Wi ɔl kin si tin dɛn na pɔblik ples, ilɛksɛf na bɔs, tren, ɔ na rod. Sɔntɛnde, rayt bifo wi yay, wi kin si pɔsin de mɔna , provok, ɔ mɔna ɔda pɔsin. Sɔntɛm na bikɔs da pɔsin de luk, in kɔlɔ, in rilijɔn, in man ɔ uman, ɔ ɔda rizin. Na tɛm lɛk dis, yu go de wɔnda se, "Wetin a de du naw?" If yu nɔ bin dɔn tink bɔt dis bifo, i rili at fɔ tink bɔt di rayt tin fɔ du da tɛm de. So, tide, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt aw yu go ɛp pɔsin we nɔ ebul fɔ du natin pan dis kayn tin.
Aw yu kin ɛp pɔsin we dɛn de buli?
Aw yu go ɛp pan tin lɛk dis go dipen pan wetin de apin da tɛm de. Di fɔs tin we yu fɔ du na fɔ tek tɛm asɛs di tin we de apin ɛn pik di tin we fit ɛn we nɔ bad. Na sɔm we dɛn we yu go ɛp.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ du sɔntin. Yu smɔl intavyu kin mek bɔku damej nɔ apin.
Lɛ wi luk dɛn we ya klia wan smɔl na wan tebul.
| Du | Tin dɛn we yu go ebul fɔ du |
|---|---|
| Mek pipul dɛn fil se yu de de. | Luk di pɔsin we de buli am dairekt wan. Go nia di pɔsin we dɛn de buli smɔl. If yu fil sef, muf bitwin dɛn tu. Dis kin sɛn di mɛsej to di pɔsin we de buli am se "sɔmbɔdi de wach." |
| Tɔk to di pɔsin we nɔ ebul fɔ du natin. | Sidɔm ɔ tinap nia di pɔsin. Start fɔ tɔk to yu bay we yu aks sɔntin we simpul lɛk, "Wetin na di tɛm?" Tray fɔ ignore di pɔsin we de mɔna yu. Dis kin mek di prɔblɛm dɔn. |
| Rispɔnd am dairekt wan. | Na if yu shɔ se i sef ɔltogɛda., Tɔk dairekt to di pɔsin we de buli am. Se sɔntin lɛk, "Wetin yu de du nɔ rayt" ɔ "Duya lɛf am in wan." Bɔt mɛmba se sɔntɛnde dis kin mek di prɔblɛm wɔs. |
| Sɔgz, nɔ dikte. | Mek di pɔsin we nɔ ebul fɔ ɛp insɛf tek kɔntrol pan di tin we de apin. Mek advays lɛk, "Yu go lɛk fɔ sidɔm nia mi?" Nɔ gi ɔda ɔda tin dɛn lɛk, "Kam ya" ɔ "Du dis." |
| Fɛn mɔ ɛp | Luk rawnd. If yu de na di tren, si if yu kin muf go na ɔda bɔks. Si if ɔda pipul dɛn de we go ebul fɔ ɛp. I kin sef we mɔ pipul dɛn de togɛda. |
| Dokumɛnt di tin we apin. | If i pɔsibul, tek vidio fɔ di tin we apin na yu fon. Bɔt, aks di pɔsin we dɛn de mɔna bifo yu du dat. Dis kin rili impɔtant if nid de fɔ di lɔ. |
| Kɔntinyu fɔ luk afta di ivent | We di tin apin ɔ afta di tin apin, tɔk to di pɔsin we de fil se i nɔ ebul fɔ du natin ɛn aks am se, "Yu fayn naw?" "Yu nid ɛni ɛp?" Dat na big ɛnkɔrejmɛnt fɔ da pɔsin de. |
Nɔ ɛva mek dɛn mistek ya!
We wi de ɛp pɔsin, tin dɛn de we wi nɔ fɔ du. I rili impɔtant fɔ avɔyd dɛn tin ya.
| Nɔto fɔ du dat | Wetin mek na so i bi? (Wetin du?) |
|---|---|
| Nɔ sɛt mɔt lɛk se yu nɔ notis. | We yu nɔ du natin, yu de ɛnkɔrej di harassment fɔ kɔntinyu. Ivin if yu fil se yu de fred fɔ tɔk, at least go nia di pɔsin ɛn tinap. |
| Nɔ blem di pɔsin we nɔ ebul fɔ du natin. | Nɔ ɛva tɔk tin dɛn lɛk, "Dis apin bikɔs yu wɛr da dres de." Ilɛk wetin pɔsin pik, nɔto rizin fɔ lɛ dɛn de buli am. I nɔ ɛva bi di pɔsin we dɛn du bad to in fɔlt. |
| Nɔ tek kɔntrol. | Mek di pɔsin sɔlv di prɔblɛm. Bifo yu du ɛnitin, aks dɛn se, "A fɔ du dis?" ɛn gi dɛn pawa. Nɔ tray fɔ sho se yu na heroism. |
Wetin rili na harassment?
Bɔku pipul dɛn kin tink se fɔ mɔna pɔsin na bɔdi nɔmɔ. Bɔt nɔto so i bi. Bɔku we dɛn de we dɛn kin mek pipul dɛn sɔfa na pɔblik ples.
Biheviɔr dɛm we dɛn kin tek as harassment
- Fɔ tɔk rud ɛn insul tin dɛn.
- Fɔ provok pɔsin bay tin dɛn lɛk in kɔlɔ, in rilijɔn, in mami ɛn dadi biznɛs (homophobic), ɔ transjɛndor aydentiti ( transphobic ).
- Di tin dɛn we pɔsin kin du fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we i nɔ want.
- Tray fɔ kip de tɔk ivin afta sɔmbɔdi tɛl yu se "nɔ tɔk."
- Fɔ aks pɔsin in pasɔnal infɔmeshɔn ( fon nɔmba, adrɛs).
- Fɔ fala pɔsin.
- Fɔ krɔs pɔsin in rod.
- Fɔ go rili nia pɔsin in bɔdi (insay VAD ing pɔshɔnal spɛs).
- Fɔ tɔch pɔsin we yu nɔ gɛt rayt fɔ du dat.
- Fɔ tek foto ɛn fim dɛn we yu nɔ gɛt rayt fɔ du dat.
- Fɔ wispa dɔti dɔti na pɔblik ples.
Ɛnitin lɛk dis kin mek pɔsin strɛs ɛn wɔri bad bad wan. Na dat mek wi fɔ tek dɛn tin ya siriɔs wan. Sɔntɛnde, afta dis kayn tin dɔn apin, pɔrsin kin gɛt bɔrku pwɛl hat sik. If yu fil da we de, i rili impɔtant fɔ tɔk to pɔsin we yu biliv, ɔ if nid de, go to yu dɔktɔ fɔ advays.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- If yu si se dɛn de buli pɔsin, .Nɔ ɛva du tin lɛk se yu nɔ notis. We yu nɔ tɔk natin, dat kin jɔs ɛnkɔrej pipul dɛn fɔ mek yu sɔfa.
- Bifo yu invayt, tink bɔt yu yon sef fɔs. Tink bɔt we dɛn we yu go ɛp indaykt wan, we yu nɔ go gɛt dairekt kɔnfrɛns.
- Nɔ blem ɔ jɔj di pɔsin we dɛn de buli. Di pɔsin we de buli na in fɔlt ɔltɛm.
- Ofa yu ɛp as "sɔgzhɛshɔn." Gi di pɔsin we nɔ ebul fɔ ɛp insɛf pawa fɔ tek kɔntrol pan di tin we de apin.
- Yu wan luk, wan wɔd, ɔ ivin yu prezɛns kin bi di rizin fɔ sev pɔsin frɔm big denja. Bi sitizin we gɛt gud at ɛn we gɛt maynd.
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