ʻAʻole anei e noho mau kāu keiki ma kahi hoʻokahi? Ala mau ʻo ia a hele wāwae i loko o ka papa, a hoʻopiʻi pinepine ke kumu e hoʻopilikia ana ʻo ia i nā keiki ʻē aʻe? Pēlā nō hoʻi ma ka home, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e noho ma kahi hoʻokahi i ka wā e ʻai ana, holo mau ʻo ia a lele ... I kekahi manawa e noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe, 'He nui loa ka hana kolohe a kēia keiki.' He hana kolohe maʻamau anei kēia, a he kūlana paha e pono ai kākou e makaʻala? ʻO ia ka mea a kākou e kamaʻilio ai i kēia lā. Ma nā ʻōlelo lapaʻau, kapa mākou i kēia kūlana ʻo Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, a i ʻole ADHD no ka pōkole.
I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, he aha ka ADHD?
ʻO ADHD kekahi o nā maʻi olakino noʻonoʻo maʻamau i ʻike ʻia i ka wā kamaliʻi. He kūlana ia e pili ana i ka ulu ʻana o ka lolo a me ka hana, a ʻaʻole ia he hewa o ke keiki a i ʻole ka makua. He mea nui e hoʻomaopopo mua i kēia.
Ua hōʻike ʻia e ka noiʻi ʻana he ʻelua ka nui o ke ʻano o kēia maʻi i nā keikikāne ma mua o nā kaikamahine. Manaʻo kekahi poʻe ʻepekema he mea pilikia paha ka lilo ʻana i keikikāne no ka ADHD. Manaʻo kekahi poʻe ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻike ʻia nā kaikamahine no ka mea he ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ko lākou mau hōʻailona a hiki ke maʻalahi ke ʻike ʻole ʻia.
Pehea e ʻokoʻa ai nā hōʻailona ma waena o nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine?
ʻAe, hiki ke ʻokoʻa pinepine nā hōʻailona ADHD ma muli o ke kāne. He mea nui loa kēia.
ʻO ka maʻamau, ʻike ʻia nā keikikāne e ka hyperactivity . ʻO ia hoʻi, he kolohe loa lākou, hoʻomaha ʻole, ʻaʻole hiki ke noho mālie, a hana i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai e hana (impulsive). ʻO ia ke kumu e ʻike maʻalahi ʻia ai lākou he poʻe i kipaku ʻia i loko o ka papa a me ke kaiāulu.
Akā inā loaʻa i nā kaikamahine ka ADHD, pilikia ka hapa nui o lākou i ka hoʻolohe ʻana (Inattentive). ʻO ia hoʻi, ua mālie loa lākou, ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻopilikia i kekahi ma ka papa, akā ʻaʻohe wahi o ko lākou manaʻo. Ua nalowale mau lākou i nā ao moeʻuhane.
E nānā kākou i kēia papa e hoʻomaopopo iki aʻe i kēia ʻokoʻa .
| Nā ʻano maʻamau i nā keikikāne (Hyperactive/Impulsive) | Nā ʻano maʻamau i nā kaikamahine (ʻAʻole nānā pono) |
|---|---|
| He mea paʻakikī loa ke noho ma kahi hoʻokahi. Ke pāʻani mau nei au me koʻu mau manamana lima a me koʻu mau wāwae. | Ua maʻalahi ke hoʻohuli ʻia ka manaʻo. ʻOiai ka walaʻau liʻiliʻi loa hiki ke hoʻohuli i ka manaʻo. |
| ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kali no koʻu manawa. Inaina maoli wau i ke kali ʻana ma ka laina. | Ke moeʻuhane mau nei au. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke lohe i ka mea e aʻo ʻia nei ma ka papa. |
| Lele koke lākou i loko o nā kamaʻilio a me nā pāʻani a haʻi. | He paʻakikī ke hahai i nā kuhikuhi. Inā ʻoe e haʻi mai iaʻu i kekahi mau mea i ka lālani, ʻaʻole au e hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou. |
| Hoʻāʻo lākou e pane i kahi nīnau ma mua o ka pau ʻana o ka nīnau ʻana. | ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻopau i kaʻu hana ma ke ʻano hoʻonohonoho. He lepo mau koʻu pākaukau a me koʻu lumi. |
| Holo mau, lele, piʻi ma luna o nā noho a me nā pākaukau. | Poina mau iaʻu nā mea. Nalowale mau iaʻu nā puke, nā peni, a me nā pepa hana home. |
Akā he mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia. Hiki i kekahi mau keikikāne ke noho mālie a hoʻolohe ʻole, aʻo kekahi mau kaikamahine he hyperactive paha. No laila, ʻaʻole like kēia mau ʻano i nā kānaka a pau.
Pehea ʻoe e ʻike pono ai i ka ADHD?
He hana paʻakikī kēia. No ka mea, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo nā keiki a pau, ʻoiai i ka wā ʻōpiopio, he pupule lākou, pilikia i ka noʻonoʻo pono ʻana, a he palupalu ko lākou manawa hoʻolohe. No laila, he mea paʻakikī i nā mākua ke hoʻokaʻawale ma waena o ka pupule maʻamau a me ka ADHD.
ʻO ka mea nui, pehea ka nui o ka hopena o kēia mau ʻano i ke ola o ke keiki i kēlā me kēia lā .
- ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻopau i nā hana kula?
- He mea paʻakikī anei ke launa pū me nā keiki ʻē aʻe a loaʻa nā hoaaloha?
- Ke komo pinepine nei ʻoe i ka hana weliweli?
Inā ʻo ka pane i kēia mau nīnau he 'ʻae', he mea ʻoi aku paha ia ma mua o kahi hana hoʻopunipuni maʻalahi.
No ke aha i ʻike ʻole ʻia ai nā kaikamahine?
Aia paha kekahi mau kumu no kēia.
- Ke ulu wikiwiki nei:Ma muli o ka ulu wikiwiki ʻana o nā kaikamahine i ka noʻonoʻo a me ke kino ma mua o nā keikikāne, hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa i kā lākou mau ala ponoʻī e lawelawe ai a kaohi i kēia mau hōʻailona.
- Nā kūlana olakino ʻē aʻe: ʻOi aku ka nui o nā kaikamahine a me nā wahine i loaʻa i nā kūlana e like me ka hopohopo a i ʻole ke kaumaha me ADHD. I kēlā hihia, hiki i ke kauka ke poina i ke kūlana ADHD a mālama wale i ke kūlana ʻē aʻe.
He aha ka mea e hana ʻia inā ʻaʻole mālama ʻia?
Inā ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia a mālama ʻia ka ADHD, hiki iā ia ke loaʻa ka hopena nui i ka wā e hiki mai ana o ke keiki. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻopilikia i ke kula, hoʻoulu i nā pilikia i ka wā e hana ana, a hoʻoulu i nā pilikia i ke ola ʻohana a me nā pilina pilikanaka .
Hiki i kēia ke hoʻopilikia nui i nā kāne, ʻoiai ʻaʻole makemake nui nā kāne e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ko lākou mau pilikia olakino a i ʻole e ʻike i ke kauka ma mua o nā wahine. ʻO ka hopena, hiki iā lākou ke ʻeha no ke koena o ko lākou ola me ka loaʻa ʻole o ka lāʻau lapaʻau.
I ka manawa pinepine, ʻike ʻia nā kaikamahine me ka ADHD ma ke ʻano he poʻe mākua. Hoʻomaopopo wale kekahi poʻe he ADHD ko lākou ma hope o ka ʻike ʻia ʻana o kā lākou keiki ponoʻī me ka ADHD. Eia nō naʻe, hōʻike ka noiʻi he ʻoi aku ka nui o ka pilikia o nā wahine me ka ADHD i ke kaumaha a me ka haʻahaʻa o ka manaʻo ponoʻī ma mua o nā kāne.
No laila he aha kā mākou e hana ai? He aha nā lāʻau lapaʻau?
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi kānalua iki he ADHD kāu keiki, ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa a ʻo ka mea wale nō e hana ai, ʻo ia ke kamaʻilio me kāu pediatrician a kauka ʻohana paha e pili ana i ia mea. E kuhikuhi ʻo ia i kāu keiki i kahi loea inā pono.
ʻAʻole hiki ke "ho'ōla loa ʻia" ka ADHD. Akā hiki ke hoʻokele pono ʻia nā hōʻailona. Me ka mālama kūpono, hiki i ke keiki ke ola i kahi ola maʻamau a hauʻoli.
ʻElua mau ʻano lapaʻau nui:
1. Lapaʻau Hana: Paipai kūikawā ʻia kēia ʻano hana no nā keiki ma lalo o 6 makahiki. Maanei, ua aʻo ʻia nā mākua pehea e hoʻokele ai i ke ʻano o kā lākou keiki. Eia kekahi laʻana, ka hana ʻana i kahi hana maʻamau no ke keiki, ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā ia ke hana maikaʻi ʻo ia, a me ka wehewehe pono ʻana i nā lula.
2. Lāʻau lapaʻau a me ka hoʻōla ʻana i ka hana: No nā keiki makua, hoʻohana pinepine ʻia kēia mau ʻano ʻelua. Kōkua ka lāʻau lapaʻau i ke kaulike ʻana i ka hana o ka lolo, hoʻomaikaʻi i ka lōʻihi o ka nānā ʻana, a kaohi i ka hoʻomaha ʻole.
ʻO ka mea nui loa, ʻo ia ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi i kēia huakaʻi. Eia kāu kauka a me nā loea olakino ʻē aʻe e kōkua iā ʻoe a me kāu pēpē.
Leka Lawe-Home
- ʻAʻole hewa ke keiki a i ʻole nā mākua i ka ADHD. He maʻi olakino maoli nō ia.
- ʻOi aku ka nui o nā keikikāne e hōʻike i nā ʻano hyperactive, ʻoiai ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kaikamahine e hōʻike i nā ʻano makaʻala ʻole.
- Inā hoʻopilikia ka hana kolohe a kāu keiki i kāna hana kula, nā pilina, a me ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā, mai hoʻowahāwahā iā ia me he mea maʻamau lā.
- Inā he kānalua kou, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka me ka hoʻokaʻulua ʻole.
- ʻO ka lāʻau kūpono (behavioral therapy a/a i ʻole lāʻau lapaʻau) hiki ke hoʻomalu pono i nā hōʻailona ADHD a alakaʻi i ke keiki e alakaʻi i kahi ola holomua.
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