Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ungazazi ukuba ukhulelwe? Masithethe 'ngokukhulelwa okufihlakeleyo'

Khawucinge nje, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu angazi ukuba ukhulelwe ade abe nomntwana? Kuvakala ngathi yindaba kamabonwakude, akunjalo? Kodwa oku kunokwenzeka, kodwa kunqabile kakhulu. Uninzi lwexesha, ukukhulelwa kufumaneka sele kusondele ekubelekeni, okanye emva kokuba elaliswe esibhedlele ukuze abeleke umntwana . Kwezonyango, oku sikubiza ngokuba 'kukukhulelwa okufihliweyo' okanye ukukhulelwa okufihlakeleyo . Ungamangaliswa kukuva oku, ngoko masithethe ngako ngokucacileyo.

Ungathini na ukuba ungazazi ukuba ukhulelwe?

Kumama osele enabantwana, oku kusenokungacingeki. Ngenxa yesicaphucaphu, ukuhlanza, ukuphelelwa ngumdla wokutya, ukuyeka ukuya exesheni, kunye nokutyeba okuhamba nokukhulelwa, kusengqiqweni ukuzibuza ukuba ebengenakukwazi njani.

Nangona kunjalo, kunqabile ukuba umntu ajongane namava anjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kuyimfihlakalo nakugqirha. Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo ezichaphazela oku. Makhe sibone ukuba ziyintoni na.

Kuba ndisebenzisa ucwangciso lokuzalwa

Ukuba usebenzisa iipilisi zokulawula ukukhulelwa, iinaliti, okanye ezinye iindlela zokulawula ukukhulelwa, unokucinga, "Owu, andizukukhulelwa." Kodwa khumbula, akukho ndlela yokulawula ukukhulelwa esebenza ngokupheleleyo . Ezinye iindlela zokulawula ukukhulelwa zinokumisa ixesha lakho lokuya exesheni. Oko kunokwenza kube nzima nangakumbi ukuba ukhulelwe.

Ukuba ukuya kwakho exesheni akuqhelekanga

Kwabaninzi, uphawu lokuqala lokuba bakhulelwe kukuba ixesha labo alifiki ngexesha. Kodwa ukuba umjikelo wakho awuhambelani, oko kuthetha ukuba kuqhelekile ukuba ufike emva kwenyanga enye okanye ezimbini, usenokungacingi ukuba yinto enkulu. Ingakumbi ukuba unesifo esifana ne -PCOS (i-Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) okanye uxinezelekile kakhulu, unokucinga ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ungayinaki.

Kuba kukho amathontsi amancinci egazi aphuma kwilungu lobufazi

Kwiiveki zokuqala zokukhulelwa, xa imveku izifakela eludongeni lwesibeleko (ukufakelwa), amathontsi ambalwa egazi anokubakho. Abanye abafazi bacinga ngempazamo ukuba eli 'lixesha lokukhanya'. Kwakhona, abanye abantu banokufumana amabala nokuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa okunempilo. Ngoko ke oku kunokudideka nokuya exesheni.

Ukuba uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ekhaya alulunganga

Uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ekhaya luchanekile kakhulu, kodwa aluchanekanga ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba awuyilandeli ngqo imiyalelo, okanye ukuba uvavanya kwangethuba kakhulu ekukhulelweni kwakho, inqanaba lehomoni i- hCG ( iHuman Chorionic Gonadotropin ) kumchamo wakho lisenokungabi phezulu ngokwaneleyo ukunika iziphumo 'ezimbi'.

Ukungabikho kweempawu eziqhelekileyo zokukhulelwa

Ukuba awunazo iimpawu zokukhulelwa eziqhelekileyo ezifunyanwa ngabantu abaninzi, ezifana nokucaphuka, ukuhlanza, ukuthamba kwamabele, kunye nokudinwa, mhlawumbi awucingi ukuba ukhulelwe kwaphela, akunjalo? Abanye abantu bazifumana ezi mpawu rhoqo. Usenokuziva ucaphukile kancinci, kodwa usenokungazinaki, ucinga ukuba 'kukutya okunobuthi' okanye 'i-gastritis.'

Ukunyuka okanye ukwehla kwamafutha esiswini

Ayingomntu wonke obhinqileyo ofumana ubunzima aze akhule isisu ngendlela efanayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ukuba umkhulu kancinci, okanye ukuba uzilolonga rhoqo, ukunyuka kwakho ubunzima kusenokungabonakali. Kwakhona, kwabanye abafazi, isisu sisenokungabonakali de kube kamva kakhulu.

Ukuba ubunengxaki yokuba nabantwana okanye ngenxa yobudala

Ukuba ukhe wazama ukuba nomntwana ngaphambili waza akaphumelela, okanye ukuba oogqirha bakuxelele ukuba awunakuba nabantwana, usenokuba ucinga, "Andinakuba nabantwana ngoku." Kwakhona, ukuba ungumfazi oneminyaka engama-40 okanye engama-50 ubudala, ungaphambanisa iimpawu zokukhulelwa (umz., ukuya exesheni okungaqhelekanga , ukudinwa) nezo zokuya exesheni.

Andiziva ngathi umntwana uyasokola

Ngokwesiqhelo, umama uqala ukuziva umntwana ehamba esibelekweni malunga neeveki ezili-18 ukuya kwezingama-20. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba i-placenta inamathele eludongeni olungaphambili lwesibeleko (i-placenta engaphambili), ezi ntshukumo zisenokungabonakali kangako. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mathandabuzo okuba ukhulelwe.

Zithini iimpawu zale meko?

Enyanisweni, uphawu oluphambili lokukhulelwa okufihlakeleyo kukungabikho kweempawu eziqhelekileyo zokukhulelwa okanye ukuxilongwa kwazo gwenxa . Kodwa ukuba unokungabaza nokuba kuncinci, qaphela ezi mpawu zilandelayo. Masizijonge kwitheyibhile.

Ukuba unale mpawu kwaye uyakwazi ukukhulelwa, qiniseka ukuba uthetha nogqirha wakho ngayo.

Zithini iingozi zale meko?

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umama nomntwana babone ugqirha kulo lonke ixesha lokukhulelwa, benze iimvavanyo ezifunekayo, baze balandele imiyalelo (ukhathalelo lwangaphambi kokubeleka). Xa ukhulelwe ngendlela engaqondakaliyo, olu khathalelo alunakwenzeka kwaphela, nto leyo enokubeka umama nomntwana emngciphekweni omkhulu.

• Iingozi kumama:
• Ukufuneka ndibelekele umntwana ngaphandle kwesibhedlele, ngaphandle kolwalathiso lukagqirha.
• Ukuba nomntwana ngequbuliso ngamava abuhlungu kakhulu, nto leyo enokubangela iingxaki zempilo yengqondo (umz., ukudakumba emva kokuzalwa).
• Ukungakwazi ukuqaphela iimeko ezifana noxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu kunye nesifo seswekile esinokwenzeka ngexesha lokukhulelwa.

• Iingozi kumntwana:
• Ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha .
• Ubunzima obuphantsi bokuzalwa .
• Umngcipheko okhulayo wokuzalwa komntwana eswelekile .
• Uphando lubonise ukuba iintsana zisengozini enkulu yokungahoywa emva kokuzalwa.

Ukuba ubelekele ngequbuliso ekhaya okanye kwenye indawo, fowunela inkonzo ye-ambulensi ka-1990 ngoko nangoko kwaye uye kwiYunithi yoNyango oluNgxamisekileyo (ETU) yesibhedlele esikufutshane.

Yintoni omawuyenze ukuba unamathandabuzo?

Ukuba unamathandabuzo amancinci, njengokuthi, 'Ngaba ndikhulelwe?', musa ukuwatyeshela.

Ugqirha wakho angakuthumela kwingcebiso ngempilo yengqondo. Musa ukoyika loo nto. Kuya kukunceda ulawule ukothuka kokufumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe kwaye kukulungiselele ukuba ngumama olungileyo kumntwana wakho.