Yu tink se bɔku bɔku buk ɛn pepa dɛn de na di tebul na yu rum? Bɔku klos dɛn kin de na di chia ɔltɛm? We yu opin di kloz , tin dɛn kin jomp kɔmɔt wan bay wan? Dɛn kayn tin ya rili sabi wi layf, nɔto so? Sɔntɛnde, ivin we wi si dis mɛs, wi kin taya ɛn strɛs. Yu no se di mɛs we de rawnd wi gɛt sɔntin fɔ du wit di mɛs we de na wi maynd? Na dat wi go tok abaut tide.
Udat na Mari Kondo? Wetin mek pipul dɛn lɛk dis we?
Mari Kondo na Japan we sabi ɔganayz. In we, di ‘KonMari’ we, dɔn rili pɔpul ɔlsay na di wɔl bikɔs i rili simpul ɛn i rili rilaks. I se, "Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ disayd wetin fɔ kip, nɔto wetin fɔ pul."
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, di men tin we i de du na fɔ "kip ɔl di tin dɛn we de mek yu gladi na yu at." Ɔmɔs tin dɛn wi gɛt na wi os ɛn rum dɛn we wi nɔ de yuz, we nɔ gɛt wan valyu to wi, ɛn we nɔ de mek wi gladi we wi luk dɛn? We wi pul da lod de we wi nɔ nid ɛn jɔs kip tin dɛn we rili valyu to wi ɛn we de mek wi gladi, wi kin fil se wi gɛt fridɔm na wi layf.
Aw fɔ pul tin dɛn we wi nɔ nid, go fayn fɔ wi at?
Imajin, yu rum ful-ɔp wit tin dɛn. I kin tek sɔm minit fɔ fɛn sɔntin we yu nid. Dat nɔmɔ de mek yu fil wɔri. Wan ples we gɛt bɔku bɔku tin dɛn lɛk dis kin afɛkt wi maynd dairekt wan.
Wan ples we nɔ gɛt wanwɔd ɛn we nɔ gɛt wanwɔd, dat kin mek wi nɔ pe atɛnshɔn ɛn nɔ ebul fɔ disayd fɔ du impɔtant tin dɛn.
We wi ɔganayz di tin dɛn we de arawnd wi, wetin kin rili apin na dat wi maynd kin ɔganayz bak. We wi pul tin dɛn we nɔ nid, wi kin gɛt mɔ ples fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan di impɔtant tin dɛn, wi rilayshɔnship dɛn, wi gol dɛn. Ɛn wan ɔda bɛnifit na dat, i izi fɔ mek yu fɛn wetin yu nid ɛnitɛm!
| Di saykilɔjik bɛnifit dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i ɔganayz | Praktikal bɛnifit dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt |
|---|---|
| Ridyus strɛs. | Fɔ ebul fɔ fɛn ɛnitin kwik kwik wan. |
| Di atɛnshɔn ɛn kɔnsɛntreshɔn mɔ ɛn mɔ. | Fɔ sev tɛm ɛn trɛnk. |
| Di ebul fɔ disayd fɔ du impɔtant tin dɛn mɔ ɛn mɔ. | Di ples we de na os ɔ ɔfis we bɔku. |
| Fɔ gladi fɔ di tin dɛn we yu gɛt. | Fɔ mek ples klin ɛn gɛt wɛlbɔdi. |
Aw yu kin fɛn di rayt tin we kin mek yu gladi?
Okay, naw yu go mɔs de tink se, "Aw a go no ɛksaktɔli wetin dɛn 'tin dɛn we de mek a gladi'?" Marie Kondo gɛt wan rili simpul we fɔ du dis.
Fɔs, gɛda ɔl di sem kayn tin dɛn na wan ples. Fɔ ɛgzampul, gɛda ɔl yu klos dɛn na wan ples. Dɔn, pik wan klos . We yu pik am, wetin yu de fil? Yu kin fil gladi, lɛk, ɛn wam? Ɔ yu nɔ de fil natin?
If i at fɔ ɔndastand dis, tink bɔt am dis we. Tek gift frɔm yu bɛst padi, ɔ wan klos we yu rili lɛk. Mɛmba di gladi at we yu kin gɛt we yu ol am. Dat filin fɔ bi di yadstik we dɛn de yuz fɔ mɛzhɔ ɔl ɔda tin dɛn. Tɛl tɛnki fɔ di tin dɛn we nɔ de mek yu gɛt da kayn gladi at de, ɛn lɛf dɛn fɔ go . Dat min se yu fɔ pul dɛn kɔmɔt (don, risaykul, ɔ trowe dɛn).
Aw yu kin tich pikin dɛn dɛn tin ya?
Wan kweshon we plenti of wi mama en papa get na, "Aw wi de tich wi pikin dem abaut dis oda?" Mari Kondo se wi fɔ tich dis to wi pikin dɛn nɔto as pɔnishmɛnt, bɔt as gem, as gud abit.
- Tich pikin dɛn fɔ gladi fɔ di tin dɛn we dɛn gɛt: Tich dɛn se dɛn tɔys ɛn buk dɛn valyu. Tich dɛn fɔ tek tɛm yuz dɛn ɛn rɛspɛkt dɛn.
- Gi ɔltin "os": Gi ɛvri tɔys ɛn buk wan ples we dɛn dɔn pik, wan "os." We dɛn dɔn fɔ ple, ɛp yu pikin fɔ gi di tin dɛn bak na dɛn "os."
- Una wok togɛda:Du tin dɛn togɛda wit yu pikin, lɛk fɔ fold klos ɛn fɔ put tɔys dɛn. Mari Kondo se i de fold klos wit in tu gyal pikin dɛn. "A no de expekt se dem go fold klos pafekt. Bot a wan mek dem divelop gud abit fo bi tidy and tek kia of dia tins."
Yu want fɔ bi nit ɔltɛm?
Afta yu dɔn rid ɔl dis, yu go de tink se, "Wow, nɔto lod fɔ ɔganayz so ɔltɛm?" Di ansa we Mari Kondo gi to dis rili valyu.
I se, "Afta a bi mama wit mi fɔs pikin, a bin so frustrate dat a nɔ bin ebul fɔ kip mi os in ɔda. Afta mi sɛkɔn pikin, a nɔ bin ivin gɛt di ɛnaji fɔ tink bɔt am! Mama bin tich mi fɔ fɔgiv misɛf. Di gladi at we a kin gɛt we a bi mama ɔ papa pas di gladi we a kin gɛt we a gɛt os we fayn fayn wan."
Di mɛsej frɔm dis na dat ɔda impɔtant tin. Bɔt i nɔ fɔ bi lod pan wi layf. Sɔntɛnde, tin kin rɔtin. Dat na nɔmal tin. Di impɔtant tin na fɔ ad gladi at ɛn pis to wi layf bifo wi tray fɔ pafɛkt.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Di chaos we de na di say we yu de kin afɛkt yu maynd wɛlbɔdi dairekt wan.
- Put tin dɛn we nɔ nid ɛn kip di tin dɛn nɔmɔ we rili de mek yu gladi (Spark Joy).
- Fɔ ɔganayz tan lɛk we yu de ɛksesaiz yu maynd. I de mek yu pe atɛnshɔn mɔ, ebul fɔ disayd fɔ du sɔntin, ɛn gɛt pis na yu maynd.
- Tich pikin dɛn frɔm we dɛn yɔŋ fɔ gladi fɔ ɛn put tin dɛn ɔganayz, nɔto fɔ pɔnish dɛn, bɔt as gud abit.
- Nɔ tray fɔ bi pafɛkt ɔltɛm. Na nɔmal tin fɔ mek yu mes sɔm tɛm na layf. Lan fɔ fɔgiv yusɛf.
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