Naupang tihduhdahna chungchang hi kan sawi dawn em ni? I fa pawh hlauhawmah a awm lo em ni?

Vawiin hian thupui sensitive tak leh pawimawh tak kan sawi dawn a ni. Chu chu naupang tihduhdahna a ni a, English-a kan sawi angin ``Child Abuse'' a ni. He thu hi hriat a har viau a, mahse hei hi kan hriat chian chuan kan fate humhalh kawngah nasa takin a pui dawn a ni. Chuvangin eng nge a nih, engtin nge a lo awm a, eng nge kan tih tur tih hi i lo en ang u.

He naupang tihduhdahna hi eng nge ni?

A awlsam zawngin sawi ila, naupang tihduhdahna chu tumruh taka naupang tihnat emaw, ngaihsak loh emaw a ni . Lungchhiatthlak takin, a tam zawkah chuan he tihduhdahna hi naupangin a hriat chian em em mi pakhatin a ti thin. Hei hi nu leh pa, chhungte hnai tak, enkawltu, a nih loh leh chhungkaw ṭhian a ni thei. United States ang ram tam takah chuan naupang tihduhdahna danah chuan naupang kum 18 hnuai lam tumruh taka tihnat emaw, tihduhdah emaw chu tihduhdahna leh dan bawhchhiatna a ni tih a sawi. Chumi hming dang chu Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) tih a ni. Heng natnate hi uluk taka enkawl a nih loh chuan naupang hriselna leh a dam chhung zawngin a nghawng thei a ni. Naupan laia thil thleng hian an dam chhung zawnga nghawng a neih theih dan hi han ngaihtuah teh.

Naupangte chunga tharum thawhna chungchanga statistics thenkhat

Hei hi kan ngaihtuah aiin a tam zawk. Entirnan, kum 2021 khan United States-ah ringawt pawh naupang 600,000 velin tihduhdahna an tawk nia chhut a ni. Hemi kum vek hian tihduhdahna leh ngaihsak loh vangin naupang 1,820 an thi a ni. Heng statistics te hi a hlauhawm khawp mai, a dik em?

Hei hi dan bawhchhiatna lian tak a ni em?

Ni e, naupang tihduhdahna hi dan hnuaiah chuan thil sual a ni. Thil sual tih nasat dan azirin, prosecutor-te chuan misdemeanor emaw, felony emaw- ah an ngai thei a ni . Mahse, naupang tihduhdahna sual tam zawk hi chu thil sual lian tak anga ngaih a ni.

Naupangte chungah eng ang tharum thawhna nge thleng thei?

Naupang tihduhdahna hi chi hrang hrangin a thleng thei. A chi hrang hrangte hi han en ila:

Taksa lama naupang tihduhdahna

Hei hian naupang vuak, nawr, vuak, vuak, vuak, leh hal te a huam a ni. Naupang ei leh in pek loh te, toilet hman phal loh te pawh a huam tel bawk. Naupang tê tê chu an chunga hetiang thil hi lo thleng ta se, eng ang taka ṭanpui theih loh nge a nih ang tih han ngaihtuah teh.

Emotional naupang tihduhdahna

Hei hi thu hmangin a thleng fo thin . Entirnan, hau reng te, dem reng te, mi pakhat chu a tuar theih loh thil ti tura nawr te, vau te, leh au chhuah te hi a ni. A châng chuan taksa hliam hi a dam tawh a nih pawhin thinlunga hliamte tihdam nan hun rei tak a ngai ṭhin.

Naupang mipat hmeichhiatna hmansualna

Hei hi thil pawi tak a ni. Hei hian naupang pawngsual te, inngaihzawnna te, taksa lama tihduhdahna te, saruakna te, naupang saruak thlalakna atana hman te, a nih loh leh naupang saruak lem entir te a huam a ni . Hetiang chi thil hian naupang nun pum pui a tidanglam thei a ni.

Medical naupang tihduhdahna

Hei hi thil mak deuhin a lang thei a, mahse a thleng ve tho. Chu chu tumruh taka naupang natna siam tum emaw, naupang natna enkawl loh emaw tihna a ni.

Naupang ngaihsak lohna

Naupang mamawh bulpui ei leh in, chenna tur, zirna, damdawi lam enkawlna, leh rilru lama puihna te laksak pawh hi tihduhdahna a ni. Naupangin heng mamawh bulpui te pawh a dawng lo a nih chuan an thanlennaah nghawng thui tak a nei a ni.

Naupang vuak pawh hi tihduhdahna a ni em?

He thupui hi sawiho fo a ni. Naupang thunun nan vuak hi tihduhdahna a ni em tih chungchangah ngaihdan hrang hrang a awm. Ram thenkhat chuan hemi chungchangah hian dan hrang hrang an nei a. Mahse, vuak hian naupang chu hliam, hliam, hliam, vun tichhe thei a nih chuan tihduhdahna a ni ngei ang. Research atanga a lan dan chuan spanking hian naupang social development a tikhawlo thei a ni. A bik takin naupang inngaihhlutna a tihniam thei a, zirna lama an thiamna a ti tlem thei a, chhungte nena an inlaichinna a tichhe thei bawk. Naupang i vuak hmain heng zawhnate hi inzawt hmasa phawt ang che:

• Hetiang thil hi naupang chu eng emaw zirtirna atan nge ka tihbuai nan ka ti?
• Naupang hian he naupang hi ka hmangaih tih a hria em?
• He naupang hi eng zirlai nge zirtir ka tum?
• He thutlukna hi nakinah ka lawm thei ang em?

Hrisel taka discipline hman dan tur hriat belh duh chuan i fa naupang enkawltu doctor nen inbia ang che.

Engtin nge mipat hmeichhiatna hmansualna hian naupang a nghawng?

Zirchiangtute chuan naupang tihduhdah tuarte mizia thenkhat an hmuchhuak a. Thiltih thenkhat chu awlsam taka hriat theih a ni thei a, entirnan:

• Sex hman dan dik lo taka hman tum.
• Taksa lama complaint fo thin chu pum na leh lu na .
• Naupan laia i thil tih ṭan leh, kut zungtang hrual leh khum hnim hrual .
• In atanga tlanchhiatna.
• Mahni intihhlum (e.g., mahni intihhlum).
• Nungchang lama inthlak danglamna lian tak tak lantir.

Symptom dang thenkhat chu hriat harsa deuh pawh a ni thei:

• Lungkhamna leh lungngaihna .
• Zirna leh ngaihtuahna seng harsa.
• Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) natna lan chhuahna a lantir.
• Emotional development a tichhe.
• Mahni inngaihhlutna hniam.
• Mumang tha lo neih fo thin .
• Mahni intihhlum tumna emaw, intihhlum tumna emaw.

Hetiang symptoms i hmuh chuan i ngaihtuah tur a ni.

Tu nge tihduhdah hlauhawm ber?

Naupang thenkhat chu midang aiin tihduhdah leh ngaihsak loh an hlauhawm zawk. Heng risk factors te hi:

• Naupang rethei zawka khawsa (naupang tihduhdahna rate hi ram pum retheihna level hnuai lama sum lakluh chhungkaw atanga lo piang naupang zingah a let nga zetin a sang zawk).
• Naupang kum 4 hnuai lam .
• Naupang mamawh bik nei te .

Naupang dangte tihduhdah an ni lo tihna a ni lo va, heng category-a naupangte hi an hlauhawm zawk tihna a ni.

Engtin nge naupang tihduhdah a ni tih i hriat?

Naupang tihduhdah a nih tih chhinchhiahna chu a lang chiang lo fo. I fate nungchang inthlak danglamna chu i hmu hmasa mai thei. A nih loh leh, dinhmun ṭhenkhatah chuan an chhân lêt dân a inang lo thei bawk. Naupang nungchang emaw, a mizia emaw chu chhan hriat loha a inthlâk chuan, chu chu tihduhdahna chhinchhiahna a ni thei . Chhinchhiahna dang thenkhat chu hetiang hi a ni:

Taksa pianphung: 1.1.

• Thil bawlhhlawh leh ngaihsak loh anga lang pakhat.
• Hrilhfiah loha hliam, hliam, hliam , emaw vun lama harsatna dam lo neih.
• Damdawi lam emaw ha lam harsatna enkawl loh.
• Genital area-a natna neih.
• Thla tin thlasik neih loh vaginal bleeding dang .
• Discharge emaw natna danglam tak.

Rilru/nungchang lama mizia: 1.1.

• Nu leh pa pakhat emaw, pahnih emaw, naupang enkawltu (e.g., nau enkawltu, daycare center-a thawktu, zirtirtu, coach-te) hlauhna.
• Thiltih emaw hmun emaw hlauhna.
• Tap reng reng, a nih loh leh hun remchang lo taka tap.
• Regression chu naupan laia nungchang lama kir lehna a ni.
• Naupang dangte aiin nungchang danglam tak, a bik takin inthlak danglam nghal a nih chuan.
• Sikul kal lo reng reng.
• Mahni chauha awm leh midang laka hla taka awm.
• Naupang dang emaw, anmahni aia naupang zawk emaw tihduhdah emaw, midangte tihduhdah emaw.
• Zirna leh ngaihtuahna seng harsa.
• Puitling, ṭhiante, emaw, mahni aia upa zawkte nena taksa lama inhnaih loh.
• Thil tih that tum lutuk emaw, midang tihlawm tum lutuk emaw.
• Thil danglam tak, mipat hmeichhiatna lam hawi thiltih emaw, thusawi emaw, a bik takin puitling lutuk emaw, rilru na lutuk emaw anga lang.

Hetiang thil kan hmuh hian kan fimkhur hle a ngai a ni.

Tuin nge heng thil rapthlak tak takte hi ti?

Vawi tam tak chu pawngsualtu chu naupang hre chiangtu leh naupang hnaih tak a ni. Entir nan:

• Nu leh pa emaw, chhungkaw member dang emaw.
• Chhungkaw thian a ni.
• Naupang enkawltu tur tu emaw.
• Naupang hnaih bertu (zirtirtu, coach, sakhaw hruaitu).
• An ṭhiante emaw, naupang upa zawk emaw, anmahni ngei pawhin tihduhdah an tawh a, chu thilte chu an entawn leh ta a ni.

Hei hi a lungchhiatthlak ber a ni. Chûng thilte chu naupang rinchhantute chungah ngei pawh a thleng thei a ni.

Engvangin nge miten naupangte chungah hetiang hian an tih?

Miin naupang a tihduhdah theih chhan hrang hrang a awm a:

• Mahni ngei pawhin tihduhdah tawhna history nei: Nu leh pa emaw, puitling dang emaw naupang tiduhdahtute chu anmahni pawhin an naupan laiin tihduhdah an ni tawh mai thei. Tin, anmahni ngei pawhin tihduhdah an nih avângin, ṭhenkhat chuan an fate tihduhdah an nih lai en tûrin thlêmna an nei thei bawk. Mahse, tihduhdah tuar zawng zawng hian midang an tiduhdah vek lo. A tam zawk chuan naupang an tichhe lo.
• Naupang enkawl harsatna: Puitling ṭhenkhat chuan an fate chu thunun dân an hriat loh vâng emaw, an fate nungchang chungchânga beisei dik lo an neih avângin emaw an tiduhdah a ni
• Thinrimna thunun dan: Mi tihduhdahtu thenkhat chu thil dik lo a awm chuan thinrim thin an ni. Chhungkaw, sum leh pai, hnathawh, a nih loh leh inlaichinna lamah harsatna an nei thei a. Chu lungngaihna leh thinrimna chuan tharum thawhna thiltih a thlen thei a ni. A châng chuan, naupang chu buaina bulpuiah an ngai a, chuvângin naupang dodâl tûra thlêm an ni.
• Rilru lam natna enkawl loh: Depression, substance use disorder, emaw personality disorder nei te chu naupang tihduhdahna an tawk nasa hle.

Naupang i tihduhdah emaw, naupang tihduhdahna chhinchhiahna i hmuh emaw chuan, i awmna hmuna rilru lam hriselna agency hnenah tanpuina dil rawh. Ṭanpuina dawn hian naupang tana hun rei tak chhunga trauma awm thei tur venna emaw, tihtlem emaw a pui thei a ni.

Engtin nge doctor hian heng dinhmunte hi a hriat theih?

Doctor chuan naupang chu uluk takin a enfiah ang a, taksa leh nungchang lama tihduhdahna chhinchhiahna a zawng ang. District emaw provincial thuneitute pawhin he chhui chiannaah hian an tel thei bawk. Diagnosis-ah hian:

• Taksa enfiahna.
• Lab test (thisen, zun test ang chi).
• X-ray emaw imaging test dang emaw hmanga tih theih a ni.

Diagnostic team hian a hnuaia mite hi an ti bawk:

• Naupang damdawi lam leh hmasawnna chanchin a zawt thin.
• Naupang nungchang leh nu leh pa emaw, enkawltu emaw nena an inpawh dan a enfiah thin.
• Nu leh pa emaw, enkawltu emaw nena inbiakna neih.
• A theih chuan naupang chu sawipui rawh.

Naupang tihduhdah tuar tawh chu eng ang enkawl nge ni ang?

Naupangin taksa lama hliam a neih emaw, hriatna nei lo anga a lan emaw, a hriatna a hloh emaw chuan damdawi lam pan vat a ngai mai thei . Doctor hnenah follow up emaw, a tul angin specialist pan emaw rawh. Naupang tihduhdah tawhte hian rilru lam hriselna enkawlna kalpui zel an mamawh fo thin . Counselling leh psychotherapy hian nakin lawka tihduhdahna a awm loh nan a pui thei a, hun rei tak chhunga chhiatna thleng tur pawh a ti tlem thei bawk. Psychotherapy session neih chhung hian .Mental health counselor chuan naupangte chu inrintawkna nei turin a zirtir a, mahni inngaihsakna siam turin a zirtir a, inzawmna hrisel leh buaina chinfel dan tur a zirtir bawk.

Nu leh pate tan pawh therapy hi a hlawkthlak tih hre reng ang che. Chu chuan thil awmdan hmachhawn tûrin a ṭanpui thei a, tihduhdahna bulpui berte chu a hriat theih nân a ṭanpui thei a, nu leh pa nih dân hrisel tak tak zir tûrin a ṭanpui thei bawk.

Naupang tihduhdahna hi engtin nge i report thin?

Naupang tihduhdahna chhinchhiahna i hmuh chuan, emaw, i in chhungah a thleng a nih chuan, hma la nghal rawh .

• I fate chu biak rawh: I fate chu an nungchang a inthlâk danglam tih i hriat chuan, a nih loh leh, a rilru ti na thei tûr kawng thara an chhân lêt ṭan a nih chuan biak rawh. Inbiakpawhna zau tak, ṭhian ṭha tak (ramri hrisel chhunga) chuan i fate chu a ring che ang a, him lo nia an hriat chuan hrilh che a nuam ang. I fate chu thil hrilh che hlau lo turin hrilh la, mi pakhat a ti na dawn nia an ngaih pawhin.

• Ṭanpuina dîl rawh: Hlauhna emaw, mualphona emaw hian Ṭanpuina dîlna chu tikhawtlai suh. Thuneitute hnena tihduhdahna i report hunah chuan i hming chu chhungte emaw, a kaihhnawih mi emaw hnenah sawi a ni lo vang. Naupang tihduhdah a nih i rinhlelh chuan call emaw biak emaw theih a ni:
• Naupang chu hlauhawma a awm nghal a nih chuan 119 (Sri Lanka police emergency number) ah call rawh.
• I awmna hmuna naupang humhalhna thuneitu, police, emaw damdawi in emaw .
• National Child Rights Promotion Bureau (NCPA) hotline number chu 1929 a ni a, hei hi nitin darkar 24 chhung a thawk thin a ni.
• Naupang tihduhdahna a awm chuan naupang enkawltu doctor pawhin a refer thei bawk.
• Sakhaw lam emaw, thlarau lam emawa thurawn petu chuan thurawn leh \anpuina a pe thei a ni.

Heng thilte pawh hi i ti tur a ni:

• Thuneitute hriattir an nih hma chuan naupang chu pawngsualtu lakah hla takah dah rawh.
• Chu mi nena nakin lawka inlaichinna eng pawh chu i enkawlna hnuaiah a awm tur a ni.
• Mi tihduhdahtu nia rinhlelh chu vau ngai suh la, dan pawh i kutah la ngai suh.

Naupang i tihduhdah i rin chuan, emaw, tihduhdah hlauhawma i awm chuan:

• I ṭhian, chhungte leh hriselna lama mithiamte nen inbiakna nei rawh.
• Hetih lai hian naupang chu him tak leh i hnen atanga hla takah a awm ngei ngei tur a ni.
• I rilru put hmang hrethiam thei tur leh chu chu i thawhpui thei tur counselor zawng rawh.

He ‘naupang tihduhdahna clearance’ hi eng nge ni? (Naupang tihduhdahna clearance chu eng nge ni?)

‘Child abuse clearance’ tih hi mi pakhatin misual a nih lohzia a finfiah theihna tura puitu a ni. Ram thenkhatah chuan foster parents te hian hetiang clearance hi an mamawh a ni. Tin, naupangte nena thawh dun emaw, volunteer emaw i duh chuan he ‘child abuse clearance’ hi i mamawh mai thei bawk. Hei hi application process-a tel a ni a, employer-te'n hnathawk tling an thlan theihna tura puitu a ni. Heng dante hi ram hrang hrangah a inang lo.

Naupang tihduhdah tuar tawhte hmalam hun eng nge ni ang?

Naupang tihduhdah tuar te chuan a hnuaia mite hi an tawng thei a ni:

• Hliam nghal, hliam, hliam, leh ruh tliak te pawh a awm.
• Hliam tuar fo thin.
• Zirna kawngah harsatna a awm.
• Emotional, psychological, leh behavioral problems, lungngaihna pawh tiamin.
• Khawtlang nun thiamna lama lungkhamna leh harsatna.
• Puitling emaw hmun thenkhat emaw hlauhna.

Enkawl loh chuan naupang tihduhdahna hian hun rei tak chhung naupangte chungah nghawng a nei thei a ni. Naupang tihduhdahna tuar puitling damchhuakte hian khawtlang leh rilru lama harsatna an nei tam zawk.

Anni:

• Midang i ti na thei a, tihnat i pawm thei bawk.
• Mahni intihhlum i tum thei bawk.
• Mahni ṭhatna tur ngaihtuah lovin midang i enkawl thei a ni.
• Mipat hmeichhiatna lama harsatna a awm thei a, chu chu mipat hmeichhiatna lama thil hlauhawm tak neih te, mipat hmeichhiatna lama inhmang lutuk te, a nih loh leh sex pumpelh vek te hi a ni.
• Mi rin chu a harsa thei hle.

Damchhuakte hian puitlin hunah damdawi lam leh nungchang lama harsatna an tawk thei bawk a, chu chu:

• Natna rei tak, nitin lu na, Fibromyalgia, leh pum na.
• Lungngaihna.
• Mahni inngaihhlutna hniam.
• Substance Use Disorder emaw zu in lama harsatna emaw a awm thei.
• Toxic stress hian thluak hmasawnna a nghawng thei a, PTSD leh zirlai, ngaihven leh hriatrengna lama harsatna a thlen thei bawk.

Engtin nge naupang tihduhdah tuar tawh chu hun rei tak chhunga dam lehna tur i siam that theih ang?

Mental health counselor zawng rawh . Therapy hian naupang chu thil thleng chu a process theih nan a pui thei a, inlaichinna hrisel siam a zir thei a, hun rei tak chhunga tihduhdahna avanga nghawng a neih chu a tihtlem thei bawk. Thil tihduhdahna avanga rilru lama nghawng a neih dan enkawl hian naupangte taksa hriselna rei tak a tichangtlung thei bawk.

Naupang tihduhdahna chungchang hrilh tawh che chu engtin nge i tanpui?

Naupangin tihduhdahna chungchâng a hrilh che chuan, chu chu ngai pawimawh rawh . Thil tenawm tak anga ngaih loh emaw, an acting out emaw, dawt sawi emaw anga ngaih suh. I fa humhim nan hengte hi ti rawh:

• Inbiakpawhna zau tak nei turin fuih la, i fate thusawi chu ngaithla la, thil thleng chu anmahni tawngkam hmanga sawifiah tir la, thlamuan la, inbiakna emaw, ngaithla tur emaw i awm tih hriat nawn tir rawh.
• Naupang chu an sualna a ni lo tih hriattir la ; tihduhdahnaah hian mawh an phur lo.
• Naupang chu tihduhdahtu nen inthen la, naupang chu a him em tih enfiah rawh.
• Doctor hnenah zawhfiah la, ani chuan a hnuaia step hrang hrangah a kaihruai thei ang che.
• Counselling, therapy, emaw support group emaw ang chi puihna dang dawng bawk ang che.
• Dawhthei rawh - naupangte chu chakna hrang hrangin an dam a; i fa chu a dam chhung zawngin thlawp rawh.

I naupang enkawltu doctor hnenah eng zawhna nge i zawh tur?

I fa chu tihduhdah a nih tawh chuan i naupang enkawltu doctor nen inbia ang che. Heng zawhnate hi zawt rawh:

• Tunah hian ka fa hian eng physical therapy nge a mamawh?
• Eng ang therapy nge ka fa chu a puih ang?
• Chhungkaw therapy hian min hlawkpui ang em?
• Engtin nge ka fa chu a dam leh theih nan ka puih theih ang?
• Kan tih loh tur leh sawi loh tur a awm em?
• Engtin nge ka fa hi ka humhim theih ang?

A tawp berah chuan a pawimawh ber

Vanduaithlak takin naupang tihduhdahna hi a hluar hle. Naupang tihduhdah tuar te hi tunlai leh nakin lawka hriselna lama harsatna nei thei tur khawpa hlauhawm an ni. Mahse, dam leh theihna beiseina a awm . Naupang tihduhdahna chhinchhiahnate hriat thiam zir la, chu chu naupang nungchang mak tak emaw, danglam emaw ang chi te hi a ni. Mi tihduhdahna i rinhlelh chuan i fa chu tihduhdahtu lakah humhim la, professional tanpuina zawng rawh. Taksa leh rilru lam hriselna lama rawngbawlna hian naupang tihduhdahna hun rei tak chhunga nghawng a neihte tihtlem nan a pui thei a ni. Naupang tihduhdahna tihtawp dan tur leh ven dan tur i doctor (or i fa doctor) nen sawiho rawh. Kan fate hi kan hmalam hun an ni a, humhalh hi kan mawhphurhna a ni.

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