Owu, uyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukufunda iincwadi nomntwana wakho ukuze aphuhlise izakhono zakhe zokufunda nokubhala ? Usenokuba ucinga, "Ngalo msebenzi wonke endimele ndiwenze, ndilifumana phi ixesha laloo nto?" Kodwa cinga ngayo, nokuba awunalo ixesha lokuhlala phantsi ufunde incwadi, kukho amathuba amaninzi okudibanisa amaxesha amancinci osuku nokufunda! Ngaba singathetha ngaloo nto namhlanje?
Ixesha elincinci linokwenza umahluko omkhulu: Amaxesha amancinci anokwenza ukufunda kube ngumkhwa!
Ewe, ungamangaliswa kukuba zingaphi "izihlandlo zokufunda" ezincinci oziphosayo emini. Ezi zifana namathontsi amancinci amanzi adibanisa ukwenza umahluko omkhulu.
Xa uhamba...
Khawuthelekelele uhamba nomntwana wakho emotweni, ebhasini, okanye kuloliwe. Mhlawumbi iiyure ezininzi endleleni! Kungcono kangakanani ukuthatha incwadi encinci ufunde endaweni yokuhlala nje udiniwe? Xa usiya evenkileni ekufutshane, xa ulinde emgceni ukuze ubone ugqirha, xa usemgqeni wokuhlawula ukuze uthenge ukutya... ungenza ixesha lokufunda naphi na.
Icebiso elincinci: Soloko ugcina iincwadi okanye iimagazini ezimbalwa emotweni yakho, kwibhegi yomntwana wakho yenapile, okanye kwibhegi yakho. Emva koko, ukuba kufuneka uhlale kwindawo enye okwethutyana, ungathatha incwadi uyifunde. Nokuba awukwazi ukuyifunda yonke incwadi, funda amaphepha ambalwa okanye uthethe nomntwana wakho ngemifanekiso ekwincwadi. Oku kuya kwandisa umdla womntwana wakho kwiincwadi.
Ukuba umntwana wakho mdala kancinci, mkhuthaze ukuba athathe iincwadi kunye noomagazini abathandayo naphi na apho aya khona. Yinyani, ngamanye amaxesha sizama ukumthulisa ngokubanika '(Imidlalo ye-elektroniki)' okanye '(Abafundi be-E-readers)'. Leyo yindlela enye. Kodwa kunye nezinto ezinjalo '(ze-elektroniki)', ungalibali ukudala amathuba amaninzi okuba umntwana wakho afunde iincwadi ezishicilelweyo anokuzibamba ezandleni zakhe. Kubalulekile ukulinganisela zombini.
Cinga nangamaxesha emini...
Kukho nezinye izihlandlo ezimnandi zosuku onokuzifunda:
- Kusasa, ngaphambi kokutya okanye xa unxiba.
- Emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa, xa abantwana bekhululekile kancinci.
- Ngexesha lokuhlamba (ngeencwadi zeplastiki ezingangeni manzi – okanye ungafunda nebali elifutshane ngaphambi kokuba uhlambe).
- Ngaphambi kokulala – Le yinto eyenziwa ngabazali abaninzi. Ixabiseke kakhulu!
Kukho amathuba amaninzi okufunda ngaphandle kwekhaya!
Nokuba uya phi nomntwana wakho, kukho amathuba okufunda kuyo yonke indawo. Ayimangalisi loo nto?
Khawuthelekelele uhamba ngemoto, ibhasi, okanye uloliwe... Xelela umntwana wakho ukuba akhangele oonobumba namagama kwiibhodi zentengiso emacaleni endlela, kwiimpawu zeevenkile, nakwiindawo zokumisa iibhasi. Ungenza oku kube ngumdlalo omncinci. Njengokuthi, "Ngubani onokufumana unobumba u-'B' kuqala?" Emva koko umntwana uya kujoyina ngomdla omkhulu.
Xa uthenga kwivenkile enkulu, cela umntwana wakho okwisikolo samabanga aphantsi ukuba "afunde" imifanekiso ekwiibhokisi aze akuxelele ngayo. Kwakhona, mbonise umahluko phakathi kwamagama nemifanekiso ekwiibhokisi. Ukuba mdala kancinci, mkhuthaze ukuba akuxelele okukwi "Uluhlu lwakho lokuThenga." Oku kuya kumnceda aqonde ngcono amagama noonobumba.
Singawadala njani amathuba okufunda kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya yemihla ngemihla?
Enyanisweni, singadala amathuba okufunda nangona sisenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla efana nokulima igadi. Ayimangalisi loo nto?
Masifunde nasekhitshini!
Xa upheka isidlo, fundela abantwana abancinci iresiphi ngokuvakalayo. Oku kuya kubanceda bafunde amagama amatsha. Ukuba umntwana wakho mdala kancinci, angakuxelela izinto ezifana nokuba ungakanani umgubo omawulinganiswe njengoko iresiphi isitsho ngelixa upheka. Oku kuya kubanceda bafunde ngemilinganiselo kunye nendlela yokulandela imiyalelo.
Ngelixa ujonge iimvulophu, nika umntwana wakho imagazini okanye incwadi yokufunda. Ngale ndlela, ungenza umsebenzi wakho, kwaye nomntwana wakho uya kufunda.
Nokuba ndisebenza...
Ungamkhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba afunde nokuba uxakekile yiminye imisebenzi yasekhaya. Umzekelo, ngelixa ucoca indlu, cela umntwana wakho ukuba akufundele enye yeencwadi azithandayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho usemncinci, ungathetha ngemifanekiso ekwincwadi yakhe. Ngale ndlela, unokuhlala unxibelelene nomntwana wakho ngelixa usebenza, kwaye nezakhono zokufunda zomntwana wakho ziya kuphucuka.
Kubalulekile: Xa umntwana wakho efunda, mamela oko akutshoyo. Ukuba uthetha igama elingafanelekanga, mlungise ngothando. Mncome. Xa usithi, "Wow... unyana/intombi yam ifunda kakuhle!", baziva bonwabile kakhulu.
Masabelane ngovuyo lokufunda nosapho kunye nabahlobo!
Ukufunda akuyonto oyenzayo wedwa. Kukwayindlela entle yokunxibelelana nabanye abantu.
Cela izalamane nabahlobo bakho ukuba bathumelele umntwana wakho iileta, ii-imeyile, okanye imiyalezo. Emva koko zifundeni kunye. Nceda umntwana wakho abhale iileta kunye nemiyalezo ayibuyisele kuye. Xa uziqhelanisa nezi zinto kwasebuntwaneni, abantwana baya kuqonda ukubaluleka kunye neenzuzo zokubhala.
Khuthaza abantakwabo abadala ekhaya ukuba bafunde iincwadi kunye nabantakwabo abancinci. Oku akugcini nje ngokuqinisa ubudlelwane bentsapho, kodwa kukwamisela umzekelo omhle wokuba abantwana abancinci bafunde.
Masibeke ecaleni ixesha elizolileyo kunye nendawo yokufunda.
Kubalulekile ukunika abantwana ithuba lokuchitha ixesha befunda iincwadi kwindawo ekhululekileyo nezolileyo. Oku kuthetha ukunciphisa eminye imisebenzi efana neTV nemidlalo yevidiyo, kodwa imivuzo iyafaneleka.
Indawo ezolileyo inceda umntwana wakho agxile kwinto ayifundayo. Kunzima ukufunda incwadi kwindawo apho wonke umntu ekhwaza kwaye iTV ikhala kakhulu, akunjalo? Ngoko ke xa umntwana wakho efunda incwadi, zama ukudala indawo ezolileyo neyonwabisayo kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Yiba ngumzekelo obalaseleyo nawe!
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba nawe ube ngumfundi weencwadi . Abantwana ababona abazali babo befunda iincwadi banokubaxelisa baze bafunde iincwadi. Xa uthatha incwadi ufunde, umntwana wakho unokuza kuwe aze athathe incwadi yakhe aze aqale ukufunda. Le yeyona nkuthazo ilungileyo onokumnika yona umntwana. Ukukubona ufunda iincwadi kubaluleke kakhulu kunokushumayeza umntwana wakho ukuba "afunde iincwadi."
Mama, Tata, khumbula oku! (Umyalezo oya ekhaya)
Kulungile, ngoko ke ndicinga ukuba uziqondile izinto ezimbalwa ezibalulekileyo koko sithethe ngako namhlanje.
- Fumana ixesha lokufunda kancinci nomntwana wakho yonke imihla. Nokuba yimizuzu eli-10 kuphela.
- Ukufunda akuyonto inkulu nje xa ubhala incwadi phambi kwakho. Ungaguqula naliphi na ixesha lobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla libe lithuba lokufunda.
- Yenza ukufunda kube yinto eyonwabisayo neyonwabisayo kumntwana wakho. Abayi kukuthanda ukuba kuyanyanzeleka.
- Thetha nomntwana wakho ngemifanekiso, amagama, kunye noonobumba. Buza imibuzo kwaye umnike ithuba lokukuxelela.
- Nokuba umntwana omncinci kakhulu ongakwaziyo ukufunda amagama, ungathetha ngemifanekiso ekwincwadi. Eso sisiqalo esihle sokufunda.
- Yiba ngumzekelo omhle kuwe . Ukuba ungumfundi, umntwana wakho unamathuba amaninzi okuba ngumfundi.
- Ayingabo bonke abantwana abafanayo. Abanye abantwana baya kukuthanda ukufunda ngokukhawuleza, ngelixa abanye beya kuthatha ixesha elide. Yiba nomonde .
Ngoko ke, zama ukwenza ezi zinto zincinci zibe yinxalenye yosuku lwakho ukususela namhlanje. Uza kuyiqonda indlela umntwana wakho abe ngumhlobo omhle ngayo ngeencwadi ngexesha elifutshane. Kuya kuba luvuyo olukhulu nakuwe!
Ukufunda , imfundo yabantwana, ukufunda nokubhala, iingcebiso zobuzali, uphuhliso lwabantwana abancinci, iincwadi, ukufunda imihla ngemihla











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