ʻO wai ka "Rainbow Baby"? E kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kēia kumuhana koʻikoʻi

ʻAʻohe paha ʻeha ʻoi aku ma mua o ka nalowale ʻana o kahi pēpē āu i manaʻolana ai i ka wā hāpai . Ma hope o kēlā manawa pōʻeleʻele a kaumaha, he mea paʻakikī ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo āu e manaʻo ai i ka wā e loaʻa hou ai kahi pēpē hou i kou ola me ka manaʻolana. He manaʻo paʻakikī ia o ka hauʻoli, ka makaʻu, ke kaumaha, a me ka manaʻolana. ʻO ia ke kumu i kapa ʻia ai kahi pēpē i hānau ʻia ma hope o ia ʻike paʻakikī he "Rainbow Baby."

No ke aha i kapa ʻia ai kēia mau pēpē ʻo "Nā pēpē ʻĀnuenue"?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, he hoʻohālikelike nani kēia. E noʻonoʻo, ma hope o ka ʻino nui, ka ua nui, ua mālamalama ka lani a ʻike ʻia ke ānuenue nani, ʻeā? Pēlā nō ia. Ua kapa ʻia kēia mau pēpē he "pēpē ānuenue" no ka mea lawe mai lākou i ka mālamalama, ka hauʻoli, a me ka manaʻolana i ke ola o nā mākua ma hope o kahi ʻino kaumaha e like me ka hāʻule ʻana o ka pēpē, ka hānau ʻana o ka pēpē make, a i ʻole ka hāpai ʻana o ka pēpē ectopic a molar paha.

ʻAʻole wale ma ko mākou ʻāina, akā he nui nā mākua a puni ka honua e kū nei i kēia ʻike. Wahi a nā noiʻi, ma kahi o hoʻokahi o nā hāpai ʻehā e pau paha i ka hāʻule ʻana. No laila, inā ua kū ʻoe i kēlā ʻike, e hoʻomanaʻo mua ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi.

Kaumaha a me ka manaʻolana hou no kahi pēpē nalowale

He mea maʻamau ka hauʻoli i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē hou, akā he mea kaumaha hoʻi no ka nalowale ʻana o ke pēpē. ʻAʻole hewa kēlā. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā manaʻo ʻelua i ka manawa like. ʻO ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kēlā kaumaha he ʻāpana koʻikoʻi ia o kēia huakaʻi.

Aia kekahi mau mea e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i kēia pilikia:

• E waiho i kahi hoʻomanaʻo no kēlā pēpē : Malia paha hiki iā ʻoe ke kanu i kahi lāʻau no kēlā pēpē. A i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi hana maikaʻi, hāʻawi manawaleʻa, a hōʻike i kou mahalo i kēlā pēpē. Lawe kekahi mau haukapila i ka lima a me nā kapuaʻi o ka pēpē a hāʻawi iā lākou i nā mākua. ʻO kekahi mea e like me ia he ikaika nui ia nou.
• E kamaʻilio me kahi mea āu e hilinaʻi ai: He mea nui loa kēia. E kamaʻilio ākea me kāu kāne/wahine e pili ana i kou manaʻo. Hiki i kēlā me kēia kanaka ke ʻike i ke kaumaha ma nā ʻano like ʻole, no laila he mea nui e hoʻolohe kekahi i kekahi. Eia kekahi, inā he hoaaloha a ʻohana paha kāu i ʻike i kēia ʻike, hiki ke kōkua nui ke kamaʻilio ʻana me lākou.
• E ʻimi i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo loea: I kekahi manawa he paʻakikī ke hoʻoponopono wale i kēia mau manaʻo. I kēlā mau manawa, he manaʻo maikaʻi ke ʻimi i ke kōkua o kahi kākāʻōlelo. Hiki iā ia ke lilo i mea hoʻoikaika nui i kou olakino noʻonoʻo.

Ke kali nei ʻoe i kahi pēpē ānuenue ...

ʻO ka hāpai hou ʻana he hui pū ʻana o nā manaʻo. Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, he hauʻoli nui ia, ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, he makaʻu nui ia. He mea maʻamau ka loaʻa ʻana o ka makaʻu mau o "E hana hou anei?" A hiki nō hoʻi ke lilo i manaʻo hewa, "He kūpono anei iaʻu ke hauʻoli e like me kēia?" E hoʻomaopopo he mea maʻamau kēia mau manaʻo a pau.

I loko o kēia manawa, ʻo ka mea nui ka mālama pono iā ʻoe iho a me kāu keiki hānau hou.

E mālama i kou olakino kino.

• Nā Wikamina a me ka ʻIke Meaʻai: E lawe i nā wikamina a kāu kauka e ʻōlelo ai, ʻoiai ka waikawa folic. He mea nui ka waikawa folic no ka ulu ʻana o nā cell o ka pēpē. He mea nui loa nō hoʻi ka ʻai ʻana i ka meaʻai kaulike.
• Nā nānā maʻamau: E hoʻomau i ka launa pū me kāu kauka. E hele i nā keʻena lapaʻau i nā lā i hoʻonohonoho ʻia. Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ke scan a lohe i ka puʻuwai o ka pēpē, e emi mālie ana kou makaʻu.
• E mālama i ke kaumaha olakino: E kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e pili ana i ka mālama ʻana i ke kaumaha olakino i ka wā hāpai. ʻO ka hoʻoikaika kino māmā, e like me ka hele wāwae, he mea maikaʻi ia no kou kino a me kou noʻonoʻo.
• E pale loa i ka puhipaka a me nā lāʻau lapaʻau: He mea ʻino loa kēia i ka pēpē. Inā makemake ʻoe i ke kōkua i ka uhaki ʻana i kēia mau ʻano, e kamaʻilio ākea me kāu kauka e pili ana i ia mea.

Pehea e mālama ai i ka pilikia i ka wā hāpai?

ʻOi aku ka nui o ka pilikia o nā makuahine i loaʻa i ka hāʻule keiki ma mua o ke kaumaha postpartum a me ka hopohopo, no laila he mea nui e mālama pono i kou olakino noʻonoʻo i kēia manawa.

• E hoʻomaopopo he ʻokoʻa kēia hāpai ʻana: Mai manaʻo e hiki mai ana ka mea i hana ʻia i ka manawa hope loa i kēia manawa. He ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia hāpai ʻana, he huakaʻi hou.
• E hōʻemi i ke kaumaha: E hoʻopau i nā mea he nui mai kou ola e hiki ai ke hoʻoluhi iā ʻoe. E nānā inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻemi i kāu mau kuleana ma ka hana.
• E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana: ʻO ka hoʻolilo ʻana i kekahi mau minuke i ka lā e kālele ana i hoʻokahi mea a me ka hanu hohonu ʻana hiki ke hōʻemi nui i kou makaʻu a me ke kaumaha.
• Ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ka mahalo: E noʻonoʻo i nā mea maikaʻi i kou ola. E ʻike ʻoe i ka hauʻoli a me ka hōʻoluʻolu ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kēia manaʻolana hou, e pili ana i ka poʻe aloha iā ʻoe, a me nā mea āu i loaʻa.

I ka wā e haʻi aku ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ke pēpē hou

ʻO ka poʻe i noho pū me ʻoe i kou wā kaumaha e hauʻoli lākou i ka lohe ʻana i ka nūhou o kāu pēpē hou. Akā i kekahi manawa, me nā manaʻo maikaʻi, hiki i nā nīnau a me nā manaʻo a ka poʻe ke hōʻeha iā ʻoe. He mea paʻakikī paha ka lohe ʻana i nā mea e like me, "ʻAuē, e akahele ʻoe ʻaʻole e hana hou e like me ka manawa hope loa." ʻAʻole lākou maopopo i kāu mea e hele nei no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike i kāu mea e hele nei.

No laila, e haʻi mua i nā poʻe āu e ʻoluʻolu ai e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia, ʻo ka poʻe āu e hilinaʻi nei e hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe (kāne, makuahine, hoaaloha maikaʻi loa). A laila hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi aku i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma hope. Inā makemake ʻoe, loaʻa iā ʻoe nā kuleana āpau e hūnā i kēia a hiki i ka hānau ʻana o ke pēpē. ʻAʻohe hewa o ia mea.