Ka ārai ohorere rānei tāu tamaiti i tōna manawa i ētahi wā? He wheako tino whakamataku tēnei mō ngā mātua katoa, ka waiho koe kia pōuri, kia mataku hoki. Tēnā, manawa hōhonu—kāore koe i te mokemoke. I tēnei rā, ka kōrero tātou mō ngā 'Makakara Whakapūmau Manawa' hei āwhina i a koe ki te mārama he aha ēnei, he aha ai ēnei, me pēhea hoki e taea ai e koe te whakautu mārire me te whai hua hei mātua mā te whakamahi i ngā aratohu tohunga a Nirogi Lanka.
He aha te karakia pupuri manawa?
I roto i ngā kupu māmā, ka puta te karakia pupuri manawa ina mutu te manawa o te tamaiti nohinohi mō te wā poto hei whakautu i te riri, te pouri, te mataku ohorere, te mamae tinana rānei . Hei tauira, ki te riri tō tamaiti nā te mea kāore koe i hoatu he taonga takaro ki a ia, ka tangi pea ia, kātahi ka mutu ohorere te manawa. I ētahi wā, ka ngaro pea te mārama o te tamaiti.
He wheako whakamataku te kitenga i tāu tamaiti e pupuri ana i tōna manawa, ā, ka taea e ngā mātua katoa te mataku. Heoi, ko te mea tino whakamarie kia mōhio koe, kāore ēnei karakia e kino ki tāu tamaiti. E kore e roa ake i te meneti te roa . Ko te mea nui, ka taea e ngā tamariki te tipu ake i ēnei karakia me te kore e hiahiatia he wawaotanga hauora. Kāore he take e mataku ai mō te wā roa.
He rerekē ngā momo karakia pupuri manawa?
Ae, e rua ngā momo karakia pupuri manawa matua. Me titiro tātou ki ēnei:
1. Karakia Pupuri Manawa Kino
Koinei te momo e tino kitea ana. Ka puta i te nuinga o te wā ina tangi nui te tamaiti — he maha ngā wā nā te riri, nā te pōuri rānei — ā, ka pupuri ohorere i tōna manawa. Nō reira, ka kikorangi te mata me ngā ngutu o te tamaiti, me te mea nei kāore i te nui te hāora. Ko te tikanga o te kupu 'Cyanotic' ko te "huri kikorangi".
Whakaarohia tētahi horopaki ka haria e koe tāu tamaiti ki te toa, ka whakakahoretia he taonga takaro, ā, ka riri rātou, ka tangi tae noa ki te kikorangi. He tauira matarohia tēnei o te 'mahi pupuri manawa kino', e akiakihia ana e te riri nui, e te riri rānei .
2. Karakia Pupuri Manawa Kirikiri
I tēnei momo, ka tino mā te mata o te tamaiti, me te mea kua maringi te toto i tōna mata. I mua i tēnei, tera pea ka tangi te tamaiti mō te wā poto, kāore rānei e tangi . Ko te tikanga o te kupu 'Pallid' he "mā".
Ko te tikanga ka puta ēnei āhuatanga ina ohorere te tamaiti, ina mamae rānei. Hei tauira, ki te hinga tāu tamaiti i a ia e takaro ana, ka tukinga tōna mahunga, ka mataku rānei i te haruru nui, ka mā ia, ka pupuri i tōna manawa, kāore e tangi i mua.
He mea nui: Mō ngā momo karakia e rua, ahakoa te āhua kikorangi, te āhua mā rānei o te tamaiti, ka ngaro pea tōna māramatanga mō te meneti . Ahakoa he mea whakamataku tēnei ki te kite, ka hoki anō tōna māramatanga i muri tata mai.
He mea nui hoki kia mōhiotia, i ētahi wā tino onge , ka pāngia pea te tamaiti e te nekehanga poto, pērā i te haurangi. Kaua e mataku mēnā ka pā mai tēnei. Ahakoa ka pā mai he haurangi, kāore e pā kino mō te wā roa , kāore hoki e tohu ka pāngia tō tamaiti e te mate haurangi (pērā i te mate haurangi) ā muri ake nei. Kia maumahara ki tēnei.
Ko ngā karakia pupuri manawa ka puta i roto i ngā tamariki hauora . Ka puta pea i waenga i te 6 marama me te 6 tau te pakeke , engari ko te nuinga i waenga i te 6 me te 18 marama . Ka taea e ēnei karakia te tuku i roto i ngā whānau ; mēnā i pā ki a koe, ki tō hoa rānei i a koe e tamariki ana, he iti te tūponotanga ka pā anō hoki ki tāu tamaiti.
He aha i whakawhanakehia ai tēnei whanonga e ngā tamariki?
Ko te mea nui kia mārama, kāore rawa ngā tamariki e pupuri manawa noa . Ehara tēnei i te rautaki tinihanga hei whakamataku i a koe, hei whiwhi rānei i tā rātou e hiahia ana; he urupare koretake tēnei.kāore e taea e te tamaiti te whakahaere. He tauhohenga ā-tinana noa iho tēnei o tōna tinana.
He pono, kāore anō kia tautuhia e ngā tākuta tētahi tino take mō ēnei mahi makutu.
Heoi, kua kitea he paku noa ake te kitea o ēnei mate i roto i ngā tamariki he mate toto kore rino . Mena he iti te taumata o te rino o tāu tamaiti, mā te rongoā tika i tēnei mate ka taea te whakaiti i te auau o ēnei mate. He mea pai kia kōrero ki tō tākuta tamariki hei matapaki i tēnei.
Me aha ahau mēnā he karakia pupuri manawa tā taku tamaiti?
Koinei te āwangawanga tino nui mō ngā mātua. Ahakoa he āhuatanga whakararuraru, ko te noho marino te taputapu tino nui. Anei ngā mea me mahi e koe:
Mena koinei te wā tuatahi…
Mena kua pāngia tō tamaiti e te mate manawa mō te wā tuatahi , me rapu tohutohu hauora koe . Whakaritea he wā hui ki tō tākuta tamariki kia arotakehia ai tō tamaiti. Ahakoa he kore kino ēnei mate, he mea nui te tirotiro ā-ngaio kia kore ai e kitea he raruraru hauora kei roto. Ka tono pea tō tākuta kia whakamātauria he toto auau.
I te wā e pupuri ana te tamaiti i tōna manawa…
Noho marino, ā, whai i ēnei mahi:
- Āta whakatakotoria tāu tamaiti ki runga i tētahi mata papatahi, haumaru hoki , pērā i tōna moenga pēpi, i tētahi whāriki ma rānei i runga i te papa. Ki te taea, tahuri tōna māhunga ki te taha.
- Me whakarite kia kore he mea koi (pērā i te karāhe, i ngā taha koi rānei) i ngā arai mārō rānei (pērā i ngā waewae o ngā tāonga). Mā tēnei ka ārai i tāu tamaiti kei whara mēnā ka ngaro te māramatanga.
- Me noho ki tō tamaiti. Kaua e waiho ko ia anake. Mā tō noho marino ka whakamarie i tō tamaiti, ā, ka āwhina i a koe kia noho marino.
Ki te ngaro te māramatanga o te tamaiti…
He mea maori te mataku mēnā ka hemo tō tamaiti, engari kia maumahara ki ēnei kōrero:
- Ngāna kia noho marino tonu. Mā te mataku ka uaua ake te whakahaere i te āhuatanga. Kia maumahara ki a koe anō: 'Ka ora taku tamaiti, ka pahemo tēnei, ā, i kī mai te tākuta kāore tēnei i te mōrearea.'
- Tirohia te waha o te tamaiti kia kore ai he kai, he mea ke rānei (pērā i te taonga takaro) e aukati ana i tōna ara manawa . Mēnā he mea kei roto i tōna waha, tangohia mārire.
- Ko te mea nui: Mena he kikorangi rawa te mata o tāu tamaiti, kāore rānei i tīmata te manawa i muri i te meneti kotahi , waea atu ki te 911, ki ō ratonga ohorere ā-rohe rānei , haria rānei ki te hōhipera tata. Me whakaaro he āhuatanga hauora tēnei.
I muri i te mutunga o te karakia…
Kia mutu te wā, ā, kua hoki tō tamaiti ki tōna āhua noa,
- Awhitia, whakamarietia tāu tamaiti me te aroha. Āta whakamarietia rātou mā te kī atu, "Kei te ora koe ināianei, kei te pai ngā mea katoa, kei konei a Māmā/Pāpā i tō taha."
- Whakamanahia rātou ehara i te he nā rātou. Tērā pea ka mataku, ka hara rānei ētahi tamariki, ka whakaaro ko rātou anō te take o te raruraru, nō reira he mea nui kia mōhio rātou kāore rātou i mahi he.
He huarahi hei ārai i ngā karakia pupuri manawa?
Ki te pono, kāore he huarahi hei ārai i ēnei mahi makutu, nā te mea he mahi ā-ringa koretake ēnei, ehara i te whanonga āta whakaarohia. Heoi, ka taea e koe te whakaiti i tōna auau. Ka tūtohu mātou kia kōrerohia tēnei ki tō tākuta tamariki kia pai ai te whakarite i tētahi mahere mō tāu tamaiti.
I te mea he maha ngā wā ka puta ēnei āhuatanga ina tangi, ina pōuri rānei te tamaiti, he tino āwhina te arotahi ki te whakaiti i ngā mea e whakaoho ana i te mamae me te riri . Hei tauira:
- Āta karohia te ngenge nui me te hiakai.Ka tino whakaitihia te manawanui o te tamaiti ki te riri e te ngenge me te hiakai. Me whai i tētahi wātaka kai me te moe kia mau tonu ai te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto o tāu tamaiti.
- Whakamahia ngā tikanga whiu marino. Kaua e hamama, kaua hoki e whiu tinana i te wā e whakatika ana i ngā whanonga kino. Engari, kia māia, kia ngawari, kia aroha hoki. He mea nui te whakatakoto i ngā rohe mārama mō te whanaketanga o te tamaiti.
- Matapaetia me te whakahaere i ngā mea e whakaoho ana i te riri me te ahotea o tāu tamaiti. Ki te taea e koe te tautuhi i ngā āhuatanga e whakaoho tonu ana i te pouri, i te ahotea rānei mō tāu tamaiti, ngana ki te karo i aua mea e whakaoho ana i te riri, ki te whakarite rānei i tāu tamaiti i mua i te wā mō te āhuatanga.
He kōrero nui: He mea whakamataku te mātakitaki i tētahi karakia pupuri manawa. Heoi, kaua e tukua tēnei wehi kia ārahi koe ki te tuku i a koe ki ngā ngangau katoa, ki ngā tono katoa rānei . Mā te tuku i a koe ki ngā hiahia katoa a tāu tamaiti nā te wehi, te kore rānei e aro ki ngā whanonga kino, ka pā kino pea ki te whiu a tāu tamaiti, ā, ka ārahi pea rātou ki te whakamahi i ēnei karakia hei huarahi ki te whakatutuki i tā rātou ake hiahia. Mena kei te raru koe ki te kimi i te taurite tika mō te whiu, kōrero ki tō tākuta ; ka taea e rātou te whakarato i ngā aratohu ngaio e hāngai ana ki ngā hiahia o tō whānau.
Me maumahara tonu ki a koe anō ehara ēnei karakia i te kino , ā, ka pakeke haere tō tamaiti, ka kore e pakeke haere.
Ki te kite koe kei te tino taumaha rawa tō manukanuka , kaua e mangere ki te rapu tautoko mai i tētahi tohunga hauora hinengaro . Ka taea e rātou te whakarato i ngā rautaki whai hua me te tautoko ki a koe, he mea nui anō hoki te pupuri i tō ake oranga hinengaro mō te hauora o tāu tamaiti.
Ngā kōrero whakamutunga hei maumahara…
He nui ngā kōrero kua kōrerohia e mātou mō ngā karakia pupuri manawa i tēnei rā. Ko te tumanako ka āwhina ēnei kōrero i a koe ki te whakatau i ō āwangawanga. Anei tētahi whakarāpopototanga poto o ngā mea hei maumahara māu:
- Kāore e taea e tāu tamaiti te whakahaere i aua karakia , nō reira kaua e whakapae i a ia.
- Kāore i te mōrearea , ā, he iti iho i te meneti te roa.
- Tērā pea ka kikorangi (puru kiri) ka mā rānei tō tamaiti, ā, i ētahi wā, ka ngaro pea te māramatanga.
- I ētahi wā onge, ka puta pea he haurangi iti (Hōngongoi) , engari kāore ēnei e pā kino mō te wā roa, e arahi rānei ki te mate haurangi.
- Me toro atu ki te tākuta i te wā tuatahi ka puta he mate urutā hei whakakore i ētahi atu mate.
- Me noho marino, ka whakatakoto i tāu tamaiti ki tētahi wāhi haumaru , me te tango atu i ngā mea koi, i ngā mea kino rānei e tata ana.
- Ki te kore tāu tamaiti e hoki anō ki te manawa i roto i te meneti kotahi, ki te kore rānei te tae kikorangi e memeha, rapua tonutia he awhina hauora, waea atu rānei ki te 911 (ki tō ratonga whawhati tata rānei).
- Ko te tikanga ka memeha haere ēnei mate i te 5, 6 rānei o te tau.
- Kaua e tukua te wehi kia aukati i a koe ki te whakatinana i ngā ture pumau .
- Ki te mea kei te pēhia koe, rapua he tohutohu hauora, he kōrero rānei ki tētahi tohunga hauora hinengaro (Hauora Hinengaro) .
Ki te pāngia tāu tamaiti e ēnei āhuatanga, kia marino, kia tūpato hoki. Me aroha tonu ki tāu tamaiti, ā, kaua e mangere ki te rapu tohutohu hauora ngaio ina hiahiatia. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe me tō whānau mai i Nirogi Lanka!
