I fate hi an insual reng em? Sibling Rivalry chungchang hi han sawi ila

In lama fa pahnih pathum i neih chuan kangṭhelhtu angin i inhria fo em? Hmun khata insual i zawh chuan hmun dangah a intan leh thin. Mi pakhat chuan a dang chu a nuihzat a, hming a lam a, an insual a, an inpuh tawn a... Heng zawng zawng hi i chau hle a ni ngei ang, a dik em? Lungngai suh, hei hi i in chhungah chauh a ni lo. Naupang an lo puitlin hian unau te hian hetiang ang inhnialna hi an nei fo thin. Mahse, thil pangngai anga pawm mai mai theih a ni lo. Hetiang dinhmun hi uluk taka enkawl a nih loh chuan naupangte thinrimna leh thinrimna a thlen thei a, chu chu an puitlin thlengin a awm thei a ni. Chuvangin, vawiinah hian heng unau inkara buainate hi eng nge a nih, eng nge a chhan, nu leh pa kan nih angin he dinhmun hi hrisel taka kan enkawl theih dan tur kan sawi dawn a ni.

Engvangin nge naupangte hian hetiang hian an insual?

A awlsam zawngin, unau inelna chu unau inkara inhuatna, inelna leh insualna a ni. Hming inkoh te, fiamthu ṭha lo tak tak siam te, insualna thlan te, leh anmahni chauh hi dik lo taka cheibâwl an nih thu phunnawi reng te chu a tel vek a ni

Ngaihtuah teh, naute tharin chhungkua a zawm hian naupang upa zawk chuan ngaihven a hlawh lo deuh niin a inhria mai thei. Hei hian thikna tlem a thlen thei a ni. Tin, naupang kum inthlauhna te, an mizia te, chhungkaw lian leh te ang chi thilte hian hei hi a nghawng thei bawk. A châng chuan, infiamna thil, TV remote, a nih loh leh nu leh pate ngaihvenna chungchângah pawh insual lian tak a chhuak thei a ni. Hei hi naupangte puitlin chhoh zelna kawng khat chauh a ni. Nu leh pa kan nih angin engtikah nge kan inrawlh tur tih leh engtikah nge naupangte chu anmahni chauhin kan ngaihtuah chhuah tir tur tih hriatthiam hi a pawimawh ber a ni.

Unau inkara buaina chinfel dan tur practical step 8

Chûng buainate chu kan titawp vek thei lo nain, kan tihtlem thei a, naupangte inkâra inlaichînna ṭha siam tûrin kan ṭanpui thei bawk .

1. Inchhung boruak hi entawn tlak takah siam rawh.

Naupangte hian min en a\angin an zir nasa ber. Nu leh pate an au reng reng a, an insual reng a, kawngkhar an beng reng a, tawng lovin an thinrim reng a nih chuan i fate lakah hian thil tha zawk i beisei thei lo. I fate tan entawn tlak tak ni rawh. I fate chu inzah tawnna, inhriatthiam tawnna leh thawhhona hmanga harsatna sutkian dan tur entir rawh.

2. Naupangte label leh tehkhin kha bansan rawh.

Naupang tin hi kan danglam vek. Mi tinin chakna leh chak lohna danglam bik kan nei vek a. Naupang pakhat leh naupang dang tehkhin hian inelna leh inhuatna chauh a siam a ni. "En teh i unaunu hian engtiang chiahin nge lehkha a zir a, grade tha a hlawh chhuak a, engvangin nge i tih theih loh?" Chu ai chuan, naupang tinte chakna pakhat zel chu ngaihlu rawh.

3. Nungchang tha atan dan chiang tak siam

ThaI fate hnenah eng nungchang nge pawmtlak tih leh pawmtlak loh chu chiang takin hrilh rawh. In lamah dan siam la, chu chuan vuak, chheh, leh midang tihhniam ang chi thilte chu phal a ni lo. Tin, chu dan bawhchhiatna (e.g., khelh hun tihtlem) avanga thil thleng tur chu sawifiah ngei ngei tur a ni. Tin, i fate inzah tawn a, thil sawi chhuah hmanga harsatna sutkian tum huna an nungchang tha chu fak leh lawmman pek ngei ngei tur a ni.

4. ‘Equality’ leh ‘fairness’ inthlauhna hriatthiam.

Intluktlanna leh dikna hi thil chi hrang hrang pahnih a ni. Naupang upa zawk chu 9 p.m thleng TV en tir la, mahse naupang naupang zawk chu dar 8-ah mu turin hrilh la, naupang naupang zawk chuan hei hi thil dik lo niin a ngai mai thei. Hetah hian thil pawimawh tak chu i fate hnena i thutlukna siam chhan sawifiah hi a ni. "I unaupa hi i fapa aiin a upa zawk a, chuvang chuan rei vak lo a harh thei. I naupang zawk a, chuvang chuan mut tam zawk i mamawh a. I lo puitlin hunah pawh chutiang bawk chuan i ti thei ang," tih ang chi i sawi chuan naupangte tan hriatthiam a awlsam zawk.

5. Naupang tinte chu hun hran pe rawh.

Hei hi a pawimawh hle. Naupang pakhat zel nen ni khatah minute 10 chhung chauh hun hmang thin ang che. Chumi chhung chuan ngun takin ngaithla rawh. An rilrua thil awmte leh an unaute nena an harsatna tawhte sawihona hun pe rawh. Naupang tan chuan mahni inrintawkna atan "Nu leh Pa pawhin min lo en reng a ni" tih a hriat a pawimawh hle.

6. Harsatna chinfel dan tur zirtir

"Insual suh" tih mai mai pawh a tawk lo. I fate chu insual a thlen huna chinfel dan tur i zirtir a ngai a ni.

• I thinrim chuan au chhuahpui ai chuan "Ka lungngai hle" emaw, "Ka thinrim hle" tih ang chi thu sawiin i rilru put hmang sawi chhuah dan practice rawh .
• Mi dangin a sawi laiin ngaithla chu practice rawh.
• An pahnih inremna tur solution (negotiation) zawng turin tanpui rawh.

7. Chhungkaw Inkhawmpui neih

Kar khatah vawi khat chhung chhungkaw inkhawm tlemte neih hi tih dan tha tak a ni. Chhungkaw thil awm dan tlangpui leh kar leh atana ruahmanna te i sawi thei ang. Hetah hian mi zawng zawngin an ngaihdan sawina hun an nei vek a ni. Hei hian naupangte chu team anga thawhhona zir leh midang ngaihdan zah thiam turin a pui thin.

Engtikah nge professional tanpuina i zawn ang?

A châng chuan eng ang pawhin bei mah la, heng buainate hi i thunun thei lo. Harsatna a lo chhuak zel a, thil awmdan chu a chhuak ta ang maia i hriat chuan professional tanpuina zawng hi zahthlak a ni lo. I fate i ngaihsak zia lantir nan a tha hle.

A hnuaia thil thlengah hian doctor nena inbiakna neih a pawimawh hle a, a tul chuan naupang rilru lam hriselna lama mithiamte tanpuina lak a pawimawh hle.