Ingabe 'ungumuntu ovamile we-neurological'? Ake sixoxe ngalokhu kalula!

Cishe uke wezwa igama elithi 'neurotypical' ndawana thize. Mhlawumbe ku-inthanethi, noma kumngane. Akulona igama lezokwelapha elisetshenziswa odokotela bethu kaningi. Kodwa liyigama elibalulekile uma kukhulunywa ngendlela ubuchopho babantu obukhula futhi busebenza ngayo. Kalula nje, elithi 'neurotypical' yindlela ubuchopho babantu abaningi emhlabeni obukhula futhi busebenza ngayo.

Kuyini 'ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo'? Kulula kakhulu!

'I-neurotypical', cabanga, indlela ubuchopho beningi labantu emhlabeni, okungukuthi, cishe abantu abangu-80% kuya ku-85%, obuthuthukiswa futhi busebenza ngayo. Ubuchopho balaba bantu ngokuvamile bunezinga elifanayo lamakhono ahlukahlukene, isibonelo, inkumbulo, ikhono lezibalo, kanye nekhono lokuqonda okushiwoyo.

Kodwa into ebalulekile lapha ukuthi asisho ukuthi ukuba 'ne-neurotypical' kuhle, noma ukuthi labo abangebona, okungukuthi, 'i-neurodivergent', babi. Kufana nombala wezinwele zakho, umbala wesikhumba sakho. Kuyisici esihlukile kumuntu ngamunye, hhayi into engalinganiswa ngokuthi inhle noma imbi. Sonke sihlukile komunye nomunye, futhi kunjalo.

Kungani singathandi ukusebenzisa igama elithi "okuvamile"?

Manje ungase ucabange, "Pho kungani ungamane ubize umuntu ngokuthi 'uyi-neurotypical' esikhundleni sokuthi 'ujwayelekile'?" Nasi isizathu. Azikho izingqondo ezimbili ezifanayo. Cabanga nje, kunezinzwa ezingaba yizigidigidi ezingu-86 ebuchosheni bomuntu, amaseli axhumana omunye nomunye ngezibonakaliso zikagesi nezamakhemikhali! Ukuxhumana phakathi kwalezi zinzwa kubizwa ngokuthi ama-synapses . Kunezigidigidi zalezi zinzwa ebuchosheni bakho. Le nethiwekhi yezinzwa yiyo ekwenza ube yilokho oyikho, futhi ihlukile ngokuphelele kuwe.

Ngakho-ke, uma ubuchopho bonke buhlukile kangaka, kunzima ukuchaza "ubuchopho obujwayelekile," akunjalo? Yingakho sibheka indlela ubuchopho obusebenza ngayo bese sibubiza ngokuthi 'buyi-neurotypical', okuyindlela iningi lobuchopho babantu elisebenza ngayo. Lokho akusho ukuthi leyo yindlela kuphela "efanele".

Yiziphi ezinye izici zokuphila ezinjani njengomuntu 'ovamile'?

Njengomuntu 'onesifo sengqondo', ungathola ukuthi cishe awubhekene nezinye zezinselele abantu 'abanesifo sengqondo' ababhekana nazo ngezinye izikhathi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi izinto eziningi emphakathini wethu, ezikoleni, nasezindaweni zokusebenza zenzelwe ukuhambisana neningi, okungukuthi, abantu 'abanesifo sengqondo'. Ake sibheke izibonelo ezimbalwa:

Ukulungiswa kanye nokuzivumelanisa nezimo komphakathi

Njengomuntu 'ovamile', ngokuvamile ungafanelana nabanye abantu emphakathini ngaphandle kobunzima obukhulu. Awunaso isifiso esinamandla sokuzenza sengathi ufana nabanye (lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukuzifihla ubuso"). Umphakathi uyakwamukela njengoba unjalo isikhathi esiningi. Ngakho-ke, awuvamile ukuba nokwesaba okunjengokuthi, "Ingabe abantu bazongikhipha inyumbazane?" "Ingabe bazongicabanga ngendlela engalungile?"

Umsebenzi wesikole kanye nemfundo

Ngokuvamile, indlela izikole ezifundisa ngayo kanye nemisebenzi emakilasini kuklanywe ngendlela elula ukuthi izingane 'ezivamile' ziqonde. Ngakho-ke, izinto ezinjengokugxila esifundweni nokulandela imiyalelo kungase kungabi yinselele enkulu kuwe.

Isibonelo, uma uthisha efundisa isifundo esikoleni, kungaba lula ngengane 'enesifo sengqondo' ukulalela njalo, ukuyiqonda, nokuphendula imibuzo uma ibuzwa.

Ukucubungula izinzwa

Sihlala sithola ulwazi oluvela ezinzwa zethu ezinhlanu (amehlo, izindlebe, ikhala, ulimi, isikhumba). Umuntu 'ojwayelekile' ngokuvamile akanankinga enkulu ngendlela lolu lwazi olucutshungulwa ngayo ubuchopho. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uyakwazi ukukhohlwa ngamaphunga athile angathandeki, imisindo, kanye nokuthinta, noma ukunciphisa umthelela wawo. Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi akwazi ukuhlala ezolile futhi angacasuki kalula (`(akhungathekile)` noma `((akhuthele ngokweqile)`) ngisho nasezindaweni ezinabantu abaningi nezinomsindo.

• Cabanga nje, uma usebhasini, uzwa umsindo omkhulu futhi kufanele udlule ezixukwini. Umuntu 'ovamile' angase akwazi ukubhekana nalezi zinto futhi afike lapho eya khona ngaphandle kobunzima obukhulu.

Ukuxhumana nabantu kanye nengxoxo

Uma sikhuluma nabantu, uma senza ibhizinisi nabo, kunemithetho eminingi engashiwongo kanye nokulindela. Isibonelo, izinto ezifana nokubuka ubuso bomuntu lapho ekhuluma, nokuphendula ngendlela efanele engxoxweni yakhe. Abantu 'abavamile' bavame ukuba nesikhathi esilula sokuqonda le mithetho yomphakathi engashiwongo futhi baziphathe ngendlela efanele. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuxhumana nabantu kungaba lula kancane kubo.

Ingabe ukuba 'ngumuntu ovamile wemizwa' kuyinto ehlala impilo yonke? Lutho neze!

Cha, lokho akulona iqiniso. Umuntu ozelwe 'enesifo sengqondo' angashintsha ukusebenza kobuchopho bakhe kamuva, abonise izici 'zokuguquguquka kwengqondo'. Lokhu sikubiza ngokuthi "ukuguquguquka kwengqondo okutholiwe."

Kalula nje, indlela ubuchopho obusebenza ngayo iyashintsha ngenxa yethonya elithile kubo ngesikhathi esithile empilweni. Lokhu akudingeki kube yinto embi. Kumane nje kuyishintsho.

Kwenzeka kanjani lokhu "kuhlukahluka kwemizwa okutholakale"?

Kungase kube nezizathu eziningana zalokhu:

• Izifo zobuchopho ezihlobene nobudala: Isibonelo, izifo ezifana nesifo i-Alzheimer's zishintsha unomphela ukusebenza kobuchopho.
• Ukulimala ekhanda kanye nokulimala kobuchopho: Cabanga ngokushayisana kwemisipha , noma ukulimala kobuchopho okubuhlungu kakhulu (ii-TBI) , okungabangela ukulahlekelwa inkumbulo yesikhashana noma unomphela, ubunzima bokugxilisa ingqondo, kanye nezinguquko zokuziphatha.
• Izinkinga zempilo yengqondo noma izehlakalo ezibuhlungu: Ezinye izimo zempilo yengqondo, isiboneloIzinto ezifana nokuthi `(Ukucindezeleka)` kanye nokuthi `(Ukukhathazeka)` zingashintsha izinqubo zamakhemikhali kanye nokusebenza kobuchopho. Futhi, izimo ezifana nokuthi `(Ukucindezeleka Kwangemva Kokuhlukumezeka - i-PTSD)`, okuyimpendulo yokuvikela yobuchopho lapho ubhekene nezehlakalo ezibuhlungu kakhulu, zingashintsha indlela ubuchopho obusebenza ngayo.

Kodwa-ke, ezinye izifundo zithole ukuthi, ngaphandle kwalezi zizathu, ngezinye izikhathi akuvamile, futhi ngaphandle kwesizathu esibonakalayo, umuntu 'oshintshashintshayo' angaqala ukubonisa izici 'zoshintshashintshayo'. Kodwa lokho akuvamile kakhulu.

Ingabe abazali 'abanezinzwa ezivamile' bangaba nezingane 'ezinezinzwa ezihlukene'?

Yebo, kungenzeka ngempela! Futhi, abazali abanezinzwa ezahlukene bangaba nezingane ezivamile. Lokhu akuyona into ehambisana nohlangothi olulodwa.

Izakhi zofuzo zingathinta amathuba omuntu okuba ne-neurodivergent. Isibonelo, izimo ezifana ne-Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) kanye ne-Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) zingase zisebenze emindenini. Kodwa-ke, ochwepheshe abakaqondi ngokugcwele ukuthi abanye abantu bahlakulela kanjani noma kungani lezi zimo. Futhi, kunezici eziningi ezingadlala indima, hhayi izakhi zofuzo kuphela. Ngakho-ke, ukuthi umzali unazo akusho ukuthi ingane yakhe izozizuza njengefa.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu: lo mbuzo awusiwo "owokuhle-owokubi", umehluko nje!

Uma sikhuluma 'nge-neurotypical' kanye 'ne-neurodivergent', kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi lokhu akuyona indaba "evamile" kanye "ne-abnormal," noma "enhle" kanye "nembi." Kumane nje umehluko. Ukuba yindlela eyodwa kuyingxenye nje yokuthi umuntu ungubani, futhi akunqumi ukubaluleka kwakhe okugcwele.

Cabanga ngakho, abanye abantu babhala ngesandla sabo sokudla, abanye ngesandla sabo sokhohlo. Kungumehluko nje, futhi awukwazi ukuthi omunye ungcono noma mubi kunomunye. Kuyafana nalokhu.

Uma 'ungumuntu ojwayelekile we-neurotic', ubuchopho bakho bungase busebenze ngendlela ehlukile kunomuntu 'one-neurodiversary'. Kodwa nobabili ninokuningi okufanayo. Nobabili ningabantu, futhi nobabili nifuna ukuphila impilo ejabulisayo nenempilo.

Ukusekela 'izinhlobo ezahlukene ze-neuro' nokudala indawo ebafanelayo kuzuzisa ngempela wonke umuntu. Sonke kufanele silwele umphakathi lapho 'izinhlobo ezahlukene ze-neuro' kanye 'nezinhlobo ezahlukene ze-neurotypic' zingajabula ngokulinganayo.

Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya

Kulungile, ngakho-ke nazi ezinye izinto okudingeka uzikhumbule kulokho esikhulume ngakho:

• 'I-neurotypical' ibhekisela endleleni evamile lapho ubuchopho babantu abaningi bukhula futhi busebenza khona. Akuyona indlela yokuxilongwa kwezokwelapha.
• LokhuAkuyona indaba yokuthi "kujwayelekile" uma kuqhathaniswa "nokungajwayelekile" noma "okuhle" uma kuqhathaniswa "nokubi." Kumane kuyisici esisodwa sokwehlukahlukana (ukuhlukahluka kwemizwa) okukhona ebuchosheni bomuntu.
• Ukuba 'ne-neurotypical' kungase kungabi yisici sokuphila konke. "Ukuhlukahluka kwe-neurotic okutholakale" kungabangela izinguquko endleleni ubuchopho bomuntu obusebenza ngayo.
• Abazali 'abavamile' bangaba nezingane 'ezinezinzwa eziguquguqukayo', kanti abazali 'abavamile' bangaba nezingane 'ezinezinzwa eziguquguqukayo'.
• Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda, ukwamukela, nokuhlonipha ukungezwani komunye nomunye. Sonke kufanele sibe nethemba lomphakathi ovumela ukuhlukahluka futhi ophatha wonke umuntu ngokulinganayo.

Ngakho-ke, ngicabanga ukuthi manje usuliqonda kangcono igama elithi 'i-neurotypical'. Ukuqaphela izinto ezinjengalezi kusisiza siqondane kangcono.

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