Gbe siwo tso vi siwo si ADHD le dzilawo gbɔ: Nusiwo wòle be hadomegbenɔnɔ nase (ADHD) .

Ðe viwòa menɔa teƒe ɖeka gbeɖe oa? Ðe nèsena le ɖokuiwò me zi geɖe be womeléa to ɖe naneke ŋu alo ɖoa to wò oa? Alo ɖe wodoa dziku zi ɖeka le nu suetɔ kekeake ta? Le nuwɔna sia ta la, ɖewohĩ ƒometɔwo, xɔlɔ̃wo, alo sukua gɔ̃ hã tso nuwò be, "Viwòa mewɔa nu nyuie o." Ne èdo go nuteƒekpɔkpɔ mawo hã kpɔ la, ŋutinya sia ate ɖe ŋuwò ŋutɔ. Elabena egbea míele nu ƒom tso nusiwo le ɖevi siwo ŋu ADHD, alo susu ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie ƒe dɔléle le dzilawo ƒe susu me, gake womete ŋu gblɔe na hadomegbenɔnɔ o la dometɔ aɖewo ŋu.

Vinye menye "vi vɔ̃ɖi" o!

Esesẽna na ɖevi aɖewo siwo ŋu ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) le be woanɔ teƒe ɖeka, si fia be wowɔa dɔ wògbɔa eme ŋutɔ . Ame bubuwo susuna be yewole nuwo wɔm evɔ yewometsɔ ɖeke le eme o, si fia be yewowɔa nu kpata ŋutɔ . Ate ŋu asesẽ na ɖevi siawo be woawɔ ɖe mɔfiamewo dzi ahaɖu woƒe seselelãmewo dzi. Fifia, ne ɖevi si si nɔnɔme siawo le wɔ nu gbegblẽ la, míesusuna be eɖoe koŋ le agbagba dzem be yeado dziku na mí alo maɖo to mí o. Gake menye nyateƒeae nye ema o.

Vidada aɖe gblɔ be, “Eveam ŋutɔ ne dzila bubuwo lé ŋku ɖe mía viwo ŋu heyɔ wo be ‘ɖevi vɔ̃wo.’” ADHD le viawo evea siaa ŋu. Egblɔ be ne ɖevi sia tɔgbe do dziku kasia, do dziku, eye wòdo ɣli (si ƒe dzi dze eme) la, wole agbagba dzem ŋutɔŋutɔ be yewoagblɔ alesi yewosena le yewo ɖokui me na mí. Gake womenya alesi woawɔe o. Ne wonya srɔ̃ mɔnu ma ko la, ɖevi mawo trɔna le mɔ siwo womate ŋu asusu o nu.

ADHD medzɔna le "dzilawo ƒe vodadawo" ta o!

Esia nye nukpɔsusu totro gãtɔ kekeake siwo le amewo si le hadomegbenɔnɔ me la dometɔ ɖeka. Ne ame geɖe kpɔ ɖevi ƒe nuwɔna gbegblẽ la, wotɔa asibidɛ ɖe vidadaa kple fofoa ŋu. Ðewohĩ èse ŋutinyawo abe "womehe ɖevia nyuie o," "wotsɔ ɖeke le eme akpa," kple "amehehe aɖeke meli o" ene.

Gake eŋutinunyalawo gblɔ be nusi koŋ gbɔ ADHD tsonae nye domenyiŋusẽfianu . Eyae nye be enye domenyinu. Woɖo kpe edzi sesĩe azɔ be menye vidada alo vifofoa ƒe vodada aɖeke gbɔe nɔnɔme sia tso o.

Vidada si si viŋutsuvi si xɔ ƒe wuiɖekɛ le si le avu wɔm kple ADHD, autism, kple dzimaɖitsitsi ƒe ŋutinya le vevie ŋutɔ.

Vidada bubu gblɔ be, "Dzilawo ƒe ŋukpe geɖe le esia me. Amewo susuna be, 'Anye be èwɔ nu gbegblẽ aɖe.' Vidada bubu gblɔ nam ɣeaɖeɣi be, ‘Anye be èɖe mɔ nɛ wòkpɔ television fũu akpa esime wònye ɖevi.’ Mesusu be, 'Susu aɖeke mele nya ma me o.'"

ADHD nye nɔnɔme ŋutɔŋutɔ.

Esia menye fefenya alo nusi wowɔ le susu me o. Ðɔktawo kple lãmesẽdɔwɔƒe siwo le xexeame godoo lɔ̃ ɖe esia dzi be enye atikewɔwɔ ƒe nɔnɔme ŋutɔŋutɔ. Gake ame aɖewo gakpɔtɔ le ɖi kem le eŋu.

Vidada aɖe ɖo viaŋutsu si ŋu ADHD le ɖe asaɖa aɖe me. Togbɔ be eɖo aɖaŋu na ɖoɖowɔlawo le alesi woakpɔ viaŋutsu ƒe dɔlélea gbɔe ŋu hã la, ame aɖeke mexɔ ADHD dzi se le asaɖaa me o. Esia wɔe be eva hiã be via nado go kuxi geɖe le asaɖaa me.

Eya ta ne ame siwo mese nɔnɔme sia gɔme o la srɔ̃ nu tso eŋu la, woate ŋu atsɔ dɔmetɔtrɔ alé ŋku ɖe ɖevi mawo ŋu. Emegbe la, ɖeviawo ase le wo ɖokui me be, "Ame tsitsiawo sea nu gɔme nam, wole nye akpa dzi." Kakaɖedzi ma xɔ asi ŋutɔ na wo.

Womate ŋu atsɔ tohehe aɖɔ nɔnɔme sia ɖo o.

Wodzudzɔ sukudede le ɖevi ƒe nuwɔna ƒe kuxi ta mebɔ le míaƒe dukɔa me o. Vidada aɖe gblɔ be wodzudzɔ ye viŋutsua ŋkeke 10 le ɣleti etɔ̃ ƒe ɣeyiɣi aɖe me esime wònɔ klass etɔ̃lia me. Eɖe eme na sukua kpɔ be ye viŋutsua ƒe nuwɔwɔ kpata kple eƒe nuwɔwɔ kpata nye yeƒe ADHD-dɔlélea ƒe akpa aɖe, gake womese egɔme o.

Egblɔ be: "Medi be sukuwo nalé fɔ ɖe nusi gbɔ nuwɔnaa tso didi kple egbɔkpɔnuwo didi ŋu wu be woahe to nɛ. Ðevi mawo mesrɔ̃a naneke to wo ɖeɖeɖa me o." Nufiala aɖewo susu be "wo ƒoƒo sesĩe" aɖe nuwɔna gbegblẽ siawo ɖa. Gake ɖeko ema nana ɖevia léa blanui ɖe edzi.

Dzilanyenye ŋuti aɖaŋuɖoɖo siwo wɔa dɔ na amesiame mewɔa dɔ na ɖevi siwo ŋu ADHD le o

Togbɔ be mía dzilawo nyi mí le "wɔ nusi megblɔ" ƒe mɔnu xoxoa nu hã la, mɔnu mawo mewɔa dɔ ne wole ADHD vi hem o. Ele be míagbɔ dzi ɖi ŋutɔ eye míatrɔ ɖe nɔnɔmewo ŋu ne míele nu fiam ɖevia. Ele be míaɖi ɖe afisi ɖevia le aƒo nu kpli wo le mɔ si gɔme woase nu.

Nenema ke aɖaŋuɖoɖo siwo awɔ dɔ na ɖevi si ŋu ADHD mele o ate ŋu mawɔ dɔ na ɖevi siawo o. Ðewohĩ èse aɖaŋuɖoɖowo abe, "Vinye matsi nenema o," alo "Te sticker chart kpɔ." Togbɔ be susu nyui ate ŋu anye aɖaŋuɖoɖo sia hã la, mesɔ ɖe ɖevi si ŋu ADHD le ƒe nuhiahiãwo nu o.

Vi si ŋu ADHD le hehe sesẽ ŋutɔŋutɔ.

Dzila aɖewo zãa ɣeyiɣi kple ŋusẽ geɖe tsɔ dzea agbagba be yewoawɔ ɖoɖowɔɖi aɖe na yewo vi, awɔ numekuku tso eŋu, ayi ɖɔktawo gbɔ, eye woadi nyatakakawo le internet dzi.

Vidada aɖe gblɔ be: “Etea ɖeɖi ame ŋu ŋutɔ.” "Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, wo katã mesena le ɖokuinye me be wogbɔdzɔ. Mesena le ɖokuinye me be nyemele nye ŋutete katã wɔm na vinyea o, be menye kpododonu. Esesẽna ŋutɔ be mado dzi le seselelãme ma me."

"Gbesiagbe nye mɔzɔzɔ yeye. Mɔzɔzɔ sia mele bɔbɔe o - gake míate ŋu aɖu esia dzi," vidada bubu gblɔ.

Akpa nyuitɔ kekeakee nye be nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ kple ne ehiã la, atike siwo ɖɔkta ŋlɔ na viwòa ate ŋu akpe ɖe viwò ŋu wòakpɔ eƒe ADHD dzi. Azɔ hã, wowɔ Ame Ðekaɖeka ƒe Hehenaɖoɖo (IEP) be wòakpɔ ɖevia ƒe nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe nuhiahiãwo gbɔ.Àte ŋu abia viwòa ƒe suku tso nya sia ŋu. Nu vevitɔe nye be nàƒo nu tso nusiawo katã ŋu na wò ƒomea ƒe ɖɔkta alo ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdala .

Klosalo aɖe le alilikpo doviviti ɖesiaɖe me.

Le kuxi siawo katã dome la, ate ŋu anye tetekpɔ be woabui be menye nu gbegblẽ aɖe koe ADHD nye o. Dzila aɖewo gblɔna be ŋutete tɔxɛwo le yewo viwo si le ADHD ta.

• Tamebubu le aɖaka godo
• Nuwo kpɔkpɔ le mɔ yeye nu
• He susu tsɔtsɔ ɖe nya aɖe si me wotsɔ ɖe le ŋu fũ akpa

Vidada aɖe gblɔ be: “Ame aɖeke meƒoa nu tso nu nyui siwo le ADHD ŋu o.” "Esia le alea elabena wometrɔ asi le míaƒe sukudede ƒe ɖoɖoa kple xexeame ŋu be wòaxɔ amesiwo mele ɖoɖo nu o."

Eya ta togbɔ be èse viwòa ƒe kuxiwo gɔme hã la, mègaŋlɔ be be yeakpɔ ŋudzedze ɖe eƒe ŋutete tɔxɛwo ŋu o.