Kei te wā whakahihiri koe e tipu ake ana, ā, he maha ngā huringa kei roto i tō tinana. Kua kite koe i tō reo e tīmata ana te huri? Tērā pea ka pakaru, ka whati rānei ina kōrero koe? Kaua e manukanuka; he mea noa tēnei. I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka kōrerohia e tātou te take o tēnei, ngā take, me te wā e taea ai e koe te tumanako ka marino.
He aha i rerekē ai tō tātou reo i te wā e kore e roa?
He mea noa iho, he wāhanga tūturu o te pakeketanga te panonitanga o te reo. I roto i ngā tama, ka tīmata te tinana ki te whakaputa i te nui ake o te homoni (Testosterone) i tēnei wā. Ko tēnei homoni te kawenga mō ngā panonitanga maha e pā ana ki tō tinana, tae atu ki tō reo.
Whakaarohia pēnei: kei te tihi o tō puku manawa (Trachea) , he hanganga iti e kiia nei ko te larynx (Larynx) . E kiia ana tēnei e ētahi ko tō "pouaka reo". Ko te larynx te wāhi matua e puta ai tō reo.
I roto i tō arai, e rua ngā piko uaua e totoro ana ki runga, he rite tonu ki ngā here rapa. Ka kiia ēnei he taura reo (Vocal Cords) .
- Ina manawa noa koe, ka wātea ēnei taura reo, ka noho tonu ki ngā pakitara o te araioro kia rere ai te hau ki roto i ō pukahukahu me te kore he aukati.
- Heoi, ina kōrero koe, ka neke tata atu ngā taura reo tetahi ki tetahi, ka totoro puta noa i te arai . I te panaia o te hau mai i ō pūkahukahu mā roto i a rātou, ka wiri ngā taura. Ko taua wiri te mea e hanga ana i te oro o tō reo.
Ina kōrero koe i te reo iti, ka wātea, ka mahorahora ō taura reo. Ina kōrero koe i te reo teitei, ka totoro ake. Ka taea e koe te whakamātau i tēnei; tera pea ka rongo koe i te pēhanga i roto i tō korokoro i a koe e whakarerekē ana i tō reo.
I a koe e tipu haere ana, ka nui haere tō korokoro i te awe o te (Testosterone) . Nō reira, ka roa ake, ka matotoru ake hoki ō taura (Vocal Cords) . Hei tāpiri, ka tipu ake hoki ō wheua kanohi—tae atu ki ō ara ihu me ngā poka sinus (Sinus cavities) . Mā tēnei ka nui ake te wāhi mō tō reo ki te (Resonate) , koia te take ka hohonu ake tō reo.
Whakaarohia he kitā. Mā te tango i tētahi aho angiangi ka puta he oro teitei, tika? Engari he aha te mea ka puta ina tango koe i tētahi aho matotoru? Ka puta he oro hohonu, he oro whai rawa. Pērā anō hoki mō ō tātou reo. I a koe e tamariki ana, he iti tō korokoro, ā, he angiangi ō taura reo, ka hua ake he reo teitei ake, he reo tamariki. I a ēnei wāhanga e tipu tahi ana me te toenga o tō tinana, ka hohonu haere tō reo kia rite ki tō te pakeke.
Ahakoa ēnei panonitanga katoa, tera pea ka kite koe he rerekē te āhua o tō korokoro. I te tipu haere o te arai i roto i ngā tama, ka neke whakamua, ka hanga he puku e mōhiotia ana ko te "Āporo o Ātama." Ka tipu anō hoki ngā arai o ngā kōtiro, engari kāore i te tino nui, koia te take he iti ake te kitea o te Āporo o Ātama i roto i ngā uwha.
He uaua ki te whakahaere i tō reo? He pakaru tō reo?
Kia taunga rā anō tō tinana ki te arai nui me ngā taura reo hou e whanake ana, tera pea ka uaua ki te whakahaere i tō reo. Tērā pea ka rongo koe i te "pakaru" me te "pakaru" ohorere i a koe e kōrero ana, me te mea kei te pekepeke i waenga i ngā reo rerekē e rua.
Kaua e mataku. He wā poto noa iho tēnei "pakaru". I te nuinga o te wā, kāore tēnei wāhanga e roa atu i te torutoru marama, ā, e kore tō reo e pakaru i ia wā e kōrero ana koe.
Mō ētahi tama, ka hōhonu haere te reo, engari mō ētahi atu, tera pea ka āhua ohorere te huringa. Tērā pea ka whakama koe, ka āwangawanga rānei, engari he mea noa iho tēnā. Kia mahara, ka pā tēnei ki te katoa.Kua pā pea tēnei ki ō hoa, ki ō tuākana, me ō hoa mahi, ā, ka pā pea tēnei ki a rātou i ngā wā tata nei. Ā tōna wā, ka tino urutau tō tinana ki tō korokoro hou, nui ake, me tō reo hohonu ake.
Āhea ka tīmata te huri o tōku reo?
Tērā pea ka kite koe he reo pākiki kē tō ētahi o ō hoa, ko ētahi ia he reo hōhonu, ā, ko ētahi kei te rite tonu ki tō rātou tamarikitanga.
Anei te wāhanga tino nui: He rerekē te wātaka o te katoa. Ka huri wawe te reo o ētahi tāngata, ko ētahi ka huri i muri mai. He rerekē i ia tangata, i ia tangata.
Ko te tikanga, ka tīmata te huri o te reo o te tamaiti i waenga i te 11 me te 15 tau te pakeke . Heoi, ka taea e ētahi atu te huri i te wā e tika ana, ā, he pai noa iho. Kei te wā e pakeke haere ana koe. Nā te mea ka tere ake te pakeketanga o ētahi tama i ētahi atu, kāore he take e manukanuka ai mēnā ka huri te reo o tō hoa i tōu—ka huri anō hoki i te wā e tika ana.
Ka pēhea te tangi o tōku reo hou?
He pātai tēnei e pātaihia ana e te tini tāngata: Kia pēhea te hohonu o tōku reo? Ka tino pāorooro rānei?
Ko te hohonutanga o tō reo ka whakatauhia e te rahi o tō korokoro, te matotoru o ō taura reo, me te wāhi e haruru ana i tō mata me tō korokoro. He rite tonu te mahi ki taua tauira aho kitā.
Kia oti te wāhanga matua o te tipu o tō arai, ka pumau ake tō reo, ka māmā ake hoki te whakahaere , ā, ka ngaro atu ngā pakaru me ngā ngatata.
Heoi anō, kāore anō kia oti te whanake o tō reo! Ahakoa ngā huringa o te taiohitanga, kei te whanake tonu tō reo. Ahakoa kāore e roa te wā o te reo pakaru, mō te nuinga o ngā tama, ka tae te reo ki tōna taumata pakari i te tīmatanga o ō rātou rua tekau tau. Nō reira, he nui te manawanui.
Nā, he aha ngā mea tino nui hei maumahara mā tātou i roto i tā tātou kōrero?
Ko tāku tumanako kua mārama ake koe ki ngā panonitanga reo ināianei. Kia maumahara tātou ki ēnei kōrero:
- He mea noa te whakarerekētanga o te reo i te pakeketanga, inā koa i te wā
(Puberty). - Mō ngā tama, ko te homoni
( Testosterone )te tino take, e whakaoho ana i te tipu o te(Larynx)me ngā panoni ki ngā(Vocal Cords). - He wā poto noa te pakaru o te reo. Ka roa noa iho i te wā e taunga ana tō tinana ki ēnei huringa hou, nō reira kaua e manukanuka.
- Ka rerekē te reo o te katoa i runga i tā rātou ake wātaka . Tērā pea ka wawe ake, ka roa ake rānei i ō hoa; he mea noa tēnā.
- Ko te hohonutanga o tō reo ka whakatauhia e te tipu takitahi o tō tinana, ā, ka pumau i roto i te wā.
- Kāore he take e whakama ai koe, e mataku ai, e whakaiti ai rānei i a koe anō. He wheako tēnei e pā ana ki te katoa.
Ko te mea nui, kaua e noho ko koe anake i tēnei āhuatanga! E mārama ana ō hoa, ō kaiako , me ō mātua ki tēnei wāhanga, ā, ka tautoko i a koe. Mena he āwangawanga āu, kōrero ki tētahi pakeke pono.
Nō reira, i tēnei wā o te huringa, awhihia mai hei upoko hou mō tō oranga. He tohu noa iho tēnei kei te tipu hauora koe!
Huringa reo, pakeketanga, testosterone, larynx, taura reo, aporo o Ātama, huringa reo pakeketanga
