Ua ʻike mākou a pau i ke ʻano o ka makaʻu maoli. Holo wikiwiki kou puʻuwai , wikiwiki kou hanu ʻana, hou ʻoe, a loaʻa iā ʻoe nā pulelehua i loko o kou ʻōpū. Hiki ke loaʻa kēia makaʻu mai ka nānā ʻana i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli, ka hoʻolohe ʻana i kahi moʻolelo weliweli, a i ʻole ka hele wāwae ʻana ma loko o kahi hale ʻuhane i ka pō. Akā, he mea kupanaha, makemake kekahi poʻe i kēia manaʻo o ka makaʻu. Hahai lākou i nā mea weliweli.
No nā kānaka maʻamau e like me mākou, he mea paʻakikī ke noʻonoʻo pehea e hauʻoli ai kekahi poʻe i ia mau ʻike weliweli, ʻoiai inā ʻike lākou i kahi hiʻohiʻona liʻiliʻi i loko o kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli a manaʻo lākou e like me ka pohā ʻana o ko lākou ʻōpū. Akā, ʻōlelo nā loea he mea maʻamau no kekahi poʻe ke hoʻokuke i ko lākou palena e ʻike i ka mamao e hiki ai iā lākou ke lawe i ko lākou makaʻu, a e ʻike i ka ʻoluʻolu nui ma hope o ka lanakila ʻana i kēlā makaʻu.
No ke aha mākou i makemake nui ai i kēia 'ʻaoʻao pōʻeleʻele'?
He aha ka mea hoihoi maoli o kēia mau moʻolelo ʻuhane a me nā mea weliweli? Wahi a Frank Farley, PhD, he loea noʻonoʻo ma ke Kulanui ʻo Temple, "Ua hoihoi nui ka poʻe i kēia 'ʻaoʻao pōʻeleʻele' ma o ka mōʻaukala. Ua hoʻāʻo lākou e hoʻomaopopo iā ia." Ma o nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, ʻike mākou i nā mea weliweli i mua o ko mākou mau maka. Ua hoihoi loa kekahi poʻe iā ia. Makemake lākou i nā mea ʻokoʻa loa, ʻano ʻē, a pohihihi ma mua o ka mea a lākou e ʻike ai i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā. No ka mea, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaopopo i kēlā mau mea.
ʻO kekahi loea noʻonoʻo, ʻo Glenn Sparks, PhD, ua aʻo ʻo ia i ke ʻano o ka pane ʻana o nā kāne, nā wahine, a me nā keiki i ka weliweli ma ka pāpāho no nā makahiki he iwakālua a ʻoi. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia, "Pono kekahi poʻe e ʻike i kahi mea ʻokoʻa mai ka monotony o ko lākou ola o kēlā me kēia lā." ʻOiai aia kekahi mau hemahema i ka nānā ʻana i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli, ʻike ka poʻe he mea ʻoluʻolu loa ia no ka mea he ʻokoʻa ka ʻike.
ʻO ka mea kupanaha, ua hōʻike kekahi mau noiʻi ua makemake nui nā keikikāne i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli ma mua o nā kaikamahine. "ʻAʻole no ka mea makemake maoli lākou e makaʻu," wahi a Sparks. "Akā loaʻa iā lākou ka nui o ka ʻoluʻolu mai ka hiki ke ʻōlelo ua lanakila lākou i kahi mea hoʻoweliweli, ua kāohi lākou. Makemake lākou i ka manaʻo o 'Ua ola au i kēlā.'"
I ka manawa pinepine, ke pau kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli, puka mai ke kanaka mai ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni me ka manaʻo hoʻomaha. "Malia paha ua hauʻoli wale ʻo ia ua pau ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni," wahi a Sparks.
ʻO wai kēia poʻe 'ʻAno T'?
Ua aʻo ʻo Farley, he pelekikena mua o ka American Psychological Association, i nā kānaka me ka mea āna i kapa ai ʻo ke ʻano "Type T" (ʻimi pīhoihoi). Makemake kēia poʻe i ka maopopo ʻole a me ka ikaika e pili ana i nā hana e kū ai nā lauoho ma ko mākou kino. Mai nā holo kaʻa wili a hiki i ka lele bungee, he mea pīhoihoi maoli kēia mau mea no lākou. "Wahi a nā mea luʻu lani ʻo ia ka pīhoihoi, kēlā wikiwiki, a me kahi makaʻu iki e hoʻokele iā lākou e hoʻokuke iā lākou iho i ka palena," wahi āna.
Wahi a Farley, hauʻoli kekahi poʻe i nā manaʻo kino e hele mai me ka makaʻu. Nā mea e like me ka adrenaline pumping , ka holo ʻana o ka puʻuwai, a me nā poho lima hou. I nā haʻawina o ka pīhoihoi i ʻike ʻia e ka poʻe holo kaʻa roller coaster, ua ʻike ʻo ia, "He ʻike sensory kupaianaha. ʻAʻohe mea ʻē aʻe e hiki ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me kēlā, ʻaʻole hoʻi ka moekolohe ."
| Nā kumu nui e makemake ai i ka makaʻu | He wehewehe maʻalahi |
|---|---|
| Ka hoihoi | ʻO ka makemake e ʻike e pili ana i nā mea ʻokoʻa, pohihihi, a 'pōʻeleʻele' mai ko kākou ola o kēlā me kēia lā. |
| Ke lanakila nei i nā pilikia | ʻO ka ʻoluʻolu o ke alo ʻana i kahi ʻike weliweli a me ka manaʻo ua "lanakila" ʻoe iā ia. |
| Ka manaʻo kino | Ke hauʻoli nei i nā pane kino e hele mai me ka makaʻu, e like me ka wikiwiki o ka adrenaline a me ka piʻi ʻana o ka puʻuwai. |
| Ke loaʻa nei ka hōʻoluʻolu | Ua ʻike ʻia ka nui o ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka māmā ma hope o ka pau ʻana o ke ʻano weliweli. |
Pehea lā nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi?
No nā keiki, hiki i nā moʻolelo ʻuhane ke lilo i ala palekana e ʻike ai a ʻimi i ka makaʻu. No ka mea, ua ʻike lākou he hoʻokalakupua nā ʻuhane a me nā moʻo i loko o kēia mau moʻolelo. Ua wehewehe ʻo Leon Rappoport, PhD, he loea noʻonoʻo, i kēia me he ʻano hypnosis lā. Hāʻawi ia i nā keiki i kahi manawa e hoʻokuʻu ai i ko lākou haunaele a me ka hopohopo i loko. "Loaʻa iā lākou kahi hōʻoluʻolu mai ka ʻike," wahi āna.
ʻO nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli loa a me nā hanana koʻikoʻi o ka wā ʻōpio
Inā makemake ʻoe e nānā i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli a me ka hoʻokē ʻana i kou puʻuwai, nui nā mea āu e kakali ai i kēia mau lā. I ka makahiki 1998, ua hana ʻo Sparks i kahi noiʻi e ʻike ai i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli loa a ka poʻe i ʻike ai. ʻO nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni i kapa ʻia ʻo "Seven Deadly Films" ʻo ia ʻo 'Scream', 'Friday the 13th', 'The Shining', 'Halloween', 'A Nightmare on Elm Street', 'The Exorcist', a me 'Poltergeist'.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, makemake kekahi poʻe e pale loa i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli. Wahi a Sparks ma kahi o ka hapakolu o ka heluna kanaka e hāʻule ana i loko o kēia māhele. ʻAʻole lākou e loaʻa i kekahi waiwai mai nā moʻolelo e hoʻomakaʻu ai iā lākou a make.
No nā keikikāne ʻōpio, ʻo ka nānā ʻana i kēia mau kiʻiʻoniʻoni he mea nui ia i ko lākou huakaʻi i ka wā makua . ʻIke lākou iā ia he hōʻike i nā mea i pāpā ʻia i ko lākou wā kamaliʻi. Hōʻike ka nui o kēia mau kiʻiʻoniʻoni i nā uhaki ʻana i nā pono kuʻuna a me ke ʻano pono. "Aia kahi hoʻopiʻi i ke ʻano 'pāpā ʻia' o lākou. Me he mea lā he nui nā poʻe ʻōpio e hoʻāʻo nei e noʻonoʻo i ke ʻano o ka inu nui ʻana i ka pia, ka puhi paka , a i ʻole ka hoʻokele wikiwiki."
ʻO ka poʻe e lawe i ka manaʻo o ka makaʻu i ka palena loa
No ka poʻe i māʻona ʻole i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli maʻamau a i ʻole ka puke moʻolelo weliweli, aia kahi manawa kūpono e lawe i ko lākou makaʻu i ka pae aʻe. ʻO ia hoʻi, ke kauoha ʻana iā lākou iho e kāʻili ʻia!
No ka uku nui o $1,500 a $4,000, e kāʻili ʻia ʻoe e kahi ʻoihana hou ma New York, e nakinaki iā ʻoe, e pani i kou waha, a e hoʻopaʻa pio iā ʻoe no nā hola a i ʻole nā lā. Ua hoʻolālā ʻia e hoʻoweliweli iā ʻoe i ka hiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopilikino i ka kāʻili ʻia e kūpono i kou mau makaʻu a me kou makemake pilikino.
He ʻoi loa kēia. E like me ka ʻōlelo a Farley, "Ua like kēia hui me ka hana ʻana i kahi 'nīnauele mua', e noʻonoʻo ana i kou mau makaʻu, a hana ma luna o lākou. ʻIke wau i kēia he mea hoʻohiwahiwa loa. He hana ʻino a weliweli loa, akā ke hana nei ka poʻe ia mea me ka makemake."
No laila, i ka manawa aʻe e nānā ai ʻoe i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli me kāu mau hoaaloha a holo paha i kahi roller coaster, inā makemake ʻoe i ka makaʻu āu e manaʻo nei, i kēia manawa ua ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ia he mea ʻē. A, inā makaʻu ʻoe i ia mea, he mea maʻamau nō hoʻi kēlā.
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- He mea maʻamau i kekahi poʻe ke makemake e makaʻu. Ma hope o kēia nā kumu noʻonoʻo e like me ka hoihoi, ka hauʻoli o ka lanakila ʻana i nā pilikia, a me ka makemake i nā manaʻo kino.
- ʻO ka poʻe me ke ʻano pilikino 'Type T' (Thrill-seeker) makemake nui lākou i ka wikiwiki o ka adrenaline a me nā manaʻo koʻikoʻi e loaʻa mai ana mai nā ʻike weliweli.
- ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka makaʻu i loko o kahi ʻano i kāohi ʻia, e like me kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni weliweli, hiki ke lilo i mea ʻoluʻolu ma muli o ka manaʻo o ka lanakila ʻana i kēlā makaʻu a me ka hōʻoluʻolu e hiki mai ana ma hope.
- Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i nā mea weliweli, he mea maʻamau loa ia. He hapa nui o ka heluna kanaka e pale aku i kēia mau ʻike.
- Hiki ke hoʻoweliweli ka lawe ʻana i ka makaʻu i ka palena loa. He mea nui e ʻike i kou mau palena a komo i kēia mau ʻano hana me ka palekana. Inā he mea e hoʻoulu ai i kou kaumaha hiki ʻole ke kāohi ʻia, he mea naʻauao ke kamaʻilio me kāu kauka .
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