Ingaba umntwana wakho uxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo? Masithethe ngale meko iyingozi…

Kuqhelekile ukumthethisa nokumkhalimela umntwana xa enze into engalunganga. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha singazi singawugqitha loo mgca size sibangele umonakalo ongenakulungiswa engqondweni yomntwana. Ukuxhatshazwa akupheleli nje ekumbetheni okanye ekumlimazeni umntwana. Amazwi, ukuziphatha, kunye nokungahoywa kunokubangela umonakalo onokuchaphazela ubomi bomntwana bonke. Yiloo nto siyibiza ngokuba kukuhlukumeza ngokweemvakalelo. Kufana nenxeba elingabonakaliyo. Kodwa umntwana uthwala intlungu yalo ubomi bakhe bonke.

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Yintoni kanye kanye impatho-mbi ngokweemvakalelo?

Ngamafutshane, sibiza ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo njengendlela yokuziphatha eyenziwa ngabazali okanye abanakekeli ehlala ihleli kwaye yonakalisa ukukhula kweemvakalelo zomntwana kunye nokuzixabisa kwakhe. Oku akukokuthethiswa kube kanye ngomsindo. Le yinkqubo eqhubekayo .

Cinga ngale nto, xa uxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni, amanxeba ayabonakala ngaphandle. Kodwa xa uxhatshazwa ngokwengqondo, amanxeba akwingqondo. Yiyo loo nto kunzima ukuyiqonda. Kodwa iziphumo zayo zinokuchaphazela ubomi bomntwana bonke.

Ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo akupheleli nje ekungxoleni, ekugxekeni nasekuphatheni umntwana kakubi, kodwa kuquka nokungamniki umntwana uthando, uthando, kunye nengqalelo ayidingayo.

Le meko imchaphazela njani umntwana?

Ukulawulwa kweemvakalelo okuphazamisekileyo: ukungakwazi ukubona ngokuchanekileyo nokulawula iimvakalelo zakho.
Iindlela zokuziphatha ziyatshintsha: zisenokuba zizinto ezikrwada ngequbuliso, okanye zithule kakhulu.
Ichaphazela ukufunda: Oku kungumqobo omkhulu ekukwazini ukugxila kumsebenzi wesikolo nokufunda.
Ukuzixabisa konakele: Ukuzixabisa kunye nokuzithemba kuyaphela ngokupheleleyo.
Bakha umfanekiso ongalunganga ngabazali babo: baqala ukucinga ukuba abazali, abafanele ukuba nothando kwaye babakhusele, ngabantu aboyikwayo kwaye basoloko begxekwa.

Ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo kuyenzeka rhoqo kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwesondo. Kufana nesixhobo esisetyenziselwa ukulawula umntwana. Ingakumbi kwiintsana ezincinci, iintsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa, kunye neentsana ezingakwaziyo ukuthetha okanye ukuveza iimfuno zazo, ukungabikho kothando nothando kubangela ingozi enkulu. Banokuba ngabantwana abangenamdla wokunxibelelana nabanye, abaxhalabileyo, kwaye abanazo nezakhono zolwimi ezilibazisekileyo.

Iimpawu zokuba umntwana uxhatshazwa

Xa sizazi ezi mpawu, kulula ngathi ukuqaphela ukuba umntwana osingqongileyo ujongene nolu hlobo lwemeko. Kodwa khumbula, ayizizo zonke ezi mpawu ezibangelwa kukuxhatshazwa ngokwengqondo. Ngamanye amaxesha, zinokubangelwa zezinye iimeko zempilo. Ngoko ke ukuba unamathandabuzo, eyona nto ilungileyo onokuyenza kukuthetha nogqirha wakho.

Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ezibonakala kumntwana oye waxhatshazwa ngokwengqondo
Iimvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha	Ndingumntu ohlukanisiweyo nomntu wonke, ndilusizi, kwaye ndixhalabile. Ukungabi naluvelwano. Ukunamathela kuye nabani na omnika ingqalelo encinci. Uhlala esenza izinto ezingafanelekanga kwaye ubonakala eneengxaki zokuziphatha. Ayinaloyiko ngokungaqhelekanga kunabanye abantwana abaneminyaka efanayo.
Unxibelelwano loluntu	Bayayithobela imithetho nemigaqo ebekwe ngabantu abadala abafana nootitshala noogqirha phantse ngokupheleleyo. Akukho mnqweno wokuthetha okanye wokuzibandakanya nabanye. Ndisoloko ndisithi izinto ezinje "Umama/uTata uthi ndisoloko ndingumntu ombi."
Iimpawu zomzimba nezophuhliso	Kukho iingxaki zokulala, ukutya, kunye nokuthetha. Bazithuthuzela ngezinto ezifana nokushukuma okunesingqisho. Ukuchama ebhedini , ubunzima obungapheliyo ngokufundisa indlu yangasese. Ukukhula kulibaziseke.

Ungabona njani ukuba abazali bakho benza le mpazamo?

Ngamanye amaxesha abazali abaqondi nokuba bayamlimaza umntwana wabo. Basenokuba bakhuphela umsindo noxinzelelo lwabo ebantwaneni babo. Ukuba ubona izinto ezinje, xhalaba.

Ukulindela izinto ezingaphaya kwamandla omntwana: Umzekelo, ukulindela amanqaku ayi-100% kwisifundo ngasinye kumntwana omncinci.
Ukubandakanya umntwana kwiingxabano zomtshato: Ukuzama ukufumana umntwana kwicala lakho kwiingxabano zomtshato.
Ukusebenzisa umntwana ukwanelisa ikratshi lakhe: ukunyanzela umntwana ukuba enze izinto umntu angenakukwazi ukuzenza.
Intetho engamhloniphiyo umntwana: Ukuthetha nomntwana ngamagama anje ngokuthi "loo" kunye "le" phambi kwabanye.
Ukubeka umntwana kwingxaki yobundlobongela basekhaya: Ukulwa nokubethwa ekhaya okwenzeka phambi komntwana.

Xa ejongene nezi zinto ngokuhamba kwexesha, umntwana uqala ukucinga, "Kufuneka ukuba bendingumntwana ombi." Bayayishiya iingcinga ezilungileyo ababenazo ngabo baze baqale ukuvumelana nokugxekwa nokugxekwa abakuvayo. Esi sesona siphumo siyingozi kakhulu soku.

Inyangwa njani le meko?

Amaxesha amaninzi, abazali abaxhaphaza abantwana babo ngokweemvakalelo basenokuba nabo baxhatshazwa ngexesha lobuntwana babo. Lo ngumjikelo oyingozi odluliselwa kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana. Kufuna amandla amaninzi ukuwuphelisa. Ke ngoko, kwiimeko ezinjalo, umntwana kunye nabazali bafuna unyango kunye nenkxaso.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukuba kukho nokuba kukho ukurhanelwa okuncinci kokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwesondo, kufuneka kuqinisekiswe ukhuseleko lomntwana kuqala . Kuphela emva kokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana usendaweni ekhuselekileyo apho unyango lungaqala khona.

Esi asisosisombululo sexesha elifutshane. Sifuna ukuzibophelela kwexesha elide kubo bonke ababandakanyekayo. Rhoqo, umntwana unikwa inkxaso yingcali egxile kwingqondo yabantwana . Oku,

Ifundisa umntwana ukuba aphinde abathembe abanye.
Ibonisa umntwana ukuba ubudlelwane obuhle nobuphilileyo buyintoni.
Xa kuvela ingxabano, bakufundisa indlela yokuyilawula .
Yakha ukuzihlonipha komntwana okuphukileyo kwaye imenza azixabise.

Kwezinye iimeko, unyango losapho lunokuba luncedo kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqonde ukuba benza impazamo baze bafune uncedo lweengcali ukuze boyise le meko.

Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya

Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwengqondo kuyingozi emntwaneni njengokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni, mhlawumbi nangakumbi.
Ukuba ubona utshintsho olukhawulezileyo kwindlela umntwana wakho aziphethe ngayo okanye kwiimvakalelo zakhe, xhalaba. Musa ukuyithatha njengento 'embi'.
Ukusoloko ukhalimela, ugxeka, kwaye uthelekisa umntwana nabanye, kunye nokungamthandi nokumkhathalela, kukwayimpatho embi yengqondo.
Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba umntwana omaziyo ujongene nolu hlobo lwemeko, yixele kwabasemagunyeni abafanelekileyo okanye kumntu omdala othembekileyo.
Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba wenza impazamo njengomzali, ungathandabuzi ukucela uncedo. Akukho ntloni ekufuneni uncedo lobuchwephesha kumntwana wakho nakumntwana wakho.
Ukuba unamathandabuzo malunga nengxaki enjalo, thetha nogqirha wakho wosapho uze ufumane ulwalathiso olufanelekileyo.

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