A châng chuan, kan nunah thil a lo thleng a, a bîk takin kan rintlak tak chunga thil a thlen hian, ‘Hei hi a thleng tak tak em?’ tih pawh kan inzawt ṭan thei lo. Kan lungawi lo hle a, hlauthawng takin kan inhria a, mahse, ‘Ni lo, a theih ka ring’ tiin kan inhriatthiam tir kan tum a ni. He thuziak hi chutiang thil hrehawm leh duhawm lo tak a tawn hnua thu sawi ngam leh dikna zawnga huaisenna hmu mek zawng zawng tan a ni.
Engvangin nge assault hnua inbiakna hun rei tak a ngaih?
Mi tam tak chuan mipat hmeichhiatna lama tihduhdahna ang chi thil a thlen hian engvangin nge an sawi loh emaw, an phunnawi nghal loh emaw an ngaihtuah thin. Mahse chutiang chuan a awlsam lo. Mi pakhatin in pakhat a rawn luhchilh a, TV emaw, pawisa engemaw zat emaw a ru ang tih han mitthla teh. Kan pawn lama thil thleng a ni. Mahse sexual assault-ah chuan
thil sual tihna hmun chu kan taksa ngei a ni. Hei hi trauma harsa tak leh thuk tak tuar tur a ni. Chutiang
trauma na tak a lo thlen chuan kan thluak hnathawh dan pawh a danglam thin. Glass leia tla a, a chhe vek ang bawkin, chu thil thleng nena inzawm hriatrengna chu thluak chhungah a darh zau vek a ni. Chu natna rapthlak tak lakah chuan thluak hian min humhim a tum a. Chuvangin a chang chuan thil thleng hi theihnghilh vek theih a ni. A nih loh leh a chi hrang hrangin kan hre reng mai.
"Mi rukbo tawh chuan a thawm hriat emaw, chutih laia a rim emaw chauh a hre reng thei. Taksa chuan thil tawn chu a hre thei a, mahse thil thleng inzawm dan erawh a bo thei a ni.
Hei hi
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) chhinchhiahna pakhat a ni. Chuvangin mi thenkhat tan chuan kum tam tak hnuah pawh chu hriatrengna chu beisei loh hun leh beisei loh takin a lo lang leh tan thin.
| A nghawng dan (nature) a ni | Symptoms awm thei te |
|---|
| Rilru lam thila nghawng a neih dan | Hlauhna nasa tak, lungngaihna , lungkhamna , PTSD, midang rin harsa, flashback. |
| Taksa lama nghawng a neih dan | Mut theih lohna, thinlung natna vei tamna, ei leh in dan inthlak danglam, taksa na, doctor pan hlauhna. |
Dan kawnga daltu leh beiseina thar
Ram tam takah chuan thil sual tih a nih hnua thubuai thehluh hun bituk a awm a. Hei hi
statute of limitations kan ti a . He hun a liam hnu hian dan anga hmalak a harsa hle. Sexual assault ang chi case-ah chuan a hmaa kan sawi tawh ang khan trauma leh psychological effects avang hian mi tam tak chuan he hun chhung hian thu an sawi thei lo va, an phunnawi thei lo bawk. Mahse chanchin lawmawm tak chu khawvel ram tam takin he dinhmun hi an hrethiam a, an dan kalphung pawh an thlak danglam zel a ni. Ram thenkhat chuan
"look-back window" tih concept an rawn hmang a. A awlsam zawngin, tun hmaa tihduhdah tawhte chu statute of limitations a tawp tawh pawhin, thubuai siamsak turin kum khat emaw kum hnih emaw chhung hun bik pek an ni tihna a ni. Chutiang danin a pek theih hun remchang pawimawh ber chu thil tisualtu chungah chauh ni lovin,
thil sual tih phalsaktu leh thup bo puitu institution-te chungah pawh dan anga hmalak theihna hi a ni Entirnan, damdawi in, sikul, kohhran emaw, institution dang emaw chuan an hnuaia hnathawk tu emaw chuan chutiang thil sual a ti tih hre mah se, a chungah hma a la lo a nih chuan, chu institution-te pawhin an mawhphurtu an ni.
Thil tisualtu hrem a nih ang bawkin, thil sual tih phalsaktu leh a tuartute humhim thei lo institution-te pawh hi an chhan tur a ni. Hei hi dikna chanvo pawimawh tak a ni.
I aw tiharh leh tihdam theihna thiltihtheihna
Thubuai thehluh emaw, court-a kal emaw chu mi zawng zawng tih theih emaw, tih duh emaw a ni lo mai thei. Mahse
damna hi mimal thil a ni. One-size-fits-all approach a awm lo. Ṭhenkhat tân chuan dân hmanga rorêlna dik zawn chu an tihdamnaah a tel thei a ni. Mi dangte tân chuan an chanchin an rintlak hnêna hrilh chu hahdamna nasa tak a ni thei a ni. I chanchin sawi te, i aw tihsan te hi mahni indahdamna mai a ni lo tih hre reng ang che. A ti thei:
- I natna ngaihlu: I thil tawn chu a tak tak a ni a, chu chuan i chhiatna a thlen chu pawm a ni.
- Mawhphurhna thlak danglam: Thil sual tih phurrit chu a tuartu a\angin thil tisualtu leh mawhphurtu institution-ah sawn a ni.
- Midangte chakna pe: Mi dang sang tam tak, ngawi renga hrehawm tuarte hnenah thu sawi la, i chanchin hian hma la turin huaisenna a pe ang che.
- Danglamna siam: I aw hian nakin lawkah hetiang thil hi a thlen loh nan khawtlang leh dan lama inthlak danglamna mamawh siam turin a pui thei a ni.
Dam lehna kawng chu a rei thei hle. Mahse, chu zinkawngah chuan nangmah chauh i ni lo. I tanpui thei tur mi an awm.
I doctor nen inbia la, a nih loh leh mental health counselor tanpuina zawng rawh.I tan hmalakna pawimawh tak leh huaisen tak a ni ang.
Take-Home Thuchah a ni
- Sexual assault hi i sualna a ni ngai lo. Thil tisualtu sualna a ni fo.
- Thil thleng zawhah thu sawi thei lo nghal mai hi thil awmdan pangngai a ni. Trauma na tak chuan hriatrengna a tichhe thei a, a titawp thei bawk.
- Recovery hi a danglam bik leh mimal zinkawng a ni a, hun leh tih dan tur ruat a awm lo.
- I ṭhian rintlak, chhungte, counselor emaw, i doctor emaw nena inbiakna chu dam lehna kawng zawh hmasak ber pawimawh tak a ni thei.
- Rorelna dik zawngin i chanchin i sawi hian nangmah chauh ni lovin, ngawi renga hrehawm tuar midang tam tak pawh i tichak a ni.
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