Sonke sifuna ukonwaba ngenkangeleko yethu. Kwabanye, kukubonisa ihlabathi ukuba bangoobani ngokwenene. Enyanisweni, ukwenza utyando lokutshintsha indlela ababukeka ngayo yinto abantu abaninzi abakhetha ukuyenza kule mihla. Kodwa kumntu otshintshe isini okanye ongengowesibini, yinto enzulu ngakumbi. Kukuqinisekisa ubuwena bakhe bokwenyani, ukulungelelanisa ingqondo nomzimba wakhe. Namhlanje, sithetha ngotyando olunye olunjalo, utyando lokuqinisekisa isini .
Umntu uba njani ngumntu otshintshe isini okanye ongengomntu otshintsha isini?
Kalula nje, kulula kakhulu. Khawucinge nje, xa umntwana ezalwa, sijonga amalungu akhe esini size sigqibe ukuba yinkwenkwe okanye yintombazana. Sibiza loo nto ngokuthi "isini esabelwe ekuzalweni." Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, njengoko umntwana ekhula, siyaqonda ukuba oko akuvakalelwa ngaphakathi, oko kukuthi, "ubuni bakhe besini," akuhambelani nesini esabelwe ekuzalweni.
Umzekelo, umntu owabelwe ubudoda ekuzalweni kwakhe usenokuziva enzulu ukuba ungumfazi. Yiloo nto siyibiza ngokuba yi-transgender .
I-Nonbinary ibhekisa kubantu abavakalelwa kukuba abanakuhlulwahlulwa ngokupheleleyo njenge "bhinqa" okanye "indoda." Bangabantu abanobuntu obungaphaya kwezi bhokisi zimbini.
Aba bantu baneendlela ezahlukeneyo zokutshintsha inkangeleko yabo ukuze ihambelane nobuntu babo bangaphakathi. Abanye batshintsha inkangeleko yabo ngeempahla, iinwele, kunye ne-makeup. Abanye bajika baye kunyango lwe-hormone. Abanye bakhetha utyando olunokutshintsha umzimba nobuso babo ngokusisigxina.
Utyando lobuso
Utyando lweplastiki lokutshintsha inkangeleko yobuso luqhelekile kakhulu. Lunokunceda abantu baphucule ukuzithemba kwabo kwaye bazive bekhululekile. Abantu abatshintshe isini nabo banokulusebenzisa olu tyando ukulungisa imo yobuso babo ukuze ihambelane nobuni babo.
| Uhlobo lotyando | Ingcaciso |
|---|---|
| Ukwenziwa Kwamabhinqa Ebusweni | Ukunika ubuso nentamo yendoda inkangeleko yobufazi. Oku kuquka ukutshintsha imo yebunzi, ukunciphisa ubungakanani bomhlathi kunye namathambo esilevini, ukunika izidlele inkangeleko epheleleyo, ukutshintsha imo yempumlo nemilebe, kunye nokunciphisa iapile lika-Adam. |
| Ukuguqula Ubuso Bube Budoda | Ukwenza ubuso bomfazi bubonakale besilisa ngakumbi. Oku kuquka ukwandisa ibunzi, ukutshintsha umhlathi nesilevu, ukutshintsha amathambo ezidlele, kunye nokwandisa umhlathi. |
Utyando olutshintsha inkangeleko yesifuba (Utyando oluPhezulu)
Utyando lwebele nalo luqhelekile kakhulu. Olu lubizwa ngokuba "lutyando oluphezulu" ngamafutshane.
- Utyando Oluphezulu Lwe-Transfeminine: Ukuba umntu ufuna isifuba esibonakala ngathi sesobufazi, kwenziwa utyando lwebele. Oku kufana notyando oludla ngokwenziwa ukwandisa amabele.
- Ukuze umntu abonakale eyindoda ngakumbi (Transmasculine Top Surgery): Ukuba umntu ufuna isifuba esithe tyaba esinokubonakala eyindoda ngakumbi, kwenziwa utyando lokunciphisa amabele (olufana notyando lwe-mastectomy). Oku kubandakanya ukususa izicubu zebele kunye nokunciphisa isifuba. Iingono zingaphinda zibekwe ngendlela efanayo nesifuba sendoda eqhelekileyo.
Utyando olusezantsi
Olu lutyando oluntsonkothileyo, kwaye lufuna uncedo loogqirha abanamava amaninzi kutyando lokufakelwa izitho zomzimba.
Ukuze umntu abonakale eyindoda (Transmasculine Bottom Surgery)
Amanye amadoda atshintshe isini akhetha ukususwa kwesibeleko kunye namaqanda. Oku kungenziwa ngokususwa kwesibeleko. Oku kunciphisa amanqanaba omzimba eehomoni zabasetyhini kwaye kumise ukuya exesheni ngenyanga.
Ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha amalungu esini angaphandle, ungenza ipenis. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokwenza oku:
- I-Metoidioplasty: Apha, i-clitoris kunye nolusu olujikelezileyo zisetyenziselwa ukwenza i-penis encinci (i-phallus) enokuvuselelwa kwaye isetyenziswe xa kuchonywa.
- I-Phalloplasty: Oku kuquka ukuthatha ulusu kwelinye ilungu lomzimba (umz., ingalo okanye ithanga) uze ulufake ukuze kwenziwe ipenisi.
- Ukongeza, kunokwenzeka ukwenza i-scrotum usebenzisa ii-implants ezibonakala ngathi ngamasende.
Ukuze umntu abonakale njengomfazi (Transfeminine Bottom Surgery)
Abo bafuna ukunciphisa izinga leehomoni zamadoda emzimbeni banokwenza utyando lokususa amasende (orchiectomy) .
Utyando lokwenza i-vaginoplasty lubizwa ngokuba yi -vaginoplasty . Kule nkqubo, kusetyenziswa izicubu ezivela kwi-penis zize zifakwe kwi-pelvic cavity ukwenza i-vagina. Emva kolu tyando, kufuneka kusetyenziswe izixhobo ezikhethekileyo (ii-dilators) ukuthintela i-vagina esandula ukwenziwa ukuba ingavaleki.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba zonke ezi tyando zizigqibo zomntu ngamnye. Asinguye wonke umntu ofuna ukuba nazo zonke ezi zinto. Kubalulekile ukuba bazikhethele ngokwabo into ebafaneleyo nento abayifunayo.
Ixabisa malini le tyando?
Ezinye iinkampani zeinshorensi ziyayigubungela le misebenzi yotyando. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi, iipolisi zeinshorensi zinokuba nemigqaliselo engabandakanyi izinto ezifana "neenkonzo ezinxulumene notshintsho ngokwesondo." Ngoko ke, kungcono ukufowunela inkampani yakho yeinshorensi uze uyibuze ngale nto.
Ukuba ukhuselwe yi-inshorensi, banokucela amaxwebhu athile ngaphambi kokuba bayivume.
- Ingxelo yezonyango ethi ufunyaniswe une-Gender Dysphoria: Gender Dysphoria kukukhathazeka kwengqondo kunye nokungonwabi okubangelwa kukungafani phakathi kobuni owabelwe ekuzalweni kunye nesini ovakalelwa kukuba unguye. Ugqirha wakho angakunika inqaku malunga noku.
- Ileta yenkxaso evela kwingcali yezempilo yengqondo (umz., ugqirha wengqondo, umcebisi).
Olu tyando lunokubiza imali eninzi. Ngoko ke, ukuba ulwenza ngepokotho yakho, kubalulekile ukuba wazi ngentlawulo yabo bonke ababandakanyekayo, kuquka oogqirha botyando, iingcali zokubulala iintlungu, iingcali zengqondo, kunye nabacebisi, kwangaphambili.
Ukuchacha emva kotyando kunye nempilo-ntle yengqondo
Ixesha lokuchacha liyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kuhlobo lotyando olwenzileyo. Nangona ukudumba emva kotyando lobuso kudla ngokuncipha kwiiveki ezimbini, ukudumba emva kotyando lokuzala kunokuthatha iinyanga ezi-4 nangaphezulu.
Thetha nogqirha wakho malunga nokuba ungabuyela nini kwimisebenzi yakho yesiqhelo. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba uyaya kwintlanganiso zokulandelela emva kotyando ukuze ugqirha wakho ajonge ukuba uphilile kakuhle na.
Nantsi eyona nxalenye ibalulekileyo: Abantu abaninzi abafumana utyando lwe-Gender Affirmation bathi luphucule kakhulu umgangatho wobomi babo kunye nempilo yabo yengqondo. Enyanisweni, ngaphezu kwama-94% abo bafumana olu tyando banelisekile ziziphumo.
Abo bafumana inkxaso entle yengqondo ngaphambi kotyando baneziphumo ezingcono nangakumbi. Olunye uphando lufumanise ukuba imfuneko yonyango lwempilo yengqondo emva kotyando yehlisiwe nge-8%.
Ukuba ucinga ngolu hlobo lotyando, inyathelo lokuqala kukuthetha nogqirha wakho oyintloko ngalo mba. Banokuxoxa ngeendlela ezikulungeleyo kwaye bakunike ulwalathiso olufanelekileyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Utyando lokuqinisekisa ubuni lutyando lomntu ngamnye olwenziwayo ukuze kulungiswe umzimba womntu ukuze uvumelane nobuwena bakhe bokwenyani.
- Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zotyando lobuso, isifuba kunye nezitho zangasese. Akuyena wonke umntu omele azenze zonke.
- Esi asisosigqibo esimele sithathwe lula. Sisigqibo esifanele siqwalaselwe ngononophelo kwaye sixoxwe ngaso nogqirha othembekileyo kunye nomcebisi wezempilo yengqondo .
- Nangona kuthatha ixesha ukuphiliswa, izifundo zibonisa ukuba olu tyando luphucula kakhulu impilo yengqondo kunye nolonwabo ebomini kubantu abaninzi.
- Olu hambo luhlukile kumntu ngamnye. Okusebenzayo komnye umntu kusenokungasebenzi komnye. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba uzive ulungile ngawe.
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