Kunzima ukuchaza intlungu ozivayo xa ubona umama wakho, utata wakho, okanye umntu omthandayo elibale yonke into kancinci kancinci. Mhlawumbi abakukhumbuli nokukukhumbula. Ngexesha elinje, usenokuzibuza ukuba ungaphinda njani uqhagamshelane nabo kwaye ubanike uvuyo. Lo ngumceli mngeni wokwenene. Kodwa, nokuba inkumbulo ayisekho, uthando novuyo olukuloo ntliziyo aluyi kunyamalala. Namhlanje sithetha ngeendlela ezintle nezinobuchule zokuphinda uqhagamshelane nomntu omthandayo ophila ne-dementia.
Masivuse ingqondo, hayi inkumbulo: Masiluke ibali
Xa benesifo sengqondo esifana nesifo sika-Alzheimer, ukukhumbula izinto ezindala ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba nzima kubo. Basenokungakhululeki xa bebuzwa imibuzo efana nokuthi, "Uyakhumbula loo nto?" okanye "Ngubani lo?" Endaweni yoko, kuthekani ukuba sisebenzise ingcinga yabo, okanye ingcinga yabo, ukwenza into entsha?
Oku kubizwa ngokuba yinkqubo esekelwe kubugcisa efana ne-"TimeSlips." Kulula kakhulu.
1. Khetha umfanekiso omhle: Kubantwana abancinci, kungcono ukukhetha umfanekiso wezilwanyana, kuba loo mifanekiso inokuvuselela iimvakalelo ezingqondweni zabo.
2. Qala ukubuza imibuzo: "Kwenzeka ntoni kulo mfanekiso?", "Ucinga ukuba ngubani lo?", "Inuka njani le ndawo?", "Zithini izandi ozivayo?" Buza imibuzo efana nale.
3. Akukho mpendulo ingalunganga: Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Nayiphi na impendulo abayinikayo ichanekile. Basenokuthetha into engenanto yakwenza nomfanekiso. Kodwa yifake ebalini. Musa ukubagweba.
4. Yakha ibali: Fumana izimvo kumntu wonke, uzidibanise zonke, kwaye wakhe ibali elihle. Njengoko befunda ibali kancinci kancinci, baya konwaba kakhulu kwaye babe nomdla kulo.
Le ndlela iveza amandla okudala engqondweni yabo ngaphandle kokubeka uxinzelelo kwinkumbulo yabo. Ngaloo mzuzu, baziva bexatyiswa kwaye benexabiso.
Ngaba singajoyina iMemory Café?
I-'Memory Café' ayisiyondawo yokusela ikofu nje kuphela. Yinkqubo ekhethekileyo eyenzelwe abantu abanesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo kunye nabanakekeli babo ukuba bahlangane baze bonwabele ixesha kunye. Nangona oku kungaqhelekanga eSri Lanka, ungaqala into efana nale neqela lakho elincinci kwindawo ekuyo, njengekhaya labalupheleyo, itempile, okanye icawa, ngemvume yomntu ngamnye.
Khawuthelekelele, kwindawo efana nale, abantu bayahlangana baze, njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili, bajonge umfanekiso baze benze ibali. Abanye abantu bacula ingoma, abanye babelane ngamava abo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba wonke umntu apho aqonde imeko yomnye nomnye.
Akukho ntloni okanye lusizi kubo, besithi, "Andikwazi ukukhumbula izinto ngoku." Endaweni yoko, baziva beqhayisa ngezakhono abanazo. Eli ligunya elikhulu lengqondo kubo.
Masitshintshe imibuzo esiyibuzayo.
Xa sithetha nomntu onesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo, sidla ngokubuza imibuzo embalwa. Umzekelo, "Ngaba ufuna isonka? Irayisi?" "Ngaba sifanele sibukele iTV? Ngaba sifanele sihambe?" Nangona le mibuzo ilungele imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, ayincedi ekwakheni unxibelelwano olusuka entliziyweni.
Kunoko, masibabuze "imibuzo emihle" ethetha neentliziyo zabo kwaye ibenze bacinge. Akukho zimpendulo zichanekileyo nezingalunganga kule mibuzo. Bakhululekile ukucinga nokuthetha nantoni na abayifunayo.
Jonga le theyibhile. Uza kubona umahluko.
| Imibuzo ebuzwa rhoqo | Imibuzo emihle ekwenza ucinge |
|---|---|
| uyandikhumbula? | Yeyiphi icebiso elihle kakhulu owakha walunikwa ngumntu? |
| Uyafuna iti? | Luhlobo luni lwesandi oluvayo ngoku? |
| Ingaba uyayithanda le ngoma? | Ukuba ubukwazi ukubhabha, ubungathanda ukuya phi? |
| unjani namhlanje? | Ukuba ubunamandla amakhulu, ubuya kuba yintoni? |
Xa ubuza umbuzo onje, iingcinga ezintle ezingqondweni zabo ziyaphuma. Mhlawumbi impendulo yabo iya kukumangalisa!
Izinto ezingakumbi zobuchule
- Mamela umculo: Bathanda ukudlala iingoma ezindala. Basenokuqala ukucula, ukuqhwaba izandla, okanye ukudanisa iingoma. Umculo unokubuyisa iimvakalelo ebezilibalekile.
- Bukelani imuvi kunye: Bukelani imuvi endala entle, enemibala, neyonwabileyo kunye. Imuvi eneengoma ezifana nethi 'Sound of Music' ingcono nangakumbi.
- Cela uncedo ngemisebenzi elula: Babandakanye kwimisebenzi elula efana nokucoca imifuno okanye ukunkcenkceshela intyatyambo. Xa ubuza, "Ungandinceda ngale nto?", baziva ngathi basaluncedo.
Yixabise yonke imzuzu.
Umntu omthandayo usenokuba ulibele ukuba ungubani kwaye ungubani. Kodwa usaziva iimvakalelo . Xa ukufutshane naye, xa ubamba isandla sakhe, uziva uthando, ukhuseleko kunye nentuthuzelo.
Khumbula, uzama ukunxibelelana nentliziyo yakhe, kungekhona neenkumbulo zakhe.
Endaweni yokulila iitalente abazilahlileyo, bhiyozela iitalente abasenazo. Thanda uncumo lwabo, inkangeleko yabo, kwanamazwi amancinci abawathethayo. Ngamanye amaxesha kuyadinisa ukubanyamekela. Kodwa bona oku njengethuba lokunxibelelana nzulu nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni, umntu omthandayo.
Ukuba wena okanye umntu omthandayo unemibuzo okanye amathandabuzo malunga neempawu zesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo, nceda udibane nogqirha wakho wosapho (GP) ukuze akunike icebiso. Uya kukwazi ukukunika ulwalathiso olufanelekileyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Endaweni yokubuza umntu onesifo sengqondo esithi, "Uyakhumbula?", mbuze imibuzo evuselela ingcinga yakhe kwaye imenza acinge.
- Banike umfanekiso omhle kwaye ubancede babhale ibali ngawo. Khumbula ukuba akukho zimpendulo zingachanekanga.
- Bavumele bamamele iingoma zabo zakudala abazithandayo. Umculo unokuvusa iimvakalelo kunye neenkumbulo.
- Endaweni yokuba buhlungu ngenxa yoko bakulahlekileyo, bhiyozela ixesha labo langoku. Uthando lwakho, ukuchukumisa kwakho, kunye nobukho bakho zezona zinto zibathuthuzelayo.
- Ukuba uziva uxinezelekile okanye uxinezelekile ngale nto, cela uncedo. Thetha nogqirha wakho, usapho, okanye abahlobo bakho. Kubalulekile ukuba nawe uzikhathalele.
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