Yu tink se fɛt-fɛt kin de ɔltɛm na os? Prɔblɛm kin de ɔltɛm bitwin maredman ɛn in wɛf, bitwin mama ɛn papa ɛn pikin dɛn, ɔ bitwin brɔda ɛn sista dɛn? Infakt, dɛn tin ya kin de mɔ ɔ smɔl na ɛni famili. Bɔt sɔntɛnde, dɛn prɔblɛm dɛn ya kin so big dat wi nɔ kin ebul fɔ sɔlv dɛn wangren, ɛn dis kin pwɛl di gladi at ɛn pis na di famili. Na da tɛm de wi nid ɛkspɛkt ɛp. Di bɛst sɔlv fɔ dis na fɔ advays famili .
Wetin na Famili Tɛrapi?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, famili advays na spɛshal advays savis we de ɛp famili fɔ dil wit di prɔblɛm dɛn, kɔnflikt, ɛn strɛs we dɛn kin gɛt as famili, fɔ tɔk to dɛnsɛf fayn fayn wan, ɛn fɔ sɔlv prɔblɛm dɛn.
Na pɔsin we dɔn gɛt spɛshal trenin pan dis eria de bifo dɛn advays ya. I kin bi sayɛnsman, soshal woka, ɔ advaysa we gɛt ɔda trenin fɔ advays famili. Lɛ wi kɔl am "family counselor." Wetin i de du na fɔ mek di wan ol famili kam togɛda, tɔk bɔt dɛn prɔblɛm dɛn, ɛn ɛp dɛn fɔ fɛn sɔlv.
Wetin famili advays kin ɛp wit?
Prɔblɛm dɛn na famili kin afɛkt ɔlman na di famili in layf. Yu ɛn yu famili kin fil se dɛn prɔblɛm ya de mek yu gɛt prɔblɛm na yu wokples, wit yu pikin dɛn skul wok , ɛn ivin we yu de tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn ɛvride.
If yu fil se yu famili prɔblɛm dɛn tu big fɔ sɔlv yu wan ɛn i jɔs de wɔs, naw na di tɛm fɔ go to pɔsin we de advays yu famili. Dɛn kin ɛp yu fɔ fɛn nyu we fɔ sɔlv prɔblɛm dɛn, cham-mɔt, ɛn prɔblɛm dɛn.
Di tebul we de dɔŋ ya sho sɔm tin dɛn we yu kin aks fɔ ɛp frɔm famili advays.
| Prɔblɛm ɔ chans | Tɔk bɔt |
|---|---|
| Kɔnflikt bitwin famili mɛmba dɛn | Bɔku tɛm, mama ɛn papa, pikin dɛn, ɔ brɔda ɛn sista dɛn kin agyu ɛn nɔ gri. |
| Drug ɔ rɔm adikshɔn | Prɔblɛm dɛn na famili we pɔsin in famili gɛt adikshɔn to drɔgs ɔ rɔm. |
| Sik we pɔsin kin gɛt na in maynd | Fɔ dil wit wan famili mɛmba in maynd sik (e.g., pwɛl hat, wɔri). |
| Kwɛstyɔn dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit mɔni | Faynanshɛl prɔblɛm ɔ nɔ gri insay di famili bɔt mɔni. |
| Pikin dɛn bihayvya ɛn skul prɔblɛm | Prɔblɛm wit pikin dɛn skul wok ɔ chenj na dɛn bihayvya. |
| Wan mɛmba we gɛt spɛshal nid | Di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin we pɔsin de kia fɔ pikin ɔ big pɔsin we gɛt spɛshal nid. |
| Prɔblɛm dɛn na mared layf | Situeshɔn dɛn lɛk we maredman ɛn in wɛf nɔ kin gri, we dɛn kin separet, ɔ we dɛn dayvɔs. |
| Wan pɔsin we de na di famili day ɔ sik | Fɔ kɔntrol di pwɛl hat ɛn strɛs we pɔsin kin gɛt we i day wantɛm wantɛm ɔ we i sik bad bad wan. |
Wetin kin rili apin we dɛn de gi advays?
Imajin se yu ɛn yu famili go go to pɔsin we de gi advays. Wetin kin apin de?
Fɔs, di pɔsin we de gi di advays go tɔk to di wan ol famili, wan wan ɔ togɛda, fɔ tray fɔ ɔndastand aw ɔlman de si di prɔblɛm . I go aks kwɛstyɔn dɛn bɔt ustɛm di prɔblɛm bigin ɛn aw di famili dɔn tray fɔ sɔlv am te naw.
Neks, di advaysa go wok wit una ɔl fɔ mek wan tritmɛnt plan .
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na ya nɔto fɔ pɔynt finga pan ɛnibɔdi, bɔt fɔ kam togɛda as famili ɛn fɛn we fɔ sɔlv prɔblɛm.
Insay dɛn sɛshɔn ya, di pɔsin we de advays una kin ɛp una fɔ tɔk to unasɛf fayn fayn wan, sɔlv prɔblɛm dɛn, ɛn fɛn nyu we dɛn fɔ wok togɛda. Sɔntɛm famili advays nɔ go ebul fɔ pul ɔl di prɔblɛm dɛn kɔmɔt kpatakpata. Bɔt i kin gi ɔlman na di famili nyu tin dɛn we dɛn nid fɔ dil wit ɛni prɔblɛm we nɔ izi fɔ dɛn di we we go mek dɛn gɛt wɛlbɔdi .
Bɔku tɛm, dis advays savis kin las fɔ lɛk 12 tɛm so. Bɔt di kayn prɔblɛm dɛn we de mit yu famili go sho aw lɔng i go tek ɛn ɔmɔs sɛshɔn dɛn yu nid.
Aw fɔ fɛn pɔsin we fit fɔ advays wi famili?
Yu kin tray dɛn we ya fɔ fɛn gud, kwalifay advaysa na Sri Lanka:
- Aks yu famili dɔktɔ: bɔku tɛm dɛn kin no gud spɛshal pipul dɛn we de gi dɛn savis ya. Yu kin aks dɛn fɔ mek dɛn rifer yu.
- Aks padi dɛm we yu kin abop pan: dɛn kin gɛt gud ɛkspiriɛns pan dis.
- Aks na di Mental Ɛlth Yunit dɛm na di big ɔspitul dɛm: Dɛn savis ya de na di saykayatrik yunit dɛm na di tichin ɔspitul dɛm lɛk di Kɔlɔmbɔ Nashɔnal Ospital, Pɛradeniya, ɛn Karapitiya.
- Sɔch na di intanɛt: Yu kin fɛn institiushɔn ɔ pipul dɛn we yu kin abop pan we de yuz wɔd dɛn lɛk " Family Therapy in Sri Lanka" ɔ "Psychological Counseling Sri Lanka".
Bifo yu pik kɔnsaltɛnt, aks yusɛf dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya:
Okay, lɛ wi se yu dɔn fɛn pɔsin we de gi advays. I rili impɔtant fɔ aks dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya fɔ si if dɛn fayn fɔ yu famili.
- Yu dɔn gɛt spɛshal trenin fɔ mɛn famili?
- Yu gɛt ɛni ɛkspiriɛns wit dɛn kayn prɔblɛm dɛn ya na wi famili?
- Usay yu ɔfis de? Wetin na di awa dɛn we yu de wok?
- Aw lɔng wan sɛshɔn kin tek?
- Ɔmɔs sɛshɔn dɛn yu tink se wi go nid?
- Aw bɔku yu de chaj fɔ ɛni sɛshɔn?
- Aw dɛn fɔ pe?
Di ansa to dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya go ɛp yu fɔ no if yu ɛn yu famili go ebul fɔ wok wit dis advaysa izi wan.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Nɔ shem nɔ de fɔ aks fɔ ɛp we yu nɔ wet fɔ mek yu famili prɔblɛm dɛn bi siriɔs. Na sɛns we yu de du we de sho se yu bisin bɔt yu famili.
- Famili advays nɔto fɔ blem ɛnibɔdi, bɔt na fɔ wok togɛda fɔ fɛn sɔlv .
- Gud kɔmyunikeshɔn na di fawndeshɔn fɔ gɛt wɛlbɔdi famili, ɛn advays de gi gud gayd fɔ dat.
- Tek tɛm pik pɔsin we go advays yu ɛn yu famili. Tɔk to yu famili dɔktɔ bɔt dis ɛn gɛt advays.
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