Ingane yakho encane manje isikhulile kancane kunengane esanda kuzalwa, akunjalo? Yilapho wena nengane yakho niqala khona "ukuxoxa" okumangalisayo - okungukuthi, baqala ukuxhumana ngokuhleka nangemisindo emincane. Njengoba ingane yakho iba matasa kakhulu futhi iqala ukunaka indawo ezungezile, uzobona ubuntu bayo obusha. Lesi yisikhathi esimnandi kakhulu!
"Nikhuluma" kanjani nathi, bantwana?
Ngakho-ke, ingane yakho encane isebenzisa kakhulu ukukhala ukuze ikutshele ukuthi yini ecabanga ngayo nokuthi yini eyidingayo ngalesi sikhathi. Lokho kusho ukuthi, uma ikhala, izama ukukutshela ukuthi, 'Mama, ngilambile,' 'Nginobuthongo,' 'Inabukeni lami libukeka limanzi,' noma 'Nginenkinga.' Kufana nolimi lwayo. Ngezinye izikhathi, uma ikhungathekile yizo zonke izinto ezintsha emhlabeni, imisindo, izibani, ingacasuka kancane ikhale. Lokho kuvamile, ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngakho.
Cishe uke waphawula ukuthi ingane yakho iyasabela ezwini lakho uma ukhuluma. Mhlawumbe iphendula ikhanda layo liye kuleyo ndlela, ihlale buthule, imomotheke, noma iphakamise izingalo nemilenze ukuze ibonise injabulo yayo. Uma ubheka ingane yakho bese umomotheka, nayo ingase imomotheke nawe. Akuyona yini into emangalisayo leyo?
Yilapho izingane zithola khona ukuthi nazo zingakwazi ukwenza imisindo. Kungakabiphi, ikhaya lakho lizoba nomshini wemisindo emincane, njengokukhala kwezinyoni, "ukukhala" kanye nokugigitheka! Ingane yakho izoqala "ukukhuluma" nawe ngemisindo eyahlukahlukene. Ezinye izingane zizoqala ngisho nokwenza imisindo elula efana no-"ah-ah" noma "uh-uh" ngalesi sikhathi.
Yini okufanele siyenze njengabazali?
Kunezinto eziningi ongazenza ukusiza ingane yakho ithuthukise la makhono okuxhumana. Kufana nokunisela, ukunakekela, nokutshala isitshalo esincane.
Khuluma futhi udlale nomntanakho njalo.
Ingane yakho iyalithanda izwi lakho. Ngakho-ke, phakathi nalezi zinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala , khuluma nengane yakho ngangokunokwenzeka, funda izincwadi (izincwadi zezithombe zilungile!), cula izingoma, futhi "ukhulume" ngothando. Phendula ngentshisekelo nangenjabulo kuyo yonke imisindo encane eyenziwa yingane yakho, yonke inhleko encane. Sho izinto ezinjengokuthi, "O, ndodana/ndodakazi yami ethandekayo, uthini?"
Tshela ingane yakho ngalokho ekubukayo nalokho ekwenzayo. Mtshele nalokho okwenzayo. Cabanga nje, ngenkathi ushintsha inabukeni lengane yakho, usho into efana nokuthi, "Manje, Mama, ake sishintshe inabukeni lendodana yakho, ukuze ihlale iphilile." Lokhu kusiza ingane yakho ukuthi iqaphele amagama futhi ifunde ngolimi. Uma unika ingane yakho ithoyizi noma into ephethe, yisho igama layo. Isibonelo, "Nansi ibhola," "Nansi i-rattle yakho."
"Xoxa" nomntanakho.
Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Uma ingane yakho yenza umsindo, phinda umsindo bese ulinda "impendulo" evela enganeni yakho. Cabanga uma ingane yakho ithi "Aaag" bese umomotheka bese ubuza, "Aaag? Ithini ingane yami?"Ngale ndlela, ufundisa ingane yakho izifundo eziwusizo kakhulu, njengokuthi ungayilawula kanjani ithoni yezwi lakho lapho ukhuluma nothile, ijubane lenkulumo yakho, kanye nokushintshana ngokukhuluma.
Futhi, lokhu kwenza umntwana azi ukuthi ubalulekile ngokwanele ukuba alalelwe. Ungamphazamisi noma ubheke eceleni lapho umntwana "ekhuluma." Menze azizwe sengathi unesithakazelo kulokho akushoyo nokuthi angakwethemba.
Lezi "zingxoxo" ezincane yizo ezivula indlela yezingxoxo ezinkulu kamuva.
Qonda ukuthi ingane yakho idinga ukuthula nini
Izingane azithandi ukukhuluma noma ukwenza umsindo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngezinye izikhathi ukukhuthazwa okuvela ezintweni ezizungezile (okungukuthi umsindo, ukukhanya, abantu, njll.) kungaba yinto eningi kakhulu. Bese zidinga ukuphumula kancane.
Uma ingane yakho ibheka eceleni, ivala amehlo ayo , noma imane ikhathazekile noma ibukeka ithukuthele, kungase kusho ukuthi idinga ikhefu. Ezimweni ezinjalo, yinike isikhathi sokuphumula, noma uyigone ngothando. Ungamphoqi ukuba "akhulume" ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ingabe ingane yami ikhala kakhulu? Ake sifunde nge-`(Colic)`
Iningi lezinsana ezisanda kuzalwa linesikhathi cishe ngesikhathi esifanayo nsuku zonke, ngokuvamile kusihlwa, lapho zikhala khona futhi zixakeke kakhulu. Lokhu kuyinto abazali abaningi ababhekana nayo.
Kodwa-ke, ngezinye izikhathi, uma ingane enempilo , engenazo ezinye izifo noma izinkinga, ikhala amahora angaphezu kwama-3 ngosuku, izinsuku ezingaphezu kwama-3 ngesonto, futhi okungenani amasonto ama-3 elandelana, sibiza leso simo ngokuthi '(Colic)'. Lokhu kungaba yinkinga enkulu kubo bobabili abazali. Ngoba kungaba yinto ekhungathekisayo kakhulu uma ungakwazi ukuthola ukuthi kungani ingane yakho ikhala.
Kodwa izindaba ezinhle ukuthi iningi lezingane likhula lidlule lesi simo '(Colic)' cishe ezinyangeni ezintathu noma ezine ubudala. Ngakho khumbula ukuthi lokhu akuyona into ezohlala phakade. Kodwa-ke, uma unokungabaza okukhulu noma ukwesaba ngalokhu, kungcono ukukhuluma nodokotela.
Ngingayibona nini udokotela?
Uma unemibuzo noma ukungabaza mayelana nokukhuluma noma ukuzwa kwengane yakho, ungangabazi ukukhuluma nodokotela. Ungacabangi ukuthi, "O, ngiya kudokotela ngenxa yale nto encane." Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukususa ukungabaza engqondweni yakho.
Ekupheleni kwalesi sikhathi (esingaba yizinyanga ezintathu), iningi lezinsana kufanele likwazi:
- Iphendula imisindo emikhulu (isibonelo, ithuswe umsindo womnyango ovaleka ngokuzumayo).
- Benza eminye imisindo ngaphandle kokukhala (njengokukhuluma "ngokubhonga" kanye nokugubhuzela okukhulunywe ngakho ngaphambilini).
- Uyamomotheka uma ukhuluma nayo.
- Uma umbheka futhi umomotheka, naye uyamomotheka nawe.
Lezi yizigigaba ezincane ezivame ukubonakala.
Kodwa khumbula nalokhu,Akuzona zonke izingane ezifanayo. Ezinye izingane ziqala ukwenza lezi zinto kusenesikhathi, ezinye kamuva. Lokho kuvamile. Kodwa-ke, uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho indala kakhulu kunalezi, noma uma ubona umehluko, qiniseka ukuthi ubona udokotela ukuze akunike iseluleko.
Ngamafuphi: jabulela lolu hambo nomdlwane wakho!
Izinyanga zokuqala zomntwana wakho zidlula ngokushesha okukhulu. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ufunda izinto ezintsha nsuku zonke futhi uqala ukuxhumana nawe ngezindlela ezintsha.
- Le " ngxoxo " iyindlela ethinta abantu ababili. Uma ukhuluma kakhulu nengane yakho futhi uyiphendula, amakhono ayo okuxhumana azothuthuka.
- Izwi lakho nothando lwakho kuyimkhuthazo enkulu kakhulu enganeni yakho. Ngakho-ke, khuluma nengane yakho, uhlabelele izingoma, bese udlala nayo ngendlela yothando nenakekelayo ngaphandle kokwesaba.
- Umntwana ngamunye uhlukile. Ungamqhathanisi umntwana wakho nezinye izingane. Wonke umuntu ukhula ngesivinini esihlukile.
- Uma unokungabaza noma ukukhathazeka, ungalokothi unqikaze ukubuza udokotela.
Lobu buntwana ngeke buphinde bubuye. Ngakho-ke jabulela yonke imizuzu ngokugcwele futhi uqinise lobu budlelwano obuhle nomntwana wakho omncane!
👩🏽⚕️ Imibuzo eyengeziwe (ama-FAQ)
💬 Umntwana ukhuluma kanjani nathi ezinyangeni ezintathu zokuqala?
Ngalesi sikhathi, ulimi oluyinhloko lomntwana ukukhala. Umntwana uthumela imiyalezo kunina ngokukhala okuhlukahlukene ngenxa yokulala, indlala, kanye nokungakhululeki. Uqala nokwenza imisindo ebizwa ngokuthi 'ukukhonkotha'.
💬 Ingane iqala nini ukumamatheka kwayo kwangempela (ukumamatheka kokuxhumana nabantu)?
Ngokuvamile, ngokwezokwelapha, 'ukumamatheka kwangempela' kokuqala ingane engakwenza lapho inezinyanga ezimbili ubudala (amasonto ayisishiyagalombili ubudala), ibheka ubuso bukanina bese ikhuluma.
💬 Ingabe umama angathuthukisa amakhono okukhuluma kwengane yakhe?
Yebo, uma ingane yakho yenza umsindo, kufanele uphinde umsindo ofanayo. Futhi, bheka ubuso bengane yakho futhi ukhulume nayo njalo, uphindaphinde izinkondlo. Ngisho noma ingane yakho ingaziqondi lezi zinto, zizoyisiza ukuthuthukisa amakhono ayo olimi.
Ukuxhumana kwengane , ingane enenyanga eyodwa kuya kwezintathu ubudala, ukukhula kwengane, ukukhala kwengane, i-colic, ukukhuluma nengane, amathiphu okuba ngumzali
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