Wan pan de big prɔblɛm fɔ pɔrsin wae de kia fɔ pikin ɔr big pɔsin wae gɛt ɔtizm na fɔ nɔr ɔndastand aw dɛn kin rili ɛkspiriɛns di wɔl. Ɔtizm na wan sik wae kin lɛf de pɔrsin in wan. I kin rili at bak fɔ mek pɔsin we kɔmɔt na do ɔndastand dɛn sik ya . Na dat mek tide wi go tɔk bɔt dis rili simpul wan, lɛk se wi na yu yon padi.
Tu men tin dɛm fɔ ɔndastand ɔtizm
Akɔdin to masta sabi pipul dɛm, di fɔs tin fɔ ɔndastand ɔtizm na fɔ aksept se dis sik kin chenj di we aw pɔrsin de si di wɔl kpatakpata, dat na di we aw i de si di wɔl.
Tink bɔt am dis we. I tan lɛk se pɔrsin wae gɛt ɔtizm gɛt imbalans na in sɛns sistɛm. I tan lɛk se sɔm pan dɛn sɛns dɛn dɔn tɔn ɔp tumɔs ɛn sɔm dɔn tɔn dɔŋ tumɔs . Dis kin mek di tin dɛn we kin kam na dɛn bren kin chenj bɔku tɛm. So, e kin tranga fɔ mek dɛn ɔndastand dɛn envayrɔmɛnt kɔrɛkt wan.
Fɔ wi we nɔ gɛt ɔtistik, dat na, di wan dɛn we gɛt "nɔmal nervous system" ( neurotypical ), wi gɛt innate abiliti fɔ filta tin dɛn we nɔ impɔtant na wi envayrɔmɛnt ɛn pik ɔl wetin impɔtant. Ɔl wi sɛns dɛn de wok togɛda fɔ ɛp wi fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan wetin rili impɔtant.
Imajin se yu waka insay wan rum we ful-ɔp wit pipul dɛn. Yu notis wantɛm wantɛm udat de de, wetin dɛn de du, ɛn aw yu gɛt sɔntin fɔ du wit am. Na jɔs sɔntin we kin apin to wi.
Bɔt if pɔsin we gɛt ɔtizm waka insay da rum de, dɛn kin pe atɛnshɔn pan wan sawnd we de na do na di winda, wan pɔtn na di kap, ɔ wan layt bɔl we de ɔn ɛn ɔf. Dɛn kin mis di tin dɛn we rili impɔtant da tɛm de, lɛk wetin pipul dɛn de tɔk ɛn aw dɛn de biev. So i tan lɛk se di wan ol wɔl rili kɔnfyus ɛn chaotic to dɛn.
De sɛkɔn tin na fɔ ɔndastand se pipul dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm de tray tranga wan fɔ mek sɛns to dis chaos , dis mɛs, ɛn fɔ mek sɛns to am. Bɔku pan di we aw dɛn de biev, we to wi na do, i tan lɛk se i strenj ɛn i nɔ izi fɔ ɔndastand, na fɔ rili tray fɔ tɔk to ɔ kɔntrol dis wɔl we gɛt chaos.
Wetin dɛn sayn ya rili min?
Wetin na sɔm pan de tin wae kin tranga fɔ pɔrsin wae de pan de ɔtistik spɛktrum fɔ du na layf? Mek wi tek wan luk pan dem. We yu ɔndastand di rizin dɛn we mek dɛn de biev, yu go ɔndastand dɛn mɔ.
| Karakta/Bihayvya | Wetin i kin min |
|---|---|
| Di we aw pɔsin kin fil bad fɔ di nɔys | Laud nɔys kin mek dɛn fil pen. Sɔntɛm dɛn nɔ go ebul fɔ tinap fɔ di sawnd we trafik de mek na rod ɔ di nɔys we di shɔp dɛn de mek. Sɔntɛnde lɛk dɛn tɛm ya, dɛn kin kɔba dɛn yes . Sɔm kin du tin dɛn lɛk fɔ rɔk ɔ fɔ flap dɛn an fɔ mek dɛn nɔ gɛt prɛshɔn. |
| Di we aw pɔsin kin fil pasmak we pɔsin tɔch am | Ivin tin dɛn we wi nɔ notis, lɛk we wi tɔch klos na wi bɔdi ɔ we briz de blo smɔl, nɔ kin fayn fɔ dɛn. Sɔm pikin dɛn kin fil lɛk se di ia dɛn we kin tɔch dɛn skin we dɛn kɔt dɛn ia de chuk dɛn wit nidul. |
| I nɔ izi fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛn | Fɔ tɔk delay na wan pan di fɔs sayn dɛn. Bɔt dat nɔ min se dɛn nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ sɛns. Dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ ɔndastand aw langwej de wok. Dɛn kin rili fil bad we dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ tɔk wetin dɛn want. Sɔm pipul dɛn nɔ kin ivin ebul fɔ no ɔ tɔk bɔt aw dɛn de fil. So we dɛn fil se dɛn strɛs, dɛn kin du tin dɛn we dɛn kin du ɔltɛm bifo dɛn tɔk bɔt am. |
| Prɔblɛm dɛn we de na sɔshal rilayshɔnship | Bɔrku pipul dɛn kin tink se pipul dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm na pipul dɛm wae lɛk fɔ de dɛn wan. Dat na bad tin. Dɛn rili want fɔ de wit pipul dɛn, bɔt dɛn nɔ no aw fɔ du am . Di lɔ dɛn we dɛn nɔ de tɔk bɔt na di sosayti na sikrit to dɛn. So, soshal rileshɔnship na sɔntin we kin mek dɛn wɔri bɔku. Sɔm pipul dɛn kin tɔk di tru pas aw dɛn fɔ tɔk. So, sɔntɛnde, i kin mek ɔda pipul dɛn fil bad. |
Di we aw dɛn de dil wit dis wɔl we nɔ gɛt wanwɔd
Pipul wae gɛt ɔtizm kin yuse sɔm kayn bihayvya fɔ briŋ ɔda tin to de chaos wae dɛn kin fil.
"Stimming" we yu de du.
Dis na "sεlf-stimulatory".Dis na shɔt fɔ "bihayvya s". Dis kin min tin dɛn lɛk fɔ flap an, fɔ ripit di sem wɔd dɛn, fɔ mek difrɛn nɔys dɛn, ɛn fɔ waka na sɛklɔ. Sɔntɛnde, yu kin ivin si tin dɛn we de mek yu wund yusɛf lɛk fɔ bang yu ed pan di wɔl.
Pan ɔl we dɛn tin ya kin tan lɛk se dɛn rili strenj to wi frɔm do, fɔ tru, dɛn nɔ rili difrɛn frɔm di abit dɛn lɛk fɔ bit nel ɔ fɔ tap yu leg. De intensiti fɔ dɛn bihayvya ya pan pipul dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm na jɔs pasmak. Bɔku pipul dɛn kin se dis "stimming" kin mek dɛn gladi. Fɔ sɔm, i kin ɛp dɛn fɔ kɔmɔt pan sɔntin we kin mek dɛn strɛs. I de ɛp dɛn bak fɔ pe atɛnshɔn.
Di nid fɔ kip ɔltin in ɔda (Compulsive organization) .
Pikin we gɛt ɔtizm kin kam bak na os frɔm skul ɛn insay 15 minit, ɔl in tɔy dainosaur dɛn kin layn na wan layn na in rum. Dis kin mek mama ɛn papa dɛn sɔprayz.
Wan yɔŋ man we gɛt ɔtizm se: “Wi lɛk ɔda tin dɛn.” "Sɔm pikin dɛn kin sɔt dɛn tɔys bay saiz. Sɔm bay kɔlɔ. Dɛn kin du am di sem we ɛvride."
Dis ɔda tin kin afɛkt bak di tɛm we dɛn kin du ɛvride. Dɛn dɔn yus fɔ du dɛn wok dɛn we dɛn kin du ɛvride pan di sem schedule . If i chenj ivin smɔl, dɛn kin vɛks bad bad wan ɛn fil bad. If wan buk we de na di shelf de ɔpsayd, dɛn kin fil lɛk se di wan ol buk shelf nɔ de wok fayn. Dis na di tray we dɛn de tray fɔ mek ɔda tin dɛn apin na wan wɔl we nɔ gɛt wanwɔd.
Di tin dɛn we pɔsin kin tink bɔt wit intɛlektual
Dis na kɔmɔn tin bak wae dɛn kin si pan ɔtizm. Dɛn kin gɛt wɔndaful, dip no bɔt wan tɔpik. I kin bi kriket pleya stats, katun karakta diskripshɔn, ɔ di kayn motoka dɛn.
Dis intres tan lɛk ankɔ fɔ dɛn. Dis no we dɛn no de ɛp dɛn fɔ mek dɛn nɔ lɔs na di wɔl we chaos. Ɛn, fɔ mek yu tek kia ɔf am, na di bɛst get fɔ go insay dɛn wɔl.
"If yu pikin kray fɔ di 'SpongeBob' katun, lan bɔt SpongeBob bak. Bikɔs na so yu kin tɔk to am," na so wan pɔsin we gɛt ɔtizm advays.
We yu pikin vɛks, fɔ tɔk bɔt tɔpik we i lɛk, dat kin ɛp fɔ mek i fil bad. Dat min se i impɔtant fɔ tray fɔ kɔnɛkt wit dɛn na dɛn yon lɛvul .
Wetin mama ɛn papa ɛn di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn kin du
Fɔ kia fɔ pɔrsin wae gɛt ɔtizm kin tranga, bɔt de gud nyus na dat wit de rayt tritmɛnt ɛn intavyu, yu kin mek big difrɛns.
De bes tin na, bɔrku tin de wae pipul dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm nɔr kin ɔndastand instinctively.Dɛn kin yuz dairekt instrɔkshɔn fɔ praktis. Dɛn kin tich dɛn tin dɛn we nɔmal pikin go jɔs lan, fɔ ɛgzampul, fɔ ɔndastand di we aw pipul dɛn de liv wit ɔda pipul dɛn ɛn fɔ rid di we aw dɛn de sho in fes, stɛp bay stɛp.
Difrɛn tritmɛnt dɛn de fɔ dis. Fɔ ɛgzampul, ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis), Floortime, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn Bɔt wan we nɔ fayn fɔ ɔlman. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ ɛn disayd us we go fayn fɔ yu pikin .
Di wok we yu de du as mama ɔ papa rili impɔtant. Di we aw yu de gi yu layf to Jiova ɛn di we aw yu de bia, de sho dɛn tumara bambay. Pan ɔl we yu de mek say we sef fɔ yu pikin na os, yu fɔ tray bak fɔ mek dɛn bɔda dɛn bɔku smɔl smɔl.
"As mama ɔ papa ɔ pɔsin we de kia fɔ yu, yu fɔs fɔ go insay di wɔl fɔ di pɔsin we gɛt ɔtizm. Na da tɛm de nɔmɔ yu go ebul fɔ pul dɛn kɔmɔt pan am."
So, insted fo fos dem fo "rial wold," trai fo si am fo dia perspektiv fos. Yu lɔv, peshɛnt, ɛn ɔndastandin na di bɛst mɛrɛsin we dɛn kin gɛt.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Ɔtizm nɔto sik, na difrɛn we fɔ si di wɔl. Dɛn sɛns de wok rili difrɛn frɔm wi yon.
- Dɛn bihayvya we tan lɛk se i strenj to wi (stimming, tray fɔ kip tin dɛn in ɔda) na rili we dɛn we dɛn kin yuz fɔ dil wit wan chaotic wɔl.
- Pipul wae gɛt ɔtizm want fɔ de wit ɔda pipul dɛm, bɔt dɛn nɔr no aw fɔ du am. Dɛn nid ɛp fɔ du dat.
- Di bɛst we fɔ go insay dɛn wɔl na fɔ intres pan di tin dɛn we dɛn intres pan.Kɔnekt wit dɛn tru dɛn tɔpik dɛn de.
- Mek shɔ se yu go to yu dɔktɔ ɔ dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn fɔ gɛt di tritmɛnt ɛn advays we fit yu pikin.
- As mama ɔ papa, yu peshɛnt, lɔv, ɛn ɔndastandin na di big trɛnk we pikin kin gɛt.
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