Sonke sifuna ukujabulela ukubukeka kwethu. Kwabanye, kumayelana nokukhombisa umhlaba ukuthi bangobani ngempela. Eqinisweni, ukuhlinzwa ukuze kushintshwe indlela ababukeka ngayo kuyinto abantu abaningi abakhetha ukuyenza kulezi zinsuku. Kodwa kumuntu oshintshe ubulili noma ongeyena u-binary, kuyinto ejulile kakhulu. Kumayelana nokuqinisekisa ubuwena bakhe bangempela, ukuletha ingqondo nomzimba wakhe esimweni esifanele. Namuhla, sikhuluma ngokunye kokuhlinzwa okunjalo, ukuhlinzwa kokuqinisekisa ubulili .
Umuntu uba kanjani umuntu oshintshe ubulili noma ongeyena umuntu oshintsha ubulili?
Kalula nje, kulula kakhulu. Cabanga nje, lapho umntwana ezalwa, sibheka izitho zakhe zangasese bese sinquma ukuthi umfana noma intombazane. Lokho sikubiza ngokuthi "ubulili obelwe ekuzalweni." Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi, njengoba umntwana ekhula, siyaqaphela ukuthi lokho akuzwayo ngaphakathi, okungukuthi, "ubunjalo bakhe bobulili," akufani nobulili obelwe ekuzalweni.
Isibonelo, umuntu owabelwa ukuba yindoda ekuzalweni angase azizwe ejulile ukuthi ungowesifazane ngempela. Yilokho esikubiza ngokuthi i-transgender .
I-Nonbinary ibhekisela kubantu abanomuzwa wokuthi abanakuhlukaniswa ngokuphelele ngokuthi "abesifazane" noma "abesilisa." Bangabantu abanobuntu obudlula lawa mabhokisi amabili.
Laba bantu banezinketho ezahlukene zokushintsha ukubukeka kwabo ukuze kufane nobuntu babo bangaphakathi. Abanye bashintsha ukubukeka kwabo ngezingubo, izinwele kanye nezimonyo. Abanye baphendukela ekwelashweni ngama-hormone. Abanye bakhetha ukuhlinzwa okungashintsha unomphela umzimba nobuso babo.
Ukuhlinzwa kobuso
Ukuhlinzwa kwepulasitiki ukushintsha ukubukeka kobuso kuvame kakhulu. Kungasiza abantu bathuthukise ukuzethemba kwabo futhi bazizwe kahle ngabo. Abantu abashintshe ubulili nabo bangasebenzisa lokhu kuhlinzwa ukulungisa isimo sobuso babo ukuze sihambisane nobuntu babo.
| Uhlobo lokuhlinzwa | Incazelo |
|---|---|
| Ukwenziwa Kwabesifazane Bobuso | Ukunikeza ubuso nentamo yesilisa ukubukeka kowesifazane. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukushintsha ukuma kwebunzi, ukunciphisa usayizi wamathambo omhlathi nesilevu, ukunikeza izihlathi ukubukeka okugcwele, ukushintsha ukuma kwekhala nezindebe, kanye nokunciphisa i-apula lika-Adam. |
| Ukushintsha Ubuso Besilisa | Ukunikeza ubuso besifazane ukubukeka kwabesilisa. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukwelula ibunzi, ukubumba kabusha umhlathi nesilevu, ukubumba kabusha amathambo ezihlathi, nokukhulisa umhlathi. |
Ukuhlinzwa okushintsha ukubukeka kwesifuba (Ukuhlinzwa Okuphezulu)
Ukuhlinzwa kwebele nakho kuvame kakhulu. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukuhlinzwa okuphezulu" ngamafuphi.
- Ukuhlinzwa Okuphezulu Kwabesifazane Abashintsha Ubulili: Uma umuntu efuna isifuba esibukeka njengesifazane, kwenziwa izimila zebele. Lokhu kufana nokuhlinzwa okwenziwa ngokuvamile ukuze kwandiswe amabele.
- Ukuze kubonakale sengathi uyindoda (Transmasculine Top Surgery): Uma umuntu efuna isifuba esithambile esibukeka sengathi uyindoda, kwenziwa ukuhlinzwa kokunciphisa amabele (okufana nokuhlinzwa kwebele) . Lokhu kuhilela ukususa izicubu zebele nokusilula isifuba. Amabele angaphinde abekwe kabusha ukuze afane nesifuba esivamile sowesilisa.
Ukuhlinzwa Kwangaphansi
Lokhu ukuhlinzwa okuyinkimbinkimbi impela, futhi kudinga usizo lodokotela abanolwazi oluningi ekuhlinzeni ukufakelwa izitho.
Ukuze ubonakale njengowesilisa (Transmasculine Bottom Surgery)
Amanye amadoda ashintshe ubulili akhetha ukususwa kwesibeletho nama-ovari. Lokhu kungenziwa ngokususwa kwesibeletho. Lokhu kunciphisa amazinga omzimba wama-hormone abesifazane futhi kumise ukuya esikhathini kwanyanga zonke.
Uma ufuna ukushintsha izitho zangasese zangaphandle, ungakha ipenisi. Kunezindlela eziningana zokwenza lokhu:
- I-Metoidioplasty: Lapha, i-clitoris kanye nesikhumba esizungezile kusetshenziselwa ukudala ipenisi encane (i-phallus) engavuselelwa futhi isetshenziswe ekuchameni.
- I-Phalloplasty: Lokhu kuhilela ukuthatha isikhumba kwenye ingxenye yomzimba (isib., ingalo noma ithanga) bese usixhumanisa ukuze kudalwe ipenisi.
- Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukudala i-scrotum usebenzisa izimila ezibukeka njengama-testicles.
Ukuze ubonakale njengowesifazane (Transfeminine Bottom Surgery)
Labo abafuna ukunciphisa izinga lamahomoni wesilisa emzimbeni bangenza ukuhlinzwa ukuze kususwe amasende (orchiectomy) .
Ukuhlinzwa kokudala isitho sangasese sowesifazane kubizwa ngokuthi i-vaginoplasty . Kule nqubo, kusetshenziswa izicubu ezivela endodeni bese zifakwa emgodini we-pelvic ukuze kudalwe isitho sangasese sowesifazane. Ngemva kwalokhu kuhlinzwa, kufanele kusetshenziswe amadivayisi akhethekile (ama-dilator) ukuvimbela isitho sangasese sowesifazane esisanda kwakhiwa ukuthi singavaleki.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi konke lokhu kuhlinzwa kuyisinqumo somuntu siqu. Akuwona wonke umuntu ofuna ukuba nakho konke lokhu. Kubalulekile ukuthi bazinqumele ukuthi yini ebafanele nokuthi yini abayifunayo.
Kubiza malini lokhu kuhlinzwa?
Ezinye izinkampani zomshuwalense zimboza lokhu kuhlinzwa. Kodwa-ke, ezimweni eziningi, izinqubomgomo zomshuwalense zingase zibe nezigaba ezingabandakanyi izinto ezifana "nezinsizakalo ezihlobene nokushintsha kocansi." Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukushayela inkampani yakho yomshuwalense bese uyibuza ngalokhu.
Uma umbozwe umshwalense, bangase bacele amadokhumenti athile ngaphambi kokuwugunyaza.
- Umbiko wezokwelapha othi utholakale une-Gender Dysphoria: Gender Dysphoria ukucindezeleka kwengqondo kanye nokungakhululeki okubangelwa ukungafani phakathi kobunikazi bobulili owabelwe ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kanye nobulili ozizwa uyilo ngempela. Udokotela wakho angakunikeza inothi ngalokhu.
- Incwadi yokusekela evela kuchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo (isib., udokotela wezifo zengqondo, umeluleki).
Lokhu kuhlinzwa kungabiza imali eningi. Ngakho-ke, uma ukwenza ngezimali zakho, kubalulekile ukuqaphela izimali zabo bonke abathintekayo, okuhlanganisa odokotela abahlinzayo, odokotela ababulala izinzwa, odokotela bezifo zengqondo, kanye nabeluleki, kusenesikhathi.
Ukululama ngemva kokuhlinzwa kanye nenhlalakahle yengqondo
Isikhathi sokululama siyahlukahluka kuye ngohlobo lokuhlinzwa okwenzile. Nakuba ukuvuvukala ngemva kokuhlinzwa kobuso kuvame ukwehla cishe emavikini amabili, ukuvuvukala ngemva kokuhlinzwa kobulili kungahlala izinyanga ezine noma ngaphezulu.
Khuluma nodokotela wakho mayelana nokuthi ungabuyela nini emisebenzini evamile. Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi uya khona emihlanganweni yokulandelela ngemva kokuhlinzwa ukuze udokotela wakho ahlole ukuthi ululama kahle.
Nansi ingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu: Abantu abaningi abahlinzwa ngokuqinisekiswa kobulili bathi kuthuthukise kakhulu ikhwalithi yabo yokuphila kanye nempilo yabo yengqondo. Eqinisweni, abangaphezu kuka-94% balabo abahlinzwa banelisekile ngemiphumela.
Labo abathola ukwesekwa okuhle kwengqondo ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa bathola imiphumela engcono kakhulu. Ucwaningo olulodwa luthole ukuthi isidingo sokwelashwa ngempilo yengqondo ngemva kokuhlinzwa sehliswe ngo-8%.
Uma ucabangela lolu hlobo lokuhlinzwa, isinyathelo sokuqala ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho oyinhloko ngakho. Bangaxoxa ngezinketho ezikulungele futhi bakunikeze isiqondiso esifanele.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukuhlinzwa Kokuqinisekisa Ubulili kuyinqubo yokuhlinzwa yomuntu siqu kakhulu eyenziwayo ukuze kulungiswe umzimba womuntu ukuze uvumelane nobuntu bakhe bangempela.
- Kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zokuhlinzwa kobuso, esifubeni, kanye nezitho zangasese. Akuwona wonke umuntu okudingeka akwenze konke lokhu.
- Lesi akusona isinqumo okufanele sithathwe kalula. Yisinqumo okufanele sicatshangelwe ngokucophelela futhi sixoxwe ngaso nodokotela othembekile kanye nomeluleki wezempilo yengqondo .
- Nakuba kuthatha isikhathi ukuphulukiswa, izifundo zibonisa ukuthi lokhu kuhlinzwa kuthuthukisa kakhulu impilo yengqondo kanye nenjabulo empilweni yabantu abaningi.
- Lolu hambo luhlukile kumuntu ngamunye. Okusebenza komunye umuntu kungase kungasebenzi komunye. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uzizwe kahle ngawe.
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