Singathetha ngabantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa?

Wonke umntwana ukhethekile, akunjalo? Sonke sicinga njalo. Kodwa sithetha ukuthini ngokwenene xa sisithi "umntwana oneemfuno ezizodwa"? Ngamafutshane, oku kubhekisa kuye nawuphi na umntwana ofuna uncedo olongezelelweyo ngenxa yengxaki yezonyango, yengqondo, okanye yokufunda. Aba bantwana kuthiwa baneemfuno ezikhethekileyo kuba banokufuna amayeza, unyango, okanye uncedo olongezelelweyo esikolweni - izinto abanye abantwana abaqhele ukuzidinga, okanye ngamanye amaxesha.

Yintoni kanye kanye "iimfuno ezizodwa"? Makhe sijonge ngokusondeleyo.

Cinga ngokuba zingaphi izinto ezigutyungelweyo phantsi kwamagama athi "iimfuno ezizodwa." Kufana nesambrela esikhulu, esinemingeni eyahlukeneyo kunye neendlela zokuxhasa phantsi kwaso. Ngamanye amaxesha ezi mfuno ziyabonakala, ngamanye amaxesha azicacanga, kwaye ngumntu omazi kakuhle umntwana kuphela onokuziqonda.

Ngubani ofuna olu ncedo lukhethekileyo? Makhe sijonge eminye imizekelo.

Sithe iimfuno ezikhethekileyo zingaba zezahlukeneyo. Ngoku makhe sibone ukuba zeziphi.

• Abantwana abafuna uncedo lomzimba:

Usenokuba ubabonile abahlobo bakho esikolweni abasebenzisa izitulo ezinamavili okanye abanee-braces ezikhethekileyo zemilenze xa behamba. Abo bantwana banezidingo ezikhethekileyo. Abazidingi nje ezo zixhobo, kodwa banokufuna neendlela zokuma endaweni yezinyuko, kwaye kwezinye iindawo, ii-lifti. Basenokufuna nebhasi ekhethekileyo yokubasa esikolweni - leyo enokubakhwelisa ebhasini kuba benobunzima bokunyuka izinyuko. Ezi zizinto esizibiza ngokuba ziimfuno ezibonakalayo zomzimba .

• Abantwana abafuna uncedo ngenxa yezifo ezithile:

Abanye abantwana banezifo ezihlala ixesha elide. Umzekelo, cinga ngomntwana onesifo sokuwa okanye umntwana onesifo seswekile. Bakwanazo neemfuno ezikhethekileyo. Basenokufuna amayeza okanye olunye uncedo ukuze baphile usuku lwabo. Basenokufuna ukuqaphela ngakumbi ukutya okanye ukusela, okanye banokufuna ukuthatha amayeza ngamaxesha athile emini. Ezi ziphantsi koluhlu lweemfuno ezikhethekileyo zempilo .

• Abantwana abanengxaki yokubona, yokuva, okanye yokuthetha:

Abantwana abangaboni kakuhle banokufuna ii-apps ezikhethekileyo, iitablethi, okanye iikhompyutha ukuze bafunde iincwadi. Ngokufanayo, abantwana abanengxaki yokuva banokufuna izixhobo zokuncedisa ukuva. Basenokufuna nezinto ezifana nonyango lokuthetha kuba banokuba nobunzima bokubiza amagama ngokuchanekileyo kuba bengeva kakuhle. Ezi zibizwa ngokuba ziimfuno zeemvakalelo .

• Abantwana abafuna uncedo olukhethekileyo ekufundeni:

Abanye abantwana banemingeni ekhethekileyo ekufundeni. Ezi zinto sizibiza ngokuba zizinto ezibangela ukukhubazeka ekufundeni. Umzekelo, umntwana one-Down syndrome usenokuba seklasini yakho kwisikolo esiqhelekileyo. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba eneemfuno ezizodwa ekufundeni, usenokufuna umncedisi eklasini ukubanceda. Aba bantwana baneemfuno ezikhethekileyo ekufundeni .

• Abantwana abangabonakaliyo kodwa abadinga uncedo:

Usenokukwazi ukubona abantwana abambalwa abaneemfuno ezikhethekileyo xa ubajonga okokuqala, kodwa usenokungakwazi ukubabona bonke. Khawucinge ngomntwana onexhala, nto leyo ethetha ukuba uhlala exhalabile ngokungeyomfuneko. Ubungenandlela yokwazi ukuba umntwana ebengakuxelelanga ngalo mba. Kodwa ngasese, abazali bomntwana, ootitshala, kunye nabacebisi basenokuba banceda ekunciphiseni ixhala lomntwana. Kukwakho neemfuno zengqondo nezokuziphatha .

Ngamafutshane, imfuneko ekhethekileyo yimeko apho umntwana efuna uncedo olongezelelweyo, inkxaso, okanye indlela eyahlukileyo yokwenza izinto njengabanye abantwana abalingana nabo.

Bunjani ubomi kumntwana oneemfuno ezizodwa?

Ubomi ngamanye amaxesha bunokuba nzima kancinci kumntwana oneemfuno ezizodwa. Ukwenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla - umzekelo, ukufunda incwadi, okanye ukuhambahamba esikolweni okanye ukuthengela umntwana okhubazekileyo - kunokuba nzima ngakumbi kunabanye.

Kodwa, kukho iindaba ezimnandi apha! Abazali, oogqirha, abahlengikazi, abagqirha, ootitshala kunye nabanye abaninzi bakhona ukunceda aba bantwana. Wonke umntu uzama ukunceda aba bantwana baphile ngokuzimela nangolonwabo kangangoko kunokwenzeka . Oko kuthetha ukubanika amandla okwenza umsebenzi wabo.

Khawucinge nje, umntwana ogama linguNiluka usebenzisa isitulo esinamavili. Kunzima kuye ukuya kumgangatho ophezulu wesikolo. Kodwa xa isikolo simnika igumbi lokufundela kumgangatho ongezantsi size sakhe iirampu apho kuyimfuneko, ufumana ithuba lokufunda nokudlala njengabanye abantwana. Yiloo nto eyenzekayo ngenkxaso.

Singabanceda njani aba bahlobo?

Nabanye abantwana banokuba luncedo olukhulu kubahlobo babo abaneemfuno ezikhethekileyo. Bangakwenza njani oko?

Yiba ngumhlobo osenyongweni!

Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo . Umntwana osebenzisa isitulo esinamavili okanye onengxaki yempilo udinga abahlobo njengawe. Bakwafuna ukudlala, ukuthetha, nokuhleka nabanye.

Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba nzima kubo ukudibana nabantu abatsha nokwenza abahlobo. Abanye abantwana abangaqondiyo banokubahlekisa, babakhuphe ecaleni, baze babenze buhlungu iimvakalelo zabo.

Ukuba ukhe wabona umntu ehlekisa, exhaphaza, okanye ebeka umntwana oneemfuno ezizodwa ecaleni, nceda uxelele utitshala okanye umntu omdala ngaloo nto.Ubulolo obuvayo xa unesizungu ngolo hlobo bubuhlungu kakhulu.

Ukuba kukho umntwana onezidingo ezikhethekileyo eklasini yakho, esikolweni, okanye kummelwane, ungathetha naye, umenze ahleke, udlale naye, kwaye umazise kwabanye abahlobo bakho.

Khumbula oku xa unceda.

Ukuba umazi umntu oneemfuno ezizodwa, licebo elihle ukuzama ukumnceda.

• Ungababuza ukuba bafuna uncedo lokuphatha iincwadi zabo na.
• Ndinganceda ekuvuleni ucango.
• Ningatya kunye nize nithethe ngexesha lesidlo.

Kodwa, kukho into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyikhumbule apha. Oko kukuthi, "musa ukuya kunceda kakhulu" xa uncedo lungadingeki. Kutheni kunjalo? Kuba, njengawe, abantwana abaneemfuno ezikhethekileyo bathanda ukwenza konke okusemandleni abo, ukuze bazimele.

Khawuthelekelele umhlobo wakho uRavi esebenzisa intonga encinci ukuhamba. Ukuba uyakwazi ukuphatha ibhegi yakhe yedwa, kungakucaphukisa ukumbuza rhoqo uthi, "Ndingayifumana ibhegi?" Endaweni yoko, kungcono ubuze uthi, "Ravi, ndingakunceda?" xa ebonakala enengxaki enkulu.

Babuze rhoqo, "Ngaba udinga uncedo?" Ukuba bathi "hayi," yihloniphe loo nto.

Okokugqibela, eyona nto ibalulekileyo: ukuqonda kunye nobuhlobo

Enye yezona ndlela zibalaseleyo zokunceda abantwana abaneemfuno ezikhethekileyo kukwakha ubuhlobo bokwenene nabo. Xa uchitha ixesha nabo, xa uthetha nabo, uqala ukuqonda indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngobomi, kunye nemingeni abajongene nayo.

Emva koko ungabanceda ngendlela abayidingayo ngokwenene, ubaqonde. Kwaye, uyazi ntoni? Ngokwenza oko, uzalisekisa imfuno ekhethekileyo wonke umntu anayo: imfuneko yabahlobo abalungileyo .

Khumbula, wonke umntwana uxabisekile, wonke umntwana ufanelwe luthando, ukwamkelwa, kunye namathuba. Iimfuno ezikhethekileyo azisisizathu sokubeka umntu ecaleni, kodwa zisikhumbuzo sokuba sonke kufuneka sincedane kwaye siqondane kwaye sihlale kunye.

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