Wake wazizwa sengathi abanye abangane bengane yakho abangontanga yabo bonke bakhula bade, amazwi abo ayashintsha, futhi babukeka njengabantu abadala, kodwa ingane yakho isengumntwana omncane? Lokhu kuyakhathaza abazali abaningi, futhi kungaba yinto eyesabekayo. Kuvamile ukuzibuza, "Ingabe kukhona okungahambi kahle ngengane yami?" Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Namuhla, sizokhuluma ngesimo esibizwa ngokuthi 'Ukuthomba Okulibazisekile .'
Kuyini lokhu kuthomba okubambezelekile?
Kalula nje, ukuthomba inqubo yokushintsha kusuka emzimbeni wengane kuya emzimbeni omdala okwazi ukuzala abantwana. Lokhu akwenzeki ngobusuku obubodwa. Le nqubo ilawulwa ukusebenzisana okuyinkimbinkimbi phakathi kobuchopho bethu, indlala ye-pituitary ebuchosheni, kanye nezitho zokuzala zengane ( ama-ovari emantombazaneni kanye namasende kubafana).
Ama-hormone akhiqizwa yilezi zitho yiwona abangela ezinye izinguquko zomzimba ngesikhathi sokuthomba. Emantombazaneni, ama-ovari aqala ukukhiqiza i-estrogen eningi , kanti kubafana, amasende aqala ukukhiqiza i-testosterone eningi.
Ngokuvamile, amantombazane aqala ukubonisa izimpawu zokuthomba phakathi kweminyaka engu-8 nengu-14, kanti abafana baqala ukubonisa izimpawu zokuthomba phakathi kweminyaka engu-9 nengu-15. Uma intombazane ingakaqali lezi zinguquko ineminyaka engu-14 noma umfana eneminyaka engu-15 , sikubiza ngokuthi 'ukuthomba okubambezelekile.' Kungcono ukubona udokotela wakho ukuze uthole ukuthi yini ebangela lokhu. Udokotela wakho angakudlulisela kuchwepheshe wama-hormone, obizwa ngokuthi i- endocrinologist .
Yiziphi izimpawu zokuthomba okubambezelekile?
Siqaphela ukuthi ukuthomba okulibazisekile njengokungabikho kwezinguquko zomzimba ezivame ukwenzeka kuleyo minyaka. Ake sibheke ukuthi lo mehluko uyini emantombazaneni nakubafana.
Ukuthomba kwamantombazane
Izimpawu zokuthomba entombazaneni ngezinye izikhathi zingaqala zisencane kakhulu eminyakeni engu-8. Lezi yizinguquko eziyinhloko.
| Isibonakaliso sokuthomba | Incazelo |
|---|---|
| Ukuthuthukiswa kwebele (i-Thelarche) | Ngokuvamile lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuqala ukuqala. |
| Ukukhula okusheshayo | Ukuphakama kwengane kuqala ukwanda ngokushesha. |
| Ukukhula kwezinwele emakhwapheni nasezindaweni zangasese | Izinwele zomzimba ziqala ukuvela. |
| Ukuqala kokuya esikhathini | Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka eminyakeni engu-2-3 ngemva kokuqala kwezinye izimpawu. |
| Ukushintsha kwesimo somzimba | Izinguquko ziyenzeka, njengokuthi indawo yesinqe iba banzi. |
Sicela uqaphele: Uma indodakazi yakho ingakaqali ukukhula kwamabele ineminyaka engu-14 , noma ingakaqali ukuya esikhathini sayo sanyanga zonke ineminyaka engu-16 , qiniseka ukuthi ucela iseluleko sezokwelapha.
Ukuthomba kwabafana
Ukuthomba kubafana kuvame ukuqala ngemva kweminyaka engu-9. Lezi yizinguquko eziyinhloko.
| Isibonakaliso sokuthomba | Incazelo |
|---|---|
| Ukwandiswa kwamasende kanye nepenis | Lesi yisibonakaliso sokuqala sokuthomba kubafana. |
| Ukukhula kwezinwele ebusweni, emakhwapheni nasezindaweni zangasese | Ukukhula kwezinwele ezindevini nasemakhwapheni. |
| Ukukhula okusheshayo | Ukwanda okusheshayo kokuphakama nokwanda kwamahlombe. |
| Ukujula kwezwi | Izwi "liyaphuka" bese kudalwa izwi elijulile. |
Sicela uqaphele: Uma indodana yakho ingakaqali ukubonisa noma yiluphi lwalezi zinguquko ngesikhathi ineminyaka engu-15 , kubalulekile ukukhuluma nodokotela ngakho.
Kungani ukuthomba kwephuza kangaka? Yiziphi izizathu?
Into yokuqala okufanele uyiqonde ukuthi ukuthomba kuyahlukahluka kakhulu kuye ngomuntu nomuntu. Ngisho noma abangane bengane yakho befika ekuthombeni kusenesikhathi, ingane yakho ingase ibe ngaphakathi kwesilinganiso esijwayelekile. Kodwa-ke, kunezizathu ezithile eziqondile zokuthi kungani ukuthomba kungase kubambezeleke.
- Okwemindeni: Cabanga uma wena, okungukuthi, umama noma ubaba wakho, ufike sekwephuzile kancane ngesikhathi usengumntwana, kunethuba elihle lokuthi ingane yakho izokwenza okufanayo. Lokhu kuyinto ezuzwe njengefa.
- Ukubambezeleka kokukhula ngokomthetho: Lena yimbangela evame kakhulu yokubambezeleka kokuthomba kubafana. Kalula nje, laba bafana banezinga eliphansi lokukhula kwamathambo, noma "ubudala bamathambo," kunabanye. Lesi akusona isifo. Yindlela umzimba wengane okhula ngayo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, laba bafana bazofinyelela ekuthombeni futhi bafinyelele ubude obujwayelekile.
- Izimbangela ezisebenzayo: Ngezinye izikhathi ubuchopho buphuza ukuthumela isignali ukuze kukhiqizwe ama-hormone. Lokhu sikubiza ngokwezokwelapha ngokuthi (i-hypogonadotropic hypogonadism) . Uma lesi signali silahlekile, i-pituitary gland ayithumeli umlayezo kuma-ovari noma emasendeni ukuze kukhiqizwe ama-hormone. Umphumela uba ukuthomba okulibazisekayo.
- Isifo Esingapheli: Uma ingane inesimo sezokwelapha sesikhathi eside (isib. isifo sikashukela , isifo sezinso , i-asthma, isifo se-celiac), kungabeka ukucindezeleka okukhulu emzimbeni. Lokhu kungaholela ekukhuleni okulibazisekile kanye nokuthomba.
- Ukungondleki kahle: Uma umzimba ungatholi izakhamzimba ozidingayo, ukukhula kuyaphazamiseka. Lokhu kungabangelwa ukuvivinya umzimba ngokweqile, ukuphazamiseka kokudla, noma ukudla okungalingani.
- Izifo zofuzo: Ezinye izimo zofuzo, njenge -Turner syndrome kwamantombazane kanye ne-Klinefelter syndrome kubafana, zingabangela ukuthomba okulibazisekayo noma okungekho. Lokhu kudinga ukuhlolwa kwelabhorethri ukuze kutholakale ukuthi umuntu utholwe yini.
Iphathwa kanjani?
Uma uyisa ingane yakho kudokotela, izoyihlola ngokucophelela futhi, uma kudingeka, icele ukuhlolwa kwegazi kanye ne-X-ray yesandla. I-X-ray inganquma ubudala bethambo lengane.
- Ukwelapha isimo esiyisisekelo: Uma imbangela yokuthomba okubambezelekile ingenye inkinga yezokwelapha, ukwelashwa okufanele kwaleso simo kuzoholela ekutheni ukuthomba kwenzeke ngokwemvelo.
- Ukulinda: Ngokuvamile, ikakhulukazi uma kungumlando womndeni noma isimo "sokubambezeleka kokukhula ngokomthethosisekelo", udokotela uzothi, "Ake silinde isikhashana." Ngoba lezi zingane ngokwemvelo, noma seziphuzile kancane, zizofinyelela ekuthombeni.
- Ukwelashwa ngama-hormone: Uma ingane yakho icindezelekile kakhulu, ingazihlanganisi nabangane, izikhipha kwezemidlalo, noma inenkinga ngomsebenzi wesikole, udokotela wakho angase anqume ukuqala ukwelashwa ngama-hormone. Lokhu kuhilela ukunikeza abafana i-testosterone kanye ne-estrogen yamantombazane ngemithamo emincane izinyanga ezimbalwa.
Lokhu kwelashwa kuphephile kakhulu. Kunikeza kuphela 'ukusunduza' okuncane ezinqubweni zemvelo zomzimba. Ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa, lapho izimpawu zokuthomba ziqala, ukwelashwa kuyamiswa. Bese ama-hormone omzimba anakekela okunye.
Ingabe lokhu kungayithinta ingane ngokwengqondo?
Yebo. Lena yindawo okudingeka siyinake kakhulu. Nakuba lesi kungesona isimo esiyingozi kwezokwelapha, kungaba ukucindezeleka okukhulu engqondweni yengane. Cabanga ukuthi kuyacasula kanjani ngengane ukuba yedwa encane kuyilapho bonke abangane bayo bekhula.
- Bangase bazizwe bengelutho .
- Bangase bakhishwe inyumbazane futhi bahlukunyezwe abanye abantwana.
- Ungase ukhishwe emaqenjini ezemidlalo kanye nemisebenzi yomphakathi.
- Ezinye izingane zingase zibhekane nezimo ezifana nokucindezeleka .
Into enkulu ongayenza njengomzali ukunikeza ingane yakho amandla engqondo.Kulungile. Njalo tshela ingane yakho ukuthi lokhu kumane nje kuyiphutha, ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi izokhula njengabangane bayo. Lalela ingane yakho. Mvumele akhulume ngalokho okusengqondweni yakhe. Uma kudingeka, futhi kungumqondo omuhle ukuthola usizo lomeluleki ukuze akhulume nengane yakho.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukuphuza isikhathi sokuthomba kuyinto evamile. Ngokuvamile kubangelwa umlando womndeni noma indlela evamile yokukhula emzimbeni wengane.
- Uma intombazane ingabonakali izimpawu zokuthomba eneminyaka engu-14 noma umfana eneminyaka engu-15, kubalulekile ukufuna iseluleko sezokwelapha.
- Iningi lezingane ezinalesi simo, kungaba ngokwemvelo noma ngokwelashwa kwesikhashana, zifinyelela ukuphakama okuvamile kanye nezici zomzimba zabantu abadala ngesikhathi esifanele.
- Nakekela impilo yengane yakho ngokomzimba kanye nempilo yayo yengqondo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyinika uthando nokusekela.
- Uma unokungabaza, ungalokothi uthembele ekuqageleni futhi ucele iseluleko kudokotela ofanelekayo.
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