Dɛn ne Cisgender? Momma yɛnka ho asɛm tiawa na yɛmfa nidi!

Mprempren, yɛn nyinaa te sɛ wɔreka nsɛm foforo ho asɛm wɔ sohyial media ne TV so, ɛnte saa? Ɛtɔ da bi a yɛde saa nsɛmfua yi di dwuma ɛwom mpo sɛ yennim nea ɛkyerɛ ankasa de. Saa ara nso na asɛmfua bi a ɛrebɔ yɛn aso nnansa yi ne "Cisgender." Ebia woate asɛm yi pɛn. Enti, dɛn ankasa ne Cisgender? So eyi yɛ asɛmti a emu yɛ den? Nte saa koraa. Momma yɛnka eyi ho asɛm wɔ asomdwoe mu nnɛ na yɛntew nsɛmmisa a ɛwɔ yɛn tirim no nyinaa mu.

Dɛn na Cisgender kyerɛ ara kwa?

Ɛnyɛ den koraa. Cisgender kyerɛ sɛ w’adwene ne ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna a wofi awosu mu a wɔde maa wo bere a wɔwoo wo no hyia.

Momma yɛnkyerɛkyerɛ mu kakra. Fa no sɛ bere a wɔwoo wo no, nnuruyɛfo no kyerɛw "ɔbea" wɔ w'awo ho adansedi krataa so. Bere a worenyin no, wususuw na wote nka nso sɛ woyɛ abeawa, anaa ɔbea. Sɛ ɛba saa a, woyɛ ɔbea a ɔyɛ cisgender .

Saa ara nso na sɛ wɔwoo wo sɛ "ɔbarima" wɔ w'awo ho adansedi krataa so, na bere a worenyin no, woda so ara susuw na wote nka sɛ abarimaa anaa ɔbarima a, ɛnde na woyɛ cisgender ɔbarima .

Nnipa dodow no ara a wɔwɔ wiase no hyɛ cisgender kuw no mu. Latin asɛmfua yi fã, "cis", kyerɛ "wɔ ɔfã yi". Asɛmfua a ɛne no bɔ abira ne "trans". Ɛkyerɛ sɛ "wɔ ɔfã foforo". Ɔkwan foforo so no, yɛfrɛ nnipa a wɔde wɔn ho hyɛ ɔbarima ne ɔbea ntam abusuabɔ a ɛsono ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna a wɔde maa wɔn wɔ awo mu no `Transgender`.

So ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna ne ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna yɛ nneɛma abien?

Aane! Eyi yɛ ade a ɛma nnipa pii adwene tu fra. Nnipa pii susuw sɛ "ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna" ne "ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna" yɛ ade koro. Nanso eyinom yɛ nsusuwii abien a ɛsono emu biara koraa. Momma yɛnte saa nsonsonoe yi ase yiye.

Gender Identity yɛ sɛnea wuhu wo ho fi wo mu, sɛnea wo ne wo ho kasa (ɔno, ɔno, wɔn). Obiara bɔbeasu ne ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna nhyia.

Enti hena ne Nonbinary?

``Nonbinary'' yɛ asɛmfua a wɔde di dwuma wɔ ɔkwan a ɛkɔ akyiri so ma nnipa a wɔn bɔbeasu ntumi nkɔ atetesɛm nnaka a ɛfa ɔbarima anaa ɔbea ho no mu. Ebetumi ayɛ baabi a ɛwɔ ntam, abien no nyinaa a wɔaka abom, anaasɛ nipasu a ɛwɔ emu biara akyi koraa.

Nhwɛso ahorow bi:

• Genderqueer: Wɔn nna mu nipasu betumi asesa mpɛn pii.
• Genderfluid: Nipasu a ɛtaa sesa wɔ ɔbarima ne ɔbea nipasu ntam.
• Agender: Nnipa a wɔmfa wɔn ho nhyɛ ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna biara mu (ɔbarima, ɔbea, anaa afoforo).
• Bigender: Nnipa a wɔda wɔn ho adi sɛ wɔyɛ ɔbarima ne ɔbea nyinaa bere koro mu anaa mmere ahorow mu.

Bɔbeasu ne Ɔbarima ne Ɔbea Nna Ho Adwene

Eyi yɛ ade foforo a ɛma nnipa pii adwene tu fra.

• Bɔbeasu a Wohu: Eyi ne onipa ko a woyɛ . Ɛkyerɛ sɛ ebia wobɛda wo ho adi sɛ ɔbarima, ɔbea, anaa nipasu foforo bi.
• Ɔbarima ne Ɔbea Nna Ho Akwankyerɛ: Ɛyɛ nea wodɔ no . Ɛyɛ onii a w’ani gye ne ho wɔ nna ne nkate fam.

Sɛ nhwɛso no, obi a ɔsakra ne bɔbeasu (onipa a ɛsono ne bɔbeasu wɔ ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna a wɔde maa no bere a wɔwoo no) betumi anya ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna a ɛne no bɔ abira (ɔbarima a ɔne no da), ɔbarima a ɔne ɔbarima da (ɔbarima a ɔne ɔbarima da/ɔbarima a ɔne ɔbarima da), anaa ɔbarima a ɔne no da. Saa nsusuwii abien yi yɛ nea ɛde ne ho koraa.

Momma yensua tebea a wɔfrɛ no Intersex no nso ho ade.

Nnipa binom susuw sɛ wɔ abɔde mu no, ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna abien pɛ na ɛwɔ hɔ, ɔbarima ne ɔbea. Nanso nokwarem no ɛte sɛ spectrum kɛse. ``Intersex`` yɛ tebea a wɔwo obi a ɔwɔ ɔbarima ne ɔbea nna su (chromosomes, hormones, anaa genitals) a ɛne ɔbarima anaa ɔbea nipadua a ɛteɛ de hyia pɛpɛɛpɛ. Eyi nyɛ ɔbarima ne ɔbea ntam abusuabɔ, na mmom ɛyɛ abɔde mu nsonsonoe . Sɛ wopɛ sɛ wuhu eyi ho nsɛm pii a, ɛbɛyɛ papa sɛ wubebisa wo duruyɛfo (oduruyɛfo).

Dɛn ne "Cisgender Hokwan"?

Eyi yɛ asɛmti a ɛyɛ nkate. Sɛ meka sɛ "hokwan" a, ebia nnipa binom besusuw sɛ eyi kyerɛ sɛ cisgenderfo korɔn sen afoforo. Nte saa koraa.

Cisgender Privilege yɛ hokwan ne hokwan a wo fi awosu mu nya efisɛ wo bɔbeasu nipasu hyia wɔ nhyehyɛe "a ɛyɛ daa" a ɔmanfo dodow no ara gye tom no mu. Ɛnsɛ sɛ Cisgenderfoɔ haw wɔn ho wɔ nsɛnnennen, nsɛmmisa, ne nyiyim a nnipa a wɔnyɛ cisgender hyia da biara da no ho.

Momma yɛnhwɛ nhwɛso ahorow bi:

• Ɛnsɛ sɛ wohaw wo ho sɛ obi bɛhwɛ wo wɔ ɔkwan a ɛyɛ nwonwa so, abisa wo nsɛm, anaa ɔbɛhaw wo bere a worekɔ akɔfa ɔmanfo aguaree.
• Sɛ wuhyia obi foforo a, obiara mmisa nea wo "din ankasa" yɛ.
• Ɛnsɛ sɛ wohaw wo ho sɛ ebia obi de edinnsiananmu a ɛfata (ɔno) bedi dwuma bere a ɔreka wo ho asɛm no.
• Afoforo nso mmisa w’ankasa nsɛm a ɛho nhia mfa wo nipadua anaa oprehyɛn a wɔayɛ wo ho.
• Sɛ wuhu wo ho mfonini sɛ abofra a, ɛho renhia sɛ wokyerɛkyerɛ mu kyerɛ obiara sɛ, "Dɛn nti na wonyɛ sɛnea wote mprempren no?"

Bere a saa nneɛma yi yɛ nea ɛfata ma obi a ɔyɛ cisgender, ma obi a ɔsakra ne bɔbeasu anaa obi a ɔnyɛ binary no, eyinom yɛ da biara da adwennwen a ɛde wɔn to asiane kɛse mu sɛ wobenya adwennwen, adwenemhaw, ne akwahosan ho haw afoforo.

Yɛyɛ dɛn bu obiara na yɛboa no?

Sɛ́ cisgender nnipa no, yebetumi ate saa nsonsonoe ahorow yi ase na yɛaboa ma yɛabɔ ɔman a ɛka nnipa nyinaa bom na wobu wɔn ho kɛse. Ɛho nhia sɛ ɛyɛ asɛm kɛse. Momma yɛmfa nneɛma nketenkete mfi ase.

• Mfa no sɛ: Mfa no sɛ obiara a wubehyia no yɛ cisgender.
• Da obu: Da obu ma sɛnea obi da ne ho adi. Fa wɔn din ne edinnsiananmu a wɔpɛ frɛ wɔn. Sɛ wunnye nni a, mfomso biara nni ho sɛ wode nidi bisa sɛ, "Ɔkwan bɛn so na wobɛpɛ sɛ wɔkasa kyerɛ wo?"
• Mmisa nsɛm a ɛho nhia:Kwati sɛ wubebisa obi nipadua, oprehyɛn, anaa n’ankasa aduruyɛ ho nsɛm ho nsɛm. Ɛyɛ ankorankoro asɛm paa.
• Hwɛ yiye: Sɛ wokenkan nsɛmti yi ho asɛm kakra na wuhu a, wubetumi asiw wo ho kwan sɛ wobɛkenkan biribi a ebetumi apira obi nkate a wunnim.

Awiei koraa no, yɛn nyinaa yɛ nnipa. Nea ɛho hia sen biara ne sɛ yebebu yɛn ho yɛn ho nipasu na yɛde ayamye ne ntease ayɛ ade.