Yu kin sɔfa bak we yu kin bɔn bifo tɛm? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt am!

Sɔntɛnde yu kin ejaculate bifo yu ɛkspɛkt? Ɔ dis kin apin jɔs afta yu bigin fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit yu patna? Dis kin rili strɛs ɛn pwɛl yu ɛn yu patna. I kin mek bak di gladi at ɛn satisfay we yu kin gɛt we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Pan ɔl we bɔku pipul dɛn nɔ kin want fɔ tɔk bɔt am, dis na prɔblɛm we kin apin pas aw wi kin tink. So tide wi go tɔk ditayli bɔt prɛmature ejaculation, ɔ ``Premature Ejaculation``.

Wetin na prɛmature ejaculation?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, prɛmature ejaculation (PE) na we yu ɔ yu patna ejaculate bifo di tɛm we dɛn bin de op fɔ. Bɔku tɛm dis kin apin jɔs afta yu bigin fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, ɔ jɔs afta dat. Fɔ sɔm pipul dɛm, e kin bi prɔblɛm wae dɛn kin gɛt fɔ ɔl dɛn layf, wae min se na sɔmtin wae dɛn dɔn gɛt frɔm di fɔs tɛm wae dɛn dɔn du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Fɔ ɔda pipul dɛn, i kin bi sɔntin we dɛn nɔ ɛva gɛt bifo, bɔt i kin kam leta. Wi kin kɔl am ‘acquired’, we min se na kɔndishɔn we de divɛlɔp as tɛm de go.

Aw lɔŋ i kin tek fɔ mek di swɛt kɔmɔt bifo dɛn tek am se i ‘kwik’?

Dɔktɔ dɛn kin tek am se fɔ bɔn pikin bifo tɛm na we yu kɔmɔt insay wan minit afta yu bigin fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Bɔt dis kin difrɛn frɔm wan pɔsin to ɔda pɔsin, ɛn na dɔktɔ nɔmɔ go tɛl yu fɔ tru if yu gɛt dis prɔblɛm. Bɔku pan di ɔganayzeshɔn dɛn we de mek wɛlbɔdi biznɛs kin tek am se fɔ bɔn pikin bifo tɛm as:

• Premature ejaculation, ilɛksɛf yu ɔ yu patna want am.
• Dis kin mek wan pan una ɔ una ɔl tu wɔri ɛn strɛs .
• Dis kin apin pan ɛvri mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, ɔ at ɔl insay bɔku pan mami ɛn dadi biznɛs .
• Ejakuleshɔn insay wan minit we yu dɔn du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
• If dis tin kɔntinyu fɔ pas siks mɔnt, sɔntɛm ivin wan ia .

Aw dis sik kin kɔmɔn?

Yu kin sɔprayz fɔ yɛri dis, bɔt fɔ tru, na wan sik we kin rili kɔmɔn. Bitwin 30% ɛn 40% pan di man dɛn kin gɛt prɛmature ejaculation na sɔm tɛm na dɛn layf. Infakt, na di prɔblɛm we kin apin we man dɛn kin du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs di we aw Gɔd nɔ want. Dɛn dɔn ripɔt se lɛk 1 pan ɛvri 5 man dɛn we ol bitwin 18 ɛn 59 ia kin kɔmɔt bifo tɛm. So nɔto yu wan de.

Wetin kin mek dis apin?

Bɔku rizin dɛn kin de fɔ dis. Bɔrku tɛm, di men tin wae kin mek pɔrsin gɛt dis maynia sik lɛk wae pɔrsin de wɔri . Dɔn bak, sɔntɛnde di penis skin kin sɛnsitiv pas aw i kin bi .

Rizin dɛn we pɔsin kin tink bɔt ɔ we i de fil:

• PafɔmPɔrfɔmans wɔri : Dis kin kam bikɔs yu de fred we yu de wit nyu patna, yu de fred we yu nɔr de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs fɔ lɔng tɛm, yu de gladi pasmak, ɔr ɔda rizin. Tink bɔt am, aw yu go kip yu maynd fri we tin dɛn lɛk "A go mek i gladi?" ɛn "A nɔ go ebul fɔ pefɔm fayn?" kam na yu maynd, nɔto so?
• Stress : Stress wae de kam wit woke prɔblɛm, famili prɔblɛm , prɔblɛm na ɔda rilayshɔnship, ɛn big chenj na layf (e.g., nyu wok, muv os) kin afɛkt dis bak.
• Rilayshɔnship prɔblɛm: Bita bita bikɔs ɔf tin dɛm lɛk bad rilayshɔn wit yu patna ɔr past sɛkshɔnal asɔlt.
• Tin dɛm wae de mɛk pɔrsin fil bad: Fɔ fil gilti bɔt yusɛf, fil lɛk yu dɔn bost wit ɔltin, na dat pwɛl hat na.
• Lɔw sɛlf-ɛstimɛnt: Fɔ fil se yu nɔr de du wɛl pan yu bɔdi, nɔr gɛt kɔnfidɛns pan yusɛf, fil lɛk "A nɔr inof."

Di tin dɛn we kin mek pɔsin gɛt bɔdi ɛn kemikal:

• Erectile dysfunction: Dis na we yu nɔ ebul fɔ gɛt ɔ kip erection we at fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. If na so i bi, yu kin ejaculate kwik kwik wan, tink se, "A nid fɔ dɔn dis kwik kwik wan."
• di כmon εshyu dεm: di chenj dεm na di כmon lεvεl dεm, spεshal wan di כmon we dεn kכl `( Oxytocin )`, we de afekt sεks fכnshכn, εn bak `(Luteinizing hormone - LH)`, `(Prolactin)`, εn `(Thyroid Stimulating Hormone - TSH)`.
• di lכw lεvεl dεm fכ sεrotonin כ dopamin : Dis na imכtant kεmikכl dεm na di bren. Dɛn kin afɛkt di we aw pɔsin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn di we aw i kin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. we dεn lεvεl dεm ya sכm, i kin at fכ kכntrכl di εjakulεshכn.
• Hypersensitivity to penis stimulation: Sɔm pipul dɛn penis kin rili sɛnsitiv we dɛn tɔch dɛn, so dɛn kin rich ɔrgazm kwik kwik wan wit ivin di smɔl smɔl stimulation.
• Wan prɔstat we gɛt inflamed:di prɔstat na smɔl gland we de dɔŋ di blad na man dɛn. If i gɛt di sik ɔ i gɛt inflamɛns, dat kin bi bak wan kɔz.

Bɔt mɛmba wan tin. Bɔku tɛm, di rizin we mek pɔsin kin bɔn pikin bifo tɛm nɔto siriɔs mɛrɛsin, infɛkshɔn, ɔ siriɔs prɔblɛm wit di riprodaktiv sistɛm. Bɔku tɛm, ɔltin kin wok fayn, ɛn di prɔblɛm kin kam bikɔs ɔf di strɛs, wɔri, ɛn fred we wi bin dɔn tɔk bɔt.

Ɛni ɔda sayn dɛn de we de sho se yu gɛt dis sik?

Nɔto fɔ tru. di onli simptom fכ ejakulεshכn bifo tεm na fכ ejakulεshכn bifo dεn εkspεkt. Nɔr ɔda patikyula sayn nɔr de wae de sho se pɔrsin gɛt dis sik.

Us kɔmplikɛshɔn kin apin bikɔs ɔf dis kɔndishɔn?

We yu bɔn pikin bifo tɛm, i kin ambɔg yu maynd pas aw i kin pwɛl yu bɔdi. Jɔs tink bɔt aw i go afɛkt yu padi biznɛs wit yu patna.

• Yu kin shem ɛn yu nɔ kin rili fil fayn .
• Yu kin fil gilti, ɛn se, "A nɔ ebul fɔ satisfay mi patna."
• Dis kin mek prɔblɛm wit intimacy ɛn satisfayshɔn na mami ɛn dadi biznɛs bitwin di tu.
• I kin kɔmɔn bak fɔ lɛ dis kin mek sɔmtɛm pɔrsin gɛt pwɛl hat ɛn pwɛl hat bad bad wan .
• Sɔntɛm dis prɔblɛm kin ivin delay fɔ adopt pikin.

Na dat mek i impɔtant fɔ mek yu go fɛn ɛp fɔ mek yu bɔn pikin bifo tɛm. Dis na tin we bɔku man dɛn kin gɛt ɛn we kin mek dɛn at pwɛl. Yu dɔktɔ kin ɛp yu fɔ no di tin we de mek yu gɛt dis sik ɛn no di bɛst tritmɛnt fɔ yu.

Aw fɔ fɛn di tin dɛn we kin mek pɔsin kɔmɔt bifo tɛm?

If yu de ejaculate tu kwik ɔltɛm, ɔ if i de mek yu strɛs ɔ wɔri ɛn afɛkt yu rilayshɔnship, i bɛtɛ fɔ go to urologist, dɔktɔ we spɛshal pan di urinary ɛn reproductive systems. Di dɔktɔ go aks yu sɔm kwɛstyɔn dɛn bɔt yu mami ɛn dadi biznɛs layf ɛn di tin dɛn we dɔn apin to yu. Fɔ ɛgzampul:

• Aw lɔng yu dɔn gɛt dis prɔblɛm?
• Us sityueshɔn dɛn dis kin apin mɔ?
• Aw ɔltɛm dis kin apin?
• Dis kin apin ɛvri tɛm we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs? Ɔ jɔs sɔntɛnde?
• Dis kin apin to ɛni patna? (If yu dɔn gɛt bɔku patna dɛn)
• Yu kin ejaculate kwik wen yu masturbate?
• Yu geht difikulti fo kip yu penis erect? Dat na wan kכndishכn we dεn kכl `(Erectile dysfunction)`.

Dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya kin tan lɛk se na fɔ yusɛf smɔl, bɔt i rili impɔtant fɔ mek yu tɛl yu dɔktɔ di tru.. Na da tɛm de i go ebul fɔ fɛn di rial tin we mek yu gɛt prɔblɛm ɛn trit am di rayt we. Di dɔktɔ go aks bak bɔt ɔda mɛrɛsin dɛn we yu gɛt ɛn di mɛrɛsin dɛn we yu de tek (inklud di mɛrɛsin dɛn we yu nɔ de bay, sɔpɔtmɛnt dɛn, ɛn ɛbul prɔdak dɛm). I kin aks bak bɔt di we aw yu de drink rɔm ɛn drɔgs. Bɔrku tɛm, dis nɔr kin nid fɔ du bɔrku lab tɛst. Bɔt if di dɔktɔ tink se ɔda tin we de mek dɛn gɛt dis sik, i kin tɛl dɛn fɔ du blɔd tɛst.

Aw fɔ trit di uman we de kɔmɔt bifo tɛm?

Di gud nyus na dat, dɛn kin trit di uman we i bɔn bifo tɛm! Difrɛn tritmɛnt dɛn de we pɔsin kin gɛt, i kin dipen pan di tin we kin mek i gɛt am. Dɛn tin ya na tritmɛnt fɔ di we aw pɔsin de biev, fɔ advays pɔsin, ɛn fɔ tek mɛrɛsin . Bɔrku tɛm, dɛn kin trit am fɔs wit bihayvya tɛrapi ɛn/ɔ advays. Dis na bikɔs bɔku tɛm di tin we kin mek pɔsin gɛt dis sik kin bi pɔsin in maynd. Yu kin tray fɔ du mɔ pas wan tritmɛnt wan tɛm. Infakt, wan tritmɛnt we dɛn jɔyn togɛda kin wok pas wan tritmɛnt.

Bihayvya modifyeshɔn tɛrapi

Dɛn tritmɛnt ya kin min fɔ tray difrɛn prɛktikal we dɛn fɔ delay yu orgasm. Di gol na fɔ tich yu aw fɔ kɔntrol yu bɔdi ɛn aw yu de fil. Dɛn we ya na:

• Di ‘Start and stop’ teknik: Dis na rili simpul tin. Yu ɔ yu patna de stimulate yu penis te yu klos to orgasm. we yu fil se "dis na am," stכp di stimulashכn fכ lεk 30 sekכnd. Wet te yu fil se yu de kɔntrol am bak, dat min se te di want fɔ bɔn pikin dɔn stɔp. Dɔn bigin bak. Du dis ‘start ɛn stɔp’ tɛknik tri ɔ 4 tɛm, dɔn alaw yusɛf fɔ ɔrgazm. Yu nid fɔ praktis dis tɛknik te yu gɛt gud kɔntrol.
• Tɛknik fɔ swɛt: Dis tan lɛk di fɔs wan. Yu ɔ yu patna de stimulate yu penis te yu klos to orgasm. Dɔn, dɛn kin swɛt di ed pan yu penis, we na di tap pat pan yu penis, jisnɔ fɔ lɛk 30 sɛkɔn. Dis go bigin fɔ ridyus yu arousal ɛn ridyus di chans fɔ ejaculation. Dɛn kin ripit dis tɛknik bɔku tɛm fɔ mek yu ebul fɔ rich ɔrgazm. Praktis dis teknik te yu gɛt kɔntrol pan yu orgasm.
• Tin we yu de tink we nɔ de ambɔg yu maynd: Dis na we we difrɛn smɔl. Di aidia na fɔ mek yu pe atɛnshɔn to sɔntin we rili difrɛn, we nɔto fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Fɔ gi tin dɛn nem di rayt we na fayn we fɔ pe atɛnshɔn. Fɔ ɛgzampul, we yu go na di jim, imajin di nem dɛn fɔ ɛni shɔp we yu si na strit, ɔ yu maynd gi nem to ɛni pleya na di kriket tim we yu lɛk. We yu du sɔntin lɛk dis, dat go ɛp yu fɔ ridyus di we aw yu de tink bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.

Fɔ advays pɔsin

If yu ejaculation bifo tɛm na bikɔs ɔf wan mental, emotional, ɔ rileshɔnship prɔblɛm – lɛk fɔ wɔri bɔt aw yu de du yu wok, pwɛl hat, strɛs, gilti, ɔr yu patna gɛt prɔblɛm wit yu patna – i go fayn fɔ mek yu aks fɔ ɛp frɔm sayɛnsman, saykayatrist, ɔ sɛks thɛrapist . Yu urologist kin rifer yu to dɛn profeshɔnal ya. Sɔntɛnde, i kin fayn fɔ go advays togɛda.

Mɛrɛsin dɛn we dɛn kin yuz

Yu dɔktɔ kin tɛl yu fɔ tek sɔm mɛrɛsin dɛn fɔ ɛp yu fɔ pul wata kwik kwik wan.

• Antidipreshɔn: Pan ɔl we dɛn tin ya na rili mɛrɛsin fɔ pwɛl hat, dɛn kin mek bak di uman we de kɔmɔt na di bɔdi de te. So, na fכs layn tritmεnt fכ ejakulεshכn bifo tεm. Bɔt dis na “ɔf-lɛbul” yus (we min se di Food and Drug Administration nɔ gri fɔ am spɛshal wan fɔ dis). Tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt di sayd ɛfɛkt dɛm fɔ dɛn mɛrɛsin ya ɛn mek shɔ se dɛn rayt fɔ yu. fכ egzampl, trisayklik antidipreshכn lεk klomipramin (Anafranil®) εn sεlektiv sεrotonin riuptek inhibito (SSRI) lεk citalopram (Celexa ® ) , εscitalopram (Lexapro ® ) , fluoxetine (Prozac ® ) , paroxetine (Paxil ® ) , εn sertraline (Zoloft ® ) .
• Anestetik krim ɛn sprɛy: Dɛn kin put dɛn tin ya na di ed ɛn shaft na yu penis. Dis na ɔda fɔs layn mɛrɛsin we kin ɛp fɔ delay fɔ pul di uman in bɛlɛ. Yu penis de absɔb di krim ɔ sprɛy fɔ 10 to 30 minit. dis de ridyus di sεnsitiviti fכ di penis. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ was yu penis fayn fayn wan bifo yu du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. If nɔto dat, yu patna in bɔdi kin swɛt.
• Mεdikeshכn dεm fכ εrektil disfכnkshכn: Dεn mεdikeshכn dεm ya na sildenafil (Viagra ® ), tadalafil (Cialis ® ), vardenafil (Levitra ® ), εn avanafil (Stendra ® ). Dɛn tin ya kin ɛp fɔ trit di prɛmature ejaculation in man dɛn we gɛt ɔndalayn erectile dysfunction.
• Sɔntɛnde, yu dɔktɔ kin gi yu bak wan mɛrɛsin fɔ mɛn yu pen we dɛn kɔl `tramadol`.

Sɔm pipul dɛn kin yuz ɔda tritmɛnt dɛn fɔ trit pɔsin we kin bɔn bifo tɛm, bɔt nɔto inɔf sayɛns pruf de fɔ pruv se dɛn kin rili wok.

Yu tink se mɛrɛsin de fɔ dis sote go?

Bɔrku pipul kin fil fayn wit wan ɔr mɔr pan de tritmɛnt wae wi bin dɔn tɔk bɔt. Di bihayvya tɛrapi ɛn difrɛn we dɛn fɔ delay fɔ pul di uman we de kɔmɔt na di uman in bɛlɛ na dɛn kin ɛp pas ɔl. Bifo yu gɛt kɔmplit "cure," i bɛtɛ fɔ tink bɔt dis as kɔndishɔn we pɔsin kin ebul fɔ manej.

Yu tink se if yu nɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs bɔku tɛm, dat go ɛp?

Nɔ, infakt, i de mek di prɔblɛm wɔs. Na bikɔs i de mek yu fil mɔ bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. So, i bɛtɛ fɔ fes di prɔblɛm pas fɔ rɔnawe pan am.

A go ebul fɔ mek dis nɔ apin?

Yɛs, i pɔsibul! I kin dipen pan wetin de mek yu gɛt am, yu kin du tin fɔ mek i nɔ gɛt am. Di bɛst tin fɔ du na fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ opin wan bɔt aw yu de fil ɛn di prɔblɛm we yu de gɛt. Dɔn i kin ɛp yu fɔ no di tin we mek yu gɛt dis sik ɛn tɛl yu aw fɔ trit yu ɛn aw fɔ mek yu nɔ gɛt dis sik.

Yu tink se we yu bɔn pikin bifo tɛm, i kin ambɔg yu? Ɔ na sayn fɔ ɔda sik?

If yu bɔn pikin bifo tɛm nɔto di wangren tin we kin mek yu gɛt siriɔs prɔblɛm wit yu bɔdi. Bɔt sɔm ɔda wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm dɛn kin mek pɔsin gɛt dis sik. Dɛn kayn wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm dɛn ya na:

• Erectile dysfunction we nɔ de wok fayn
• Chronic pelvic pain syndrome (di pen fɔ lɔng tɛm na di pelvik eria ɛn prɔblɛm wit yu urinary) .
• Tayrɔyd disɔda dɛn
• Dizayd fɔ yuz sɔbstans

Yu tink se fɔ yuz kɔndɔm go ɛp fɔ du dis?

Yɛs, na fɔ tru. If yu yuz kɔndɔm, i go mek yu penis nɔ fil fayn smɔl. So i kin ɛp fɔ delay di ejakuleshɔn. Yu kin tray bak fɔ tray tik kɔndɔm ɔ spɛshal kɔndɔm dɛn we dɛn mek fɔ delay fɔ pul di uman we de kɔmɔt (delay kɔndɔm).

Wetin na di difrɛns bitwin erectile dysfunction ɛn prɛmature ejaculation?

Nɔ kɔnfyus di tu.

• If yu gɛt erectile dysfunction , yu nɔ go ebul fɔ gɛt ɔ kip erection.
• If yu gɛt di prɔblɛm fɔ bɔn pikin bifo tɛm , yu penis kin tinap, bɔt yu kin rich ɔrgazm ɛn ejakul bifo yu ɔ yu patna ɛkspɛkt.

Bɔt we pɔsin nɔ ebul fɔ si di uman in bɛlɛ kin mek bak di uman we de kɔmɔt na di uman in bɛlɛ bifo tɛm. Na so i de wok: Yu no se yu de gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ kip yu penis stret. So, yu nɔ no se yu de tray fɔ ejakul kwik bifo yu lɔs yu erection. Bikɔs ɔf dis kɔnekshɔn bitwin di tu kɔndishɔn, yu urologist go fɔs chɛk fɔ si if yu gɛt erectile dysfunction. If na so i bi, i go trit am fɔs.

Fɔ dɔn, na sɔm tin dɛn we wi fɔ mɛmba

So, fɔ bɔn pikin bifo tɛm na wan sik we kin afɛkt bɔku man dɛn, bɔt dɛn kin kɔntrol am wit di rayt tritmɛnt ɛn advays. No nid fɔ shem ɔ fil bad bɔt dat. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat yu nɔ nid fɔ fes am yu wan.

• Dis na tin we kin apin ɔltɛm.Ɔndastand se nɔto yu wangren gɛt dis prɔblɛm.
• Tɔk opin wan bɔt dis wit yu patna. Bikɔs dis kin afɛkt una ɔl tu, i rili impɔtant fɔ fɛn sɔlv togɛda. Di sɔpɔt we i go gi yu go bi big trɛnk fɔ yu.
• Si spɛshal dɔktɔ (Urologist) fɔ fɛn di rayt kɔz ɛn gɛt di rayt tritmɛnt. No biliv evritin we yu fain fo intanet.
• Difrɛn tritmɛnt dɛn de we yu kin pik, lɛk fɔ gi yu bihayvya, fɔ advays yu, ɛn if nid de, yu fɔ tek mɛrɛsin. Tɔk to yu dɔktɔ fɔ disayd wetin bɛtɛ fɔ yu.
• Tek yu at. If yu ɛp yu fɔ du di rayt tin, yu go mɔs ebul fɔ win dis tin ɛn liv gladi at ɛn gladi at fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.

Mɛmba se yu ɛn yu patna in gladi at de pan denja. So i bɛtɛ fɔ mek una ɔl tu kam togɛda, ɔndastand unasɛf, ɛn fɛn we fɔ sɔlv di prɔblɛm.