Wi fɔ ɔganayz bebi shawa lɛk aw yu want?

Wen nyu ges de kam fo yu laif, na im bi komon nau fo padi dem to get togeda and oganaiz smol pati, aka ‘Baby Shower’, to selebret di gladi gladi. Bɔt sɔntɛnde, smɔl smɔl tin dɛn kin apin bitwin di aidia dɛn we di wan dɛn we de ɔganayz dɛn kayn pati dɛn de gɛt ɛn yu yon aidia bɔt fɔ bɔn pikin . Sɔntɛm yu want wan smɔl pati we simpul. Bɔt yu padi dɛn de plan fɔ mek big pati. If yu gɛt fɔ ple gem dɛn we yu nɔ lɛk, yu nɔ go fil fayn. So, na dis kayn tɛm, aw yu go sɛlibret dis gladi de di we aw yu want, we yu nɔ go ambɔg ɛnibɔdi in filin? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt am.

Yu tink se i bad fɔ tɔk wetin yu want bɔt di pikin shawa?

Dis na tɔpik we rili impɔtant. Sɔm pipul dɛn kin tink se pikin shawa na gift we yu kin gɛt, so yu fɔ mek di pɔsin we de ɔganayz am du am di we aw i want. Dɛn se, "I tan lɛk gift, so yu fɔ tink bɔt di gladi at we di pɔsin we de gi am gɛt." Insay dɛn yon we, di rial rizin fɔ bebi shawa nɔto fɔ gɛda gift, bɔt fɔ sho se padi dɛn lɛk yu ɛn di pikin we yu de op fɔ ɛn sɔpɔt yu.

Bɔt, ɔda pipul dɛn se, "Nɔ, dis na yu de. Na sɛlibreshɔn fɔ wɛlkɔm di pikin insay yu layf. So i fɔ bi sɔntin we yu gladi fɔ." Infakt, bɔku mama dɛn kin jɔs gɛt wan pikin shawa. So, dɛn biliv se natin nɔ bad fɔ tɔk saful wan bɔt wetin yu want pas fɔ lɛ di de pas di we we yu nɔ want.

Wetin na sɔm tin dɛn we yu kin rilayt to as mama?

Na kɔmɔn tin fɔ aks fɔ yu opinion bɔt sɔm tin dɛn we yu de plan fɔ shawa pikin. Yu fri fɔ tɔk wetin yu tink bɔt dɛn tin ya.

Aw yu kin sho wetin yu want ɛn nɔ gɛt ɛni bad bad tin?

Bɔku tɛm, na pɔsin we rili nia yu, lɛk yu bɛst padi, sista, ɔ brɔda-in-law, de ɔganayz yu bebi shawa. I izi fɔ tɔk dairekt to pɔsin lɛk dat. Bɔt, imajin if yu mama-in-law ɔ sɔm padi dɛn we kɔmɔt na di ɔfis de ɔganayz am. Dɔn yu fɔ tek tɛm smɔl. Na sɔm strateji dɛn we yu kin yuz pan dis kayn tin.

• Tɔk kwik: I bɛtɛ fɔ mek di wan dɛn we ɔganayz di program no wetin yu tink bifo dɛn dɔn mek plan ɛn spɛn mɔni. If yu se, "A nɔ lɛk pink," afta dɛn dɔn ɔda ɔl di dɛkɔreshɔn ɛn kek, i kin bi prɔblɛm.
• Bi taktful: Insted fo se "A no want dat," trai to tok somtin laik: "I no go fayn if wi du dis?", "A rili want smol gathering...", "Oh, dat gem we wi ple fo mai sista bebi shawa bin rili awkward..."
• Tɛl ɔda pɔsin: Sɔntɛnde, if yu nɔ fil fayn fɔ tɛl pɔsin dairekt wan, yu kin tɔk to di wan dɛn we ɔganayz di program tru yu man, mama, ɔ yu bɛst padi. Dat kin mek tin nɔ at fɔ du.
• Gi dɛn wan indaykt aidia: Sho dɛn di kɔlɔ dɛn we yu dɔn pik fɔ di nɔsri, sho dɛn pikchɔ dɛn fɔ di dɛkɔreshɔn dɛn we yu lɛk. If yu se, "A de tink bɔt wan tim lɛk dis fɔ di nɔsri," dat go mek dɛn no wetin yu lɛk .

Yu wan ad man dem tu? Gem dɛn?

Dis na sɔntin bak we bɔku pipul dɛn kin tɔk bɔt. Trade, Bebi Shawa na sɔntin we dɛn kin kip fɔ uman dɛn nɔmɔ. Bɔt naw di tɛm dɔn difrɛn. Bebi na di mama ɛn di papa ɔl tu gɛt fɔ du. So, i dɔn bi rili pɔpul fɔ briŋ papa ɛn ɔda man padi dɛn fɔ sɛlibret dis gladi de (coed shower).

If yu intres pan coed pati, bɔt di big pɔsin we de ɔganayz am nɔ want, ɛksplen di sityueshɔn to dɛn wit lɔv we. Yu kin aks se, "Dis na fɔ wi ɔl tu, so i nɔ go fayn if wi padi dɛn kin kam wit am?"

Di ɔda tin na gem dɛn . Sɔm pipul dɛn lɛk gem dɛn we dɛn kin ple wit pikin shawa . Ɔda pipul dɛn kin si se dɛn tu at fɔ du. Bɔt i fayn fɔ gɛt sɔntin fɔ du fɔ mek pipul dɛn kam togɛda ɛn mek dɛn tɔk to dɛnsɛf we dɛn de na pati. If yu nɔ lɛk gem, ɔda tin dɛn de we yu kin du insted.

• Kraft Sɛshɔn: Di wan dɛn we kin kam kin kam togɛda ɛn mek smɔl tin fɔ di pikin. Fɔ ɛgzampul, smɔl dɛkɔreshɔn fɔ hang na di pikin in rum, ɔ sɔntin lɛk buk we dɛn rayt ɔlman in bɛst wish pan am.
• Advays Buk: Aks ɛni gɔst fɔ rayt dɛn bɛst advays. Yu kin put dɛn ɔl togɛda ɛn mek wan fayn buk.
• Pho TOS hoot: Set op likl foto booth so yu kin tek som nais piksho wit evribodi we de kam. I go bi big mɛmori fɔ ɔlman.

"No gifts" - yu kin ivin se dat?

Yɛs, wetin mek nɔto so? Sɔntɛm dis na yu sɛkɔn pikin, ɛn yu dɔn gɛt bɔku tin dɛn. Ɔ sɔntɛm yu nɔ want fɔ bi lod pan di wan dɛn we yu lɛk insay di tɛm we mɔni nɔ izi. Ɔ sɔntɛm dɛn prezɛns impɔtant to yu pas gift dɛn. Tray wan pan dɛn aidia ya na di tɛm lɛk dis.

• "Baby's First Library" theme: Tɛl dɛn fɔ kam wit buk nɔmɔ as gift. Buk dɛn nɔ dia ɛn dɛn valyu ɔltɛm.
• "IOU" (I Owe You) Theme: No gift nɔ de we prɛshɔ pas tɛm fɔ nyu mama. Bifo yu gi yu gift, yu kin aks di gɔst dɛn fɔ prɔmis fɔ ɛp yu wit sɔntin lɛk “A go kia fɔ yu pikin fɔ wan de,” “A go briŋ dina fɔ yu wan de,” ɔ “A go klin di os.”
• "Best Advice" theme: As wi bin se bifo, di aidia na fɔ gɛda ɔlman in advays ɛn mek buk.