Koj tus menyuam puas yuav mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb? Cia peb tham txog qhov no!

Qee zaum peb cov menyuam muaj teeb meem uas nyuaj rau lawv daws lawv tus kheej, puas yog? Thaum lub sijhawm zoo li no, kev tham nrog lawv niam lawv txiv feem ntau ua rau lawv zoo siab heev. Tab sis muaj qee yam uas, txawm tias niam txiv pab, xav tau kev pab tshwj xeeb ntxiv me ntsis. Thaum ntawd peb xav tau kev pab los ntawm tus kws kho mob hlwb. Qee tus niam txiv yuav ntshai me ntsis txog qhov no vim lawv tsis paub ntau txog nws. Tab sis qhov no yog kev pab zoo rau tus menyuam.

Vim li cas ib tug me nyuam thiaj mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb?

Zoo, tam sim no cia peb saib seb vim li cas ib tug me nyuam thiaj mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb, lossis raws li peb qee zaum hu nws, tus kws pab tswv yim. Hais yooj yim, cov no yog cov neeg uas tau txais kev cob qhia tshwj xeeb hauv kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb . Lawv paub tias cov menyuam yaus thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas muaj teeb meem dab tsi thiab yuav pab lawv li cas.

Xav txog seb, thaum ib tug me nyuam kub taub hau, peb coj lawv mus rau kws kho mob menyuam yaus , puas yog? Ib yam li ntawd, yog tias ib tug me nyuam muaj kev ntxhov siab, kev ntxhov siab, lossis kev hloov pauv tus cwj pwm, cov kws kho mob no yog cov kws tshwj xeeb uas tuaj yeem pab tau.

Qee zaum peb xav tias, 'Auj, qhov no puas yog tib qho teeb meem uas kuv tus menyuam muaj?' Nws tsis yog. Ntau tus menyuam xav tau kev pab tshwj xeeb rau ntau yam laj thawj. Nws tsis yog dab tsi uas yuav txaj muag lossis zais. Qhov tseeb, qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum ua yog lees paub tias muaj teeb meem thiab nrhiav kev pab. Tus kws kho mob zoo li ib tus neeg uas muab tshuaj thiab kev taw qhia rau cov teeb meem kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb . Lawv paub tias cov niam txiv tuaj yeem pab lawv tus menyuam li cas ntawm txoj kev no.

Cov kws kho mob pab txog tej teeb meem dab tsi?

Tam sim no tej zaum koj yuav xav paub tias, 'Cov kws kho mob no pab tau cov teeb meem dab tsi?' Muaj ntau yam uas lawv pab tau. Cia peb saib ob peb yam piv txwv:

• Ntshai mus pw, ntxhov siab txog kev kawm ntawv, lossis nyuaj nyob nrog cov phooj ywg: Ib txhia menyuam ntshai mus pw thaum hmo ntuj, npau suav phem , lossis xav tias ntxhov siab thiab ntxhov siab los ntawm kev kawm ntawv. Ib txhia menyuam tsis xav koom nrog lwm tus menyuam lossis ua si, nyiam nyob ib leeg. Tus kws kho mob tuaj yeem pab tus menyuam daws cov teeb meem no los ntawm kev txheeb xyuas cov laj thawj tseem ceeb.

• Nyuaj rau kev tsom ntsoov, ua kom pom tseeb, thiab nyob hauv ib qho chaw hauv chav kawm: Tej zaum koj yuav tau pom tias qee tus menyuam yaus tsis so, khiav ib ncig tas li, dhia ib ncig. Lawv tsis quav ntsej tus xib fwb hais dab tsi hauv chav kawm, thiab lawv tub nkeeg ua lawv cov haujlwm hauv tsev. Qhov no yuav yog ib qho mob ntsig txog kev tsom ntsoov, xws li ADHD (Kev Tsis Txaus Siab Ua Haujlwm Ntau Dhau).Tus kws kho mob tuaj yeem txheeb xyuas qhov no thiab muab cov lus qhia tsim nyog rau tus menyuam, niam txiv, thiab cov xib fwb los daws qhov teeb meem no.

• Feem ntau sib ntaus, npau taws sai, tsis muaj siab ntev: Qee tus menyuam yaus npau taws rau tej yam me me, qw, thiab sib ntaus nrog lwm tus txhua lub sijhawm. Lawv muaj teeb meem tswj lawv txoj kev xav . Hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li no, tus kws kho mob tuaj yeem pab lawv txheeb xyuas cov kev xav ntawd thiab tswj hwm lawv kom zoo.

• Muaj cov menyuam uas pheej txhawj txog lawv txoj kev noj qab haus huv lossis kev nyab xeeb: 'Kuv puas yuav kis tus kab mob no?', 'Puas muaj dab tsi tshwm sim rau niam?', 'Yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim yog tias qhov ntawd tshwm sim?' Muaj cov menyuam uas pheej ntshai thiab ntxhov siab txog tej yam zoo li ntawd yam tsis tsim nyog. Yog tias qhov no ntau dua li kev txhawj xeeb ib txwm muaj, nws yuav yog "Kev Ntxhov Siab."

• Mob lub cev thiab mob nqaij yam tsis muaj mob tshwj xeeb: Qee zaum, txawm tias cov kws kho mob hais tias, "Tus menyuam no tsis mob," tus menyuam yuav txuas ntxiv yws txog mob taub hau, mob plab, lossis mob hauv siab. Qhov ua rau qhov no yuav yog kev ntxhov siab lossis teeb meem ntawm lub hlwb.

• Tej zaum cov menyuam yaus yuav raug kev kub ntxhov hauv tsev neeg, kev mob nkeeg, lossis lub sijhawm nyuaj: Kev tsim txom hauv tsev neeg, kev sib nrauj ntawm niam txiv, kev tuag ntawm ib tus neeg hlub, kev mob hnyav, lossis kev hloov pauv loj (xws li pib lub tsev kawm ntawv tshiab lossis tsiv tsev) yuav nyuaj rau daws. Thaum lub sijhawm zoo li no, lawv xav tau kev nplij siab thiab kev taw qhia.

• Kev xav tias muaj kev ntxhov siab, kev ntxhov siab, kev ntshai, kev npau taws, kev tu siab, kev nyuaj siab, lossis kev tu siab: Muaj qhov sib txawv loj ntawm cov kev xav no uas tshwm sim ib txwm muaj thiab kev xav uas nyob mus ib txhis. Yog tias ib tug me nyuam pheej tu siab, ntshai, lossis tsis xav paub txog ib yam dab tsi, nws tsis yog lub tswv yim zoo los tsis quav ntsej nws. Nws kuj tseem yuav yog ib qho tsos mob ntawm '(Kev Nyuaj Siab)' .

Thaum koj nrhiav tau tus kws kho mob hlwb, yuav muaj li cas?

Zoo, tam sim no cia peb hais tias koj mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb nrog koj tus menyuam. Tom qab ntawd yuav ua li cas? Tsis muaj dab tsi yuav tsum ntshai.

Ua ntej, lawv txais tos koj thiab koj tus menyuam nrog kev hlub thiab kev khuv leej loj heev. Lawv tham nrog koj thiab koj tus menyuam. Lawv nug cov lus nug, thiab lawv mloog zoo rau yam koj hais. Nws zoo li ib zaj dab neeg. Qhov no yog li cas lawv thiaj nkag siab tus menyuam tiag tiag, qhov teeb meem uas tus menyuam tab tom ntsib, thiab keeb kwm tsev neeg. Tus menyuam kuj pib xav tias muaj ib tug neeg uas nkag siab lawv.

Tom qab ntawd, lawv nug cov lus nug kom pom tias tus menyuam puas muaj teeb meem xws li "Kev Ntxhov Siab" , "Kev Nyuaj Siab " , "Kev Nyuaj Siab ", lossis teeb meem kev mloog, thiab tej zaum siv cov haujlwm me me, kos duab, lossis cov lus nug kom paub. Tag nrho cov no yog ua los txheeb xyuas qhov teeb meem tseeb.

Tom qab koj nkag siab qhov teeb meem tseeb lawm, tus kws kho mob yuav qhia koj tias koj yuav pab tau lawv li cas thiab yuav siv hom kev kho mob twg.

Feem ntau, tus menyuam raug hais kom tuaj koom ob peb zaug ntxiv kom tau txais kev pab uas lawv xav tau. Cov kev sib tham no yog qhov peb hu ua "Kev Kho Mob" . Tus menyuam yuav tsum tuaj koom cov kev sib tham "Kev Kho Mob" no ib zaug ib lub lim tiam, rau ntau lub hlis. Nws nyob ntawm tus menyuam qhov xav tau thiab qhov xwm txheej ntawm qhov teeb meem.

Muaj dab tsi tshwm sim tiag tiag thaum lub sijhawm kho mob?

Tam sim no cia peb saib seb muaj dab tsi tshwm sim tiag tiag thaum lub sijhawm "Kev Kho Mob" , lossis thaum koj nrog tus kws kho mob tham. Qhov no zoo li qhov chaw rau ib tug menyuam yaus los qhia txog yam uas lawv xav, kawm tej yam tshiab, thiab nkag siab lawv tus kheej .

Tus kws kho mob nug cov lus nug, mloog zoo rau yam uas tus menyuam hais, thiab tom qab ntawd tham txog cov lus nug ntawd. Lawv qhia tus menyuam hauv txoj kev uas nkag siab thiab haum rau tus menyuam lub hnub nyoog, thiab lawv kom lawv ua ntau yam kev ua ub no. Cov kev ua ub no no suav nrog kev kos duab, pleev xim, ua si nrog cov khoom ua si (kev kho mob ua si), kev piav dab neeg, kev ua yeeb yam, thiab kev cob qhia ua pa . Tag nrho cov no sim qhia tus menyuam kom nkag siab txog nws txoj kev xav, tswj lawv, daws teeb meem zoo, thiab txhim kho kev sib txuas lus.

Ib yam li ntawd, cov kws kho mob kuj qhia cov niam txiv yuav ua li cas pab lawv tus menyuam. Lawv qhia lawv txog yuav ua li cas nrog lawv tus menyuam nyob hauv tsev thiab yuav ua li cas txhawb nqa lawv tus menyuam. Vim tias kev txhawb nqa ntawm niam txiv yog qhov tseem ceeb rau tus menyuam lub hlwb zoo. Qee zaum cov niam txiv kuj tuaj yeem muaj kev sib tham sib cais.

Nco ntsoov tias, kev kho mob tsis yog kev rau txim, thiab nws tsis yog ib yam dab tsi uas ib tug me nyuam ua vim lawv "phem." Nws yog kev pab muaj nqis uas pab ib tug me nyuam daws cov teeb meem ntawm lawv lub neej, zoo siab , thiab siv lawv lub peev xwm kom tag nrho.

Kev mus kho mob li no muab zog rau cov menyuam yaus kom daws tau lawv cov teeb meem zoo dua, xav zoo dua, thiab ua tau zoo dua hauv lawv cov dej num txhua hnub , kev kawm ntawv, thiab kev sib raug zoo hauv zej zog .

Tej yam koj ua tau ua niam txiv

Tam sim no cia peb tham txog yam koj ua tau ua niam txiv yog tias koj tus menyuam yuav mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb. Koj txoj kev txhawb nqa muaj nqis heev rau koj tus menyuam hauv txoj kev no.

• Tham qhib siab thiab zoo: Kev kho mob nrog koj tus menyuamTham txog qhov no. Ua kom meej meej tias qhov no tsis yog ib yam dab tsi uas yuav txaj muag, tab sis yog ib yam dab tsi uas yuav tsum muaj zog, ib yam dab tsi uas yuav tsum tau kev pab. Ua rau koj tus menyuam xav tias 'peb yuav daws qhov no ua ke', 'qhov no yuav ua rau koj zoo siab dua'.
• Ntseeg siab thiab ua haujlwm nrog tus kws kho mob: Mloog tus kws kho mob hais thiab ua raws li lawv cov lus qhia. Lawv yog cov kws tshaj lij hauv daim teb no. Tham nrog lawv txog koj cov teeb meem thiab kev ntshai.
• Ua siab ntev: Tej zaum yuav siv sijhawm me ntsis thiaj li pom kev hloov pauv. Tsis yog txhua yam yuav tshwm sim ib hmos xwb. Muab sijhawm rau koj tus menyuam uas lawv xav tau. Qhuas thiab txhawb koj tus menyuam txawm tias yog qhov kev txhim kho me me los xij.
• Txhawb nqa koj tus menyuam: Tham txog qhov zoo ntawm koj tus menyuam txoj kev koom nrog kev kho mob . Tuaj tos lawv raws sijhawm, thiab pab koj tus menyuam ua tej yam thiab ua ub ua no uas tus kws kho mob qhia hauv tsev.
• Xav txog koj txoj kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb thiab: Cov niam txiv kuj tuaj yeem ntxhov siab, tu siab, thiab ntxhov siab thaum daws teeb meem ntawm tus menyuam. Xav txog koj tus kheej txoj kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb thiab. Nrhiav kev pab yog tias koj xav tau. Koj tsuas tuaj yeem pab koj tus menyuam yog tias koj zoo.
• Hwm qhov tsis pub lwm tus paub: Qee yam uas tus kws kho mob tham nrog tus menyuam yog qhov tsis pub lwm tus paub. Qhov no yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tus menyuam ntseeg siab. Yog tias tus kws kho mob kawm tau qee yam uas yuav ua rau tus menyuam raug mob, nws yuav qhia rau koj paub.

Ib yam li peb coj ib tug me nyuam mus ntsib kws kho mob thaum lawv kub taub hau, peb kuj mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb thaum peb muaj teeb meem kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb. Qhov no yuav pab kom tus me nyuam zoo siab thiab xis nyob dua.

Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov (Cov Lus Coj Mus Tsev)

Zoo, ntawm no yog qee qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov los ntawm qhov peb tau tham txog:

• Nws yog ib qho ib txwm muaj rau ib tug me nyuam muaj teeb meem kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb. Nws tsis yog tus me nyuam qhov txhaum lossis koj qhov txhaum. Muaj ntau yam ua rau nws.
• Mus ntsib kws kho mob tsis yog ib qho kev txaj muag lossis qhov tsis muaj zog. Nws zoo li mus ntsib kws kho mob rau ib qho mob. Nws muab kev pab thiab lub zog rau tus menyuam.
• "(Kev Kho Mob)" yog ib txoj kev uas qhia thiab coj ib tug me nyuam kom daws tau lawv txoj kev xav, teeb meem, thiab kev cov nyom hauv lub neej. Nws yog ib qho kev nqis peev loj rau yav tom ntej ntawm ib tug me nyuam.
• Niam txiv txoj kev txhawb nqa, kev hlub, kev nkag siab, thiab kev ua siab ntev yog qhov tseem ceeb heev rau ib tug me nyuam hauv txoj kev no. Yog tsis muaj koj txoj kev koom tes, nws yuav nyuaj rau ua kom qhov no ua tiav.
• Tsis txhob tsis quav ntsej txog ib qho teeb meem, tsis txhob xav tias, "Nws yuav ploj mus xwb." Kev pab thaum tseem hluas tuaj yeem tiv thaiv cov teeb meem loj dua thiab pab koj tus menyuam ua neej zoo siab thiab muaj lub siab dawb paug.

Yog koj xav tias koj tus menyuam xav tau kev pab zoo li no, thov tsis txhob yig mus ntsib tus kws kho mob hlwb, kws kho mob puas siab puas ntsws, lossis kws tshaj lij kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb . Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas koj ua tau rau koj tus menyuam.

`Kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb, kev kho mob, teeb meem kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb rau menyuam yaus, kev sab laj, kev ntxhov siab, kev ntxhov siab, kev nyuaj siab