Ngaba ungumama ozayo? Ngaba wakha waya kwitheko okanye emtshatweni womhlobo wakho, kwaye wonke umntu usela iglasi yewayini, kwaye ukhe wazibuza, "Ngaba kulungile ukuba nam ndisele kancinci?" Mhlawumbi omnye wabahlobo bakho uya kuthi, "Owu, ndisele ibhiya encinci xa ndandikhulelwe, kwaye kulungile kumntwana wam." Kwangaxeshanye, omnye umntu uya kuthi, "Owu, oko kukuthatha umngcipheko ongeyomfuneko." Le yingxaki edidayo kakhulu. Ngoko masithethe ngayo namhlanje.
Abaphandi bebesazi kangangamashumi eminyaka ukuba ukusela utywala kakhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunokubangela iziphene zokuzalwa . Kodwa akukacaci ukuba nokuba kuncinci kangakanani, okanye ukusela utywala ngamanye amaxesha, kunokuchaphazela njani umntwana osakhulayo. Ngenxa yokungaqiniseki, oogqirha eSri Lanka nakwihlabathi liphela banezimvo ezahlukeneyo ngalo mba.
Kubiza malini ukusela 'ngokugqithisileyo'?
Eyona ngxaki inkulu ngale ngxaki kukuba akukho bungakanani botywala obuqinisekisiweyo ngokwesayensi obukhuselekileyo ukubusela ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Abanye oogqirha bathi kulungile ukusela utywala obuncinci ngamanye amaxesha, ngelixa abanye besithi akufanele usele kwaphela.
Kutheni kukho izimvo ezahlukeneyo kangaka? Isizathu kukuba nokuba usela utywala obufanayo, buchaphazela umzimba womntu ngamnye ngokwahlukileyo. Ngamafutshane, imizimba yethu ineproteni ekhethekileyo, okanye i-enzyme, eqhekeza utywala, oko kukuthi, ebugayayo. Abanye oomama abakhulelweyo abanamsebenzi mkhulu kule enzyme. Emva koko, nokuba basela utywala obuncinci, kunokwenzeka ukuba buhlale emzimbeni ixesha elide kwaye budlule kwi -placenta bungene emzimbeni womntwana kwaye bubangele ingozi.
Yingakho imibutho emikhulu efana neCDC, i-US Surgeon General, kunye ne-American College of Obstetricians kunye neGynecologists zonke zisithi ngazwi linye oomama abakhulelweyo bafanele baphephe utywala ngokupheleleyo.
Umngcipheko ophambili abawukhombayo yimeko ebizwa ngokuba yi- Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) . Esi asisosifo sithile, kodwa liqela leemeko eziqala kwiingxaki ezincinci ukuya kwiimeko ezinzulu.
| Iingxaki ezinokubakho ngenxa yesifo sotywala esibangelwa yi-Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) | |
|---|---|
| Icandelo elichaphazelekayo | Iingxaki ezinokwenzeka |
| Inkangeleko yobuso | Iimpawu ezithile ezifana nentloko encinci, umgama owahlukileyo phakathi kwamehlo, kunye nomlebe ongaphezulu obhityileyo kakhulu. |
| Ukukhula | Ubunzima nokuphakama ngaphantsi kwamanqanaba aqhelekileyo ekuzalweni nasekukhuleni okulandelayo. |
| Iingxaki zengqondo kunye nenkqubo yemithambo-luvo | Ukukhubazeka kokufunda, iingxaki zenkumbulo, ubunzima bokugxila, ukulibaziseka kokuthetha nolwimi, kunye neengxaki zokuziphatha. |
| Izitho zangaphakathi | Umngcipheko weengxaki ezahlukeneyo entliziyweni, kwizintso nakwinkqubo yamathambo. |
Kukho izimvo ezahlukeneyo kwanaphakathi koogqirha...
Njengoko besitshilo ngaphambili, kukho izimvo ezahlukeneyo phakathi koogqirha ngalo mba. Abanye oogqirha bakholelwa ukuba utywala obuncinci obuselwa ngamaxesha athile, njengokusela iglasi yewayini ethekweni, akunakwenzeka ukuba bubangele monakalo omkhulu. Bathi ayingombono ulungileyo ukukhathazeka okanye ukuxhalaba ngayo ngokungeyomfuneko.
Nangona kunjalo, oogqirha abaninzi banembono egabadeleyo. Le yindlela abayibona ngayo loo nto.
"Awusoze unike umntwana oneenyanga ezimbini ubudala iglasi yewayini, akunjalo? Kutheni ke ngoko unika utywala umntwana obuthathaka esiswini sakho?"
Le yingxaki enzulu kakhulu, akunjalo? Ingqondo yomntwana ihlala ikhula ngalo lonke ixesha lokukhulelwa, kungekuphela nje kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala, kodwa kude kube yinyanga yokugqibela. Utywala yinto enokuthi ichaphazele ngqo iiseli zobuchopho. Ngoko ke , nokuba idosi incinci kangakanani na, asinakutsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba iza kuyichaphazela njani inkqubela yengqondo yomntwana.
Masibeke phambili ukhuseleko, akunjalo?
Ekugqibeleni, esi sisigqibo sobuqu ekufuneka usenze. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba wenze eso sigqibo, kubalulekile ukuthetha nogqirha wakho kwaye uqaphele konke oku.
Umntu ogqiba kwelokuba ayeke ngokupheleleyo utywala usenokuziva ebuhlungu kancinci ngokuphoswa lithuba lokusela nabahlobo bakhe. Kodwa cinga ngale nto, ukwenza oku ixesha elifutshane nje, njengeenyanga ezili-9. Kodwa ngokwenza loo mnikelo, unika umntwana wakho isipho sekamva elisempilweni ubomi bakhe bonke.
"Xa ujonga ubomi bakho nobomi bomntwana wakho, ezi nyanga zi-9 lixesha elifutshane kakhulu. Eli lidini alinto xa lithelekiswa nezinye izinto ozincamayo xa ukhulisa umntwana. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhathalela into entle kangaka."
Abo kufuneka balumke kakhulu
Kwabanye abantu, umngcipheko uphezulu nangakumbi. Ukuba unenye yezi meko zilandelayo, kungcono ukungayiseli utywala kwaphela.
- Ukuba unesifo sesibindi.
- Ukuba unembali yokuba likhoboka lotywala.
- Ukuba usela amayeza ezinye izifo, ingakumbi izifo zengqondo ezifana nokudakumba.
Ukuba kunzima ukulawula utywala bakho, kungekuphela nje ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kodwa nangaliphi na ixesha, nceda uthethe ngokukhululekileyo nogqirha wakho. Musa ukuba neentloni okanye ukoyika ukuthetha ngayo. Uya kukwazi ukukuthumela kwingcebiso okanye unyango olufanelekileyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Akukho bungakanani botywala obufunyenwe bukhuselekile ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
- Nokuba utywala obuncinci obuselayo bunokunqumla i-placenta buchaphazele ingqondo nomzimba womntwana wakho osakhulayo.
- Isifo soBundlongondlongo boMntwana ongekazalwa (i-FASD) sisifo esinzima nesinokuthintelwa esinokuchaphazela ubomi bomfazi. Eyona ndlela ingcono yokusithintela kukuyeka ngokupheleleyo utywala ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
- Olu mnikelo mncinci owenziweyo kwezi nyanga zi-9 lutyalo-mali oluxabisekileyo kakhulu xa luthelekiswa nobomi obusempilweni umntwana wakho aza kuba nabo.
- Ukuba unemibuzo, amathandabuzo, okanye uloyiko malunga noku, qiniseka ukuba uthetha nogqirha wakho ngako.
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