Ngaba wakha wambona umntwana wakho omncinci ezama ukuqhobosha ihempe yakhe? Okanye ezama ukuthabatha ithoyizi elincinci eliwe phantsi? Izihlunu ezincinci ezandleni zakhe naseminweni yakhe zinceda abantwana bethu ukuba benze le misebenzi mincinci, kodwa ibuthathaka kakhulu. Olu buchule yinto esiyibiza ngokuba "zizakhono zokunyakaza " kwisayensi yezonyango.
Zithini ezi zakhono zintle zokuqhuba iimoto?
Ngamafutshane, iFine Motor Skills kukukwazi ukusebenzisa izihlunu ezincinci ezandleni nasezihlahleni zethu ukwenza iintshukumo ezichanekileyo nezithambileyo. Cinga ngale ndlela: ukufaka iintsimbi kwintambo, ukubhala ngepensile, ukusika iphepha ngesikere. Olu buchule lubalulekile kuzo zonke ezi zinto.
Oku kwahlukile kwizakhono zomzimba ezifana nokubaleka nokutsiba, kuba zisebenzisa izihlunu ezinkulu njengemilenze neengalo zethu. Kodwa zombini ezi zakhono zibaluleke kakhulu kuphuhliso lomntwana ngokubanzi.
Ukufunda ukubamba ipensile ngokuchanekileyo linyathelo elikhulu kuhambo lomntwana lwemfundo, kwaye isiseko salo sibekwe zezi zakhono zintle zokunyakaza.
Sizifuna phi ezi zakhono kubomi bemihla ngemihla?
Ezi zakhono zintle zokunyakaza komzimba zisinceda phantse kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bethu bemihla ngemihla ngaphezu kokuba sicinga. Ukususela kumntwana omncinci ukuya kumntu omdala, wonke umntu uyazidinga. Jonga le mizekelo.
| Uhlobo lomsebenzi | Imizekelo |
|---|---|
| Ukwenza umsebenzi wakho | Ukuqhobosha nokuvula amaqhosha, ukuvula nokuvala iziphu, ukubopha imitya yezihlangu, ukuxubha amazinyo, ukusebenzisa izitshixo. |
| Ukutya, iziselo kunye nomsebenzi wasekhitshini | Ukutya ngecephe okanye ifolokhwe, ukukha izinto ezincinci ezifana neerayisi ngeminwe yakho, ukuvula nokuvala izigqubuthelo zebhotile, ukusika into ngemela, nokucoca imifuno. |
| Umsebenzi wesikolo nokufunda | Ukujika amaphepha encwadini, ukufaka imibala, ukuzoba, ukubhala, ukusika ngesikere, ukuncamathisela itshungama, ukusebenzisa imawusi yekhompyutha. |
| Ukudlala | Ukwakha iinqaba ngeebhloko, ukufaka iintsimbi, ukwenza iiphazili, ukudala ngodongwe, ukuhlanganisa izinto zokudlala zeLego. |
Ezi zakhono zikhula njani ngokweminyaka yomntwana?
Njengoko abantwana bekhula, babonisa izakhono ezithile kwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo. Sizibiza ngokuba 'ziimpawu zophuhliso'. Nangona ingengabo bonke abantwana abafikelela kwezi zinto ngendlela efanayo okanye ngesantya esifanayo, ngokubanzi kukho amanqanaba alindelekileyo.
Malunga neenyanga ezi-3
Kule minyaka, izandla zeentsana zihlala zibotshelelwe zibe ngamanqindi. Kodwa kancinci kancinci ezo nqindi ziyakhululeka zize ziqale ukuvula izandla zazo. Zisenokuzisa izandla zazo emlonyeni wazo . Zisenokuzama nokufikelela kwithoyi exhonyiweyo.
Kwiinyanga ezi-6
Okwangoku, uninzi lweentsana luyakwazi ukubamba izandla zazo kunye. Banokufikelela kwinto ethile besebenzisa izandla zombini ngaxeshanye. Banokwazi nokubamba ithoyizi elincinci esandleni sabo okwethutyana.
Kwiinyanga ezili-9
Uninzi lwabantwana lunokudlulisa izinto ukusuka kwesinye isandla ukuya kwesinye baze bazise izinto emlonyeni wabo kule minyaka. Uninzi lwexesha, izandla zabo zivulekile. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuqala ukuchola izinto ezincinci usebenzisa ubhontsi nomnwe wokwalatha. Oku kukwabizwa ngokuba yi-pincer grasp .
Ekupheleni konyaka (iinyanga ezili-12)
Abantwana abakule minyaka banokubeka into phantsi xa bethanda. Banokunika into ukuba sibacela. Bakwazi nokudibanisa amathoyizi amabini, ukufaka izinto kwisikhongozeli, ukuzibeka ecaleni, nokukhomba.
Xa eneminyaka eyi-1 1/2 (iinyanga ezili-18)
Okwangoku, bayakwazi ukuqhwaba izandla, baphakamise izandla zabo bathi 'tata', baze badwebe imigca ephepheni ngentonga enemibala (scribe BBL e) ngaphandle koncedo lomntu. Baye baqhela kancinci kancinci ukusela kwikomityi nokutya ngecephe.
Kwiminyaka emi-2 ubudala
Xa beneminyaka emibini ubudala, uninzi lwabantwana luyakwazi ukukhomba imifanekiso ekwincwadi, batyhile amaphepha, baze bakhe inqaba ngokubeka iibhloko ezintathu okanye ezine phezu kwenye.
Ndingathetha nini nogqirha wam?
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyikhumbule kuqala kukuba wonke umntwana ukhula ngesantya sakhe.Abanye abantwana bafunda ukutya ngecephe kwangethuba, ngelixa abanye befunda kamva. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Musa ukukhathazeka kakhulu ngayo.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufumana nayiphi na kwezi zilandelayo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufuna ingcebiso kagqirha :
- Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umntwana wakho akakafikeleli kwimigangatho emininzi yophuhliso kwiqela lakhe leminyaka .
- Ukuba unamathandabuzo okanye uloyiko olunzulu malunga nokukhula komntwana wakho.
Ngamaxesha anje, musa ukuzibamba nto, thetha nogqirha wabantwana okanye ugqirha wosapho . Kukwaluncedo kakhulu ukuthetha noMsebenzi wezeMpilo yoSapho (PHM) wasekuhlaleni. Angakunika isikhokelo esilungileyo njengoko ehlala ejonga ukukhula komntwana wakho.
Ngokunika ingqalelo koku kwangethuba, ukuba umntwana udinga naluphi na uncedo, singamnika ngexesha elifanelekileyo size siqinise ikamva lakhe.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Izakhono zemisipha emihle zibhekisa kwiintshukumo ezithambileyo nezichanekileyo kusetyenziswa izihlunu ezincinci ezandleni nakwiminwe.
- Olu buchule lubalulekile kuyo yonke into ebomini bemihla ngemihla, ukususela ekutyeni ukuya ekunxibeni nasekubhaleni.
- Abantwana baphuhlisa ezi zakhono kancinci kancinci njengoko bekhula. Ayingabo bonke abantwana abaphuhlisa ngesantya esifanayo.
- Ukuba unenkxalabo okanye uxhalabile malunga nokukhula komntwana wakho, ungaze ungathandabuzi ukuthetha nogqirha okanye umsebenzi wezempilo wosapho. Kungcono ukufumana uncedo kwangethuba.
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