Ngaba uziva usizi olufanayo xa umhlobo wakho osenyongweni elusizi? Okanye uziva ulonwabo olufanayo xa umntu kusapho lwakho evuya? Ngaba ngamanye amaxesha uziva udiniwe kwaye udiniwe ekupheleni kosuku emva kokumamela iingxaki zabanye abantu nokubanceda? Ukuba kunjalo, usenokuba 'yiEmpath', esiza kuthetha ngayo. Oku akusisifo okanye ingxaki yengqondo. Luphawu lobuntu. Makhe sithethe ngale nto ngokweenkcukacha.
Ngubani kanye kanye 'uEmpath'?
Igama elithi 'Empath' livela kwigama lesiNgesi elithi 'Empath'. Nangona lingaziwa ngokusemthethweni njengemeko yengqondo, ngamazwi alula, i-Empath ngumntu onovelwano kakhulu kwiimvakalelo zabanye, eziva ezo mvakalelo ngokungathi zezakhe.
Ngoku ungacinga ukuba 'Uvelwano' kunye 'Novelwano' zizinto ezifanayo. Kodwa kukho umahluko omncinci.
- Uvelwano : Oku kuthetha ukuba novelwano ngomntu xa ekhathazekile. Sijonga intlungu yakhe ngaphandle size simsole.
- Uvelwano: Oku kunzulu ngaphezu koko. Kufana nesaci esithi, "Ukuzibeka ezihlangwini zomnye umntu." Uvelwano luxa sizama ukuzibeka ezihlangwini zomnye umntu size sizame ukuqonda ukuba uziva njani ngelo xesha.
I-empath ngumntu oye waphuhlisa esi sixhobo sibizwa ngokuba luvelwano ngokupheleleyo. Abaqondi nje kuphela iimvakalelo zabanye, kodwa baqala nokuziva ezo mvakalelo emzimbeni nasengqondweni yabo.
Ziziphi iintlobo eziphambili ze-Empaths?
Ngokutsho kweengcali zengqondo, ii-EMPA zinokwahlulwa zibe ziintlobo ezininzi eziphambili. Usenokuba nezi mpawu zingaphezulu kwesinye.
| Uhlobo lwe-Empath | Inkcazo |
|---|---|
| Uvelwano Lweemvakalelo | Aba ngabantu abaqhelekileyo. Ukuba umntu okungqongileyo wonwabile, nawe wonwabile, ukuba umntu udakumbile, nawe ulusizi. Kufana nokufika kweemvakalelo zabanye abantu engqondweni yakho. |
| Indlela Eqondayo | Aba bantu banengqondo evulekileyo kwaye banokuziva iingcinga neemvakalelo zabanye. Banokwazi ukubona into esengqondweni yomntu ngokujonga nje ubuso bakhe. |
| Uvelwano lomzimba (uvelwano kwintlungu yomzimba) | Oku kuyamangalisa kancinci. Aba bantu banokuziva iintlungu zomzimba zabanye. Umzekelo, ukuba uxelela umntu ukuba intloko yakhe ibuhlungu, naye usenokuqala ukuva intloko ebuhlungu. |
| I-Dark Empath (inceda umntu) | Aba bantu basebenzisa ubuchule babo bokuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye abantu ukuze bazuze. Basebenzisa obu buchule ukulawula abanye baze bafumane into abayifunayo. |
Ngaba ungumntu othanda ububele? Jonga ukuba unazo na ezi mpawu?
Kukho iimpawu ezininzi eziqhelekileyo ezinokubonwa kubuntu bomntu othanda ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu. Jonga ukuba ezi zinto ziyakufanela na.
- Uvakalelo Oluphezulu: Nezinto ezincinci ezithethwa ngabanye abantu zinokukukhathaza kakhulu. Ekubeni iimvakalelo zakho zingagcinwanga kakuhle, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhathazeke.
- Ukuba ngumphulaphuli olungileyo: Ngenxa yokuba unokuzifaka ezihlangwini zabanye abantu, ungamamela ngononophelo kwaye uqonde oko bakuthethayo. Yiyo loo nto abantu abaninzi beza kuwe neengxaki zabo.
- Ukufuna ukuba wedwa: Uyadinwa kukumamela imibuzo yabanye abantu nokujongana neemvakalelo zabo imini yonke. Emva koko ufuna ukuba wedwa, uthule , kwaye uhlaziyeke .
- Ingqiqo elungileyo: Ungayiqonda into ayicingayo umntu kungekuphela nje ngento ayithethayo, kodwa nakwizinto ezincinci ezifana nembonakalo yobuso kunye neentshukumo zomzimba (iimpawu ezingezizo ezomlomo).
- Ukuthanda ukunyaniseka: Awubathandi abantu abaxokayo okanye abangathembekanga. Kulula ukubamba umntu exoka.
- Ubunzima bokubeka imida: Awunakunceda abanye xa besentlungwini. Kodwa ngenxa yoku, uhlala ugqibela ngokuthatha intlungu neengxaki zabo kwaye nawe udandatheke.
Nangona kulungile ukunceda abanye njengovelwano, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukwazi imida yakho nokuzinyamekela.
Iingenelo kunye neengxaki zokuba ngumntu onobubele
Njengayo yonke into, ukuba yi-Empath kunecala elihle nelibi. Ukuzazi zombini kuya kukunceda ukwazi ukuzilawula.
| Iingcali | Iingxaki |
|---|---|
| Unxibelelwano olunzulu nolunentsingiselo ebantwini lunokwakhiwa. | Bayakuphepha ukuxabana kuba bayenzakalisa lula ngamazwi abanye. |
| Kukho ubuchule obukhethekileyo bokunceda nokunyamekela abanye. | Bayalibala ngezidingo zabo ngokucinga kuphela ngezidingo zabanye abantu. |
| Abanye bakubona njengomphulaphuli olungileyo. | Ukunceda abanye kunokubangela ukudinwa engqondweni (ukudinwa). |
| Ungenza izigqibo ezilungileyo ngokumamela indlela ovakalelwa ngayo ngaphakathi. | Uxinzelelo olubangelwa ziimvakalelo zabanye lunokubangela iimeko ezinje ngokudakumba nokuxhalaba. |
Uyiphatha njani le meko njengovelwano?
Ukuba uziva ngathi uyazilahla ngenxa yokuba ubambeke kwiimvakalelo zabanye abantu, kukho izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza ukuze ulinganisele le meko. Ezi zibaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yakho yengqondo.
Beka Imida
Nciphisa ixesha olichitha unceda abanye ngeengxaki zabo. Ziqhelise ukuthi "hayi" ngembeko xa kufuneka wenze njalo. Oku akuyi kukugcina ungadinwa kuphela, kodwa kuya kunika nabanye amandla okusombulula iingxaki zabo.
Zigcine kude nobudlelwane obukuhlutha amandla.
Njengomntu onobubele, uhlala ujonge ukupha abanye. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba nabahlobo nosapho ebomini bakho abakunika into ethile, abakuqondayo. Chonga abo batsala amandla akho (ii-vampire zamandla) kwaye unciphise ixesha olichitha nabo.
Zibuze yonke imihla.
Ziphe imizuzu embalwa ngosuku uzibuze, "Ndiziva njani namhlanje?" Chonga iimvakalelo ozivayo (ezibuhlungu, ezonwabisayo, ezinomsindo, ezidiniweyo). Zama ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni ebangela ezo mvakalelo. Qonda ukuba ezo mvakalelo zivela kwabanye okanye zezakho.
Ziqhelise Ukuzinyamekela
Ungalibali izinto ezisisiseko ezifana nokuzilolonga, ukutya ukutya okunesondlo, kunye nokulala ngokwaneleyo. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba uzinika ixesha lezinto ezikwenza wonwabe kwaye uphumle. Kusenokuba yiyoga, ukubukela imovie, okanye ukufunda incwadi.
Chitha ixesha kunye nendalo.
Indalo ingaphilisa umphefumlo we-Empath. Xa uziva uphantsi, yiya elunxwemeni, entabeni, okanye ubuncinane epakini ekufutshane uze uhambe.
Funa uncedo lweengcali ukuba kuyimfuneko.
Ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima ukujongana nezi mvakalelo wedwa, ungathandabuzi ukubona ingcali (ugqirha) okanye umcebisi . Bangakufundisa indlela yokubeka imida esempilweni kunye nokuzithethelela.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- 'Uvelwano' ngumntu, nangona engengomntu onesifo esisemthethweni, kodwa ovakalelwa kakhulu ziimvakalelo zabanye abantu aze azive ezo mvakalelo ngokwakhe.
- Olu buchule lunokukhokelela kulwalamano olunzulu phakathi kwabantu, kodwa lunokukhokelela nasekudinweni.
- Ukuba ungumntu othanda i-Empath, ukumisela imida esempilweni nokuzinyamekela kubalulekile kwimpilo-ntle yakho yengqondo.
- Ukuba le meko iphazamisana nobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla, ungathandabuzi ukubona ugqirha okanye umcebisi ukuze akunike ingcebiso.
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