Ukuba umama wakho omthandayo, utata, okanye umntu omdala unesifo i-Alzheimer's, kusenokufuneka ujongane nezinto ezinzima ngamanye amaxesha. Khawuthelekelele, xa uzama ukubahlamba, ukutshintsha impahla yabo, okanye ukubanika amayeza abo ngexesha, ngequbuliso bathi, "Hayi!" baze bangavumi ukusebenzisana nayo nantoni na oyithethayo. Kuqhelekile ukuba lusizi, ucaphuke, kwaye uphoxeke ngamaxesha anje. Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka siyiqonde kuqala kukuba abazenzi ezi zinto ukuze bakukhathaze okanye bakwenze ungakhululeki. Loo ndlela yokuziphatha yinxalenye yesifo ngokwaso.
Kutheni beziphatha ngolu hlobo? Masiqonde isizathu.
Xa ingqondo yomntu yonakaliswe sisifo sika-Alzheimer, indlela abona nabaqonda ngayo ihlabathi iyatshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Zininzi izizathu zokuba angavumi ukukhathalelwa. Makhe sicinge ngaloo nto okomzuzwana.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukucinga ngento eyenzekileyo ngaphambi kokuba uqale le ngxaki.
- Intloni nokungabi nakuzinceda: Khawuthelekelele indlela abamele ukuba baziva bedanile kwaye bebuhlungu ngayo xa befuna uncedo lomnye umntu ukuze benze izinto ababezenza bodwa, njengokuhlamba okanye ukunxiba. Ukuziva belahlekelwa lulawulo lobomi babo kubabangela uxinzelelo olukhulu lwengqondo.
- Ukudideka nokungaqondani: Basenokungayiqondi into oyithethayo okanye into ozama ukuyenza. Umzekelo, xa uzama ukubasa kwigumbi lokuhlambela ukuze bahlambe, banokucinga ukuba uzama ukubantywilisela emanzini.
- Iimvakalelo zakho: Xa unomsindo okanye ukhathazekile, banokukuva ebusweni bakho nakwilizwi lakho. Oku kunokubangela ukuba boyike kwaye baxhalabe ngakumbi.
- Ukungakhululeki emzimbeni: Mhlawumbi balambile, banxaniwe, okanye bazive bengakhululekanga, ngokungathi bashushu okanye babanda. Mhlawumbi kufuneka baye kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Ekubeni bengenakukwazi ukuveza ezi zinto kakuhle, babonisa loo ntlungu ngokuzikhanyela.
- Ezinye iimeko zempilo: Ngamanye amaxesha, umntu onesifo sika-Alzheimer usenokungalufuni uncedo kuba enenye imeko yezempilo. Isenokuba yinto efana nomkhuhlane, iintlungu zomzimba, okanye usulelo lomchamo. Ukuba babonakala bebuthathaka kunesiqhelo, abanamdla wokutya, okanye bahlala belele, qiniseka ukuba uthetha nogqirha wakho.
- Iingcamango Eziphosakeleyo: Ngamanye amaxesha bakholelwa ukuba izinto ezenzekayo ezingenzeki ngokwenene. Umzekelo, basenokungavumi ukutya ukutya obanika kona kuba becinga ukuba kutyhefekile.
Senza ntoni kwimeko efana nale?
Wakuba ufumene umbono wokuba yintoni unobangela, zama ukuyisombulula. Ukuba enye indlela ayisebenzi, zama enye. Umonde yeyona nto ibalulekileyo apha.
Makhe sibone ukuba singenza ntoni kule theyibhile ingezantsi.
| Indlela enokwenzeka yokuzama | Inkcazo |
|---|---|
| Phazamisa | Ukuba into akayithandi, musa ukuphikisana ngayo, yithi nje, "Singaphuma siye kuhambahamba?" okanye umnike ukutya akuthandayo. Emva kokuba ethobile, zama ukuyenza kwakhona loo nto. |
| Thetha ngokuzolileyo, kancinci. | Nokuba unomsindo okanye ulusizi kangakanani na, musa ukoyika. Ukuba kunzima ukwenza njalo, suka imizuzu embalwa, uphefumle nzulu, uze uzole. Angaziva iimvakalelo zakho ngelizwi lakho nangolwimi lomzimba. |
| Musa ukunyanzela nantoni na. | Ukuba uzama ukumnyanzela ukuba enze into angafuni ukuyenza, imeko isenokuba mandundu. Mnike ixesha uze uzame kwakhona kamva. |
| Nika ukhetho olulula | Endaweni yokumbuza uthi, "Unxibe ntoni?", mbonise iimpahla ezimbini uze umbuze uthi, "Unxibe le iluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka okanye le ibomvu?" Oku kuya kumenza azive ngathi unako ukuzilawula. |
| Nika imiyalelo elula, inyathelo ngenyathelo | Musa ukunika imiyalelo emininzi ngaxeshanye, njengokuthi "Hamba uyokuhlamba amazinyo, uhlambe ubuso bakho, unxibe." Xa ugqibile ngokuthi "Masihlambe amazinyo ngoku," yithi "Kulungile, ngoku masihlambe ubuso bethu," uze uqhubekele kwinqanaba elilandelayo. |
| Ziphathe njengomntu omdala. | Bahloniphe ngelizwi lakho, amazwi akho, kunye nokuziphatha kwakho. Ungaze ubaphathe njengomntwana. Bayakwazi ukuvakalelwa. |
Khumbula, ngezinye iintsuku akukho nanye kwezi ndlela enokuthi isebenze. Musa ukoyika ngamaxesha anjalo. Asikuko ukuba unetyala. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, qhagamshelana nogqirha wakho.
Wenza ntoni xa ubona okanye usiva izinto ezingeyonyani?
Le yimeko enzima kakhulu. Uthi, "Kukho amasela endlwini." Uyazi ukuba akakho. Musa ukuphikisana naye ngexesha elinje. Musa ukuthetha izinto ezinje, "Musa ukuphambana."
- Thetha ngoxolo uze umthuthuzele. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, mbambe kancinci uze uthi, "Musa ukoyika, ndilapha."
- Zama ukufumana isizathu. Kutheni ecinga njalo? Mhlawumbi uva imoto ngaphandle aze acinge ukuba ngamapolisa. Mhlawumbi ubona ipateni kwisikrini sefestile yasekhitshini aze acinge ukuba bubuso. Ukuba ungasusa eso sizathu, umzekelo ngokutshintsha isikrini sefestile, yenza njalo.
- Abanye abantu bakubona kungcono ukuthetha inyani. Ungathi ngokuzolileyo, "Ndiyazi ukuba ubona ngaloo ndlela, kodwa mna andikuboni ngaloo ndlela."
- Kwabanye, kungcono ukusabela kwinto abayibonayo. Umzekelo, ukuba bathi kukho iinyoka, yenza ngathi uza kubabulala.
- Baphazamise. Beka ingoma abayithandayo, jonga i-albhamu yeefoto endala, okanye thetha ngokuzoba umfanekiso.
Wenza ntoni ukuba bayaxokozela?
Ngamanye amaxesha, xa umntu one-Alzheimer's engavumi uncedo, usenokuqala ukumbetha, ukumtyhala, ukuthuka, nokukhwaza. Oku kunokuba ngamava othusayo kakhulu kuwe.
- Beka ukhuseleko kuqala: Ukuba awukwazi ukumthomalalisa, yeka oko ukwenzayo uze umke ngokukhuselekileyo.
- Susa izinto eziyingozi: Susa kwaye utshixe nantoni na endlwini enokulimaza bona okanye wena, njengeemela, izikere, iibhotile zeglasi, nezinto ezinzima.
- Yiba nomntu okulungeleyo ukunceda: Xelela ummelwane okanye isalamane osithembileyo ngale meko ukuze ukwazi ukusifowunela xa ufuna uncedo olungxamisekileyo.
- Xelela ugqirha wakho: Ukuba umntu omthandayo uhlala esenza izinto ngobundlobongela okanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba enze izinto ngobundlobongela, qiniseka ukuba umxelele ugqirha wakho. Amayeza anokufuneka ukulawula le ndlela yokuziphatha.
Ukunyamekela umntu one-Alzheimer's akuyonto ilula. Kufuna umonde, uthando, nokuqonda okukhulu. Musa ukuthandabuza ukucela uncedo xa uziva udiniwe okanye uxinezelekile. Impilo yakho yengqondo nayo ibaluleke kakhulu.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Umntu onesifo sika-Alzheimer akavumi ukwenza into enokukulimaza. Siyinxalenye yesifo ngokwaso.
- Zama ukuqonda isizathu sokuziphatha kwabo. Kusenokuba kukungonwabi emzimbeni, uloyiko, okanye ukudideka.
- Soloko unyamezela, uzolile, kwaye unothando. Ukunyanzela izinto kunokwenza izinto zibe mbi ngakumbi.
- Ukuba babona okanye beva izinto ezingezizo zokwenyani, musa ukuphikisana nabo, ubathuthuzele, okanye ubaphazamise.
- Ukuba ukuziphatha okunobundlobongela kunzima ukukulawula, cinga ngokushiya loo ndawo ukuze ukhuseleke kwaye uqiniseke ukuba wazisa ugqirha wakho.
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