Lokhu kungaba yindaba onqikaza kancane ukuyixoxa nanoma ubani. Kodwa ukukhipha isisu kuyinqubo evamile nenempilo eyenzeka emzimbeni wendoda. Lokhu kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngempilo yocansi. Ngakho-ke, ukwazi lokhu ngaphandle kwamahloni noma ukwesaba kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho enempilo. Ake sixoxe ngalokhu ngokukhululekile nangokulula.
Kalula nje, kuyini ukukhiya?
Ukukhipha isidoda ukukhishwa koketshezi olujiyile nolunamathelayo oluvela endodeni yakho. Ngokuvamile sibiza lokhu ngokuthi isidoda esimanzi noma isidoda . Ngokuvamile, lokhu kwenzeka ngemva kokuvuthwa. Okusho ukuthi, ngemva kokuba usufinyelele esicongweni senjabulo yocansi. Kodwa-ke, ngezinye izikhathi ukuphuma kwesidoda kungenzeka ngaphandle kokuvuthwa kwesidoda.
Le nqubo yenzeka kanjani ngaphakathi emzimbeni?
Lokhu akulula njengoba kuzwakala, kodwa kulula kakhulu ukukuqonda. Yonke inqubo ilawulwa uhlelo lwakho lwezinzwa. Lapho ukuvuka kocansi kufinyelela esicongweni, izinzwa ezivela ohlelweni lwakho lokuzala ziye emgogodleni wakho zithumela isignali yokukhipha isidoda epenisini lakho.
Lena inqubo eyenzeka ngezinyathelo ezimbili eziyinhloko. Njengokwethula into ethile, isinyathelo sokuqala "ukulungiselela," kanti isinyathelo sesibili "ukwethula."
1. Isinyathelo sokuqala: Isigaba sokukhishwa komoya
Phakathi nalesi sigaba, isidoda esivela emasendeni akho siya endlaleni ye-prostate. Lapho, isidoda sihlangana nezinye izinto eziwuketshezi ukuze sakhe lokho esikwazi ngokuthi isidoda. Bese kuthi, ama-vas deferens, ithubhu eligcina isidoda, afinyeze, asunduze isidoda siye esicongweni sepenis. Lesi yisigaba sokulungiselela.
2. Isinyathelo sesibili: Isigaba sokuxoshwa
Manje udinga ukukhipha isidoda esifinyelele phansi kwepenisi yakho. Phakathi nalesi sigaba, imisipha ephansi kwepenisi yakho iqala ukufinyela ngokushesha okukhulu, ngendlela enesigqi, cishe kanye njalo ngemizuzwana engu-0.8. Lokhu kufinyela okusheshayo yikona okusunduza isidoda siphume epenisi yakho. Asiphumi sonke ngesikhathi esisodwa, sivame ukuphuma ngochungechunge lwezinhliziyo.
Kalula nje, ukuchama kuyimpendulo ezenzakalelayo eyenzeka ngaphandle kokulawulwa ngumzimba wakho. Njengokuthimula, akunakumiswa uma ukuvuka kocansi sekufike esicongweni.
Umfana uqala ukukhipha isidoda eneminyaka emingaki?
Ukukhipha isidoda ngokuvamile kuqala lapho umfana efika esikhathini sokuthomba.Ngemva `(ukuthomba).` Okusho ukuthi, lapho umzimba uqala ukukhiqiza isidoda. Ubudala lapho ukuthomba kwenzeka khona buyahlukahluka kuye ngomuntu. Ukuthomba kuvame ukuqala phakathi kweminyaka eyi-10 neyi-12.
Ngakho-ke, kuphakathi nale minyaka lapho ukuchama kokuqala kwenzeka khona. Ngokuvamile ukuchama kokuqala kwenzeka njengephupho elimanzi , okungukuthi, into eyenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo ngesikhathi sokulala. Noma kungenzeka futhi ngesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu.
Ikhono lokuphuma koketshezi livame ukukhula phakathi nezinyanga ezimbalwa noma unyaka wokuthomba. Kodwa khumbula, abafana abancane bangajabulela ukushaya indlwabu ngisho nangaphambi kokuba baphume koketshezi. Lokho kuvamile.
Kukangaki kunempilo ukukhipha isidoda?
Lona umbuzo abantu abaningi abanawo. Ungase ube nemibuzo efana nokuthi, "Ngikwenza kanye ngosuku, ingabe kuhle lokho?", "Ngikwenza kanye ngesonto, akwanele lokho?" Iqiniso liwukuthi, ayikho inombolo emisiwe yezikhathi okufanele ukhiphe ngazo isidoda.
Kuhlukahluka kakhulu kuye ngobudala bomuntu, impilo yakhe, isimo sakhe sengqondo, kanye nendlela yakhe yokuphila. Ucwaningo oluthile lubonise ukuthi ukuphuphuma njalo kwesisu kungasiza ekunciphiseni ingozi yomdlavuza wendlala. Kodwa-ke, abukho ubufakazi obuqinile bokuthi ukungaphuphumi kwesisu kubangela noma yiziphi izinkinga zempilo.
Ngakho-ke, uma ukhathazekile ngokuvama kokukhipha i-ejaculation, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho ngakho.
Yiziphi izinkinga ezivamile ezingase zenzeke ngokuphuma komchamo?
Nakuba ukukhipha isisu kuyinqubo yemvelo, ngezinye izikhathi kungavela izinkinga ezihlobene nakho. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela lokhu. Ukuze ukwazi ukuthatha izinyathelo ezifanele ngaphandle kokwethuka uma kwenzeka into efana naleyo kuwe. Kunezinhlobo ezintathu zezinkinga ngokuyinhloko.
| Uhlobo lwenkinga | Kalula nje, yilokhu okwenzekayo... |
|---|---|
| Ukuphuma komchamo ngaphambi kwesikhathi | Lena inkinga evamile kakhulu. Kalula nje, ukukhishelwa kwesidoda ngokushesha okukhulu, ngaphambi kwesikhathi wena noma umlingani wakho osifunayo. Isikhathi salokhu 'okusheshayo' siyahlukahluka kuye ngomuntu nomuntu. Kwabanye, kungenzeka ngokushesha nje lapho beqala ukuya ocansini. Lokhu kuvame ukubangelwa yizici ezifana nokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka. |
| Ukuphuza ukuphuma komchamo okulibazisekile | Lolu olunye uhlangothi lokuphuma kocansi ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kusho ukuthi kuthatha isikhathi eside ukukhipha ucansi ngemva kokushukunyiswa okukhulu kocansi. Amanye amadoda angase angaphumi nhlobo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi azama kangakanani. Isibonelo, uma enza ucansi imizuzu engama-30-45 kodwa engakwazi ukukhipha ucansi, lokhu kungaba njalo. Kungabangelwa futhi yimithi ethile (ikakhulukazi leyo esetshenziselwa ukugula kwengqondo) noma izifo zezinzwa. |
| Ukukhipha isisu emuva kokubuyela emuva | Lesi isimo esihlukile kancane. Okwenzekayo lapha ukuthi esikhundleni sokuphuma koketshezi epenis, isidoda siyabuyela emuva siqoqeke esinyeni. Lokhu kubangela ukuthi isidoda singaphumi ngisho nangemva kokufika kocansi (lokhu kubizwa nangokuthi 'i-dry orgasm'). Bese kuthi, uma uchama, umchamo uphume ngombala onamafu. Lesi simo singabonakala ezimweni ezifana nesifo sikashukela noma ngemva kokuhlinzwa kwe-prostate. |
Yini okufanele uyenze uma kunenkinga efana nale?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uma uzizwa sengathi unenkinga efana nale, ungabi namahloni noma uyigcine kuwe bese ubona udokotela. Lezi yizimo ezivame kakhulu kulezi zinsuku. Futhi kunezindlela zokwelapha eziphumelelayo cishe kuzo zonke lezi zinkinga.
Udokotela wakho uzokubuza imibuzo, enze izivivinyo uma kudingeka, futhi athole imbangela eqondile yenkinga yakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, uzokunikeza ukwelashwa okufanele, mhlawumbe imithi noma iseluleko.
Khumbula, impilo yocansi ibaluleke njengempilo yomzimba wakho wonke. Ngakho-ke uma unenkinga, ungalokothi unqikaze ukufuna iseluleko sezokwelapha.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukukhipha i-ejaculation kuyinqubo evamile futhi enempilo eyenzeka emzimbeni wesilisa.
- Akukho sibalo esibekiwe sezikhathi okufanele kwenzeke ngazo ukuchama. Kuyahlukahluka kuye ngomuntu nomuntu.
- Ukukhishelwa kocansi kwenzeka ngokuzenzakalelayo lapho ukukhuthazwa ngokocansi sekusezingeni eliphezulu futhi kunzima ukukulawula.
- Uma ubhekene nezinkinga ezifana nokuphuma kwesidoda ngaphambi kwesikhathi (ukuphuma kwesidoda ngaphambi kwesikhathi), ukuphuma kwesidoda ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma ukungaphumi kwesidoda nhlobo, noma isidoda esibuyela emuva (ukuphuma kwesidoda emuva), ungabi namahloni futhi ubone udokotela ngokushesha. Kunezindlela zokwelapha ezisebenzayo zalokhu.
- Ungesabi ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile ngempilo yakho yocansi. Kuyingxenye ebalulekile yempilo yakho iyonke.
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