Aw fɔ tɔk to yu pikin bɔt rɔm? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis impɔtant tɔpik!

Dis tɛm ya, wi smɔl pikin dɛn, mɔ we dɛn de go skul, dat na we dɛn de na sɛkɔndari skul, sɔntɛnde dɛn kin want fɔ drink rɔm bikɔs dɛn padi dɛn kin afɛkt dɛn ɔ bikɔs dɛn want fɔ no mɔ. Infakt, wi de si pipul dɛn de yuz dɛn tin ya ivin we dɛn ol di lɔ se dɛn nɔ fɔ du dɛn tin ya. Bɔt mama ɛn papa dɛn, una gɛt bɔku pawa fɔ mek una pikin nɔ du dɛn kayn tin dɛn de. So, i rili impɔtant fɔ tɔk to yu pikin dɛn bɔt dis rɔm frɔm we dɛn yɔŋ, as dɛn de gro smɔl smɔl.

Aw yu kin ɛksplen dis to di smɔl pikin dɛn? (Arawnd 3-5 ia ol)

I rili at fɔ mek pikin dɛn we ol dis ej ɔndastand bɔku tin bɔt rɔm, nɔto so? Dɛn want simpul tin dɛn. Bɔt yu kin sɛt gud ɛgzampul . Yu pikin go lan bɔku tin frɔm di we aw yu de yuz rɔm fayn fayn wan (ɔ nɔ de yuz am atɔl), de du tin, ɛn it tin dɛn we go mek yu gɛt wɛlbɔdi. Imajin if yu pikin aks yu kwɛstyɔn bɔt rɔm? Dɔn ansa am simpul ɛn tru . Yu nɔ nid fɔ go insay big big tin, jɔs tɔk am di we we dɛn go ɔndastand. Fɔ ɛgzampul, yu kin se sɔntin simpul lɛk, "Dɛn nɔ fayn fɔ smɔl pikin, bɔy pikin/grɔn, dɛn kin at yu bɛlɛ."

Wi go tɔk to pikin dɛn we ol bitwin 4 ɛn 7 ia?

Di bɛst we fɔ tɔk to pikin dɛn we ol dis ej na fɔ briŋ di tɔpik we i kam ɔp bay insɛf . Fɔ ɛgzampul, imajin se yu de wach TV. Wan kɔmɛnt bɔt rɔm kin kam. Na da tɛm de, yu kin aks yu pikin se, "Pikin/ gyal pikin, yu no wetin kin apin to yu bɔdi we yu drink dis drink?" Kip di infɔmeshɔn rili simpul . Yu kin tɔk tin dɛn lɛk:

• "We yu drink dis, yu bodi and maind de wok sloslo."
• "I kin at fɔ tink klia wan, ɛn yu kin ivin lɔs kɔntrol we yu de waka."
• "I kin bi at fɔ si tin dɛn kɔrɛkt wan lɛk aw di wata dip ɔ aw motoka de kam nia di rod."
• "Apat frɔm dat, yu mɔt de stink!"

Sɔntɛnde yu pikin kin aks se, "Wetin mek i fayn fɔ mek mama/papa drink ɛn nɔto fɔ mi?" Dɔn ɛksplen se: "Smɔl pikin dɛn bɔdi stil de divɛlɔp. Jɔs lɛk smɔl plant. If yu drink dɛn tin ya, i kin pwɛl dɛn bɔdi ɛn bren we de divɛlɔp. Chans de fɔ mek dɛn adikshɔn to dɛn tin ya we dɛn big. Na dat mek dɛn tin ya nɔ fayn fɔ smɔl pikin dɛn."

Lɛ wi tɛl smɔl mɔ bɔt pikin dɛn we ol bitwin 8 ɛn 11 ia.

Pikin dɛn we ol dis ej kin ɔndastand di bad tin dɛn we rɔm kin du, dat na di damej we i kin du to dɛn bɔdi ɛn maynd, smɔl smɔl. Dɛn dɔn ol smɔl naw, ɛn dɛn dɔn bigin fɔ tink bɔt tin dɛn di rayt we.

Yu kin tɔk bɔt di tin dɛn we rɔm kin du fɔ shɔt tɛm . Dɛn tin ya na:

• Tin dɛm we yu de si, tin dɛm we yu de yɛri, ɛn yu bɔdi in balans (kɔdineshɔn) kin kɔnfyus. Yu nɔ ebul fɔ si ɔ yɛri fayn, yu nɔ ebul fɔ waka fayn, ɛn yu kin ivin fɔdɔm.
• Di filin ɛn filin kin chenj wantɛm wantɛm. Yu kin fil bad we yu nɔ fil bad, yu kin vɛks we yu nɔ fil bad, ɔ yu kin gladi pasmak.
• Di ebul fɔ pik wetin rayt frɔm wetin rɔŋ, dat na di ebul fɔ jɔj (impaired judgment), dɔn lɔs. Dis kin mek pɔsin gɛt aksidɛnt, drawn, ɔda tin dɛn we kin mek pɔsin gɛt prɔblɛm , ɛn fɛt-fɛt.
• Bad breath we pɔsin kin blo.
• Di nɛks de, yu kin gɛt tin dɛn lɛk we yu ed kin at bad bad wan, yu kin fil se yu wik, ɛn yu kin fil lɛk fɔ vɔmit, we dɛn kɔl hangover .

Dɔn bak, tɔk bɔt di bad tin dɛn we kin apin we pɔsin drink rɔm fɔ lɔng tɛm . Dis na di bad tin dɛn we kin apin to pɔsin we rili denja:

• Di liva, we na wan pan di impɔtant pat dɛn na wi bɔdi, kin pwɛl bad bad wan.
• Yu nɔ kin want fɔ it ɛn yu bɔdi nɔ kin dayjɛst it fayn.
• Bɔku tɛm a kin gɛt prɔblɛm wit mi bɛlɛ, sɔntɛnde a kin gɛt gastritis.
• Bɔrku risk de fɔ pwɛl hat ɛn bren, wae kin mek pɔrsin gɛt tin dɛm lɛk at sik ɛn strok.
• As tɛm de go, smɔl smɔl i nɔ de mɛmba tin, ɛn i nɔ kin izi fɔ lan nyu tin dɛn.

Bɔku tɛm pikin dɛn we ol dis ej kin want fɔ de wit dɛn padi dɛn ɛn du di sem tin dɛn we dɛn kin du . Dat na nɔmal tin. Bɔt, tich yu pikin se i impɔtant fɔ tink fɔ insɛf ɛn disayd fɔ insɛf. Ɛnkɔrej dɛn bay we yu de tɔk tin lɛk, "Yu nɔ nid fɔ du sɔntin jɔs bikɔs ɔlman de du am, bɔy pikin/ gyal pikin. Yu fɔ gɛt di trɛnk fɔ pik wetin fil fayn fɔ yu ɛn wetin gud fɔ yu bɔdi."

Wetin wi kin tɛl wi smɔl pikin dɛn we ol bitwin 12 ɛn 17 ia?

Dis na di tɛm fɔ bi gud lisin . Kip di domɔt opin fɔ tɔk to yu pikin. Kɔntinyu fɔ bi gud ɛgzampul . Pan ɔl we i kin tan lɛk se dɛn nɔ de lisin to wetin yu de tɔk, stɔdi dɔn sho se di ɛgzampul we mama ɛn papa dɛn kin du ɛn di we aw dɛn kin tɔk to dɛnsɛf kin rili afɛkt di we aw yɔŋ pikin dɛn de biev.

Tɔk to dɛn bɔt di gud rizin dɛn we mek wi nɔ fɔ drink rɔm. Na sɔm rizin dɛn we sayɛns dɔn pruv:

• If yu yus fɔ drink rɔm we yu yɔŋ, yu go gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit rɔm we yu dɔn big. Dat min se yu kin gɛt adikshɔn to rɔm.
• Yɔŋ pipul dɛn we de drink rɔm kin bigin fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs kwik kwik wan ɛn du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we nɔ gɛt protɛkshɔn , we kin mek dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn lɛk sik dɛn we dɛn kin gɛt we dɛn de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ we dɛn nɔ plan.
• Yɔŋ pikin dɛn we de drink rɔm kin gɛt prɔblɛm wit di wok we dɛn de du na skul . Dɛn kin gɛt prɔblɛm wit dɛn maynd, dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ pe atɛnshɔn, ɛn dɛn nɔ kin lɛk fɔ lan.
• Rɔm kin mek pɔsin nɔ ebul fɔ ple atletik . I kin mek i nɔ gɛt trɛnk, i kin spid, ɛn i nɔ kin balans igen.
• I nɔ rayt fɔ ɛnibɔdi we nɔ rich 21 ia fɔ drink rɔm. Ɛnibɔdi we dɛn kech, dɛn go gɛt pɔnishmɛnt.
• Rɔm kin mek di bren chenj fɔ lɔng tɛm . Ɛspɛshali we i yɔŋ, we di bren stil de gro, rɔm kin ambɔg da divɛlɔpmɛnt de.

Lekchɔ ɛn yuz taktik fɔ mek pipul dɛn fred bɔt rɔm kin mek yɔŋ pipul dɛn lɛf yu. So nɔ du dat.

Bɔt mek am klia se yu nɔ want dɛn fɔ yuz rɔm atɔl . If ɛnibɔdi na yu famili dɔn gɛt prɔblɛm wit rɔm, dat na if `famili istri de bɔt rɔm prɔblɛm`, tɛl yu pikin bɔt am bak. Dis kin mek dɛnsɛf gɛt prɔblɛm wit rɔm.

Yɔŋ pikin dɛn want mek dɛn kɔmpin dɛn gri wit dɛn ɛn lɛk dɛn. Wi kin ɔndastand dis. So, tɔk to dɛn bɔt aw fɔ biev pan difrɛn tin dɛn ɛn rɛdi dɛn fɔ dɛn. Fɔ ɛgzampul:

• "Imajin se yu de fo pati and yu padi de trai to mek yu drink alkol. Wetin yu se? Yu fit se, 'A no wan, a no de drink dis.' Ɔ yu kin se, 'Nɔ, man, a fɔ go wok ali di nɛks mɔnin.'"
• "Wetin yu de du if di padi we go tek yu go haus don drunk? Neva enta moto wit pesin we drunk. Da taim de, yu fit kol mi, and a go kom pik yu."

Tɔk bɔt dɛn tin ya togɛda. Tɛl yu pikin se yu kin kɔl ɔ teks am ɛnitɛm, yu go kam tek am, ɛn yu nɔ go gi am lɛkchɔ ɔ pɔnish am . Fɔ bil dis trɔst rili impɔtant.

Wetin bak wi go du as mama ɛn papa?

Mama ɛn papa dɛnsɛf na fayn ɛgzampul fɔ yɔŋ pikin dɛn. So, bi gud ɛgzampul bay we yu de yuz rɔm di rayt we (ɔ nɔ yuz am atɔl), nɔ yuz rɔm as sɔlv fɔ strɛs, ɛn nɔ ɛva drink ɛn drayv. We yu de tɔk ɔnɛs wit yu pikin dɛn ɔltɛm, dat go ɛp dɛn fɔ disayd fɔ du gud tin.

Na di sem tɛm, as mama ɛn papa , una nid fɔ wach ɛn sɛt lɔ dɛn . If yu pikin tray fɔ drink rɔm, aks am fɔ tɔk tru to yu bɔt am. If yu tink se yu pikin de drink rɔm ɛn nɔ de tɛl yu, nɔ ignore am. If yu tink se di prɔblɛm siriɔs, yu pikin in dɔktɔ go ɛp yu.

Na sɔm ɔda tin dɛn we yu kin du:

• No gud gud wan usay yu pikin dɛn de ɛn udat dɛn de wit .
• Gɛt we fɔ kɔntakt yu pikin. Dɛn fɔ gɛt dɛn fon wit dɛn, ɛn dɛn fɔ on am. Dɔn bak, kip dɛn padi dɛn nɔmba ɔ di nɔmba fɔ di os we dɛn de go wit yu.
• No yu pikin dɛn padi dɛn mama ɛn papa ɛn fɛn we fɔ kɔnɛkt wit dɛn. We yu wok togɛda wit ɔda mama ɛn papa dɛn, dat kin mek i izi fɔ protɛkt yu pikin dɛn.
• Yu tink bɔt rɔm, wetin yu valyu (valyu) wit big pikin ɛn smɔl pikin dɛnTɔk bɔt am. Mek am klia se yu nɔ want yu pikin fɔ yuz rɔm.
• Tɛl yu pikin dɛn aw ɔltɛm dɛn nid fɔ notis, dat na fɔ ``chɛk in'', we dɛn nɔ de na os.
• If yu smɔl pikin de drayv, mek am klia se i nɔ ɛva fayn fɔ drink ɛni kayn rɔm ɛn drayv . Yu kin mek "kɔntrakt" bak we una ɔl tu sayn, we se nɔbɔdi nɔ go drink ɛn drayv. Mek am klia se if yu brok da kɔntrakt de, yu pikin go lɔs di rayt we i gɛt fɔ drayv.

Fɔ dɔn, na sɔm tin dɛn we wi fɔ mɛmba

Okay, so a op se yu dɔn ɔndastand sɔm impɔtant pɔynt dɛn frɔm wetin wi dɔn tɔk bɔt. Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, if wi want fɔ sev wi pikin dɛn frɔm di denja dɛn we rɔm kin gɛt, wi nid fɔ tɔk to dɛn opin wan ɛn ɔnɛs wan .

I bɛtɛ fɔ mek yu bigin da tɔk de we yu yɔŋ.

As yu pikin de gro, ɛksplen tin dɛn di we we fit in ej. I impɔtant bak fɔ bi gud ɛgzampul ɛn fɔ tɛl dɛn wetin yu tink to dɛn wit lɔv, ɔndastandin, bɔt strɔng . Mɛmba se yu na yu pikin in trɛnk pas ɔlman! Yu kin gayd dɛn fɔ go na di rayt say.

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