Chhungkuaa nausen thar lo kal tur atan naupang upa zawk chu kan buatsaih tur em ni? (Unau thar inbuatsaihna)

I in chhunga naute dang rawn hruai luh i inpeih hunah chuan i rilruah zawhna lian ber chu i fa upa zawk chungchang a ni lawm ni? ‘Min ngai dawn em ni?’, ‘Naute hi a thik dawn em?’ tih ang chi ngaihtuahna neih hi thil pangngai tak a ni. Member thar lo thlen hian nangmah, i fa upa zawk leh i ran vulhte tan pawh inthlak danglamna lian tak a thlen tihna a ni. Mahse, lungngai suh u, dawhtheihna tlem leh inbuatsaihna tlemte nen chuan he harsatna hi hlawhtling takin kan hmachhawn thei a ni.

Hemi chungchang hi naupang upa zawk nen sawiho ila.

I fa upa zawkin unau thar chungchang engzat nge a hriatthiam ang tih chu an kum a zirin a innghat ang. Mahse, i hnaih thei a, chu mi chungchâng chu i sawi ṭan thei a ni. Nau piang tharte chu eng ang nge an nih tih leh eng nge an tih tih chu hrilhfiah mai rawh. I fa upa zawk chu crib-ah a la muhil ang tih han ngaihtuah teh. Chuvangin, naute thar a lo haw hma thla engemaw zat hnuah khum thar lei la, a hman thiam tir rawh. Chutiang chuan "Naute hnenah ka hmun ka pe" tih angin a inhria lovang. Tin, crib chu i fa upa zawk ta tia koh kha bansan la, "nausen crib" tia koh tan rawh. A naute thawmhnaw hlui pawh chutiang bawk chu a ni. "Hengte hi in lama naute tan kan hman thin thilte chu a ni" tih hriatna pe rawh. A theih chuan clinic i kal dawnin i fa upa zawk kha hruai la. Naute thinlung ri chu hre rawh se . I fa upa zawkte a naupan lai thlalak i entir thei bawk a, naute chu eng ang nge an nih tih leh bawnghnute an in dan te i hrilh thei bawk. Eng ang pawhin inbuatsaih tum mah la, a mit ngeia naute a hmuh veleh unau thar neih awmzia kimchang chu a hrethiam mai ang. A bula unaupa kum 3 mi ang bawka khelhpui tur a hmu niin a ngai mai thei. Chuvangin a fantasy leh reality inkarah hian danglamna a awm thei. Chu chu thil pangngai a ni. Naute hmu tura damdawi in i kal dawnin i fa upa zawk thlalak frame la, i khum bulah dah rawh. Engmah sawi suh. Naupangte pawhin an hmu ngei ang. Tichuan, "Mommy hian min theihnghilh lo, min kalsan lo," tiin an ngaihtuah ang.

Naute a lo haw hnuah eng nge thleng?

Nausen thar chu a tir lamah chuan naupang upa zawk tan chuan duhthusam tak angin lang mah se, rei vak lo hnuah, a tak tak a hriat chhuah hunah chuan thinrimna te, lungngaihna te, leh lungngaihna te ang chi rilru tha lo tak tak a nei thei a ni. Hei hi thil pangngai tak a ni a, lungngai suh.Nu leh pa \henkhat pawhin he hun chhung hian lungngai leh mahni chauha awm an nei thei bawk. An ngaihtuah mai thei, "Aw, ka fa upa zawk kha engtin nge ka tih?" Chu inzawmna hloh chu kan lungngai mai thei. Chu chu thil pangngai a ni. A pawimawh ber chu i fate rilru put hmang tha lo chu a awm ang anga pawm hi a ni. Chutiang rilru put hmang avang chuan hau suh la, dem suh. Chu ai chuan, chutiang rilru put hmang chu anmahni chauhvin hmachhawn tir suh la, sawi la, thlamuanna pe suh. Entirnan, mi pakhatin, "Engvangin nge chu naute chu Mommy-i'n a chelh? I dah mai mai thei lo em ni?", tiin a zawh chuan hahdamna nasa tak an nei thei a ni. An hrethiam ang, "Aw, keimah chauh hi hetiang hian ka awm lo."

Tips tlem te te te

• Dan kha tizau rawh: TV on chung pawhin i fa chu ring taka a inkhelh avangin hau suh. I naute chu in chhunga thawm pangngai chu hmang thiam tir rawh. A ri nasa lutuk a nih chuan thil dang ngawi rengin inhmang leh rawh.
• Ṭanpuina dawng rawh: Naute chu enkawl ngai thil angin enkawl suh. Naupang upa zawk pawh hna tenau pe bawk ang che. "Chu wipe te chu rawn keng la, fapa," emaw, "He diaper hi rawn keng rawh, fanu" tih ang chi te hi sawi rawh.
• Hun bik ruat rawh: Eng ang pawhin buai mah la, ni khatah minute 10 tal chu i fa upa zawk nen mahni chauha awm turin ruahman rawh. Thil lian tak a nih a ngai lo. A bulah leia thut a, car game khelh ang maia awlsam a ni thei a, shopping i kal dawna a duhzawng chocolate bar leisak ang chi pawh a ni thei.
• Naute nih leh tumin i bei mek em? A châng chuan i fa upa zawk chu naute tê ang maiin a che leh ṭan ṭhin. Hei hi regression kan ti a ni . Khum chu a hnim a , bottle a dil a, diaper a dil bawk. Naute ngaihsakna a duh vang a ni. Chutih lai chuan hau suh. "Tunlai hian tlangval lian tak i ni tawh" ti suh. Ni engemaw zat chhung chu bottle emaw diaper emaw a duh a tih chuan phalsak rawh. A tam zawkah chuan chutiang rilru put hmang chu i thlahthlam hnuah chuan "unaupa lian" emaw "unaunu lian" emaw nih leh a duh leh tawh ang.

In lama rannung awmte pawh hi ngaihtuah ila?

Naute thar i neih hunah i ui emaw, i ui emaw kha theihnghilh suh. An nunah pawh danglamna lian tak a ni. Hriak thar, aw thar, tih dan danglam... heng zawng zawng hi an tan chuan thil thar a ni. A châng chuan ran vulhte hian he stress avang hian an luak chhuak ṭan thei a, an acting out thei a, in chhungah an poop thei a, thil an ei tan thei a, zanah pawh an au chhuak thei bawk. Rannungte hian "jealousy" ang chi emotion complex tak tak hi an hrethiam lo. An lungawi lo leh buai fo thin . Chuvangin hrem hi i tih theih pawi ber a ni. Chu ai chuan he member thar hi hmang thiam zawk rawh. A tawpah chuan hei hi hun eng emaw chen atan chauh a ni. Hei hi chhungkaw anga kan tawn vek insiamremna hun tlemte chauh a ni. Hun a lo kal zel a, he hun harsa tak hi hriatrengna mai a ni tawh ang. Member thar hian chhungkua tan hmangaihna leh hlimna nasa zawk a thlen dawn a ni. Naute pahnihna, naupang upa zawk, unau inelna Sinhala , naute thar buatsaih, naupang inhuatna, chhungkaw member thar, naupai