IVF ɛn twins: Lɛsin dɛn we wi kin lan frɔm Amanda in stori

Natin nɔ de we fayn pas fɔ drim fɔ bi mama ɔ papa. Bɔt sɔntɛnde, di waka fɔ mek da drim de kam tru kin tranga smɔl. Laki, bikɔs ɔf di advans mɛdikal sayɛns tide, wi gɛt di chans fɔ mek da drim de kam tru tru tritmɛnt dɛn lɛk IVF ( In Vitro Fertilization ). Tide wi de tɔk bɔt wan mama we lɛk am we nem Amanda we bin go tru dis kayn waka. In stori go tich wi bɔku valyu lɛsin dɛn, mɔ fɔ wi yon sista ɛn padi dɛn we de wet fɔ twins ɔ we de tink bɔt fɔ gɛt IVF tritmɛnt.

di IVF joyn εn fכ disayd כl di εmbriyo dεm fכ tכn

Amanda ɛn in man we nem Kɛnɛt bin gɛt bɛlɛ di tɛm we dɛn bin tray fɔ yuz IVF fɔ di fɔstɛm, bɔt dɛn bin gɛt bɛlɛ. Wi nɔ nid fɔ tɔk se dis ɛkspiriɛns bin mek wi at pwɛl. na dat mek, we dεn go fכ dεn sεkכn IVF tritmεnt, Amanda bin tink se, "Dis tεm, wi fכ transfa כl di tri εmbriyo dεm."

bכt as i se, "Mi dia dכkta εksplen di risk to mi εn kכnvins mi fכ transfa tu εmbriyo. Na di εnd, wi bin gεt twins. A rili gladi tide se wi nכ transfa tri εmbriyo!"

Di impɔtant tin we wi nid fɔ ɔndastand ya na dat, dɔktɔ dɛn kin tray ɔltɛm fɔ mek shɔ se di mama ɛn di pikin we nɔ bɔn yet, sef pasmak . εspεshali if dεn tכn tu εmbrayo dεm we dεn yכng, di prכbabiliti fכ gεt twin dεm de hכy lεk 60%. Pan ɔl we i kin fayn fɔ bɔn tu ɔ tri pikin dɛn wan tɛm, wi fɔ no bak bɔt di bad tin dɛn we kin apin to wi na di mɛrɛsin.

Fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ bin at pas aw dɛn bin de tink

Amanda se in na yɔŋ uman we rili gɛt wɛlbɔdi, we de tink bɔt fitnɛs. Na dat mek i bin tink se di bɛlɛ go rili izi. Bɔt fɔ kɛr twins dɛn na in bɛlɛ nɔ bin izi lɛk aw i bin de tink.

I se, "A bin go wok fɔ di fɔs tri mɔnt. Bɔt wantɛm wantɛm we a ol 20 wiks, a bigin fɔ bɔn pikin . Fɔ tru, na mirekul we di dɔktɔ dɛn bin ebul fɔ stɔp am ɛn a bin ebul fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ kɛr di pikin dɛn."

Afta dis tin we apin, Amanda bin gɛt fɔ spɛn 11 wiks na di ɔspitul fɔ rɛst na bed. na di εnd, dεn bכn di tu pikin dεm 8 wik bifo, we min se dεn bכn bifo tεm.Na so a kam na dis wɔl.

Fɔ bɔn pikin bifo tɛm na wan pan di big prɔblɛm dɛn we mama ɛn papa kin gɛt. Bifo dɛn drim fɔ ol dɛn pikin na os jɔs afta dɛn bɔn dɛn, i kin rili at fɔ bia di tink se dɛn fɔ de luk insay wan glas kibɔd na di Nionatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). Wi nɔ go ebul fɔ tɔk bɔt di pen ɛn wɔri we pɔsin kin wɔri.

Nɔ fɔgɛt di impak we i gɛt pan mental wɛlbɔdi

Apat frɔm di pen we pɔsin kin gɛt na in bɔdi, di wan ol tin we kin apin kin mek pɔsin taya bak na in maynd. Amanda ɔnɛs wan admit se, "A bin gɛt post-traumatic stress disorder ɛn postpartum depression afta dɛn bɔn mi pikin dɛm. I nɔ mata aw yu gɛt wɛlbɔdi, fɔ go tru sɔntin lɛk dis kin tek yu maynd."

Pan ɔl we di bɔdi wik we i de rɛst na bed, i kin gɛt in trɛnk bak. Bɔt di damej we de na di maynd kin tek tɛm fɔ mek i wɛl. I nid sɔpɔt. Insay dis kayn tin, i rili impɔtant fɔ tɔk to yu man, yu fambul, ɛn mɔ to yu dɔktɔ . No rizin nɔ de fɔ mek wi shem ɔ sɔfa yu wan.

Layf wit twins: chalenj ɛn gladi gladi

Bikɔs dɛn nɔ bɔn yet, Amanda in pikin dɛn kin biɛn smɔl pan sɔm tin dɛn we dɛn kin du we dɛn de divɛlɔp, mɔ di we aw dɛn kin gɛt bɔku bɔku motoka dɛn. Amanda se: “As mama ɛn papa dɛn, wi kin wɔri ɔltɛm se dɛn go gɛt sɔm prɔblɛm dɛn we go de fɔ lɔng tɛm.”

Sɔm prɔblɛm dɛn de bak we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de kia fɔ twin pikin dɛn.

Tin dεm lεk fכ gi tu pikin dεm bεlε wan tεm, εn fכ fil se yu nכ ebul fכ εp we dεn tu de kray di sem tεm, kin rili at fכ di fכs tεm dεm.

"Bot to bi onest, as dem de ol, tins de izi likl. Bikos dem de ple wit dem sef. So pros and cons de fo get twins."

We Amanda dɔn, i tɛl wan stori we rili valyu. "No mata ol dis, a go rekomend am to enibodi we de tink abaut `( IVF )`. If `(IVF)` no bin de wi no go get wi pikin dem. Ivun wit di pen we wi go tru, if a get chans bak, a no go chenj eni tin."

Di big lɛsin we wi kin lan frɔm in stori na fɔ no ɛn rɛdi. A go fes dis, ɛn we a bigin mi joyn arm wit no ɛn rɛdi fɔ di pɔsibul fɔ mek sɔntin lɛk dis apin, a kin fil se a gɛt pawa fɔ fes di tin dɛn we a nɔ bin de ɛkspɛkt.