Kuqhelekile ukuziva usoyika kwaye uneengcinga ezininzi xa uza kubeleka. "Ngaba kuya kuba buhlungu?", "Ngaba umntwana uza kuba sengxakini?", "Ngaba isibhedlele siza kundivumela ukuba ndihlale njengoko ndifuna?" Olu hlobo lwemibuzo lufika engqondweni. Ngolu loyiko, abanye oomama bacinga, "Ngaba bekungayi kuba ngcono ukuba ndibe nomntwana ekhaya, ndedwa, ngaphandle koncedo lomntu?" Enyanisweni, kumazwe angaphandle, kukho iintetho ngoomama abazalela abantwana babo bodwa, ngaphandle koncedo lwezonyango (Unassisted Childbirth ). Ngoko ke, masithethe ngokunzulu ngakumbi namhlanje. Masiqonde kakuhle ukuba oku kulungile kangakanani kwaye zeziphi iingozi ezifihlakeleyo apha.
"Ukuzala yinto yendalo, musani ukoyika" - ibali elibaliswa ngabo banale ngcamango
Omnye umntu oxhasa le ngcamango nguLaura Shanley. Wazala bonke abantwana bakhe abane ekhaya, engenagqirha okanye umbelekisi. Uthi wade wazala umntwana ozalela eyedwa xa umyeni wakhe engekho.
“Oogqirha bacinga ukuba ndiyaphambana,” utsho ehleka. “Kodwa ndikholelwa ukuba ukuzala akubuhlungu okanye akuyongozi ukuba asoyiki, ukuba asikho phantsi koxinzelelo olungafanelekanga oluvela ngaphandle.”
Uthi xa sijongene nento eyoyikisayo kwaye sisoyika, umzimba wethu ulungiselela impendulo yokulwa okanye yokubaleka . Ngeli xesha, inani legazi elihamba liye esibelekweni liyancipha, kwaye iintlungu zokubeleka zinokuba zingaqhelekanga okanye ziyeke. Ke ngoko, ingxoxo yakhe kukuba xa singoyiki kwaye sigcina iingqondo zethu zikhululekile, umzimba uya kuzityhalela ngaphandle umntwana ngokwawo.
"Awuyazi yonke inyathelo lokugaya ukutya, akunjalo? Kodwa ukholelwa ukuba kwenzeka ngendlela eyiyo. Kwaye, njengokuba umntwana wadalwa ngendlela emangalisayo, 'ubukrelekrele' emzimbeni bunceda ekukhupheni umntwana," batsho.
Nangona kunjalo, umlawuli we-American Association of Midwives uthi, "Kuye, ukuzala kumele ukuba bekulula kakhulu. Kodwa kubantu abaninzi, akulula kwaye akunzima, kuphakathi kwento ethile." Enyanisweni, ukuzala akulula kangako kuye wonke umntu.
Ithini isayensi yezonyango ngale nto? Iyintoni ingozi yokwenyani?
Nangona olu luvo lungasentla lunokuthuthuzela kancinci, kufuneka sijonge kwelinye icala lemali. Ukuzalwa komntwana sisiganeko esitshintsha ubomi kumama nomntwana. Apha, izimvo zoogqirha nababelekisi zahlukile kakhulu.
Ingaba yinyani na into yokuba kukho 'ukukhulelwa okunobungozi obukhulu'?
Abo babelethe ngaphandle koncedo bathi uninzi lweemeko 'ezinobungozi' zibangelwa yindawo esibhedlele. Umzekelo, bathi iisensa ezinamathele entlokweni yomntwana kunye neemonitha ezinamathele esiswini zenza umama oyike, kwaye olo loyiko luyamthintela ekubelekeni.
Kodwa oogqirha nababelekisi abavumelani konke konke noku. Into abayithethayo yeyona nto ibalulekileyo.
| Ingcamango | Uluvo lwabo baxhasa ukuzalwa komntwana ngaphandle koncedo | Imbono yezonyango |
|---|---|---|
| Ukhathalelo lwangaphambi kokubeleka | Bathi oku "zizinto zokoyika ngaphambi kokuzalwa." Bakholelwa ukuba ezi zinto zidala uloyiko olungeyomfuneko. | Ezi kliniki azenziwanga kukoyikisa, zenzelwe ukukukhusela . Zinokubona kwangethuba ukuba uneemeko ezifana noxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu okanye isifo seswekile, nokuba umntwana wakho ukhula kakuhle na, nokuba kukho naziphi na iingxaki ngendlela umntwana wakho abekwe ngayo. Oku kunokukhusela umama nomntwana. |
| Ukubeka iliso ngexesha loMsebenzi | Ezi zinto ziyamoyikisa umama kwaye ziphazamisane nokuzala. | Izinto ezifana nokubetha kwentliziyo yomntwana ziyajongwa ukuze kubonwe ukuba umntwana akakhululekanga okanye akanayo ioksijini eyaneleyo (uxinzelelo lwe-fetal) . Ukuba oko kuyenzeka, kufuneka wenze ngokukhawuleza ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke umonakalo engqondweni. Ezi zixhobo azikho ukuze zikoyikise, zikho ukuze zisindise umntwana. |
Ziziphi iingozi ezinokuvela ebomini bokwenyani?
Intetho ethi " umzimba uza kukhupha umntwana ngokwawo" ayisoloko iyinyani. Iimeko eziyingozi zinokuvela ngequbuliso kwaye ngaphandle kwesilumkiso ngexesha lokubeleka.
- Ukopha Emva Kokubeletha:Le yeyona nto iphambili ebangela ukufa komama kwihlabathi liphela. Ukuba into efana nale iyenzeka ekhaya, ingambulala umama ngaphambi kokuba aye esibhedlele.
- Ukubeletha Okuthintelweyo: Ukuba intloko yosana inkulu kakhulu okanye umntwana akabekwanga kakuhle, ukubeletha kusenokuma phakathi. Ngeli xesha, kufuneka kwenziwe utyando lotyando ngoko nangoko.
- Intambo ejikeleze intamo yomntwana: Nangona oku kuqhelekile, ngamanye amaxesha intambo yesisu inokuqina ize ithintele umntwana ioksijini .
- Ukuphelelwa lithemba kokuzalwa: Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana akaphefumli xa ezalwa. Kwimeko ezinjalo, kufuneka kusetyenziswe izixhobo ezikhethekileyo ukunceda umntwana aphefumle ngoko nangoko.
Kwimeko engxamisekileyo efana nale, ukufowunela u-"911" usekhaya (kwilizwe lethu, ngo-1990) ulinde i-ambulensi ukuba ifike kukuchitha ixesha elibalulekileyo. Xa kuthelekiswa nezibonelelo ezikhoyo kwiYunithi yoNyango oluNgxamisekileyo yesibhedlele (ETU), kukho izinto ezimbalwa kakhulu ezinokwenziwa ekhaya.
I-American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) ithi ngokusemthethweni, "Imigangatho yokhuseleko efumaneka esibhedlele ayinakufezekiswa ekhaya."
Ngoko ke yeyiphi eyona ndlela ilungileyo nekhuselekileyo?
Umnqweno wakho wokuzala, oko kukuthi, amava akhululekileyo nabucala, ufanelekile kakhulu. Ngethamsanqa, inkqubo yezonyango namhlanje nayo icinga kakhulu ngayo.
"Ndingathetha ngokukhululekileyo nogqirha wam ngezinto ezindoyikisayo, nangayiphi na indlela endiyifunayo?" Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo ndinako kwaye ndifanele ndithethe.
Kule mihla, izibhedlele ezininzi zineendawo zokubelekisa ezenzelwe ukuba zibe ntle njengegumbi lokulala ekhayeni. Ezinye iindawo zineendawo zokubelekisa ngamanzi. Kwakhona, ngoku kukhuthazwa ngakumbi ukutshintsha izikhundla njengoko udinga ngexesha lokuzala kwaye ufune inkxaso yomyeni wakho.
Khumbula, ugqirha okanye umbelekisi olungileyo akalotshaba lwakho, kodwa ngumhlobo wakho osenyongweni, okhoyo ukuze akukhusele wena nomntwana wakho. Bakho ukuze bakunike uxolo, bakuncede ulawule iintlungu, kwaye babone naziphi na iingozi ezinokubakho kwangethuba ukuze banikhusele nobabini.
Nangona ingcamango yokuba nomntwana ekhaya isenokubonakala intle, kufana nokuhamba ngentambo eqinileyo entabeni ephakamileyo ngaphandle kwenethi yokhuseleko. Yonke into ingahamba kakuhle, kodwa impazamo encinci inokukhokelela kwintlekele engenakucingelwa. Ngoko ke, xa usenza izigqibo malunga nokuzala kwakho, vumela ingqondo yakho ilawule iimvakalelo zakho.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukuzala ngaphandle koncedo kuyingozi kakhulu. Kunokuba yingozi kumama nakumntwana ukuba kuvela iingxaki ezingalindelekanga.
- Ukhathalelo lwangaphambi kokubeleka asinto yokoyika, yinto ebalulekileyo ekukhuseleni wena nomntwana wakho. Ngoko ke ungaze uphoswe yikliniki.
- Thetha ngokukhululekileyo nogqirha wakho malunga noloyiko lwakho, amathandabuzo, kunye nethemba lakho malunga nokuzala.
- Kwanakwizibhedlele namhlanje, zininzi iindlela ezinika umama amava akhululekileyo nabucala. Buza ugqirha wakho ngazo.
- Beka ukhuseleko lwakho nolomntwana wakho kuqala. Ukuzalwa komntwana yinkqubo ekufuneka yenzeke phantsi kweliso labasebenzi bezonyango abaqeqeshiweyo.
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