato) – Uzatungurwa no kumenya inyungu ibi bizana ku mwana wawe!

Iyo utekereje gukora uturimo duto mu gikoni hamwe n'umwana wawe muto, ushobora gutekereza uti: "Oh, igikoni kizaba ari akajagari, akazi kazaba kenshi, kandi kazaba ingorabahizi." Ni ukuri, ugomba kwihangana gato mu gihe ukorana n'abana bato. Ariko, wanyemera nkakubwira ko inyungu z'uyu murimo ku mwana wawe ziruta ingorane nto? Yego, ni ukuri. Iki ni ikintu kirenze guteka gusa. Reka turebe ibi mu buryo burambuye, nko kuvugana n'inshuti.

Ni izihe nyungu nyazo zo guteka hamwe n'abana?

Igikoni ni ahantu hadasanzwe ku bana bato. Buri bara, impumuro yose, ijwi ryose ... ibi byose ni ibintu bishya kuri bo. Rero, kubajyana mu gikoni no kubashyira mu mirimo mito yo guteka bishobora kubagirira akamaro mu buryo bwinshi. Reka turebe uburyo, kimwe kimwe.

Imyitozo ngororamubiri ku bwonko, uburyo bwo guteza imbere ubumenyi bw'ibanze

Tekereza, iyo urimo kumena amagi kugira ngo ukore umugati, ubwira umwana wawe uti: "Mwana wanjye/umukobwa, barura aya magi." Iyo asomye rimwe, abiri, atatu, bimufasha guteza imbere ubumenyi bwe bw'ibanze mu mibare . Iyo akoze ikintu gifatika nk'iki, bimushyira mu mutwe kurusha kwiga imibare gusa. Ushobora kandi kuvuga ibintu nka "Iki ni kimwe cya kabiri" na "Iki ni kimwe cya kabiri" iyo ushyize amazi mu gikombe.

Ikindi kintu ni uko iyo dusoma resept hamwe. Iyo tuvuga ibintu nka "Dushyire ifu imbere", "Hanyuma isukari", amagambo menshi mashya yongerwa mu mvugo y'umwana. Binafasha kongera ubumenyi bwe mu rurimi no gukunda gusoma . Iyo akurikije intambwe z'iyi resept uko zikurikirana, yiga "gutega amatwi witonze ibyo mama/papa avuga". Ibyo bivuze ko anamenyera ubushobozi bwo gutega amatwi witonze (Ubumenyi bwo gutega amatwi) .

Sezerera ku byifuzo by'ibiryo kandi wibande ku buryohe bushya.

Abana benshi bo mu mashuri y'incuke batinya kurya, si byo se? Hari igihe bareba kure imboga n'imbuto zimwe na zimwe. Indirimbo yabo ni "Sinshobora kurya ibi, sinshobora kurya ibi." Ariko, igitangaje ni uko iyo ubajyanye mu gikoni ukabafasha gukora ikintu n'amaboko yabo, bishimira cyane gusogongera kuri ibyo biryo.

Tekereza umwana wawe w'imyaka itatu yifatanyije nawe mu gushwanyaguza amababi ya salade no kongeramo uduce twa karoti kugira ngo ukore salade. Umwana, uvuga ko adashobora kurya salade ukundi, ayirya yishimye cyane, agira ati: "Iyi ni salade nakoze." Kuko, yagize uruhare muri byo. Rero, uyu ni umwanya mwiza wo gushishikariza umwana wawe kugerageza ibintu bishya. Muganire ku bintu nka, "Reba ibara ryiza ry'iyi karoti," "Ese iyi concombre ntabwo ihumura neza?" hanyuma utume bashishikazwa no kumenya. Sobanura mu magambo make uburyo ibi biribwa ari byiza ku mubiri n'uburyo bifasha umubiri gukura.

Ahantu heza ho gutemberera isi ukoresheje ibyumviro bitanu byose.

Abana bato bameze nk'abashakashatsi bato. Biga iby'isi binyuze mu bumenyi bwabo butanu.– Ibyo bivuze gukoresha ibyumviro byawe byose – kureba, kumva, guhumurirwa, uburyohe, gukoraho. Igikoni ni ahantu heza ho gushyira mu bikorwa ibyo byumviro byose.

• Kumva: Urusaku rw'imvange izunguruka, urusaku rw'ikintu gikaranga mu isafuriya irimo amavuta ...
• Gukoraho: Uburyohe bw'ifu y'umugati iyo uyikozeho, cyangwa ubukonje bw'amazi iyo woza imboga ...
• Iyerekwa: Imboga zifite amabara menshi, imbuto, imiterere y'umugati ...
• Impumuro: Impumuro y'umugati utetse mu ziko, impumuro y'ibirungo...
• Uburyohe: Amaherezo, uburyohe bwiza, busharira, kandi bw'umunyu ubona iyo uryohewe n'ibyo wakoze...

Ibi byose ni ibintu bishya ku mwana. Niba ibiryo bihumura neza, bisa neza kandi byoroshye kurya , nta kabuza azabigerageza!

"Nanjye ndabishobora!" – Kwigirira icyizere (`(Kwigirira icyizere)`) hejuru

Abana b'incuke bakunda kwereka abandi icyo bashobora gukora, bakibwira bati "Ndi umwana munini." Gukora mu gikoni bibaha kumva ko hari icyo bamaze kugeraho , ni uburyo bwiza bwo kwiyubakamo icyizere.

Tekereza ko bagufashije guteka pizza (`(Pizza)`). Hanyuma, ubabwire uti: "Mwana wanjye, iyi pizza yahindutse iryoshye cyane kandi nziza kubera ubufasha bwawe." Bahe kumva ko ubufasha bwabo bwari ingenzi. Ushobora gushyira izina ry'umwana wabo ku biryo batetse. Vuga ikintu nk'iki: "Uyu munsi turi kurya noodles zidasanzwe za Chamodi" cyangwa "pancakes nziza za Kavindu." Noneho urebe ukuntu bishimye! Nubwo ibiryo bitagenze uko wabyiteze, icy'ingenzi ni imbaraga zabo. Menya neza ko ubishimira.

Vuga ibintu nk'ibi ngo "Mwana wanjye, wakoranye umwete cyane. Nta kibazo cyo kuruhuka gato. Reka turusheho gukora neza ubutaha, sibyo?" Ibyo bizabatera inkunga kurushaho.

Ni akazi akahe gashobora guhabwa abana bato mu gikoni? Mu gihe bakibicunga neza?

Hari imirimo myinshi abana bato bari hagati y'imyaka 3 na 5 bashobora gukora mu gikoni, kandi irabakwiriye. Ikintu cy'ingenzi hano ni ukubaha "akazi" gakwiranye n'imyaka yabo, ubushobozi bwabo, n'ibyo bakunda gukora. Nanone, ugomba gutekereza ku mutekano uko bishoboka kose. Ugomba kubarinda ibintu bityaye, umuriro n'amazi ashyushye.

Dore ibintu byoroshye bishobora gufasha abana bato:

• Gukangura: Kangura ifu ya pancake ukoresheje ikiyiko cy'igiti. (Izagenda ihindagurika gato, ariko ibyo ni ibisanzwe!)
• Gushwanyaguza/gucagagura: Reka bashwanyaguze ibintu nk'amababi ya salade n'intoki kugira ngo bakore salade. Reka bashwanyaguze ibice by'umugati.
• Kongeraho: Bafashe gupima ibintu nk'ifu n'isukari mu gikombe. Reka bongere imboga na foromaje muri pizza.
• Gusya: Reka basya ibintu nk'ibirayi byatetse n'imineke bakoresheje ikiyiko.
• Gutera imiti:Suka isukari y'ibara ry'umukara hejuru y'umugati, cyangwa ongeramo amababi ya curry mu ifu kugira ngo bigufashe.
• Guhindura amapaji: Iyo urimo kureba igitabo cy'amafunguro, bafashe "gusoma" uhindura amapaji. (Ibi kandi byongera ubushake mu bitabo.)
• Gukaraba: Oza imboga n'imbuto zitazacika. (Biroroshye cyane iyo unyoye amazi!)

Ni gute neza neza watangira aka kazi? Inama nke

Kuva ku igare rinini kugeza ku kwambara inkweto zabo bwite, abana b'incuke barimo kwiga ibyo bashobora gukora bonyine. Uku kumva "ndabishoboye" ni ingenzi mu iterambere ryabo.

Rero, zirikana ibi bintu mugihe utangiye guteka:

• Tangira byoroshye: Ntugerageze guteka ibiryo binini kandi bigoye icyarimwe. Tangira ari bito, nko gusiga jam ku biscuit cyangwa kongeramo uduce duke tw'imbuto muri yawurute.
• Tekereza ku gihe: Abana bato ntibashobora kwita ku bintu igihe kinini. Ndetse n'iminota 5 cyangwa 10 ishobora kuba ihagije kuri bo. Ntubahatire gukomeza kugeza igihe barambiwe.
• Kwishimisha mbere na mbere: Ibi bigomba kuba bishimishije ku mwana. Bigire nk'umukino. Ni bwo bazafatanya na we bashishikaye.
• Tegura ahantu hatekanye: Tegura ahantu umwana ashobora gukorera, ku burebure bukwiye, kandi nta kunyerera. Nubwo intebe yakoreshwa, igomba kuba ikomeye kandi idahinduka.
• Wihangane: Mu gihe ukora akazi n'abana, ibintu byose ntibiba neza cyangwa vuba. Hari ifu igwa hasi, hari n'amazi asuka. Ntukarakare. Ni kimwe mu bigize gahunda.

Uko abana bakura, ubushobozi bwabo, uburyo bwo kwita ku bandi, n'ibyo bakunda kwiyongera. Hanyuma bashobora gukora imirimo igoye cyane, nko gukamura umutobe w'indimu, gupima ibintu bakoresheje ibikombe n'ibiyiko, gukubita amagi no gusya ibirayi.

Icy'ingenzi kurushaho, ugomba guhora uri kumwe na bo mu gikoni, ugenzura kandi ugenzura ibyo bakora. Kuko umutekano ari wo uza mbere.

Mu gihe mumaranye abana banyu mu gikoni muri ubu buryo, mushobora kubashishikariza gukunda ibiryo no guteka no kugira ingeso nziza mu buzima bwabo bwose!

Hanyuma, hari ibintu by'ingenzi ugomba kwibuka

Noneho rero, ubu usobanukiwe akamaro ko gukorana n'abana mu gikoni n'uburyo bashobora kubigiraho byinshi. Ibi ni byinshi kuruta guteka gusa!

• Ubu ni uburyo bwiza bwo guteza imbere ubwonko bw'umwana, imibare, n'ubumenyi bw'indimi. Ibintu bikorwa mu buryo bufatika biba byiza mu bwenge bwe kuruta ibyo yigishijwe mu bitabo.
• Ni amahirwe meza ku bantu bahitamo kurya ibiryo bishya. Batewe ishema n'"ibiryo nakoze," bazararikirwa kurya ibiryo badasanzwe barya.
• Igikoni ni nk'aho ukoresha ibyumviro byawe kugira ngo wige kandi ugerageze ibintu bishya.
• Kwigirira icyizere kivuga ngo "Nanjye ndabishobora!" biba mu mwana. Iki ni ikintu cy'agaciro mu buzima bwe bwose. Menya neza ko ushimira imbaraga ze, nubwo zaba ari nto.
• Tangira n'imirimo yoroshye ikwiriye umwana. Ntukamuhatire gukora ibintu kugeza igihe azaba arambiwe. Reka abikora mu buryo bushimishije kandi bw'imikino.
• Umutekano ni wo uza mbere na mbere! Ba hafi y'umwana wawe igihe cyose, umurinde. Umurinde rwose ibintu bityaye, inkongi y'umuriro n'ibintu bishyushye.
• Ha agaciro imbaraga n'igihe kimaranye kuruta umusaruro. Ntabwo byose bigomba gusohoka neza nk'aho biri mu iduka. Icy'ingenzi ni uko mubikora hamwe, uburambe n'ibyishimo umwana wawe azagira.

Gukorera mu gikoni n'abana bawe muri ubu buryo bizashimangira umubano hagati yanyu. Nanone, ushobora kongeramo ibintu byiza bizahoraho mu buzima bwawe bwose kuri alubumu y'umuryango wawe. Rero, ejo, jyana umwana wawe mu gikoni ugerageze guteka ibisuguti cyangwa salade y'imbuto! Bizaba ari uburambe butazibagirana kuri wowe no ku mwana wawe!

Guteka hamwe n'abana , abana b'incuke, akazi ko mu gikoni, iterambere ry'umwana, indyo yuzuye, kwigirira icyizere, ubumenyi bw'ibanze