Fɔ mek yu drim fɔ bi mama ɔ papa bi rial tin sɔntɛnde nɔ kin izi lɛk aw yu tink. Afta we a dɔn wet fɔ lɔng lɔng tɛm fɔ pikin, sɔfa bɔku, ɛn leta a dɔn aks fɔ ɛp frɔm wan teknɔlɔji lɛk IVF ( In Vitro Fertilization ), bɔku tin dɛn kin kam na wi maynd. Na di men tin we bɔku pipul kin tink bɔt na, "If wi bin fɔ dɔn dɔn dis joyn insay wan tɛm...". Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, di filin fɔ aw i go fayn fɔ gɛt twins pan di sem kɔst ɛn wit di sem tray.
Wetin mek bɔku pipul dɛn lɛk twins so?
Di men rizin fɔ dis na di bɔku kɔst fɔ IVF tritmɛnt. Wi ɔl no se ivin na Sri Lanka, wan IVF saykl kin tek bɔku bɔku mɔni. Sɔntɛnde, di tritmɛnt nɔ kin wok fayn ivin di fɔs tɛm. So, if dis tritmɛnt, we dɛn kin du afta dɛn dɔn spɛn ɔl di mɔni na dɛn an, kin kɔmplit di famili wan tɛm, dat min se if dɛn bɔn tu pikin dɛn, i fayn fɔ si am as big bɛnifit.
"I bin rili dia. Wi bin no se dis na di onli and las taim we wi fit du am. So hau gud i go bi if wi get twins? Bikos if wi get wan pikin or tu, di kos go bi di sem. So wi tink to komplit di famili wan taim." - Dis na di opinion fɔ wan mama we bin gɛt twin gyal pikin dɛn tru IVF tritmɛnt.
Apat frɔm di kɔst, ɔda rizin dɛn de .
- Di res agens tɛm: Taym valyu, mɔ fɔ uman dɛn we dɔn pas 35. We yu tink se yu nɔ go gɛt bɛtɛ tɛm fɔ tray fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ bak ɛn bigin ɔda saykl fɔ tritmɛnt, i nɔ go wɔnda yu kin tɛmpt fɔ bɔn tu pikin dɛn insay wan bɛlɛ.
- Stret na yu maynd: Di strɛs, sɔri-at, ɛn taya we yu kin gɛt we yu nɔ gɛt pikin fɔ lɔng tɛm, kin rili bad. So i kin fil fayn fɔ ebul fɔ pul ɔl dis wan tɛm.
- Di aidia se " twins are so cute": Sɔm pipul lɛk twins bikɔs dɛn tink se dɛn so "cute". Dɔn bak, sɔm pipul dɛn kin si am se i izi fɔ mek dɛn ebul fɔ dɔn di wok wit wan bɛlɛ ɛn wan bɔn pikin.
Bɔt wetin mek dɔktɔ dɛn nɔ lɛk dis? - Mek wi ɔndastand di risk
If yu tɔk to yu dɔktɔ ɛn se, "A want twins," i go mɔs tray fɔ tɔk to yu fɔ kɔmɔt pan am. Di rizin na dat, we wi de tɔk bɔt mɛrɛsin , twin bɛlɛ kin rili risk fɔ mama ɛn pikin pas fɔ kɛr wan pikin .
"Bɔku pasɛnt dɛn kin jɔs tink bɔt fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ ɛni we we dɛn ebul. Dɛn kin tink bak bɔt di prɔblɛm we twin pikin dɛn kin gɛt. Sɔntɛnde dɛn nɔ kin no aw bad di 'bad autkam' kin bi," na so wan spɛshal pɔsin se.
Lɛ wi ɔndastand dɛn risk ya klia wan frɔm di tebul we de dɔŋ ya.
| Udat dɛn de pan denja? | Wetin kin apin? |
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| Fɔ di pikin dɛn we de wet fɔ bɔn |
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| Risk to di mama |
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Dɛn tin ya kin mek pɔsin fred fɔ yɛri. Bɔt dis nɔ min se ɔlman we gɛt twins go gɛt dɛn prɔblɛm ya. Bɔku pan di twins dɛn kin bɔn wit wɛlbɔdi ɛn wɛl. Bɔt i impɔtant fɔ mɛmba se di prɔblɛm kin rili bɔku pas we pɔsin gɛt wan pikin .
Lɛ wi lan frɔm ɛkspiriɛns.
Wan mama we nem Amanda we bin gɛt twin pikin dɛn tru IVF, bin gɛt fɔ bɔn pikin bifo tɛm we i ol 20 wiks ɛn i bin gɛt fɔ rɛst na bed fɔ 11 wiks. We di ɛnd, dɛn bɔn in twins dɛn 8 wiks bifo tɛm.
I se sɔntin lɛk dis: "Go si aw i tan lɛk fɔ bɔn pikin bifo tɛm. Disid if na risk yu kin tek. Bikɔs na bɔku at at. Mi pikin dɛn dɔn ol 9 mɔnt naw, ɛn dɛn de du wɛl, bɔt a de wɔri bɔt dɛn ɔltɛm. A kin wɔri ɔltɛm bɔt ɛni lɔng tɛm kɔmplikeshɔn."
IVF kin dia, bɔt if dɛn bɔn pikin dɛn we dɛn bɔn bifo tɛm, di kɔst fɔ kip dɛn na ɔspitul fɔ lɔng tɛm - nɔto jɔs pan mɔni biznɛs, bɔt bak pan filin - kin bɔku pasmak.
We pɔsin no bɔt sɔntin, dat kin chenj di we aw pipul dɛn de tink.
Di bɛst pat na dat we dɛn ɛksplen dɛn bad tin ya klia wan, bɔku pipul dɛn we bin tink fɔs se dɛn want twins kin chenj dɛn maynd. Wan stɔdi ivin sho se afta dɛn dɔn tɔk to dɛn dɔktɔ bɔt di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin we twin pikin dɛn gɛt bɛlɛ, di pasɛnt we mama ɛn papa dɛn we want twin pikin kin go dɔŋ lɛk af.
di rizin fכ dis na biכs afta di ia dεm we i de sכfa wit infεtiliti, di fכkus de כnli pan di gol fכ "gεt bεlε" bay eni we we nid de. Bɔt di big pikchɔ bɔt bɛlɛ, bɔn pikin, ɛn mɛn pikin dɛn we kin kam afta dat, dɛn nɔ kin si am da tɛm de.
Fɔ kia fɔ twin pikin dɛn we gɛt wɛlbɔdi nɔ kin izi!
Imajin se yu gɛt twin pikin dɛn we gɛt wɛlbɔdi, we dɛn bɔn di rayt tɛm, we nɔ gɛt ɛni prɔblɛm. Dat na big tin. Bɔt fɔ kia fɔ dɛn nɔ kin izi.
Wan spɛshal dɔktɔ we na di papa bak fɔ twin pikin dɛn we gɛt wɛlbɔdi, se: "I at pas aw pipul dɛn kin tink. Di rial wok kin bigin we dɛn bɔn di pikin dɛn. Natin nɔ de we kin mek yu satisfay pas fɔ kam na os we di de dɔn ɛn mek dɛn ɔl tu jomp ɛn ɔg yu. Ɛn natin nɔ de we kin mek yu at pwɛl pas fɔ mek tu pipul dɛn kray togɛda na stiriɔ."
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Di men ɛn di bɛst tin we kin apin we pɔsin gɛt IVF tritmɛnt na fɔ gɛt wan pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi . Nɔto di nɔmba impɔtant, bɔt na di pikin ɛn di mama in wɛlbɔdi.
- If yu de tink bɔt fɔ gɛt twins, tɔk opin ɛn ɔnɛs bɔt ɔl di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin to yu dɔktɔ.
- Nɔ mek disizhɔn we go put di mama ɛn di pikin we nɔ bɔn yet in layf pan denja bay we yu de tink bɔt di kɔst fɔ tritmɛnt. Di kɔst ɛn strɛs fɔ trit pikin we dɛn bɔn bifo tɛm kin bɔku pasmak.
- yu dכkta go disayd כl di εmbriyo dεm fכ transfa bay yu ej, hεlth, εn di kwaliti כf di εmbrayo dεm. Trɔst da prɔfɛshɔnal advays de.
- Di men gol fɔ bi fɔ go na os gladi wit pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi. Dat impɔtant pas if yu gɛt wan ɔ tu pikin dɛn.
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