Si ibyo wari ugiye kuvuga? Reka tuvuge kuri iyi 'Freudian Slip'!

Twese twahuye n'ibyatubayeho, iyo tuvuga ikintu kimwe hanyuma tukumva ikindi. Tekereza ko warimo uganira n'inshuti yawe, aho kuvuga izina ryayo, wumva izina ry'inshuti yawe ya kera. Cyangwa, ubwo warimo uganira n'umwarimu wawe ku ishuri, wumva izina "Mama." Ushobora kuba warasetse gato, ariko nanone wibajije uti "Kuki ibi byambayeho?" Ibi ni ibisanzwe cyane. Uyu munsi tugiye kuvuga kuri ibi bintu bidasanzwe, ariko bikunze kubaho.

Gusimbuka mu buryo bwa Freudian ni iki?

Mu magambo make, gucika intege kw'aba Freudian ni igihe tuvuga ikintu tutagambiriye, haba iyo tuvuga cyangwa twandika. Ibi ni byo dukunze kwita "gucika intege k'ururimi ." Ni ibintu bisanzwe cyane bishobora kuba kuri buri wese, hatitawe ku rurimi rwe.

Ijambo ry'ubuvuzi kuri ibi ni parapraxis . Ishyirahamwe ry'Abanyamerika ryita ku mitekerereze y'abantu ribisobanura nk'ibi: "Ishusho idasobanutse y'ibyifuzo cyangwa amarangamutima akandamizwa, anyura mu birindiro by'ubwenge bw'umuntu kandi akagaragara mu buryo butaziguye binyuze mu magambo, ibikorwa, cyangwa inyandiko." Bisa nkaho bigoye gato? Reka tubicemo gato.

Ibi byaje kwitwa bite? Uyu Freud ni nde?

Yitiriwe Sigmund Freud , umuganga w’icyamamare ku isi wo muri Otirishiya ufatwa nk’umubyeyi w’isesengura ry’imitekerereze y’abantu . Freud yizeraga ko ubwo bwoko bw’amakosa ari uburyo bwo kugaragaza ibitekerezo n’amarangamutima twagiye duhisha kandi tugapfukirana mu bwenge bwacu butazi.

Freud yabanje kwiga ibi n'umusore umwe. Iyo umusore yavugaga umurongo w'ubusizi bw'Ikilatini, yahoraga asimbuka amagambo amwe n'amwe. Akoresheje isesengura ry'imitekerereze, Freud yavumbuye ko uwo musore yagize ikibazo gikomeye mu maraso. Freud yamenye ko iyo yasomaga umurongo w'ubusizi, yibutswaga uwo mutwe utari mwiza, kandi yari arimo gusimbuka ayo magambo.

Nyuma, yabiganiriyeho birambuye mu gitabo cye "The Psychopathology of Everyday Life." Kuva icyo gihe, iki kintu cyamenyekanye nka "Freudian Slip."

Ibi bishobora kuba bisa bite? Reka turebe ingero zimwe na zimwe.

Aya makosa aratandukanye.Hashobora kuba hari impamvu nyinshi . Zimwe mu moko y'ingenzi n'ingero ziragaragara mu mbonerahamwe iri hepfo.

Kuki ibi bitubaho? Ni iki kijyanye n'imitekerereze?

Hari inyigisho nyinshi ku mpamvu zitera gucika intege kw'imitsi ya Freudian.

Igitekerezo cya mbere kandi gikunzwe cyane ni uko ibitekerezo bifunze bisohoka . Tekereza ko igice kimwe cy'ubwonko bwawe kigerageza guhisha cyangwa kwirinda igitekerezo. Muri icyo gihe, ikindi gice cy'ubwonko bwawe kigiye gusuzuma kiti "Ese nagihishe neza?" Hanyuma ikibaho ni uko igitekerezo cyageragezaga guhisha cyongera gukoreshwa. Rero, uko tugerageza kudatekereza ku kintu runaka, ni ko bishoboka ko kiva mu kanwa kacu.

Igitekerezo cya kabiri ni uko uburyo ubwonko bwacu butunganya ururimiHari ikintu gifitanye isano. Mbere yo gushyira ibitekerezo byacu mu magambo no kuvuga, ubwonko bwacu bukora "kwihindura" gato kugira ngo burebe niba hari amakosa ari muri ibyo bitekerezo kandi niba bikwiye kuvugwa. Ariko nubwo bimeze bityo, muri rusange, umuntu akora ikosa rimwe cyangwa abiri kuri buri jambo 1.000 avuga. Ibyo bivuze ko niba uvuga amagambo 150 ku munota, ushobora gukora amakosa ari hagati ya 7 na 22 ku munsi. Rero, amakosa nk'aya ni igice cy'itumanaho ry'abantu.

Byongeye kandi, ibintu nko kurangara, kubura ibitotsi, umunaniro ukabije, n'imihangayiko nabyo bishobora gutera ayo makosa.

None se, izi slips za Freudian ni ukuri? Yego, ni ukuri. Ariko si ko buri slips y'ururimi igomba kugira ibisobanuro byimbitse kandi byihishe. Bishobora kuba ari ikosa rito gusa.

Ni iki twakora kugira ngo tugabanye ubwoko bw'amakosa nk'aya?

Niba uhora uhangayikishijwe no gukora amakosa nk'aya, dore uburyo bworoshye abahanga mu by'imitekerereze y'abantu bakugira inama yo gukomeza gutekereza neza no kuyagabanya.

1. Irinde gukora ibintu byinshi icyarimwe.

Iyo ubwonko bwacu bwuzuyemo imirimo myinshi icyarimwe, ubwenge bwacu buratatana. Hanyuma, amakosa nk'aya ashobora kubaho cyane. Kubwibyo, ibande ku gikorwa kimwe kimwe. Ha ubwonko bwawe ikiruhuko gito hagati aho.

2. Gahoro gahoro uhangane n'ibintu wirinda (Guhura buhoro buhoro)

Ese ufite ibitekerezo bikubangamira kandi ugerageza kwirinda? Kugerageza kubyirinda bituma birushaho kugorana. Ahubwo, gerageza kwemera ibyo bitekerezo. Bishobora kugorana mu ntangiriro. Ariko uko ubyifatamo neza, buhoro buhoro, ingaruka zabyo zizagabanuka kandi ubwenge bwawe buzarushaho kwisanzura. Niba ukeneye ubufasha kuri ibi, ni ngombwa cyane kuvugana na muganga wawe wizeye .

3. Shaka ikintu kikubangamira

Niba utari witeguye guhangana n'ikintu kikubangamiye, gerageza gukora igikorwa gishobora kugutwara ibitekerezo byawe byose. Ushobora gusoma igitabo, kureba filime, cyangwa gukora imyitozo ngororamubiri. Ibi bishobora kugufasha kugabanya stress by'igihe gito.

4. Subiza igitekerezo

Niba udashobora gukuramo igitekerezo mu mutwe wawe, fata umwanya muto buri munsi wo kugitekerezaho. Urugero, ibwire uti: "Nzatekereza kuri iki kibazo kuva saa kumi n'ebyiri kugeza saa kumi n'ebyiri n'iminota cumi n'itanu uyu mugoroba, hanyuma sinzitekerezaho nyuma yaho." Ibi bishobora kugufasha guhagarika kugitekerezaho umunsi wose.

5. Kwitonda no gutekereza cyane

Shyira mu bikorwa byawe bya buri munsi ibikorwa byo gutekereza no kwitonda. Ibi bizatuza ubwenge bwawe, binoze imitekerereze yawe, kandi bigufashe kwibanda ku kubaho muri iki gihe. Ibi bizagabanya ibintu bikurangaza biterwa n'ibitekerezo bitari ngombwa .