Ko te noho hei whaea, hei matua rānei te moemoeā nui rawa atu o te oranga o te tini tāngata. Engari i ētahi wā, nā ngā take maha, he uaua ki te whakatutuki i taua moemoeā. Koinei te wā e tahuri ai te tini tāngata ki ngā maimoatanga IVF ( In Vitro Fertilization ) . He manaakitanga pono tēnei i roto i te rongoā. Engari ehara tēnei haerenga i te mea ngāwari pērā i tō whakaaro. Ina koa mō te hunga e whakaaro ana, "Āe, he rawe mēnā ka whānau māhanga tātou katoa i te wā kotahi," he taha ngaro kei roto i tēnei haerenga. I tēnei rā, kei te kōrero tātou mō tēnei mea, me te wheako tūturu o tētahi wahine ko Spring te ingoa, e noho ana i Amerika.
Te Kōrero mō te Koanga: Te Tumanako me te Tūturutanga
He wahine a Spring, e 32 tau te pakeke. E whā tau me te hawhe te roa o tana ngana ki te hapu, ā, kua tahuri kē rāua ki te maimoatanga IVF. Kāore i angitu tā rāua nganatanga IVF tuatahi. Engari i te tuarua o ngā wā, i whakatōkia e ngā tākuta ētahi kukune e toru ki roto i tōna kōpū.
I te tuatahi, i kī te tākuta kei te hapu māhanga rāua. Engari i muri i ētahi rā, ka tae mai he rongo miharo - kei te hapu rāua i te tuatoru o ngā pēpi! Engari kāore i roa te harikoa. I hapa te haputanga tuatoru. Hei whakamutunga, kei te hapu māhanga a Spring.
E ai ki tāna, he rite te tukanga katoa ki te ekenga i runga i te roera koti. He ranunga tonu o ngā piki me ngā heke, te harikoa , te pōuri, te wehi, me te tumanako.
"Kāore mātou i tino tumanako he māhanga. Engari nā te mea he māhanga ā ō mātou whānau e rua, i whakaaro mātou he waimarie mātou ki te whānau mai i a rāua. Engari i te taenga mai ki te IVF, ko tā mātou tumanako anake ko te whānau mai i tētahi pēpi hauora . I tino harikoa mātou i te rongonga kei te whānau māua he māhanga."
"E hiahia ana hoki ahau ki ngā māhanga" - he pono rānei tēnei whakaaro?
Ina whakaaro te nuinga o te iwi mō te IVF, ka whakaaro rātou, "He pai rawa atu mēnā ka taea e māua te whānau tamariki e rua mō te utu me te kaha ōrite." He whakaaro tino noa tēnei. Engari he kōrero nui tā Spring mō tēnei.
"Ki te haere mai tetahi ki tēnei maimoatanga me te whakaaro e hiahia ana ki ngā māhanga, he whakaaro hē tēnā. He tukanga uaua rawa tēnei, he tukanga nui hoki. Ka pā ki a koe, ki tō tāne, ki tō whānau, ki te katoa i te hinengaro me te tinana. Me tīmata tēnei haerenga mai i te wāhi o te kī, 'E hiahia ana ahau ki tētahi whānau, ka koa ahau ki te whakaae ki tētahi tamaiti e homai ana e te Atua ki ahau.'"
E ai ki tāna, he manaakitanga te tamaiti. He whakatau uaua te IVF, engari koinei anō te whakatau pai rawa atu mō tō whānau. Ko te mea nui ko te whakatairanga i te whāinga o te tamaiti hauora me te whaea hauora, kaua ki te whakaaro ki ngā māhanga.
He aha te hiranga o tēnei?
He māmā noa iho, ko te whānautanga o ngā pēpi e rua, neke atu rānei, kaua ko te kotahi (hapūtanga maha) he tūponotanga mō te whaea me ngā pēpi. Ehara tēnei i te mea hei wehi, engari he mea nui kia mōhio.
| Tauwehenga Mōrearea | Whakaahuatanga |
|---|---|
| whānautanga o mua | Neke atu i te 60% o ngā māhanga ka whānau wawe, ka nui ake te mōrearea o ngā tamariki ki ngā raruraru hauora. |
| Taumaha Whānau Iti | He maha ngā māhanga e whānau mai ana me te taumaha iti i te whānautanga, ā, me rongoa pea ēnei i roto i tētahi wāhanga tiaki nui mō ngā pēpi hou (NICU). |
| Ngā raruraru pea mō te whaea | He nui ake te mōrearea o ngā mate pēnei i te mate huka hapūtanga me te pre-eclampsia i te wā e hapu ana. He nui ake hoki te mōrearea o te hiahia kia pokaia te pēpi (C-section). |
| Okiokinga Moenga | Pērā i te Koanga, he maha ngā whaea e whānau ana i ngā māhanga me okioki ki te moenga i tētahi wā i te wā e hapu ana rātou. |
Nā, he aha tā tātou mahi?
Ehara tēnei kōrero i te kī kia kaua e mahi i te IVF, kia kore rānei e pai ngā māhanga. Engari e kī ana kia noho pono, kia mātau, kia rite hoki te hinengaro mō tēnei haerenga.Ko tōna tikanga he anga atu ki taua mea .
1. Kōrero mārire ki tō tākuta: I mua i te tīmatanga o te maimoatanga IVF, kōrerohia ō tumanako, ō wehi, me ngā mea katoa ki tō tākuta. Mā te tākuta e whakatau te maha o ngā kukune hei whakawhiti ki roto i te kōpū, me te whai whakaaro ki tō tau, ki tō āhua hauora, me ētahi atu āhuatanga maha. Kōrerohia marietia, kia mārama hoki.
2. Te whakarite hinengaro: He haerenga uaua te IVF mō te tinana me te hinengaro. Ka taea e ngā werohanga homoni, ngā karapa auau, me te tatari mō ngā hua te whakararuraru. Nō reira, kia marino tō hinengaro, me te rapu tohutohu mēnā e tika ana.
3. Rapua he tautoko : He mea nui te tautoko a tō hoa rangatira i tēnei haerenga. Me whakamōhio atu hoki ki tō whānau me ō hoa pono. He puna kaha nui tā rātou tautoko mōu.
4. Whakamāramahia tō whāinga: Ko tō whāinga tuatahi, ko te whānau i tētahi pēpi hauora . He manaakitanga rua te whānautanga o ngā māhanga. Engari kaua e waiho koinā anake hei whāinga māu.
He hangarau whakamiharo te IVF kua āwhina i ngā miriona tāne me ngā wāhine e pāngia ana e te kore tamariki. Ko te mea nui, i a koe e tīmata ana i taua haerenga, kia mōhio koe ki tōna ataahua me ōna wero, ā, kia kaha hoki tō haere i roto i taua haerenga.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- He whai wāhitanga nui te maimoatanga IVF hei whakatutuki i tō moemoeā kia whānau he tamaiti, engari he haerenga uaua ki te tinana, ki te hinengaro hoki.
- Ehara i te mea whakaaro nui te whai i te maimoatanga IVF me te whakaaro anake kia "whānau māhanga." Ko tāu whāinga matua kia whānau he pēpi hauora me te whaea hauora .
- He mea tino nui kia mōhio koe ki ngā mōrearea ka puta mai i te whaea me ngā tamariki i te wā e hapu ana ngā tamariki maha.
- Kōrerohia tata, tuwhera hoki ki tō tākuta puta noa i tēnei tukanga katoa. Kōrerohia ō feaa me ō mataku ki a ia.
- Ka waiho te tautoko a tō hoa rangatira me tō whānau hei kaha nui mōu puta noa i tēnei haerenga.
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