Kua whakaaro kē koe he rerekē te āhua o tāu tamaiti i ētahi atu tamariki? Kāore ia e titiro tika ki ngā kanohi o ētahi atu? He uaua ki a ia ētahi oro? He pai ake rānei ki a ia te noho mokemoke i roto i tōna ake ao? He mea noa ki ngā mātua te mataku me te manukanuka ina kite rātou i ngā mea pēnei. Engari kaua e manukanuka. He otinga kei reira mō ngā mea katoa. Kia mārama tātou ki tēnei.
He aha tēnei 'rerekētanga'? Me tautuhi tātou i ngā tohu
Ina kite tuatahi te nuinga o ngā mātua i ēnei mea, ka whakaaro rātou, "Koinei tonu tōna āhua" ka whakaaro rānei "Ka pai ake tēnei i roto i te wā." Engari i ētahi wā ka nui haere te horapa o ēnei whanonga. Whakaarohia pēnei.
Kua rēhitatia tāu tamaiti ki te kura kōhungahunga. Engari ka tangi ia i ia ata, kāore e pai ki te whakarērea koe. Kāore ia e takaro ki ētahi atu tamariki. Ka noho ko ia anake. Ka riri nui ia mēnā kāore āna taonga takaro e whakatakotoria. I ētahi wā ka papaki tonu ia, kāore he take.
He mea noa pea te pāngia e tētahi, e rua rānei o ēnei tohu. Engari, ki te kitea ngātahi ētahi o ēnei tohu, he mea pea tēnei hei āwangawanga mā tātou. Koinei te wā me rapu āwhina tātou i tētahi tākuta. Tērā pea ka whakakotahi tō tākuta i ēnei tohu, ka kī mai ko te Asperger's Syndrome pea tēnei mate.
Ehara te mate Asperger i te mate. He panonitanga tēnei i te whanaketanga o te roro o te tamaiti. Ko te tikanga he rerekē te 'hononga' o aua tamariki.
Te rerekētanga i waenga i te Asperger's Syndrome me te Autism
He tokomaha te hunga e whakapoauau ana i te mate Asperger me te autism. Inaa, he tino ōrite ngā mea e rua. I ēnei rā, e whakaarohia ana e ngā tākuta ngā āhuatanga e rua i raro i te kāwai whānui o te mate autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Ko te tikanga he āhuatanga e rua i roto i te whānau kotahi. Engari kia mārama ai, me titiro tātou ki ētahi o ngā rerekētanga matua i waenganui i ngā mea e rua.
| Āhuatanga | Te mate a Asperger | Autism Matarohia |
|---|---|---|
| Te pūkenga kōrero | Kāore he whakaroa i te kōrero. He maha ngā kupu e mōhiotia ana e ia, engari he ngoikore tana reo whakapuaki. | He maha ngā wā, ka tino whakaroahia te kaha ki te kōrero. |
| Ngā hononga pāpori | He uaua ki te mārama ki ngā kare ā-roto me ngā āhua o te kanohi o ētahi atu tāngata (ngā tohu pāpori). Koia te uaua ki te kimi hoa. | He pai ake ki a rātou te noho motuhake mai i ētahi atu, me te noho i roto i tō rātou ake ao. |
| Te Pūkenga Hinengaro (IQ) | He toharite, he nui ake rānei tō rātou atamai i te toharite. | Ka rerekē te mātauranga mai i te ngawari ki te kino. I ētahi wā ka kitea ngā ngoikoretanga ako. |
He uaua ki te mārama ki ngā whanonga pāpori
He uaua ki ngā tamariki whai Asperger te whakaatu i te aroha . Ko te tikanga he uaua ki a rātou te mārama ki ngā kare ā-roto o tētahi atu, pērā i te pouri, i te harikoa rānei. He uaua hoki ki a rātou te pānui i ngā tohu pāpori, pērā i ngā āhua o te kanohi me te āhua o tā rātou kōrero. Nā tēnei ka uaua ki a rātou te kimi hoa.
Te hononga i waenga i te mate a Asperger me te OCD
He maha ngā tamariki e pāngia ana e te mate Asperger ka taea te whakawhanake i ngā hiahia nui, ā, ka taea te aro nui ki ētahi mea. Hei tauira, tera pea ka nui rawa atu te hiahia o te tamaiti ki ngā taraka para me te tukanga kohikohi para, ā, ka nui ake tōna mōhio ki aua taraka i te tangata e mahi ana i taua mara.
Waihoki, ka taea e tēnei āhuatanga te haere tahi me ngā tohu o te Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), he āhuatanga e puta ai ngā whakaaro me ngā mahi kāore e hiahiatia .
- Te kare ā-roto o te kati tonu i ngā tatau.
- Te kare ā-roto o te pana i ngā tūru ki roto, me te whakarite kia tika.
- Te tino pōuri me te riri mēnā he iti noa te rerekētanga o te mahinga o ia rā.
He raruraru ā-manukanuka me te whakahaere riri tō ēnei tamariki.Tērā pea. E ai ki taku kōrero i mua ake nei, e mōhio ana koe he aha ētahi tamariki e papaki ringa tonu ana? He huarahi tēnei e whakamahia ana e rātou hei whakarite me te whakamarie i a rātou anō ina pāngia rātou e te manukanuka, e te āwangawanga rānei.
Me pēhea te āwhina i te tamaiti?
Kaua e wehi ki te whakarongo ki ēnei ingoa (Asperger's, OCD). Ko te mea nui ko te kimi me pēhea te āwhina i tā tātou tamaiti, kaua ki ēnei tapanga. Kāore he otinga kotahi mō tēnei. Me whakamātau koe i te whakakotahitanga o ngā mea rerekē.
- Te whakaiti i ngā mea e whakaoho ana i te riri me te manukanuka o tāu tamaiti (Tr IgG ers): Te tautuhi i ngā mea e whakaoho ana i te riri me te manukanuka o tāu tamaiti, me te pupuri kia matara atu i aua mea i ngā wā katoa e taea ana.
- Te rongoā:
- Whakaora Mahi: Ka āwhina tēnei ki te whakawhanake i ngā pūkenga e hiahiatia ana mō ngā mahi o ia rā, pērā i te kai me te pūnu me te here i ngā here hū.
- Whakaora Tinana: Ka āwhina ki te whakapai ake i te taunga o te tinana me ngā pūkenga nekeneke.
- He mahinga auau: He mea tino nui mō ēnei tamariki he mahinga auau, he iti noa ngā rerekētanga, ā, he rite tonu te mahinga i ia rā. Ka hoatu he wairua haumaru ki a rātou.
- Rongoā: Me hoatu pea he rongoā ki ētahi tamariki hei whakahaere i te manukanuka nui, i ētahi atu raruraru whanonga rānei , i raro i te tohutohu a te tohunga . Kaua rawa e hoatu he rongoā ki tāu tamaiti me te kore whakaaetanga a te tākuta.
- Ngā Tauira Pai: He tauira pai te whai hoa manawanui mō tāu tamaiti.
- Kararehe: Mā te whai mōkai, inā koa he kurī, ka āwhina i ēnei tamariki ki te whakawhanake i ō rātou pūkenga pāpori. Ka taea e rātou te kōrero ki te kurī, te tākaro ki a ia, me te whakaatu i te aroha. He mahi pai tēnei mō te hanga whanaungatanga ki te tangata.
Ehara te mate Asperger i te mea kāore e taea te wikitoria. Ehara i te mutunga o te ora. Ahakoa he tino mohio tō tamaiti, he rerekē te pūnaha o tōna roro. Koinā anake.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ki te kite tonu koe i ētahi 'huringa' rerekē o te whanonga a tāu tamaiti, o ana taunekeneke pāpori rānei, kaua e kīia he 'tikanga kino' he 'raruraru hauora hinengaro' rānei, engari kia aro atu ki tēnā.
- Kaua e mataku, me toro atu ki tētahi tākuta tamariki, ki tētahi tohunga hinengaro tamariki rānei, kia whiwhi tohutohu ai koe. He mea tino nui te kitenga wawe i te mate mō te tamaiti.
- Ehara te mate Asperger i te mate, engari he mate whanaketanga. Mēnā he tautoko tika, he māramatanga, he aroha hoki, ka taea e te tamaiti te ora i te oranga noa, angitu hoki.
- Kia maumahara ko ngā tikanga whakaora, he mahinga auau, me te taiao aroha he mea nui mō te whanaketanga o te tamaiti. Kāore koe i te mokemoke, rapua he āwhina.
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