Udat na "Rainbow Baby"? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis tɔpik we rili impɔtant

I go mɔs bi se no pen nɔ de we pas fɔ lɔs pikin we yu bin dɔn op fɔ we yu gɛt bɛlɛ . Afta da dak, sɔri tɛm de, i nɔ kin izi fɔ tɔk bɔt di filin we yu kin fil we yu gɛt nyu pikin na yu layf wit op bak. Na kɔmpleks filin fɔ gladi, fred, sɔri, ɛn fɔ wet. Na dat mek pikin we dɛn bɔn afta dis kayn tranga ɛkspiriɛns, dɛn kin kɔl am wit lɔv "Rɛnbo Bebi."

Wetin mek dɛn kɔl dɛn bebi ya "Rainbow Babies"?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, dis na fayn fayn mɛtafɔ. Imajin, afta big big briz, ebi ebi ren, di skay klin ɛn wan fayn renbo apia, nɔto so? Na so i bi. dεn kכl dεn pikin ya "rεnbo bebi" biכs dεn de bכn layt, gladi, εn op to di mama εn papa in layf afta wan sad storm lεk we dεn bכn pikin, we dεn bכn day, כ we dεn gεt bεlε we dεn kכl εktopik כ molar.

Nɔto na wi kɔntri nɔmɔ, bɔt bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn ɔlsay na di wɔl de gɛt dis ɛkspiriɛns. Sɔv dɛn sho se lɛk wan pan ɛvri 4 bɛlɛ dɛn kin dɔn wit bɛlɛ. So if yu dɔn gɛt dis kayn ɛkspiriɛns, fɔs mɛmba se nɔto yu wangren de.

Sɔri-at ɛn nyu op fɔ bebi we dɔn lɔs

I nɔmal fɔ fil gladi fɔ gɛt nyu pikin, bɔt i sɔri bak fɔ di pikin we dɔn lɔs. Dat nɔto bad tin. Yu kin gɛt ɔl tu di filin dɛn di sem tɛm. Fɔ dil wit da sɔri-at de na impɔtant pat pan dis waka.

Bɔku tin dɛn de we go ɛp yu fɔ bia wit dis pwɛl at:

• Lɛf mɛmorial fɔ da pikin de : Sɔntɛm yu kin plant tik fɔ da pikin de. Ɔ yu kin du sɔntin we yu fɔ du, gi yu gift, ɛn tɛl yu tɛnki to da pikin de. Sɔm ɔspitul dɛn kin tek di pikin in an ɛn in fut prɛnt ɛn gi am to di mama ɛn papa. Sɔntin lɛk dat go bi big trɛnk fɔ yusɛf.
• Tɔk to pɔsin we yu biliv: Dis rili impɔtant. Tɔk opin wan wit yu man/wɛf bɔt aw yu de fil. Ɛnibɔdi kin fil bad difrɛn we, so i impɔtant fɔ lisin to dɛnsɛf. Dɔn bak, if yu gɛt padi ɔ fambul we dɔn go tru dis ɛkspiriɛns, we yu tɔk to dɛn, dat go rili ɛp yu.
• Go to pɔsin we sabi du in wok: Sɔntɛnde, i nɔ kin izi fɔ yu wan fɔ dil wit dɛn filin ya. Dɛn kayn tɛm dɛn de, i go fayn fɔ mek yu go to pɔsin we de advays yu fɔ ɛp yu. I kin rili ɛp yu fɔ gɛt wɛlbɔdi.

Wen yu de expekt renbo bebi...

Fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ bak na miks pan di filin dɛn. Na wan say, i kin mek pɔsin gladi pasmak, na di ɔda say, i kin mek pɔsin fred pasmak. Na nɔmal tin fɔ gɛt nagging fred fɔ "I go apin bak?" Ɛn i kin bi bak fɔ fil gilti, "I rayt fɔ mek a gladi lɛk dis?" Ɔndastand se ɔl dɛn filin ya na nɔmal tin.

Insay dis tɛm, di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ kia fɔ yusɛf ɛn yu nyu pikin gud gud wan.

Tek kia ɔf yu bɔdi wɛlbɔdi.

• Vitamin ɛn Nutrishɔn: Tek di vaytamɛn dɛn we yu dɔktɔ tɛl yu fɔ tek, mɔ di fɔlik asid. fכlik asid implεnt fכ di pikin in sεl dεm we de gro. Fɔ it tin dɛn we gɛt balans bak rili impɔtant.
• Chek-ap ɔltɛm : Kɔntinyu fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ ɔltɛm. Go na di klinik dɛn di de dɛn we dɛn dɔn sɛtul. We yu gɛt di skan ɛn yɛri di pikin in at bit, yu go de fred smɔl smɔl.
• Mek yu gɛt wɛl bɔdi wet: Tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt aw fɔ mek yu gɛt wɛl bɔdi we yu gɛt bɛlɛ. We yu de du layt ɛksesaiz, lɛk fɔ waka, i fayn fɔ yu bɔdi ɛn yu maynd.
• Nɔ smok ɛn tek drɔgs ɔltogɛda: Dɛn tin ya kin rili ambɔg di pikin. If yu nid ɛp fɔ lɛf dɛn abit ya, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ opin wan bɔt am.

Aw fɔ kɔntrol di wɔri we yu gɛt we yu gɛt bɛlɛ?

Mama dɛm we bin dɔn gɛt bɛlɛ bifo dis tɛm kin gɛt smɔl prɔblɛm wit pwɛl hat ɛn wɔri afta dɛn bɔn, so i impɔtant fɔ tek spɛshal kia ɔf yu maynd wɛlbɔdi insay dis tɛm.

• Ɔndastand se dis bɛlɛ difrɛn: Nɔ tink se wetin apin las tɛm go apin dis tɛm. Ɛvri bɛlɛ difrɛn, na nyu waka.
• Ridyus strɛs: Put bɔku tin dɛn na yu layf we de mek yu fil strɛs. Si if yu go ebul fɔ ridyus di wok we yu de du na wokples.
• Praktis fɔ tink gud wan: Jɔs spɛn sɔm minit ɛvride fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan wan tin ɛn blo dip, dat kin rili ridyus yu fred ɛn strɛs.
• Praktis fɔ tɛl tɛnki: Tink bɔt di gud tin dɛn we de na yu layf. Yu go fil gladi ɛn fil fri we yu tink bɔt dis nyu op, bɔt di pipul dɛn we lɛk yu, ɛn bɔt di tin dɛn we yu gɛt.

We yu de tɛl ɔda pipul dɛn bɔt di nyu pikin

Di wan dɛn we bin de wit yu di tɛm we yu bin de fil bad go gladi fɔ yɛri di nyus bɔt yu nyu pikin. Bɔt sɔntɛnde, ivin if yu tink gud wan, di kwɛstyɔn ɛn kɔmɛnt dɛn we pipul dɛn kin aks kin mek yu fil bad. I kin tranga fɔ yɛri tin dɛn lɛk, "O, i bɛtɛ fɔ tek tɛm mek yu nɔ du am lɛk las tɛm." Dɛn nɔ ɔndastand wetin yu de go tru bikɔs dɛn nɔ dɔn pas wetin yu de go tru.

So, tɛl di pipul dɛm wae yu fil fayn fɔ tɔk to bɔt dis, di wan dɛm wae yu trɔst fɔ ɔndastand yu (man, mama, bɛst padi) fɔs. Dɔn yu kin tɛl ɔda pipul dɛn leta. If yu want, yu gɛt ɔl di rayt fɔ kip dis sikrit te afta dɛn bɔn di pikin. Natin nɔ bad wit dat.