I rili nɔmal fɔ fil big big fil fɔ de yu wan, sɔri, ɛn fil gilti afta yu mama, papa, ɔ pɔsin we de nia yu, we yu dɔn kia fɔ so lɔv ɛn devote fɔ lɔng tɛm, dɔn admit na assisted living/nursing home. Kwɛshɔn dɛn lɛk "A nɔ bin tek kia ɔf am gud gud wan?" ɛn "A bin mek di rayt disizhɔn?" i go mɔs dɔn de ɛko na yu maynd bɔku bɔku tɛm. Nɔ tink se na yu wan gɛt dɛn filin ya. Dis na kɔmɔn tin we bɔku pipul dɛn kin gɛt.
Aw yu go ridyus di wet we yu de fil na yu maynd?
Sɔntɛnde, fɔ disayd lɛk dis kin nid fɔ mek di pɔsin we yu lɛk sef ɛn wɛlbɔdi. Bɔt ivin da tɛm de, yu nɔ go ebul fɔ stɔp fɔ fil bad ɛn fil gilti. Di bɛst tin we yu go du dis tɛm na fɔ tɔk bɔt aw yu de fil to yu famili ɔ yu padi we yu kin abop pan. Sɔntɛnde, fɔ jɔyn sɔpɔt grup wit ɔda pipul dɛn we dɔn go tru di sem kayn ɛkspiriɛns ɔ fɔ gɛt ɛp frɔm pɔsin we de gi advays kin ɛp yu fɔ fil fayn.
De tin wae impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ sheb dɛn filin ya wit pɔrsin, wae yu nɔr de kip am insay bɔtul insay. Mɛmba se nɔto yu wangren de.
Wetin yu kin du if di pɔsin we yu lɛk vɛks?
If yu pɔrsin wae yu lɛk in dis maynia sik nɔr dɔn go bifo, dɛn nɔr kin lɛk de nyu envayrɔmɛnt. Sɔntɛnde, dɛn kin ajɔst fayn fayn wan to di nyu tin dɛn we de arawnd dɛn. Bɔt bɔku tɛm, mɔ we di sik bigin, dɛn kin blem yu, kray ɛn ala pan yu ɛvri tɛm we yu go fɛn yu se, "Tek mi go na os."
Na dis kayn tɛm, yu at kin de at bad bad wan. Bɔt mɛmba yusɛf wetin mek yu disayd fɔ du dis . Yu disayd dis bikɔs yu nɔ bin ebul fɔ gi dɛn di spɛshal kia we dɛn nid na os, nɔto so? So, peshɛnt ɛn gi dɛn bɔku lɔv ɛn atɛnshɔn. Gi dɛn tɛm fɔ ajɔst to di nyu say we dɛn de. Yu lɔv lɔv rili valyu to dɛn dis tɛm.
Yu gɛt dawt bɔt aw fɔ kia fɔ yu ɛvride?
Di big tin we bɔku pipul kin fred na, "Di pipul dɛn we de de go tek kia ɔf mi mama/papa gud?" Dis kin tranga smɔl fɔ mek yu gri wit am, bikɔs pan ɔl we yu de gi yu layf to pɔsin we yu lɛk na os, wan pɔsin we de wok na di say usay dɛn de kia fɔ ol pipul dɛn gɛt fɔ kia fɔ sɔm pipul dɛn wan tɛm.
Wi nid fɔ ɔndastand di rial tin we de ya. Yu kin gɛt wan aidia bɔt dis difrɛns frɔm di tebul we de dɔŋ ya.
| Dipatmɛnt fɔ Keya | Di kia we yu bin de gi yu na os | Dɛn kin kia fɔ dɛn na say dɛn we dɛn kin kia fɔ ol pipul dɛn |
|---|---|---|
| Pɔsin in yon atɛnshɔn | Wan pɔsin bin gɛt yu 100% atɛnshɔn. | Wan wokman de luk afta 8 ɔ mɔ pipul dɛn we de de. |
| Trenin | Yu gɛt lɔv ɛn ɛkspiriɛns. Sɔntɛm yu nɔ gɛt pɔshɔnal trenin. | Pan ɔl we bɔku pan dɛn gɛt ɛkspiriɛns ɛn trenin, sɔm kin gɛt smɔl trenin. |
| Fɔ sɔlv prɔblɛm dɛn | Yu kin sɔlv prɔblɛm jɔs afta yu si am. | Dɛn fɔ ripɔt wan prɔblɛm to di wokman ɔ manija we gɛt fɔ du wit am. |
Aw yu kin bil gud rilayshɔn wit di wokman dɛn?
Di bɛst we fɔ mek yu nɔ fred ɛn dawt na fɔ mek yu gɛt gud padi biznɛs wit di wan dɛn we de wok de .
- Tɔk wit kol at: If prɔblɛm de, tɔk wit kol at ɛn rɛspɛkt to di wokman we yu de tɔk bɔt. Bɔku tɛm, dis go sɔlv di prɔblɛm. If nɔto so, tɔk to di Dayrɛktɔ ɔ di Nɔs Dayrɛktɔ.
- Rɛspɛkt dɛn: Mɛmba se dɛnsɛf na pipul dɛn we de wok tranga wan ɛn we gɛt strɛs. Dɛn kin lɛk fɔ trit dɛn wit rɛspɛkt bak.
- Visit ɔltɛm: Visit di pɔsin we yu lɛk ɛnitɛm we i pɔsibul.
- Sheb wetin yu no: Tɛl di wokman dɛm bɔt wetin yu mama/papa lɛk ɛn nɔ lɛk, ɛn we fɔ mek dɛn kol.
- Tɛl di gud tin dɛn: Tɛl dɛn bɔt di gud tin dɛn we dɛn de du. Dɔn bak, if yu fil se sɔntin nid fɔ chenj, tɔk am saful wan ɛn nɔ mek dɛn fil bad.
Yu de fred se yu go lɔs yu valyu tin dɛn ɔ yu go de trit yu bad?
Di bad we aw pipul dɛn we sabi kia fɔ dɛn kin du bad to dɛn nɔ kin bɔku pas aw i kin bi na os. Bɔt i nɔto tin we nɔ pɔsibul. If yu gɛt ɛnitin fɔ tink se dɛn de du bad to yu pɔsin we yu lɛk, na fɔ ripɔt am to di ed nɔs ɔ di manija wantɛm wantɛm . If yu si se dɛn de trit yu bad, ripɔt am to di edman fɔ di ples ɛn yu lokal Adult Protective Services Agency.
I bɛtɛ fɔ kip valyu tin dɛn lɛk jɔyri wit yu, bikɔs di pɔsin we yu lɛk go fɔgɛt dɛn sɔnsay, ɔ ɔda pɔsin we de de nɔ go put dɛn na di rayt ples. Dɔn bak, kip yu yon tin dɛn lɛk dɛn tit, ayglas, ɛn tin dɛn we yu kin yuz fɔ yɛri, rayt klia wan.
Yu nɔ kin si di dɔktɔ bɔku tɛm?
Dɔktɔ dɛn nɔ kin go na nɔs os lɛk dɛn wan ya ɛvride, lɛk aw dɛn kin du na ɔspitul. Dis kin bi nyu tin to yu. Di tɛm we yu go go fɛn yu, go dipen pan di pɔsin we yu lɛk in wɛlbɔdi ɛn wetin i nid.
Insay sɔm institiushɔn dɛn, dɛn kin tek nɔs prɛktishɔn ɔ dɔktɔ ɛstɛt dɛn fɔ gi mɛrɛsin instead fɔ gi dɔktɔ dɛn.
Bɔt di bɛst we fɔ kɔntakt yu pɔsin we yu lɛk in dɔktɔ na fɔ kɔl dɛn na fon. If yu gɛt ɛnitin we de mɔna yu bɔt di pɔsin we yu lɛk in wɛlbɔdi, nɔ fɔgɛt fɔ tɔk to dɛn dɔktɔ bɔt am .
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Na nɔmal tin fɔ fil bad, wɔri, ɛn fil gilti afta dɛn dɔn put yu pɔsin we yu lɛk na say usay dɛn de kia fɔ ol pipul dɛn. Nɔ shem fɔ tɔk bɔt am.
- I go tek tɛm fɔ mek di pɔsin we yu lɛk ajɔst to di nyu say we dɛn de. Ɔndastand dɛn vɛks ɔ sɔri, ɛn gi dɛn lɔv ɛn sɔpɔt.
- Bil gud, rɛspɛktful rilayshɔn wit di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn. I go rili ɛp di pɔsin we yu lɛk fɔ gɛt wɛlbɔdi.
- Lɛf valyu tin dɛn na os ɛn rayt klia wan pan yu yon tin dɛn lɛk tut paste ɛn glas. Ripɔt ɛni abiuz we dɛn tink se dɔn du to di ɔtoriti dɛn wantɛm wantɛm.
- Mɛmba ɔltɛm se yu disayd fɔ du dis fɔ dɛn sef ɛn wɛlbɔdi. Yu bin du di bɛst we yu ebul.
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