He mea paʻakikī loa ke hoʻomanawanui i ke kaumaha e kū mai ana i ka wā e nalowale ai kahi hoaaloha a ʻohana paha. I ka wā ma mua, ʻo ia hoʻi, i ka wā o ko kākou mau mākua, he mau loina nani loa e hāʻawi i ka ikaika i ka ʻohana i ka wā o ia ʻano kaumaha a e hōʻike i ko lākou kaumaha. E kipa aku kekahi i kahi hale hoʻolewa, e kau i ka lei, i kekahi manawa e hoʻomākaukau i kahi meaʻai a hāʻawi aku, a hoʻouna i kahi leka e hōʻike ana i ko lākou kaumaha. Ua hāʻawi kēia mau mea a pau i ka poʻe e uē ana i ka ikaika nui a me ka manaʻo ʻaʻole lākou i hoʻokahi.
Akā, ua loli nui nā mea i kēia mau lā. Aneane hana ʻia nā mea āpau ma o ka pāpili kaiapili i kēia manawa. Ke hala kekahi, ʻike pinepine mākou i ka nūhou ma Facebook a i ʻole ma ke kūlana WhatsApp. Loaʻa i kēia ʻano hana kona mau pono a me nā hemahema. ʻOiai ʻaʻohe lula maopopo e hahai ai i ka wā e hōʻike ai i ke kaumaha ma ka pāpili kaiapili, i kekahi manawa hiki i kahi manaʻo a mākou e kau ai a i ʻole kahi nīnau a mākou e nīnau ai ke hōʻeha hou aku i ka mea e uē ana. No laila, he mea nui loa iā mākou ke makaʻala iki i kēia.
Ua maʻalahi anei ka hoʻolaha ʻana i ke kaumaha ma o ka pāpili kaiapili?
ʻOiaʻiʻo, e like me kā Jocelyn DeGroot, he loea kamaʻilio e noiʻi ana i kēia, ʻaʻole i hoʻololi nui ka pāpili kaiapili i ke ʻano o kā mākou hōʻike ʻana i ko mākou kaumaha. Ma mua, kākau nā kānaka i nā leka i kā lākou poʻe aloha, hoʻolauleʻa i ko lākou lā hānau, a hoʻomanaʻo i ka lā i make ai lākou. I kēia manawa, ke hana nei kēlā mau mea like ma nā wahi e like me Facebook a me Instagram.
He nui nā pono o kēia.
- Ke hoʻomaopopo nei i nā mea a pau i ka manawa hoʻokahi: E noʻonoʻo i ka paʻakikī o ke kāhea ʻana aku i nā mea a pau a haʻi aku iā lākou, "Ke kaumaha nei mākou i ka lohe ʻana ua hala ʻoe" ʻoiai ʻoe e kaumaha nei. Ma ke kau ʻana i ka nūhou ma ka pāpili kaiapili i hoʻokahi manawa, hiki i nā mea a pau e pono e ʻike ke lohe. He mea hōʻoluʻolu nui kēlā.
- Kākoʻo mai kahi hui nui: I ka manawa e like me kēia, ʻo nā manaʻo kaumaha a me nā ʻōlelo i loaʻa mai nā hoaaloha ʻaʻole kamaʻilio nui e hāʻawi i ka ʻohana i ka ikaika nui. Manaʻo lākou "aia pū mākou me ʻoukou."
Akā e hoʻomanaʻo, me kēia mau pono, nui nō hoʻi nā manawa kūpono no nā mea e hana ai e hoʻoluhi a hōʻeha i ko kākou mau manaʻo.
He aha nā hewa a kākou e hana ai me ka ʻike ʻole?
No ka mea, he wahi ākea ka pāpili kaiapili, i kekahi manawa hiki i ke ʻano o ka poʻe ke hoʻolilo i ka mea e kaumaha ana i mea kōkua ʻole hou aku.
ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo ia ke ʻimi i nā kikoʻī pono ʻole.Aia kekahi poʻe, ʻaʻole lākou he mau hoaaloha pili loa iā ʻoe, akā he mau hoaaloha lākou ma Facebook. Akā manaʻo lākou he kuleana ko lākou e ʻike i nā kikoʻī āpau. Nīnau lākou i nā nīnau e like me "Pehea ʻoe i eo ai?", "He aha ka hewa?", "He aha ka mea i hana ʻia ma ka hopena?" ma ke ʻano he manaʻo kahi e ʻike ai nā mea āpau.
E like me ka ʻōlelo a Ms. DeGroot, "Inā he mau hoaaloha pili loa ʻoe me ke kanaka, ua hāʻawi paha lākou iā ʻoe i nā kikoʻī ma kekahi ʻano ʻē aʻe (e like me ke kelepona ʻana) ma mua o Facebook. Inā pono ʻoe e nīnau iā lākou i ka lehulehu, 'He aha ka mea i hana ʻia?', ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole na ʻoe ia hana."
ʻO ka lua o ka mea, ʻo ia ka ʻōlelo ʻana i nā mea kūpono ʻole a hōʻeha . ʻAʻole i aʻo ʻia ka nui o ka poʻe i loko o ko kākou kaiāulu pehea e hōʻike pono ai i ke kaumaha. No laila, ʻōlelo kekahi poʻe i nā mea hōʻeha me ka ʻike ʻole. Eia kekahi laʻana, i ka wā e nalowale ai kekahi i ko lākou makuakāne , ʻōlelo kekahi kanaka, "Auē, ke ʻike nei au i kou ʻeha pū kekahi, ua make pū kaʻu ʻīlio i ka pule i hala." Hoʻohaʻahaʻa kēlā i ka make ʻana o ka makuakāne o kēlā kanaka. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻeha hou aku iā lākou.
| Nā mea e hana ai | Nā mea ʻaʻole e hana ʻia |
|---|---|
| E hōʻike i kou kaumaha me ka maʻalahi a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO kekahi mea e like me, "E kala mai iaʻu i ka lohe ʻana no kēia. I loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ikaika." ua lawa ia. | Mai nīnau i ke kumu o ka make a i ʻole nā ʻike pilikino pono ʻole i ka lehulehu. |
| E kaʻana like i kahi hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi āu i loaʻa ai me kēlā kanaka. (Laʻana: "He kanaka lokomaikaʻi loa ʻo ia, ke hoʻomanaʻo nei au i kekahi lā...") | Mai hāʻawi i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e like me, "Aia ʻo ia ma kahi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi i kēia manawa," a i ʻole "ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka haʻalele me ka ʻeha ʻole." |
| Inā hiki, e kelepona mai a i ʻole leka uila paha ma waho aʻe o ka leka uila ma ka pāpili kaiapili. | Mai hoʻohālikelike i kou kaumaha ponoʻī me ke kaumaha o kēlā kanaka, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana he moʻolelo ia e pili ʻole ana i kēlā hanana. |
| E nīnau, "Aia kekahi mea e hiki iaʻu ke kōkua iā ʻoe?" | E akahele i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka emoji. E pale i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka emoji ʻakaʻaka a kūpono ʻole paha. |
No laila, pehea lā mākou e hōʻike ai i ko mākou kaumaha?
Aia kekahi mau mea maʻalahi hiki iā kākou ke hana ma nā pāpili kaiapili e kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe me ka ʻole o ka hōʻeha ʻana i ko lākou mau manaʻo.
1. E ʻōlelo maʻalahi a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe i nā huaʻōlelo nui a i ʻole nā ʻōlelo lōʻihi. ʻO ka ʻōlelo wale ʻana i kahi mea e like me, "Kaumaha loa wau i ka lohe ʻana i kēia nūhou. He mea paʻakikī paha kēia iā ʻoe ke hoʻomanawanui. Eia wau inā pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio." ʻO ka mea nui loa, ʻo ia ke ʻōlelo me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
2. E hāʻawi i ka ʻōlelo aʻo, mai haʻaheo.
He mea nui loa kēia. Manaʻo kekahi poʻe e hoʻopau aku kā lākou ʻōlelo i ke kaumaha o ke kanaka. Mai ʻōlelo i nā mea e like me, "Aia ʻo ia ma kahi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi i kēia manawa," "E maikaʻi nā mea a pau i ka manawa kūpono," "Mai uē, e ikaika." E like me ka ʻōlelo a Mrs. DeGroot, "ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohauʻoli i kekahi. Pono ʻoe e ʻae iā lākou e ʻike i ko lākou kaumaha." ʻAʻole kā mākou hana e hoʻopau i ko lākou kaumaha, akā, e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou ʻaʻole lākou hoʻokahi i ko lākou kaumaha.
3. Mai noho mālie.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio wale me kēlā kanaka ma Facebook. Akā, mai ʻōlelo i kekahi mea no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake. ʻOiai ke waiho ʻana i kahi memo liʻiliʻi, kahi manaʻo e like me "E kala mai iaʻu no kou nalowale," he kōkua nui ia i kēlā kanaka i kēlā manawa. ʻO ka mea nui wale nō ka manaʻo e noʻonoʻo ana kekahi iā lākou.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, mai hoʻōki ma laila no ka mea ua waiho ʻoe i kahi manaʻo ma ka pāpili kaiapili. He hoʻomaka wale nō ia. Inā hiki, e kelepona iā lākou i loko o ʻelua a ʻekolu paha lā. E waiho i kahi leka a nīnau, "Pehea ʻoe?" E nīnau, "Aia kekahi mea hiki iaʻu ke hana nou? Pono ʻoe e hele i ka hale kūʻai? Pono ʻoe i ke kōkua me kahi mea ma ka home?" E like me ko mākou poʻe i kuke ai i kahi meaʻai no kahi hoʻolewa, ʻoi aku ka waiwai o ka hana ʻana i kahi lokomaikaʻi liʻiliʻi ma mua o hoʻokahi haneli mau manaʻo ma ka pāpili kaiapili.
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- I ka wā e hōʻike ai i ke kaumaha ma nā pāpili kaiapili, e mālama i ka maʻalahi, pōkole, a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻAʻohe pono no nā wehewehe lōʻihi.
- Mai nīnau i ke kumu o ka make a i ʻole nā ʻike pilikino ʻē aʻe i ka lehulehu. Hiki ke hilahila loa ia no ke kanaka.
- E pale i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e like me, "E maikaʻi nā mea a pau." Akā, e ʻae iā lākou e kaumaha a hōʻike iā lākou aia ʻoe me lākou.
- ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe kokoke i kēlā kanaka, ʻoiai kahi leka pōkole e ʻōlelo ana "E kala mai iaʻu" hiki ke lilo i mea ikaika nui iā ia.
- Mai kaupalena iā ʻoe iho i kahi leka pāpili kaiapili, akā inā hiki, e hōʻike i kāu kākoʻo maoli ma ke kelepona ʻana a i ʻole ke kōkua kino ʻana.
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