Kule mihla, abantu abaninzi, ingakumbi izibini eziselula, bahlehlisa ixesha lokuqalisa usapho ngenxa yemfundo yabo, ukuhambela phambili emsebenzini, njl. Sihlala sisiva izimvo ezinje ngokuthi "Masilinde eminye iminyaka embalwa," "Masibunandiphe ubomi ixesha elide," "Masicinge ngokuba nomntwana emva kokuba sizinzile." Akukho nto imbi ngoku. Nangona kunjalo, kukho izinto ezithile zebhayoloji ekufuneka siziqaphele xa sisenza esi sigqibo. Makhe sithethe ngazo namhlanje.
Ngaba sele kudlule ixesha lokuba nomntwana? Ngaba ubudala bubalulekile ngokwenene?
Lo ngumbuzo omkhulu abantu abaninzi abanawo. Impendulo emfutshane kukuba, ewe, ubudala yinto ebaluleke kakhulu, ingakumbi kubafazi.
Khawucinge ngale meko. USandamali wayengumongikazi owayesebenza kwiikliniki zokuzala. Wayengazange acinge ukuba ukuba nomntwana wakhe kuya kuba yingxaki. Ngenxa yokuba yena nomyeni wakhe babexakekile ngemisebenzi yabo, bagqiba ekubeni bazame ukuba nomntwana okwiminyaka yabo ephakathi kwama-30. Kodwa emva kweenyanga bezama, uSandamali akazange akwazi ukukhulelwa. Ekugqibeleni, ingcali yabaxelela into ababengayilindelanga. Oko kukuthi umgangatho wamaqanda akhe wawuncipha ngokuhamba kweminyaka, nto leyo eyenza kwaba nzima ukuba akhulelwe.
Emva koko, xa wayeneminyaka engama-37 ubudala, bazama ukuchumisa umntwana nge-in vitro (IVF) . Nangona uSandamali wakwazi ukukhulelwa, waphunza ngenxa yomgangatho ophantsi wamaqanda. Ekugqibeleni, endaweni yokuqhubeka nokuzama ukuphunza nokudandatheka, bagqiba ekubeni bakhethe enye indlela. Namhlanje, batshatile ngolonwabo kwaye banoonyana ababini abathandekayo abamkelweyo.
Isifundo esikhulu esinokusifumana kwibali likaSandamali kukuba nokuba sinolwazi olungakanani na kwaye siceba kangakanani na, asinakuyilawula iwotshi yebhayoloji yomzimba wethu njengoko sinqwenela.
Ngokutsho kwe-American Society for Reproductive Medicine, isibini kwisithathu sabasetyhini sinokulahlekelwa yikhono lokukhulelwa ngokwendalo xa beneminyaka engama-40 ubudala. Isizathu esiphambili soku kukwehla komgangatho wamaqanda kunye notshintsho ekusebenzeni kwama-ovari.
Kwaneengcali zokubelekisa kunye neengcali zezifo zabesifazane bathi baxhalabile kakhulu ngabafazi abafika kubo xa beneminyaka engama-38, 39 ubudala baze bathi, "Siza kuba nomntwana kwiminyaka emibini ezayo." Kuba bengazi badlala ngomngcipheko omkhulu. Nokuba i-ovulation iyenzeka ngokuqhelekileyo, umgangatho waloo maqanda awukho mhle, ngoko ke amathuba okuba kungenzeki ukukhulelwa okanye ukuphuphuma kwesisu aphezulu kakhulu.
Ngelishwa, akukho vavanyo lwezonyango olunokukuxelela ngqo ukuba "Ndisele ixesha elingakanani?" Ngoko ke, oogqirha bathi ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba nabantwana likwiminyaka yakho yama-20 .
Ziziphi iindlela zokulawula ukukhulelwa zanamhlanje?
Xa uceba usapho, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezisebenzayo zokulawula ukuzala ezikhoyo namhlanje, kwabo bafuna ukulibazisa ukuba nabantwana kunye nabo bafuna ukushiya abantwana babo bekhululekile. Kungcono ukuthetha nogqirha wakho ngale ndlela uze ukhethe indlela efanelekileyo kuwe. Nazi ezinye zeendlela ezidumileyo ezikhoyo namhlanje.
| Indlela yokulawula ukukhulelwa | Kalula nje... |
|---|---|
| Isixhobo sangaphakathi kwesibeleko (IUD) | I-IUD yehomoni efana neMirena ingasetyenziswa ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka emi-5. Sisixhobo esincinci esimile okwe-T esifakwa esibelekweni kwaye sikhupha iihomoni kancinci kancinci. |
| Inaliti yenyanga | Iinaliti ezifana neLunelle ziqulathe iihomoni ze-estrogen kunye ne -progesterone . Oku kulula kwabo balibalayo ukuthatha iipilisi zabo yonke imihla. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ubone ugqirha rhoqo emva kweentsuku ezingama-28-30 ukuze ufumane inaliti. |
| Ipetshi yokuthintela ukukhulelwa | Iziqwenga ezifana ne-Ortho Evra zikhupha iihomoni emzimbeni ngesikhumba. Isiqwenga kufuneka sitshintshwe kube kanye ngeveki. Sidla ngokunxitywa phantsi kweempahla, njengasesiswini okanye emzimbeni ongaphezulu. |
| Indandatho Yangasese | Isangqa esincinci nesiguquguqukayo, njengeNuvaRing, sifakwa kwisini. Sikhupha idosi ephantsi yeehomoni kangangeentsuku ezingama-21. Emva koko siyasuswa size sifakwe esitsha emva kwekhefu leentsuku ezisi-7. |
Ingaba isithuba phakathi kwabantwana nobukhulu bosapho sibalulekile?
Oku kuyinto abazali abaninzi abayicingayo. Inani labantwana ekufuneka babe nabo nendlela yokubanika indawo lisigqibo esahluka kusapho nosapho.
Umsantsa phakathi kwabantwana
Iingcali zengqondo zabantwana zithi isithuba seminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-3 1/2 sifanelekile phakathi kwabantwana ababini.
- Isizathu? Umntwana oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala udla ngokuziva exhomekeke kubazali bakhe kwaye engakhuselekanga. Ngeli xesha, ukufika komntwana omtsha kusapho kunokubangela ukhuphiswano kunye nomona kumntwana omdala.
- Kodwa xa beneminyaka emi-3 ubudala, abantwana baba nokuqonda okuthile. Baqhela ngakumbi ukwabelana ngothando nengqalelo yabazali babo nomnye umntu.
Ngokwembono yezonyango, uphando olwenziwe yi-US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) lufumanise ukuba ixesha leenyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwezingama-23 phakathi kokuzalwa komntwana omnye kunye nokukhulelwa komntwana olandelayo liluncedo kakhulu kwimpilo yosana olusandul’ ukuzalwa. Abantwana abakhulelweyo ngeli xesha abanakukwazi ukuzalwa benobunzima obuphantsi kwaye bazalwe ngaphambi kwexesha.
Okokugqibela, abafazi abaninzi namhlanje bayayeka ukuzama ukuba "ngumama omkhulu" kwaye bazama ukuphila ubomi obonwabisayo nokubeka usapho lwabo phambili. Baye baqonda ukubaluleka kokuphila ubomi obulinganiselayo kunokuzama ukwenza yonke into ngaxeshanye baze bazidinise bona kunye neentsapho zabo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Xa uceba usapho, ingakumbi ubudala bomfazi yinto ebaluleke kakhulu.
- Ukulibazisa ukuzala de ube neminyaka engama-30 okanye engama-40 kunokunciphisa kakhulu amandla akho okukhulelwa ngokwendalo kunye nokuzala kwakho.
- Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezisebenzayo nezahlukeneyo zokulawula ukukhulelwa ezikhoyo namhlanje. Qiniseka ukuba uxoxa nogqirha wakho ngeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo kuwe nakwiqabane lakho.
- Ukugcina umgama ofanelekileyo phakathi kwabantwana kunempembelelo entle kwimpilo yomntwana omtsha oza kutshata nosapho, kunye nempilo yengqondo yomntwana omdala.
- Umzimba womntu wonke kunye nendlela yakhe yokuphila yahlukile, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukufuna ingcebiso kugqirha wakho okanye kugqirha wakho malunga nemeko yakho kunokuthembela kuphela kulwazi oluqhelekileyo olufumaneka kwi-intanethi.
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