Cia peb kawm txog koj tus menyuam 2-3 xyoos txoj kev sib txuas lus me nyuam yaus.

Kev tham nrog peb cov menyuam yaus, sib tham nrog lawv, yog ib qho kev xyiv fab tshaj plaws uas peb tau txais ua niam txiv, puas yog? Cov lus tsis tuaj yeem piav qhia txog kev xyiv fab uas peb hnov ​​​​​​thaum peb hnov ​​​​​​cov suab me me, cov lus tshiab, thiab cov dab neeg me me uas lawv qhia. Cov menyuam yaus kawm los ntawm kev sib tham uas peb muaj nrog lawv txhua hnub, los ntawm cov khoom uas lawv pom thiab hnov ​​​​​​hauv lub ntiaj teb nyob ib puag ncig lawv. Yog li, hnub no peb yuav tham txog seb koj tus menyuam ob mus rau peb xyoos txoj kev hais lus , uas yog, kev txawj hais lus, txhim kho li cas, thiab peb tuaj yeem pab nrog qhov ntawd li cas.

Niaj hnub no nej tham nrog nej cov menyuam li cas?

Thaum muaj hnub nyoog ob thiab peb xyoos, cov menyuam yaus lub peev xwm hais lus, uas yog, txoj kev uas lawv hais lus thiab nkag siab cov lus, loj hlob zoo kawg nkaus. Zoo li nce ntaiv! Thaum lub sijhawm no, lawv cov lus loj hlob tuaj, lawv pib sau cov kab lus, thiab lawv nkag siab txog yam uas lwm tus hais.

Koj muaj ob xyoos li cas lawm?

Thaum koj tus menyuam muaj li ob xyoos, lawv yuav pib ua tej yam zoo li no:

• Hais ob lo lus ua ke: Feem ntau cov menyuam yaus pib hais tsawg kawg yog ob lo lus ua ke. Xav txog cov kab lus me me xws li "Niam, mov," "Me nyuam, khiav," thiab "Kuv xav tau dej." Qhov no yog ib qho kev dhia loj hauv lawv cov lus hais.
• Thaum 30 lub hlis (2 ½ xyoo):
• Hais tias 50 lo lus lossis ntau dua: Txog rau tam sim no, lawv tau ntxiv txog 50 lo lus rau lawv cov lus. Ib txhia menyuam paub ntau lo lus ntxiv.
• Tib neeg tsuas nkag siab ib nrab ntawm yam lawv hais: Tib neeg tsuas nkag siab ib nrab ntawm yam lawv hais kom meej. Qee zaum nws yuav siv sijhawm me ntsis xav kom nkag siab txog yam lawv hais, thiab qhov ntawd yog qhov ib txwm muaj. Tsis txhob txhawj txog nws.
• Lawv siv cov lus zoo li "Kuv", "kuv tus kheej", thiab "peb": Lawv pib siv cov lus no los tham txog lawv tus kheej thiab tej yam uas lawv xav tau.
• To taub thiab ua raws li cov lus qhia ob kauj ruam: Feem ntau cov menyuam yaus me me tuaj yeem nkag siab thiab ua raws li ob cov lus qhia yooj yim uas tau muab rau lawv ua ke. Piv txwv li, yog tias peb hais tias, "Coj lub pob thiab coj mus rau Txiv," lawv yuav ua tau. Lwm qhov piv txwv yog, "Hnav koj cov khau khiab thiab nkag mus rau hauv chav nyob."

Thaum koj muaj peb xyoos, yuav muaj li cas?

Thaum koj tus me nyuam muaj peb xyoos, lawv cov lus yuav tsum tau txhim kho ntau dua. Nov yog qee yam uas yuav tsum xav txog:

• Cov lus uas muaj ntau tshaj 200 lo lus: Cov lus ntawm ib tug menyuam yaus feem ntau tshaj 200 lo lus. Xav seb muaj pes tsawg lo lus! Lawv nyiam kawm cov lus tshiab thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no.
• Lawv muaj peev xwm tsim cov kab lus uas muaj ob lossis peb lo lus: "Tus me nyuam haus mis nyuj", "Txiv mus ua haujlwm", "Kuv xav ua si" thiab hais lus.
• Muaj peev xwm tham tau: Lawv muaj peev xwm tham tau me ntsis nrog koj, tham rov qab los tsawg kawg yog ob zaug. Thaum koj nug ib yam dab tsi, koj teb, lawv hais ib yam dab tsi, thiab koj teb rov qab.
• Lwm tus feem ntau nkag siab: Feem ntau, yam koj tus menyuam hais yuav mus txog qib uas lwm tus (tsis yog cov tswv cuab hauv tsev neeg xwb, tab sis txawm tias cov neeg txawv teb chaws) tuaj yeem nkag siab.

Nco ntsoov tias, tsis yog txhua tus menyuam mos zoo ib yam. Muaj ib txhia menyuam pib hais lus sai dua me ntsis, thiab ib txhia pib hais lus tom qab me ntsis. Cov no tsuas yog cov lus qhia dav dav xwb.

Peb yuav pab peb tus menyuam li cas thiaj txhim kho nws txoj kev hais lus?

Muaj ntau yam uas peb ua tau los txhim kho peb cov menyuam txoj kev txawj hais lus. Hais yooj yim xwb, peb tham nrog lawv thiab ua si nrog lawv ntau npaum li cas, lawv kawm tau tej yam tshiab ntau npaum li ntawd. Zoo li ywg dej thiab muab chiv rau tsob ntoo thiab ua kom nws loj hlob.

Nov yog ob peb yam me me uas koj ua tau:

• Tham txog txhua yam: Tham nrog koj tus me nyuam txog yam lawv tau ua hnub ntawd thiab yam lawv yuav tsum ua tag kis. Nug tej yam xws li, "Hnub no los nag puas yog? Peb ua dab tsi hauv tsev?" Los yog tham txog yam uas tau tshwm sim hnub ua ntej pw. "Peb mus rau pog lub tsev hnub no, puas yog? Koj pom dab tsi nyob ntawd?" Cov dab neeg zoo li no pab lawv kawm cov lus tshiab thiab qhia tej yam xws li kev txiav txim ntawm cov xwm txheej.
• Ua si ua si ua txuj ua li: Ua si ua txuj ua li ib tug kws kho mob, ib tug xib fwb, ib tug neeg muag khoom. Cov no yuav pab lawv txhim kho lawv txoj kev xav, kawm cov lus tshiab, thiab kev daws teeb meem. Ua si nrog lawv thiab lawv yuav kawm tau ntau ntxiv.
• Nyeem cov phau ntawv ua ke: Nyeem lawv cov phau ntawv nyiam ua ke. Xaiv cov phau ntawv uas muaj duab zoo nkauj. Taw tes rau cov duab hauv phau ntawv thiab nug cov lus nug xws li, "Qhov no yog dab tsi?", "Tus miv ua dab tsi?", "Qhov no yog xim dab tsi?" Txhawb kom lawv teb nrog cov lus. Los yog cia lawv "nyeem" zaj dab neeg rau koj. Cov dab neeg uas lawv tsim yuav nthuav heev! Kev nyeem cov phau ntawv tsis yog tsuas yog txhim kho lawv cov lus thiab kev mloog xwb, tab sis kuj txhim kho lawv txoj kev xav.
• Hu nkauj thiab hais cov lus raws li lub suab: Cov menyuam yaus nyiam mloog cov nkauj thiab hnov ​​​​​​tej yam hais raws li lub suab. Hu nkauj yooj yim nrog lawv. Lawv yuav zoo siab dua yog tias koj hu cov nkauj thaum koj txav koj txhais tes thiab ceg.
• Nug cov lus nug, teb lawv cov lus nug: Ua siab ntev teb lawv cov lus nug xws li "Vim li cas?" thiab "Dab tsi?" Nug lawv cov lus nug yooj yim thiab. Zoo li "Koj noj dab tsi hnub no?" thiab "Koj nyiam ua si dab tsi?"
• Ua tib zoo mloog seb lawv hais li cas: Thaum koj tus menyuam sim qhia koj ib yam dab tsi, saib lawv thiab mloog zoo zoo rau qhov lawv hais. Qhov no yuav qhia rau lawv tias koj txaus siab rau lawv thiab lawv yuav xav tham ntau dua.
• Yog lawm, tab sis maj mam hais: Yog tias koj tus menyuam hais ib lo lus tsis raug, es tsis txhob cem lawv tias "Tsis yog, tsis yog, qhov ntawd tsis yog qhov tseeb," qhia rau lawv tias koj txhais lo lus raug. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj tus menyuam hais tias "Txiv," luag nyav thiab hais tias, "Yog, Txiv nyob ntawm no."

Kuv yuav tsum mus ntsib kws kho mob thaum twg?

Feem ntau, kev loj hlob ntawm kev hais lus ntawm cov menyuam yaus yog qhov ib txwm muaj. Txawm li cas los xij, qee zaum yuav muaj kev qeeb me ntsis. Yog tias koj muaj kev tsis ntseeg lossis kev txhawj xeeb txog koj tus menyuam txoj kev hais lus lossis kev siv lo lus, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los tham nrog kws kho mob txog qhov ntawd.

Nov yog qee yam uas yuav tsum paub txog, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj tus menyuam me me tsis pom cov no thaum lawv muaj peb xyoos:

• Yog tias koj tus menyuam tsis tau hais tsawg kawg 50 lo lus thaum muaj 30 lub hlis (2 ½ xyoos).
• Txawm tias thaum koj muaj 30 lub hlis los xij, yog koj taw tes rau ib yam dab tsi hauv phau ntawv thiab nug tias, "Qhov no yog dab tsi?" thiab koj tsis paub hais nws lub npe (piv txwv li, yog koj taw tes rau ib lub pob thiab nug tias, "Bole" thiab koj hais tsis tau)
• Txawm tias muaj 3 xyoos los xij, yog tias koj piav tsis tau ib qho kev ua hauv daim duab, piv txwv li, "khiav", "noj mov", lossis "pw tsaug zog".
• Yog tias lawv tsis nug cov lus nug xws li "Leej twg?", "Dab tsi?", "Qhov twg?", "Vim li cas?" (Lawv xav nug cov lus nug thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no)
• Yog tias koj hais tsis tau koj lub npe thaum raug nug.
• Txawm tias lawv tsev neeg los tsis nkag siab lawv hais li cas tiag, thiab feem ntau, lawv cov lus tsis meej.
• Yog koj xav tias koj tus menyuam tsis hnov ​​lus zoo (yog tias lawv tsis tig rov qab thaum koj tham, yog tias lawv tsis teb cov suab zoo)

Yog tias koj pom ib yam dab tsi zoo li no, thov tsis txhob ntshai lossis ntshai thiab mus ntsib koj tus kws kho mob hauv tsev neeg lossis kws kho mob menyuam yaus . Qee zaum nws tuaj yeem yog ib yam dab tsi yooj yim. Lossis, koj yuav xav tau kev pab me ntsis, tej zaum tus kws kho kev hais lus . Thaum koj pom cov no sai dua, koj tus menyuam yuav tau txais kev pab zoo dua thiab pab lawv txhim kho lawv cov kev txawj hais lus. Qee zaum, tus kws kho mob kuj tseem yuav xa koj mus rau qhov kev kuaj pob ntseg kom kuaj xyuas koj tus menyuam qhov kev hnov ​​​​lus.

Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov (Cov Lus Coj Mus Tsev)

Yog li ntawd, Niam thiab Txiv, qhov no yog lub sijhawm zoo kawg nkaus thaum koj tus menyuam yaus txoj kev hais lus tab tom txhim kho.

• Koj txoj kev mloog zoo, koj txoj kev tham, koj txoj kev ua si yog lawv cov xib fwb zoo tshaj plaws. Tham nrog lawv, ua si nrog lawv, nyeem phau ntawv ntau li ntau tau.
• Txhua tus menyuam yaus txawv. Lawv loj hlob raws li lawv lub sijhawm. Tsis txhob muab lawv piv rau lwm tus menyuam yaus.
• Yog tias koj tsis paub meej, nrhiav kev pab. Kev sab laj nrog kws kho mob yuav pab txo koj lub nra hnyav thiab muab kev txhawb nqa rau koj tus menyuam yaus uas lawv xav tau.

Koj yuav muaj lub sijhawm zoo nkauj thaum koj tus me nyuam lub suab puv nkaus lub tsev thiab koj lub siab puv nrog kev xyiv fab nrog lawv cov dab neeg me me!

Kev hais lus ntawm menyuam yaus, cov menyuam yaus me, kev loj hlob lus , cov lus qhia rau niam txiv , kev kawm lo lus, kev hais lus qeeb,Cov lus qhia ntawm tus kws kho mob , kev sib txuas lus rau menyuam yaus Sinhala , kev loj hlob lus rau menyuam yaus hauv Sri Lanka