Mukakhala ndi chipinda cha mwana wanu chokongoletsedwa bwino komanso zovala zazing'ono zitayikidwa bwino m'chipinda chosungiramo zinthu, mumamva chisangalalo chachikulu mbali imodzi ya mtima wanu. Koma nthawi yomweyo, mbali inayo ya mtima wanu, mumamva mantha komanso nkhawa pang'ono, sichoncho? "O, ndingabwerere bwanji kuntchito? Ndingasiye bwanji mwana? Ndani angadyetse mwana popanda ine? Kodi ndidzatha kusamalira zonse ziwiri?" Mwina muli ndi mafunso ambiri otere m'maganizo mwanu. Zoonadi, kubwerera kuntchito mutakhala mayi ndi vuto lalikulu. Koma musadandaule, simuli nokha. Maganizo awa ndi ofanana ndi a mayi aliyense amene adutsa ulendowu. Tiyeni tiwone momwe tingathanirane ndi vutoli mosamala komanso mosangalala.
Choyamba choti muchite: pezani thandizo lodalirika
Palibe mtendere wamumtima ngati kukhala ndi munthu amene mungamudalire kuti azisamalira mwana wanu mukapita kuntchito. Mwanjira imeneyi, mutha kuyang'ana kwambiri ntchito yanu popanda nkhawa. Chifukwa chake iyi ndi sitepe yanu yoyamba komanso yofunika kwambiri.
Ganizirani zomwe mungasankhe. Mwina amayi anu, apongozi anu, kapena munthu wina wapafupi nanu angakuthandizeni. Umenewo ndi dalitso lalikulu. Koma si aliyense amene ali ndi mwayi umenewu. Pazochitika ngati zimenezi, muyenera kupeza malo odalirika osamalira ana kapena wosamalira ana .
Chofunika kwambiri ndichakuti, musasiye kusaka kumeneku mpaka mphindi yomaliza . Yambani kuyang'ana osachepera mwezi umodzi musanayambe kukonzekera kupita kuntchito. Chifukwa, ngakhale mutakhala ndi mpando wabwino wagalimoto mphindi yomaliza, simudzapeza munthu amene mumamudalira kuti azisamalira mwana wanu usiku wonse.
Musanasankhe munthu, fufuzani. Funsani za ntchito yake yakale. Onani ngati pali mnzanu amene adagwiritsapo ntchito ntchito zake. Ngati ndi malo osamalira ana, pitani kumeneko ndipo mukalankhule ndi makolo ena. Ndikofunikira kutenga nthawi yochita zinthu izi.
Musapite kukasambira nthawi yomweyo, choyamba lowani m'madzi.
Kukhala kunyumba ndi mwana wanu kwa miyezi ingapo kenako mwadzidzidzi kukhala mu ofesi tsiku lonse ndi kusintha kwakukulu kwa maganizo ndi thupi lanu. Zili ngati kudumphira mwadzidzidzi m'madzi akuya. Chifukwa chake, ngati mungathe, dziwani moyo watsopanowu mwachangu momwe mungathere.
Mwachidule, lankhulani ndi bwana wanu kuti muwone ngati angakupatseni mwayi wogwira ntchito yanthawi yochepa kwa milungu ingapo yoyambirira m'malo mwa nthawi yonse. Kapena, funsani ngati mungathe kugwira ntchito kunyumba tsiku limodzi kapena awiri pa sabata.
Lingaliro lina labwino ndikuyamba kubwerera kuntchito tsiku ngati Lachinayi , m'malo mwa tsiku loyamba la sabata.Sankhani. Tangoganizirani, ndiye kuti muyenera kugwira ntchito masiku awiri okha. Kenako mudzakhalanso ndi mwana kumapeto kwa sabata. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuzolowera ndondomeko yatsopano popanda kupanikizika kwambiri. Izi zichepetsa nkhawa zomwe mumamva kwambiri.
Kodi zinthu zofunika kwambiri m'banja mwanu ndi ziti? Taganizirani izi.
Mulibe nthawi yoti muchite chilichonse bwino monga momwe munachitira mwana asanabadwe. Ndicho chowonadi. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuganizira zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri kwa inu ndi banja lanu ndikupanga mndandanda wa zinthu zofunika kwambiri .
"Kodi nyumba iyenera kukhala yoyera tsiku lililonse? Kodi muyenera kuphika chakudya chatsopano usiku uliwonse?" Dzifunseni mafunso awa. Mwina, ngakhale nyumbayo ili ndi chisokonezo pang'ono, ndibwino kuthera mphindi zina 30 mukusewera ndi mwana wanu .
| Chofunika Kwambiri | Zimene mungachite |
|---|---|
| Zinthu zofunika kuchita | - Kudyetsa ndi kusamalira mwana pa nthawi yake. - Kuchita ntchito zofunika kwambiri kuntchito. - Kupeza mpumulo womwe mukufuna. |
| Zinthu zomwe zingathe kuchotsedwa | - Kusunga nyumba kukhala yoyera komanso yowala tsiku lililonse. - Kuphika mbale zatsopano usiku uliwonse (palibe cholakwika ndi kubweretsa chakudya kuchokera ku sitolo masiku ena). - Kupezeka pa zochitika zonse zachitukuko. |
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti simuyenera kuchita chilichonse. Koma popeza nthawi ndi mphamvu zanu zili zochepa, muyenera kuzigwiritsa ntchito bwino. M'malo moyesetsa kuchita zonse nokha, gawani ntchitoyo ndi mwamuna wanu.
Funsani bwana wanu musanapite kuntchito.
Njira yabwino yoti mubwerere kuntchito ndi kupatula nthawi yoti mulankhule ndi bwana wanu milungu iwiri musanabwerere kuntchito.
N’chifukwa chiyani izi n’zofunika?
- Dziwani zambiri za ntchito: zomwe zinachitika pamene munali kutali, zomwe ziyenera kuchitika mukabwerera (proj ECT)s) Mutha kudziwa pasadakhale zomwe mungayembekezere. Kenako mutha kukonzekera nokha m'maganizo.
- Pangani chidaliro: Bwana wanu angakhale ndi nkhawa zina. "Kodi sadzatha kuyang'ana kwambiri ntchito yake popeza ali ndi mwana?", "Kodi abwera mochedwa n'kuchoka msanga?", "Kodi ayenera kusamalira mwanayo kenako n'kusiya ntchito?" Izi ndi nkhawa zomwe anthu ambiri amakumana nazo.
Kotero, mutha kulankhula naye momasuka za izi musanayambe . Ngati mukunena kuti, "Ndili wokonzeka kubwerera kuntchito, ndipo ndikukukhulupirirani kuti muchita gawo lanu," zidzamuthandiza kuthetsa kukayikira kulikonse komwe angakhale nako ndikukulimbitsani kwambiri. Kukambirana kosavuta kumeneku kudzakuthandizani kuti mupite patsogolo mosavuta.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Kubwerera kuntchito mukabereka mwana ndi kusintha kwakukulu, ndipo kukonzekera pasadakhale kungathandize kuchepetsa nkhawa zomwe mumamva.
- Simuli nokha paulendowu. Musaope kupempha thandizo ndi chithandizo. Thandizo la munthu amene mumamudalira ndilofunika kwambiri.
- Musayese kuchita chilichonse nthawi imodzi, musayese kusunga chilichonse kukhala changwiro. Sankhani chomwe chili chofunikira kwambiri kwa inu ndi banja lanu.
- Mukhoza kulinganiza ntchito yanu ndi moyo wa banja lanu. Si chinthu chomwe chimachitika mwadzidzidzi, ndi njira yokhayo. Dzipatseni nthawi. Mutha kuchita izi!
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